Thoughts - positive?!?? - UPDATED

djf911 · October 2016

I apologize if my posting a HPT and looking for guidance was upsetting to you - it was never my intention. Also you aren't the only one TRYING so to automatically think I had cruel intentions, you are WRONG. Hate to break it to you but being in a group of others trying to conceive means at some point there will be ones who do get pregnant. I hope that happens for each and everyone of you. However you don't know my story and shouldn't make assumptions about me.

beary67 · October 2016

*Removed for Quoting TOU Violation*

QFP

If you see a faint line, why are you posting it here? You obviously know it's positive. It's against TOU to post pregnancy tests on this forum. Remove your tests and move to your BMB.

adirat · October 2016

Fucking hell. Do you have any idea how CRUEL you are being right now? To come on a forum for women TRYING to get pregnant and post your positive is MONSTROUS.

motherhubbard19 · October 2016

hartmich · October 2016

saralee797-2 · October 2016

tripledaggerWed95976 · October 2016

No, just no. It's obviously positive, please please remove the picture and just move onto your BMB. Just FYI you have ruined a lot of women's morning by posting this, I would suggest sincerely apologizing after you remove the pic

lulu1180 · October 2016

OP what the hell is wrong with you???? First, it's against TOU to post a pee stick and ask if you are KU! Second, as PPs have said, it is incredibly cruel to post what you know is a positive test in a group of women trying to get pregnant! On any given day, there are many women who are having a very rough TTC day and you just made that day so much worse for them! It's obvious you have no respect for other people or the culture of this board. Move on to your BMB and leave us the hell alone!

CrystalPDX · October 2016

I need a Bloody Mary.

lulu1180 · October 2016

Also this is for hurting my friends on here and especially for @adirat

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lulu1180 · October 2016

OP we weren't making assumptions about you but you came onto this board without reading anything and disrupted and upset a lot of the members. And yes, we are well aware that eventually there are members who will get their bfps but those will be members who post here regularly and that we are all invested in their journey with them. Also, we have a separate thread where people can share that (who are regular posters) but they also don't disregard the TOU and post pictures of their tests

adirat · October 2016

@lulu1180 Thank you my friend.

@djf911 If you think what you posted here is an "apology" you are a real piece of work. We are happy when our friends here get BFPs. We are not happy when random jerks who have never been here to get or give support post sticks they peed on like they're looking for accolades.

hartmich · October 2016

djf911 said:

I apologize if my posting a HPT and looking for guidance was upsetting to you - it was never my intention. Also you aren't the only one TRYING so to automatically think I had cruel intentions, you are WRONG. Hate to break it to you but being in a group of others trying to conceive means at some point there will be ones who do get pregnant. I hope that happens for each and everyone of you. However you don't know my story and shouldn't make assumptions about me.

We wouldn't have to make assumptions if we KNEW YOU.

beary67 · October 2016

djf911 said:

I apologize if my posting a HPT and looking for guidance was upsetting to you - it was never my intention. Also you aren't the only one TRYING so to automatically think I had cruel intentions, you are WRONG. Hate to break it to you but being in a group of others trying to conceive means at some point there will be ones who do get pregnant. I hope that happens for each and everyone of you. However you don't know my story and shouldn't make assumptions about me.

QFP AGAIN...

shstephenson · October 2016

What the actual fuck OP.
1. This against TOU.
2. No part of me (or the rest of the ladies here, I can confidently say) want to see something you peed on.
3. Every lady that actually actively participates here struggles daily with our TTC journeys. Some of us more than others. Some of us have never experienced the joy of seeing a BFP. Some of us have but things didn't turn out so well. So PLEASE explain to me why you think it would be appropriate to ask a bunch of COMPLETE strangers if we think you are KU!!?!? It is so obviously positive that it's like a punch in the gut to many of us. Shame on you.

djf911 · October 2016

Oh, I see - so you pretty much accept only those who joined this group months ago and not those that could have been TTC for months and only have been lurking on the message boards.

saralee797-2 · October 2016

djf911 said:

Oh, I see - so you pretty much accept only those who joined this group months ago and not those that could have been TTC for months and only have been lurking on the message boards.

IF you lurked, you would know this is not cool. Boom roasted.

adirat · October 2016

djf911 said:

Oh, I see - so you pretty much accept only those who joined this group months ago and not those that could have been TTC for months and only have been lurking on the message boards.

Uh, nope, nobody is allowed to post a pee stick in TTGP. It is literally against the TOU. Try again. Keep being a comically over-the-top asshole though, it's really helping my menstrual cramps!

Pinky917 · October 2016

Not for nothing, but if you had been lurking on these boards you would have already known that this would not have gone over well. It is not like it is anything new that you don't post tests.

RVAmom315 · October 2016

@djf911 If you've been lurking then you would have known this is a HUGE no no and against TOU

thatcma · October 2016

Since I haven't seen @businesswife post yet...

shstephenson · October 2016

Literally NO ONE is allowed to do what you did. So I really don't understand your argument. Stop grasping at straws and acting like you "lurked". You clearly didn't. Accept that you acted inappropriately and move on to your BMB.

lulu1180 · October 2016

djf911 said:

Oh, I see - so you pretty much accept only those who joined this group months ago and not those that could have been TTC for months and only have been lurking on the message boards.

So instead of realizing you screwed up and offering up an actual apology, you're going to continue on this path. Fine.....we have been spending time with the other members on this board daily - some people for close to or over 2 years, others for only a month or two. We are invested in their lives and their journeys. We feel like we know them personally and quite honestly, there's quite a few ladies on here that I wish I could meet in person. Not to mention, from what I can tell you have been trying anywhere from 1 month to 4 months and are throwing your positive in our faces so while you may have had a rough journey, I'm pretty sure there are people on here that have had a much, much rougher journey than you. So at this point, I suggest a sincere apology and moving on to your BMB

And for the record, the reason I know you've been trying no more than 4 months was that you mentioned in a post in June that you wanted to start trying for another child around your current baby's first birthday and they were 9 months old at the time.

RunRestRepeat · October 2016

Are you f-ing kidding me?! NOT what I needed on CD1.

And OP, yes, you are right. We do only care about those who have CONTRIBUTED to this AMAZING community of support. And if you HAD been lurking for months, you should know that it is against the rules to post a pee stick, and even more than that, it is incredibly rude and disrespectful to all of us, especially those having a rough TTC day.

Because we know each other and are invested in each other's journey, we will defend each other from random one-off posts like yourself. Now...

lund · October 2016

I can't believe anyone is ignorant enough to post this crap. If you're paying ANY attention you'd figure out that this is NOT OK.

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JAM85 · October 2016

Agreed if you have lurked at all it would have been very evident that this is not permitted here at all.

ETA: there is an entire pinned thread in 1st Trimester dedicated to nothing but this which you also would have seen or read on the newbie guide here if you had been lurking

motherhubbard19 · October 2016

I knew before even posting on this board that what OP did is extremely wrong. How? LURKING. If you had actually lurked you would know better...

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kat0607 · October 2016

djf911 said:

Oh, I see - so you pretty much accept only those who joined this group months ago and not those that could have been TTC for months and only have been lurking on the message boards.

No, we accept anyone who lurked, read the newbie guides at the very top of this board, and who have made an effort to get involved and maybe introduce themselves before barging into a conversation holding pictures of something soaked in their own urine.

BumpAdmin · October 2016

This thread has been closed. Please do not post pictures of your pregnancy test and ask the Community if you are pregnant. Instead, please visit our 1st Trimester board to discuss early possible pregnancy symptoms and the thread pinned to the top of this board called, “What does a positive pregnancy test really look like?” where members are permitted to display their pregnancy tests.

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