A coworker and I are both traveling to our main office soon. She is not very smart, not very good at traveling, and not at all savvy. I'm beyond thrilled that we aren't traveling at the same time so I won't be responsible for her if she gets stuck in Midway or, for example, when she's 'hoping to check in to an airport hotel' for the night before she leaves to come home. How do you think a thing like that might happen? Perhaps you should book yourself an airport hotel if you want to do that. Not sure what hoping is going to do. (Plus, it's dumb. You spend an hour or two with the packing up, checking into a new hotel, unpacking, and repacking, only to save about 10 minutes in the morning.) So even though I see the trainwreck coming, I'm not doing a dang thing about it.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
@Kiki75 I can't wait to hear how it goes for your coworker. I'm sure it'll be an epic, hilarious mess. I love it when people fall victim to their own stupidity.
My FFFC:
DH is having a SA on Monday. I'm a little happy that this means we can't BD until after he submits his sample. He's pissing me off right now, so it's handy that I don't have to pretend that I want to bang.
@LuND Me too! She also told me that she and another person were going to carpool to the airport. She leaves two full days before he does. And gets home two hours before he does. I'm concerned for her that she's going to get to the main office and people are going to realize how stupid she really is and start pitching to get her off the payroll. Which sucks for her because she's 66 and...surprise...hasn't saved enough for retirement so she's planning to work until she's 70. SEVENTY. Every time I think about that, it motivates me to bump up my 401K withholding.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
@ChefRamsay I was just gonna say something like that. TB is FUN today! Oh oh oh, and the Mirena IUD removal post too.... We just need a pee stick post to win the trifecta.
@ChefRamsay Yes! I needed a work break and just read through it all - your gifs pretty much summed it up perfectly.
@haylsbayls I had no idea either. I mean, I knew there were groups (I joined the book club) but not secret club private groups... now I feel a bit left out hahaha
@Sailing_Mama There's no need to feel left out. They mostly seem to form when a number of people that have been on TTGP together and has formed bonds gets to the point where they're scattered across BMBs (and some still on TTGP). At that point it's just really hard and incredibly time-consuming to keep up with everyone through PMs or lurking their boards.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
@LuND@ChefRamsay Holy crap! I left work, came home, and discovered TB exploded! I have not put my phone down since I got home.
As for a FFFC, I am kind of upset that NYE will likely fall right in the middle of my TWW this cycle, so no drunken shenanigans for me this year. Boo, if I don't end up KU I will feel robbed.
Did you guys know that PMs are blasted for the world to see on 'recent activity'?! I think my FFFC is that I really have a lot to learn about TB even after lurking for 6+months and posting for 3 months
Me: 28 | DH: 33 EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Did you guys know that PMs are blasted for the world to see on 'recent activity'?! I think my FFFC is that I really have a lot to learn about TB even after lurking for 6+months and posting for 3 months
OMG
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
@haylsbayls and @laurad75 I don't think PMs are public. But if you accidentally post to someone's wall instead of PM them, then that'll be out there for sure!
@ChefRamsay I was just gonna say something like that. TB is FUN today! Oh oh oh, and the Mirena IUD removal post too.... We just need a pee stick post to win the trifecta.
I can post that for you too the suggestion is tempting!
Me: 30 | DH:34 Married: 08/04/12 DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13 DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
@KirstinH88 hahaha! But then I went back and lurked more recent activity and I see it happening all the time so I thought they were just showing random PMs!
Me: 28 | DH: 33 EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
@RedBreast35 that is good to know, not that I say anything in a PM that I wouldn't say anywhere but still... that would be creepy. Another reason I am super careful what personal identifying stuff I put on line...
FFFC I can't stop lurking BMB... I need to stop but I can't.... also the Bump Gods have not shut down many threads lately so there is little drama to stalk.... Though we've had a good dose of it here today!
*TW*
TTC 1/2012 Diagnosed : unexplained infertility 6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015 TTC #3 5/2016 Restarted Fertility tx IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
FFFC I can't stop lurking BMB... I need to stop but I can't.... also the Bump Gods have not shut down many threads lately so there is little drama to stalk.... Though we've had a good dose of it here today!
@haylsbayls@Sailing_Mama Many of the groups do actually accept cool members who request to join - depending on the group and depending on who requests. Some of the groups are tight groups of friends who for various, good reasons as @kiki75 mentioned, do want to just stay inclusive. But for the most part if you see a group you want to be part of, feel free to request membership.
Also, if you want entertainment check out all the groups. One of them has like 30 mods and all of them were banned. Some of the groups are HILARIOUS because people think they are starting a thread but somehow accidentally make a group instead. There is definitely a "single and looking" group. Some of us tried to gain membership, but were sadly denied. Lol.
Lurking,, @antoto omg which group has 30 mods who were all banned?! That sounds pretty amazing!! I always get really nervous to request to join groups because I don't know if they're supposed to be exclusive or not.
Lurking,, @antoto omg which group has 30 mods who were all banned?! That sounds pretty amazing!! I always get really nervous to request to join groups because I don't know if they're supposed to be exclusive or not.
"This is the group where you talk Sh*t about your other groups" LOL It's funny to see. And I definitely can't speak for other groups but in LFAF when someone requests entry we all vote on it. So if enough people think you are chill then you get in. So basically we only decline people who have done or said something weird or if they are too new for us to tell yet.
@Sailing_Mama I'm glad you were mostly joking. I don't want you or anyone else to feel bad.
Also, I stand somewhat corrected. Bottom line, groups form for various reasons, very seldom are they formed with the purpose of being exclusionary. So if you want to be in a group, send a request. Worst case, they tell you it's not a fit.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
@swimsister Seriously! I was complaining earlier this week because TB was so boring and now I have like an hour of reading to catch up on! This was me opening TB:
32 years old (both H and I) Dating 7/2008 Married 7/2014 H Type I Diabetic TTC 1/2016
12/2016
mental break from TTC-NTNP
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL) 1/17/2017
SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility) 1/18/2017
STP tubes clear 2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements 6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility 7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm) 8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup 9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze 9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid 9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
Re: FFFC - 12/9
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
My FFFC:
DH is having a SA on Monday. I'm a little happy that this means we can't BD until after he submits his sample. He's pissing me off right now, so it's handy that I don't have to pretend that I want to bang.
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018
Together 2003, Married 2011
DD: July 2005
BFP: 4/10/16, MC: 5/20/16
BFP: 1/10/17, DD2: Sep 2017
TTGP Dec '16 siggy challenge winner!
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018
Dating 03/31/2011 Married 10/18/2014
DS Born 12/28/2017
TTC #2 06/2019
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
ETA
Part of me is like this
But then another part of me is like this.
Together 2003, Married 2011
DD: July 2005
BFP: 4/10/16, MC: 5/20/16
BFP: 1/10/17, DD2: Sep 2017
TTGP Dec '16 siggy challenge winner!
*l looked for FOREVER for a Chandler Bing "how do you not fall down more" GIF. Sadly, one could not be found. These will have to do.
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018
We just need a pee stick post to win the trifecta.
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018
My FFFC Is that I had no idea there were all these private groups
ETA gif
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
@haylsbayls I had no idea either. I mean, I knew there were groups (I joined the book club) but not secret club private groups... now I feel a bit left out hahaha
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
As for a FFFC, I am kind of upset that NYE will likely fall right in the middle of my TWW this cycle, so no drunken shenanigans for me this year. Boo, if I don't end up KU I will feel robbed.
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
Its wall postings. And it was me. I confess. I tried to delete it, but oh well.
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Married: 08/04/12
DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13
DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
FFFC I can't stop lurking BMB... I need to stop but I can't.... also the Bump Gods have not shut down many threads lately so there is little drama to stalk.... Though we've had a good dose of it here today!
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018
Also, if you want entertainment check out all the groups. One of them has like 30 mods and all of them were banned.
Some of the groups are HILARIOUS because people think they are starting a thread but somehow accidentally make a group instead. There is definitely a "single and looking" group. Some of us tried to gain membership, but were sadly denied. Lol.
@antoto omg which group has 30 mods who were all banned?! That sounds pretty amazing!!
I always get really nervous to request to join groups because I don't know if they're supposed to be exclusive or not.
Also, I stand somewhat corrected. Bottom line, groups form for various reasons, very seldom are they formed with the purpose of being exclusionary. So if you want to be in a group, send a request. Worst case, they tell you it's not a fit.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
Together 2003, Married 2011
DD: July 2005
BFP: 4/10/16, MC: 5/20/16
BFP: 1/10/17, DD2: Sep 2017
TTGP Dec '16 siggy challenge winner!
*TW*
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree