I had a d&c Friday for a mmc; I was 9wks and the baby had passed at 8wks. First, I thought I was handling things pretty well considering. But a few days after the d&c, I can't help but look back on all the things I could have done wrong to lead me to this point. It's just how my obsessive mind works (probably also a drop in hormones and being in the bargaining stage of grief). I know, rationally, that more than likely there was a chromosomal abnormality. But around the time the baby would have passed, I cleaned my bathroom with lots of cleaning products, including bleach, and forgot to open a window. My Halloween costume also had been spray painted, and still smelled a bit when I wore it the following day. I didn't think anything of it at the time. I know it would probably take much more than that to cause a miscarriage, but it just links up so perfectly in timing that I am having a hard time thinking it's just a coincidence. Now I wish I hadn't done ANYTHING remotely considered unsafe so that I wouldn't be here questioning my judgement after the fact.