For EDD: 5/05, 5/12, 5/19, and 5/26
How far along are you?
How big is baby?
Appointments this week?
Symptoms?
Rant/Rave/Questions?
GTKY? How do you/would you feel about people offering to give you baby items? Are there any items you would turn down so you could buy new?
Re: Friday Ticker Change 11/11/2016
How far along are you? 13 weeks!!!
I'm asking this, because I've been offered baby clothes, a Pack N Play, toys, a swing, a wipe warmer, and several other things. I'm grateful for sure, but I want to pick some of that for myself. I already know what swing I want, and the Pack N Play I was offered is a little bigger than what I'm looking for. I think the wipe warmer I was offered will never get used and just take up space. I appreciate the offers, but I don't want to take things that I have no intention of using. My house isn't that big.
edited because iPad adds words that I never typed.
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
How far along are you? 15 weeks! Whaaaaat.
It depends what the baby item is. We've received lots of used clothes and I just pick through what I want and donate the rest. I would buy/will buy a new breast pump that I know for sure. And for furniture it really depends where it came from. From friends and family that I know have clean, smoke free homes I will take almost anything.
Me: 26 DH: 28
TTC #1 since 06/2014
BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17
My best friends and I have exchanged items like a boppy, swing, bumbo...throughout the years. I'm very happy to take those things. I have even taken a car seat from my best friend because I know 100% that it wasn't in an accident and isn't expired. For clothes, I go through them and donate the rest. I haven't been offered other things, but would take them if I knew where they came from and they were clean. I would not take a car seat from a stranger or even an acquaintance.
Me:31 DH:32 Married 11/06/10
DD: Born 8/23/13 (clomid+ovidrel+IUI)
BFP 9/9/16 EDD 5/19/17
Me:31 DH:32 Married 11/06/10
DD: Born 8/23/13 (clomid+ovidrel+IUI)
BFP 9/9/16 EDD 5/19/17
I don't turn my nose up to free stuff. I pick what I want and then pass along the rejects. I don't think I'd take a used car seat unless I was very familiar with the previous owner.
I went to a "baby prep" class for my first and the instructor highly recommended NOT using a wipe warmer. She said they have been identified as the source of several home fires. Also, you can't take it with you, so baby will have to have cold wipes when he or she is changed on the go. And they take up space, which is a hot commodity.
I've never turned down free stuff. I go through what I want to keep and donate the rest. As PP said, I gave a lot of the hand-me-downs to my mom and in-laws with DS to have at their house. It was nice for them each to have a swing and pack-n-play to use without having to lug all that stuff back and forth.
BFP #1 10/8/13, EDD 6/4/14, DS #1 6/9/14
BFP #2 5/1/16, EDD 12/16/16, MMC 5/27/16
BFP #3 8/29/16, EDD 5/5/17, DS #2 5/11/17
BFP #4 2/28/21, EDD 11/9/21
I love free item s as much as the next person, so I'm not usually so picky. It's just that I know I'll turn around and donate some of the things I don't want, so I'd rather not take them in the first place. Things like clothes for baby, I could use and would gladly accept. The Pack N Play could go to my mom's house, since her grandbaby one is getting worn out. I don't want to take the swing, because it would be a loaner, until this friend has baby #2 someday. I know I want a different swing, and I wouldn't let a loaned item go to another house.
I will take all of the free stuff with some exceptions. I would like to get new a car seat, crib, and mattress. Other than that though I am pretty open to used things. I did like how someone mentioned having some stuff for relatives that may be babysitting as I had not thought of that.
1st Baby 5/12/17, Henry
Me: 26 DH: 28
TTC #1 since 06/2014
BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17
How far along are you? 12 weeks as of Friday, currently 12 weeks 3 days!
Overall, I'm grateful for anything people are willing to share. Some things do get re-donated or turned down...particularly from my MIL. She volunteers at a homeless shelter, and often receives donations of baby/kid stuff- which she has started giving to me! I turn around and give all of that back, because it's in poor taste. People are donating that for people who truly need it, not so 2 middle class yuppies can get free baby swag. Otherwise, just the usual- car seat, crib, anything that can't be sanitized to my liking, I prefer to get new.
Human sons: 11/2015 & 05/2017
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Happy 2nd trimester if you're considering it starting today like I am!
Me:31 DH:32 Married 11/06/10
DD: Born 8/23/13 (clomid+ovidrel+IUI)
BFP 9/9/16 EDD 5/19/17