I know "hospital bag" has been mentioned a zillion times, but thinking a specific thread might be helpful!! (I searched, and didn't see one already....)
Most of us are *hopefully* a ways out from having our babes, but you just never know! (And we want to support our mamas who are close already)
1) What are you packing that is a MUST have?
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)?
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
5) Other?
(edited to specify out for mama and baby)
Re: Hospital Bag Thread
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be? Snacks, toiletries, personal pillows, cheap nightie to wear until discharge.
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)? Nothing except going home outfit, my hospital will provide everything.
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?) Definitely food. Will DH need a blanket, will you have access to a DVD player/tv?
5) Other Extra bag to take home hospital stuff. You get charged if it goes into your room, might as well use it all.
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Here was my post with questions:
Let's talk packing!
I am probably stressing out way more about the hospital bag than I should be. I keep Pinterest hunting ideas on what I should be packing, but every Pin is contradicting the last. So ladies, what are you packing? What have you packed in the past? What have you been told is MUST HAVE and what have you been told is a waste of space? I want to start shopping for things that I need now before all the extra expenses show up closer to the eviction date. My husband doesn't think he needs to pack a bag because he can just go home and shower and change when he needs to. He's cute thinking that I am going to let him leave me. So I will be packing a secret hospital bag for him, so what did your partners pack?
When did you pack your bags?
for H I have 2 set of clothes, pillow, and lap blanket, just in case we labor over night/into the night.
Formerly known as Kate08young
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TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
1) What are you packing that is a MUST have? Camera/charger and Contacts/Glasses (so I can see my babies!)
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be? Other than some old big pajama shirts and a few changes of clothes for DH, I don't think anything special in particular
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)? Going home outfits and blankets
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?) I have no idea... this is all new to me. I kind of thought the hospital would have everything I may need...
5) Other? So from lists I've checked out online, this is the list I think i came up with: insurance information, nursing bras, large tees/old nightgowns, warm socks/slippers, changes of clothes for DH, toiletries, pillow for DH, change/cash, phone/charger, and car seats installed in car.
Definitely following as I have no idea but whatever I have pinned on Pinterest. In our Birthing Class, they'll go over that stuff one of these weeks.
Funny thing... last week in the first week of Birthing Class, the instructor wanted everyone to put on a sticky note what they hoped to learn/get from the class. I put something about calming my fear of giving birth, in general. DH put... to know what we'll need to bring to the hospital. I think he just went with what she just briefly talked about, honestly. I showed him mine and his face changed like oh, maybe I should have put something else? He really didn't want to be there, but I guess at least he is focused on one thing when the time comes!
TTC Since: November 2015
BFP: March 31, 2016
DS: November 21, 2016
Here's what I learned: don't overpack. If there was something that I needed desperately people would offer to bring it by. I went through more clothes than I thought, like stretchy pants and shirts. The hospital provided all the diapers, wipes, blankets etc that we needed.
My list this time:
Nursing nightgown/robe (maybe)
Toiletries
Flip flops (showers weird me out in hospitals/gyms/anywhere not a hotel/my home/a friend's home)
Bodhi's going home outfit
Chargers for phones/tablets/etc
That is about it....
1) What are you packing that is a MUST have?
Very comfy, loose, going home outfit for me. Cute outfit, blanket, baby hat for baby. Baby soap (most hospitals use baby soap with carcinogens: johnson&johnson).
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
Slippers, granny panties, lotion, chapstick, robe, pjs. Hairbrush, hair bands too. Nursing bras and nursing pads, nipple butter.
Husband is not allowed to leave! He needs to pack a bag with a change of clothes, pjs, and toiletries.
3) What are you packing for baby
Baby outfit, blankets, hats, binkies (you may want them!), baby soap, lotion, and nail clippers (you'd be surprised, lots of babies come out ready for a manicure!). Diapers, wipes.
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
My hospital is awesome on food, they include 3 meals for you and partner. They're whole grain, healthy, hearty, and freakishly delicious! There is also a pantry and fridge full of food for moms and spouses in the postpartum ward that you can get 24/7.
But, the hospital soap, shampoo and conditioner are all super harsh. So I'll bring my own, face wash, moisturizer, stuff that I use everyday. Since I'm RCS, I'll be there for a couple of days.
5) Other?
Giant pads, in case I am not a fan of the hospital ones.
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?) That we cover as many bases as possible. We live about 1 hour from our hospital so "running home" real quick isn't going to be a good option!
5) Other? We need to figure out our puppy plan....I just realized that when I said "running home" can't be done. Hmmmmmmmmm.
1) What are you packing that is a MUST have?
Chargers, swimsuit cover-ups - the dress kind that have elastic tops - work perfectly for PP/nursing/avoiding incisions/trips to the bathroom/etc
(Last time I took a yoga ball, don't bother buying a birthing ball - yoga ball is the same and much cheaper, and it was great. Won't this time as I'm having a RCS)
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
Snacks, toiletries, make-up, changes of clothes, tablet
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)?
Cloth diapers, coming home outfit, gifts for DS, carseat
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
5) Other?
I personally wouldn't overpack. What goes in, must come out, plus all the hospital stuff you leave with, plus the baby in the carrier, plus gifts/flowers/etc. It can be a Lot!!
phone charger, extension cord (so it reaches your bed!), snacks
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
Comfy going home clothes (probably pack a nursing tank/robe in case of c/s). Disposable flip flops, brush, shampoo/conditioner, binders, makeup (to feel human again!), toothbrush/paste, nipple butter, snacks (my hospital stops serving food at 6pm and it was a MAJOR PROBLEM last time!!!)
DH- extra clothes, his fave snacks, toothbrush, waterbottle (I got one, he didn't)
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)? our own diapers (DD has very sensitive skin), baby shampoo (thanks for this @yellingbanana!!), going home outfits, pacifiers, headband for baby girl (they took pics in hospital last time and i'd like to distinguish her from brother)
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
5) Other?
probably but my mind is blank right now....
I am going to have a back up dog sitter though just in case ours can't be there. We have a friend who's little brother has taken care of them in the past for us as well. So we will have him "on call" in case our other sitter can't make it.
1) What are you packing that is a MUST have?
Tablet, phone charger, notepad and pen, nursing bra, nursing tank, two nightgowns, yoga pants, slippers, a few swaddle blankets for baby, a few outfits for baby, make-up, toiletries.
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
I feel like this was covered above... lol
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)?
Same- I did not pack much for baby and won't this time. Hospital has everything you could possibly need!
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
I did NOT pack snacks and I won't this time either since my hospital policy is to not eat during labor. Inlaws brought me a pizza right after baby came and others brought food/beer for us to the hospital. My husband packed his own bag since he's an adult.
5) Other?
I didn't do my makeup last time in the hospital and it seems so vain but I really wish I would have, at least the second day, because I don't look so good in any of the pictures with tiny baby. Also, this time I will bring a near empty diaper bag, nurses encouraged me to take anything on my son's bassinet because it was FREE and I almost ran out of room. haha.
I will have 4 bags so things are easier to keep track of:
1. Labor bag:
- Music (ipod and speaker)
- non-slip fuzzy socks
- lavender spray
- my labor snacks (probably just odwalla-type smoothies)
2. Food bag (mainly for DH)- frozen burritos
- fruit
- oatmeal packets + bowl
- peanuts
- granola bars
3. Postpartum bag:- toiletrees
- 2 long button down shirts
- 2 bras, slippers, socks
- Going home outfit for mama (probably a maxi dress)
- Going home outfit for bebe (x2) including hat
- DH change of clothes
- Wallet/phone/charger
- postpartum wrap
4. Toddler bag (will go with DS to neighbors, my parents, or... if both of those fall through and we have to take him with)Ear plugs in case we don't get a private room. Hospitals are loud!
Lip balm and moisturizer because it's always super dry in there.
Giant granny underwear because they aren't provided.
Two outfits for Kai, because he will almost definitely throw up or pee on the first one as soon as he's in it.
With my first three babies, the hospital provided diapers, wipes, and pads, but now the website says to bring those things, so I'll have to check on that.
Don't forget to have the car seat installed in time! Sounds obvious, but they won't let you leave without it
1) What are you packing that is a MUST have?:
Must haves for me would be:
Warm socks with grippies for labor
Contacts/solution/glasses
Robe to wear after the birth
Soft going home outfit with nursing bra
Razor/shaving cream (I have hirsutism in certain places so this IS a must-have for me).
Eye mask for sleep
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
For me (in addition to what is listed):
Flip flops for the shower
Snacks & Water & Gatorade
Hairbrush
Pillow & blanket
Makeup & Bobby pins
Toiletries
Dulcolax
Slippers
A couple pads with wings
Hand sanitizer
Cell phone charger
Soft pajamas
Dermoplast
Altoids
Chapstick & lotion
Lotion tissues
DH:
Toiletries
Cell phone charger
Blanket & Pillow
Change/cash
Computer & Charger
Jacket
3 pairs of clothes and PJs
Movies
Pediatrician/OBGYN/insurance info
Eye drops
DVDs
Pain reliever in case the fluorescent lights bother him
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)?
Hand mittens
Going home outfit (size NB & 3 months)
Baby memory book
Socks
Hat
Baby wipes
Baby lotion
Nail clippers
Carseat
Baby shampoo
A couple diapers/cream just in case
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner??
Snacks and water are important for where we are. Change and dollar bills are good to have for when the cafeteria is closed. A blanket and pillow I think would be nice to have in the room to make it more comfy and homey.
5) Other?
I do have a PP girdle but I'm going to wait til I'm home to wear that. My bag is already packed and I don't think I'll be making too many changes.
Chargers, comfy clothes for post delivery and going home, some fancy new granny panties! I guess we'll be packing a bag for DD1 also since she'll end up with grandparents.
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
I used so much Chapstick after DD1 was born. Snacks and toiletries. My camera. A PP mentioned makeup. I didn't take it when DD was born but found that I wanted a little bit when we had visitors.
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)?
Honestly, probably not a lot. A couple outfits and maybe a couple diapers, but the hospital provides so much and the nurses were all shoving it in to bags for me when we left. I will probably pack a couple of our own blankets. DH took a couple home before we all went home so that the dog could smell them.
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
Think about how you plan on feeding your baby. If you are going to breastfeed, take your own Boppy so that you can get used to it. DH used it as a pillow around his neck when he had a chance to rest - it's surprisingly comfortable haha!
5) Other?
Make sure your car seat is installed! And don't plan on wearing your normal bra home. Your boobs may or may not be huge, depending on when your milk comes in.
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BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
relaxation music, birth plan, and scents (like a renuzit or air freshener beads)
cell phone since it doubles as the camera.
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
basic toiletries (contact lenses/solution, toothbrush/paste/floss, lotion, chapstick, hair brush maybe)
glasses, pillow, couple pairs of granny panties, nursing bra, nursing pads (my milk comes in on day 3-4, so depending on how long i'm there- last two times the hospital didn't have nursing pads and I had to cut a maxi pad in half), ipad/chargers and headphones. one outfit to come home in, i'll wear the gown the rest of the time.
DH can pack for himself. he will probably come home after the first night so he won't need much.
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)?
coming home outfit and baby blanket. hospital will provide everything else.
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
my hospital will provide grippy socks, epifoam, food, water bottle, etc. cafeteria is open "nearly round the clock" so DH should be fine for food.
5) Other? lifesavers or other hard candies for dry mouth.
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1) What are you packing that is a MUST have?
Nothing is really a must have, we live close to our hospital and have family close so if we did forget something they would bring it to us.
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
Comfortable sweats and tees for FI, both our phones/phone chargers, pillow and blanket for FI, blanket for me, probably some nursing nighties and a robe for me. No pants since I won't want to irritate my C section incision. Will be staying at the hospital 3-4 days since I am having the C section so we'll probably bring some more homey comforts like our own toiletries.
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)?
Our hospital will provide everything we need; that being said we are having a Fresh 48 session done so we will bring him 2-3 outfits for that. We'll also bring a special baby blanket that we are having monogrammed for him.
ETA: We are also bringing our ring sling so we can start baby wearing pretty soon.
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
We have a list of delivery places near our hospital and we have family in town that will bring us food. We're also planning to bring snacks like crackers, granola bars, and water. We are having a scheduled C at 7 am so won't have to worry about laboring through the night, just a longer hospital stay.
5) Other?
For me: flip flops (shower), slippers, fuzzy grip socks, 2 pairs granny panties, nursing nightie, comfy going home shirt and stretchy yoga pants, facecloth, toiletries bag, camera + batteries, roll of quarters for vending machine, head band for labor
For DH: PJ pants, fresh shirt, pants and underwear, small toiletries bag for him, he also gets to carry all the snacks since his bag is so light (granola bars, pringles, M&Ms)
Baby bag: 2-3 different outfits of different sizes (because we don't actually know what she will fit into), a receiving blanket, hat & mitts set (our winter is pretty cold), burbp cloth, and any other necessities my diaper bag would need although I will use whatever the hospital gives up while we are there.
I've also made a list on our fridge of things to grab when the time comes to head out the door (or for DH to come back and get if we are already out) so we know exactly what we need to collect (wallets, chargers, tablets, phones, etc)
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Chargers and a change of clothes!
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be?
I'm debating bringing my nursing pillow...
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)?
His outfit, some mittens, and a hat in case it's super cold.
4) what are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?)
Comfort like bringing my own pillow.
5) Other?
Nothing I can think of!
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Baby Boy born 11/30/16
Baby #2 Due December 4
Trash bags and towels to line the car seats if my water breaks in advance (you'll leak for a good while)
iPod with motivational exercise music - helps with the pushing
Oil burner with lavender or eucalyptus oils
Food. Hospital policy is to not eat, but they won't take the food away from you. I can't go another full day without eating and manage to push out a baby.
Sports bra to labor/deliver in
2) For hospital stay:
Full body sanitary wipes - in case they don't let me shower right away. I NEED to be clean!
Phones and laptops with chargers
Pajamas and comfy clothes (yoga pants, sports bras etc)
Clothes for DH
Toiletries, shower stuff, and makeup
Slipper socks
Books
2) For baby:
The hospital provides most everything...
Going home outfit
Carseat - Making sure it is sized for a newborn because it was not last time when we first got her out to the car. Not fun to do on the fly.
3) Other:
Can't think of anything else at the moment. The hospital will provide mesh panties, sanitary pads, icy pads, tucks pads, swaddling blankets, etc for mom and baby. So we really don't need to overdo it there.
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Tank tops (4) and a loose fitting dress to come home in. I wore a gown the rest of the time
slippers with a grip sole (they have you walk around and those sock things are horrid. and I wore my slippers home as my shoes really didn't fit.)
Nb and 0-3 months clothes for baby. DD came out fitting a 0-3 but was in a nb by the time we left
Mittens (DD had a thing for digging her face)
Chargers for phones
Shampoo, conditioner, body wash and a baby wash cloth for me (The soft baby washcloth was a godsend for around the incision)
Towels for DH and me (their's are for children I swear....not big nor soft)
Pillows (they only supply one and it's flat.....Not happening)
Blankets for DH and baby
Toothbrushes for DH and me
Lotion for me (So much hand washing, not enough moisture)
Chapstick for the same reason
Hair Ties and brush
nail file (I broke a nail and had to send DH to the dollar store so I could fix it or it would've scratched baby)
TP (I know it sounds weird but I prefer my Charmin especially when I'm already in pain and someone wants me to wipe with sandpaper)
Carseat and cover (My DH forgot ours.....until we got sent home)
I'm sure there is more but prego brain is setting in.......
2) What are you packing for yourself/parents to be? DH has his own bag I pack him. Change of clothes, toiletries. I do tent to bring my pillow with me to the hospital. I'm very particular about my pillow.
3) What are you packing for baby(ies)? Little man will have two long sleeve onesies, coming home outfit, and receiving blanket. I also back a couple newborn diapers because our hospital only provides size 1 and both my babies were swimming in size 1 for a month.
4) What are things to consider when packing? (e.g. is your hospital cafeteria 24 hours or will you be starving all night? Things for DH/Partner?) I usually toss in a couple protein bars and pack of gum. I've learned that no matter the time of delivery our nurses station always has sandwiches stocked in the fridge and we have a couple fast food chains near the hospital. Bare minimum is best.
5) Other? if you're doing a hospital tour definitely ask about things like late births and food options or what's provided for baby.
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BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012
Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12
BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20
BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15
DH & I are both 28 Together: 12 years Married: 09/24/2011
BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012
Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12
BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20
BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15
We did go over this in my Birthing Class from last night and made notes next to some items based on what others already had posted in this thread.
I will eventually go through this whole thread and make notes and start getting some stuff in mind.
The instructor suggested to bring a sports bra if you wanted to sit in the Jacuzzi while in labor, just so you have something on... if you don't want to be naked. She also suggested a robe for walking around the halls, and I noted hard bottom slippers but also flip flops for the shower, etc. She said she was amazed to see so many moms with nothing on their feet when they walk around; she's a L&D nurse.
I wish I could have a water birth... I always thought that looked so much more relaxing, or as relaxing as it could be, during that time.
TTC Since: November 2015
BFP: March 31, 2016
DS: November 21, 2016
Laboring in water is such a relief. Very helpful.
Due December 27th with baby #7
Due December 27th with baby #7
Due December 27th with baby #7