@slartybartfast ,It's definitely hard to deal with and my mother just doesn't seem to understand where I'm coming from about setting boundaries and not wanting anything to do with her really. Her own mother is sick of her and deosnt want anything to do with her. CPS took my brothers and sisters and gave them to my grandmother who is like 53 with high blood pressure and leg problems and everything else and is on 3 different medicines for it and is stressed out because they don't listen to her and her house is a wreck and she has two of my aunt's living there and one of them has three kids and she's got kids sleeping in recliners in her living room because she doesn't have anywhere for them to sleep and I feel bad because we're buying a house abd it had two sets of bunk beds and we just sold one of them and I'm thinking about seeing if my husband wants to give them to her. I've told her multiple times that I would get my brother's one weekend and let my husband take them fishing or something but she told ne no she didn't need me to get then and I feel like there's nothing I can really do because I'm 9 months pregnant and could have this baby at any time. I also had totell her I was pregnant again because she forgot because when I told her she was on her medication and she forgot about it and she hasn't seen me. I feel horrible for my grandparents and she's always taken care of all of her kids and their kids and they show her no respect or appreciation. They almost make me wsnt to take that hour drive just to cuss them out but I don't need that kind of stress. It's just sad that she's having to go through that and she cries any time I call her and try to talk to her because she misses ne and I've always been the one that has taken care of her and everything but I can't do that anymore I have my husband and a son to think about but I feel like mainly she just wants to talk to someone who will listen because my aunt will just get mad ad get an attitude with her and make her cry
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