@keniialise I spoke to my OB about a trip to the Sarasota, FL area to visit my parents and he told me it wouldn't be an issue to travel to FL at all unless it were Miami. So interesting how all MDs have different opinions and recommendations. It sounds like in your situation it may be a helpful recommendation for more relaxing holidays though!
I am being such a terror to my husband. This will be my second baby and I was not this mean last time. I feel like he cannot do anything right, and I am taking everything he says all wrong. I know it's me and not him, but I can't stop myself!!! Please tell me I'm not alone. I really don't mean to be.
You're not alone. I am being a butt-head too and I apologized for snapping at him and he said "this is your fifth rodeo (time pregnant), get your shit together, get your emotions in check, girl."
@QueenNub we are in Texas now, and they are here too! So it seemed funny to be that they told me no to Florida. Either way they want me on a bug repellent any time I leave the house. I heard that there is actually a prescription one made just for pregnant woman they came out with after Zika became a issue. I'm going to ask them to look it up for me at my next appointment.
@MKRLTX that's exactly why I don't mind it!! I need relaxing! Haha - also, Sarasota is home for me too! Technically two towns south (englewood) but grew up in that area, I consider siesta my home!
I have my FX for a ban on travel to FL for purely selfish reasons: my company's home office is in FL and my boss keeps trying to get me out for a meet-and-greet with some big wigs.
I don't want to go and I've already met most of them when they came to our office.
C'mon MWs note to hold off on FL travel... hahahaha
I've told my immediate family but I don't want to tell anyone else till we know the sex. With 3 boys I get enough sh!tt reactions and horrified pitying comments as it is. I don't want to hear 'oh my lord I hope you have a girl.' I do want a girl but I don't need to be judged for our ability, or not, to produce a girl.
I'm AMA so I can do the early blood test and find the sex out early. Which is my main reason for wanting to do it (which is definitely flame worthy). Dh does want the actual screening though.
@Assiram42@pghctwife@mirdamae03 I had no idea that people were so emotionally invested in the sex of other people's children. I'm sorry you're all dealing with that. It has to be frustrating to have people constantly make rude comments like that implying that your children somehow aren't good enough because they're not the "right" sex.
Me: 28 Husband: 31 TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016 Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Yeah you have no idea How awful people can be. Lots of shocked and horrified looks at hte grocery store, "you've got yur hands full..." and not in a nice tone. "3 boys? Oh my, good luck to you..." and hello, my kids can hear it too. I mean, we don't have any control over hte sex we get, though from hte comments you would think I did.
and because i do really want a daughhter, i get both really pissed and protective of my kids, whom I love and don't want to be anyone's but themselves, and upset because it brings up what I don't have.
Basically people suck. I do have boy moms approach me and say how wonderful it is having all boys. Those ppl are ok!
But because of te very vocal public as it is, I just want to be able to say that this one is a girl or boy, either way I'm sure will. still cause asshole opinions, but at least it might help
@Assiram42 I'm hte oldest of 3 girls and hte a boy. My sisters and I are so so incredibly close. I always smile when I see sets of 3 sisters
Once I had my daughter I am many people tell me you got one of each now you can be done! Um thanks but my H and I are the only ones who have any say in that. People and their unsolicited comments drive me crazy.
Married 12/17/2011 K born 8/31/12 C born 1/11/14 BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015 BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
Once I had my daughter I am many people tell me you got one of each now you can be done! Um thanks but my H and I are the only ones who have any say in that. People and their unsolicited comments drive me crazy.
I have had so many people say this to me, too! So annoying!
Me: 36; DH: 38 DD: 7; DS1: 4; DS2 due 6-21-17! **TW** MMC & D&C Aug 2016
@MKRLTX we are at fort hood, I think Dallas is about 2.5 hours from us! We are headed your way, going to the Dallas arboretum for the fall fest on Veterans Day!
Re: Confess, my pretties!
Disclaimer: He said it in jest.
@MKRLTX that's exactly why I don't mind it!! I need relaxing! Haha - also, Sarasota is home for me too! Technically two towns south (englewood) but grew up in that area, I consider siesta my home!
I have my FX for a ban on travel to FL for purely selfish reasons: my company's home office is in FL and my boss keeps trying to get me out for a meet-and-greet with some big wigs.
I don't want to go and I've already met most of them when they came to our office.
C'mon MWs note to hold off on FL travel...
hahahaha
I'm AMA so I can do the early blood test and find the sex out early. Which is my main reason for wanting to do it (which is definitely flame worthy). Dh does want the actual screening though.
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w
@silliegirlie143 Where in FL would you be going? I bet you can get away with telling your boss travel there is off limits.
My my grandma actually told me a few months ago to change up positions if we want a boy. Grandma, shut it.
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
Best wishes!
Yeah you have no idea How awful people can be. Lots of shocked and horrified looks at hte grocery store, "you've got yur hands full..." and not in a nice tone. "3 boys? Oh my, good luck to you..." and hello, my kids can hear it too. I mean, we don't have any control over hte sex we get, though from hte comments you would think I did.
and because i do really want a daughhter, i get both really pissed and protective of my kids, whom I love and don't want to be anyone's but themselves, and upset because it brings up what I don't have.
Basically people suck. I do have boy moms approach me and say how wonderful it is having all boys. Those ppl are ok!
But because of te very vocal public as it is, I just want to be able to say that this one is a girl or boy, either way I'm sure will. still cause asshole opinions, but at least it might help
@Assiram42 I'm hte oldest of 3 girls and hte a boy. My sisters and I are so so incredibly close. I always smile when I see sets of 3 sisters
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w
K born 8/31/12
C born 1/11/14
BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015
BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
Me: 36; DH: 38
DD: 7; DS1: 4; DS2 due 6-21-17!
**TW**
MMC & D&C Aug 2016