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Yesterday was the worst day of my life.

Knottie89261794Knottie89261794 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
I found out I was pregnant on October 19th. Mine and my husbands first pregnancy. We were so excited!  After waiting what felt like forever we got to have our first ultrasound (at 11 weeks) last week on December 6th. What should have been such a happy day turned terrible. The baby was measuring 3 weeks behind with no heartbeat. Yesterday on the 15th I woke up at 1am in severe pain, bleeding and blacked out a few times. My husband took me to the ER. We were there all night and at around 6:15am my baby came out in a hall bathroom toilet in the ER. It was such a terrible experience. I took the baby out of the toilet and told my husband to ask a nurse for something to put it in. I went back to my room and just cried with my husband. It was my birthday yesterday. Why did this have to happen on my birthday?.. I just feel so sad that I'm not pregnant anymore.. I wanted my baby more than anything. I will always remember my first baby but I just feel like I need to be pregnant again. Does anyone have success stories of becoming pregnant after a loss?
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  • hdaleyhdaley member
    Yesterday sucked for me too. No success stories. This is my first loss

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

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  • sprkls8506sprkls8506 member
    I personally don't have a success story for ME but I know lots of people who have gone on to have healthy pregnancies. The waiting game is so hard tho. So sorry that anyone has to go through this  :(
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  • Hopefulmommy1980Hopefulmommy1980 member
    I am sorry for your loss. I have not had a successful pregnancy yet. But I know there are several people who have been on this board and are now pregnant or had babies. 
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  • TelusTelus member
    I just suffered my second miscarriage in a row today. Last one was in July. But I have a happy and healthy 18 month old. It doesn't always end in sadness. 

    1 on earth, 2 in heaven watching over us.
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  • KM2JKM2J member
    I am so, so sorry and there are no words to help.  This is the worst pain I have ever felt as well.   I had an ectopic pregnancy before my little boy.  It was different than this because I did not know I was pregnant and I did not have time to celebrate and be joyful before finding out the news.  It was still incredibly sad and I still grieved and yearned for a child that would never be.   I did get pregnant with my son 3 months later. For me, this experience has been even worse as I celebrated, made Christmas cards, planned.  But to answer your question, even after my ectopic from which I lost a tube, I still had a successful pregnancy.  I don't know you, but I pray that you too will be successful.   Odds are in your favor.  I know your pain and heartache both of losing a child and of going a long time without even one child.  It hurts.  I am so sorry. 
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  • lala123321567789lala123321567789 member
     I am so sorry for your loss. So sad it was on your birthday. no sucess stories here as this was my first, but I'd love the encouragment of hearing others stories.
    @KM2J thank you for sharing.
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  • sarababy2014sarababy2014 member
    I'm so sorry. I had my ultrasound the day before my birthday. I though what a good birthday present. Then the technicians face falls. My baby was dead. It was the worst birthday ever. 
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