I've already been through misoprostol 4 times since August 5th when we learned we lost our twins. After all of this, I still have a small amount ~1cm of retained tissue, so my OB is having me go through a D&C on 9/12.
Questions/Concerns:
1. The D&C will be using local anesthesia and ibuprofen / hydrocodone (vicodin), so I will be awake. Has anyone been through this awake who can comment on it?
2. I've never used any pain medication stronger than ibuprofen and I get panicky when my head doesn't feel like I can think clearly, so I am legitimately scared of taking hydrocodone (vicodin). I know I *should* take it because I don't want to get there and not be able to go through the procedure because it is too painful, but I am scared...
3. DH is taking the morning off work to be with me for the procedure. Should he plan on staying home with me all day afterwards or is it okay for him to go to work afterwards?
4. What's the recovery like? I am supposed to work the rest of the week (I have a very active job).
Thanks in advance for your help!
*TW*
TTC#1 - 6.3.16
BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
Misoprostol 4x
D&C - 9.12.16
Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
Re: D&C - Local Anesthesia
For the first several hours, the bleeding was moderate to heavy, but tapered off in a few days. The hardest thing with d&c vs natural mc (other than the obvious fact that both are shitty) for me was that it took much longer for af to come back after the d&c. I recommend getting the overnight (extra long) maxi pads and a a pack of personal wipes to clean up when you get home.
~~~~ TW ~~~~~~
Me: 40 DH: 39
Married 12.19.13
BFP #1 1/14, MC 2/14 (6wks)
BFP #2 1/15, MMC/D&C 3/15 (12wks)
BFP #3 6/15, MC 8/15 (9wks)
BFP #4 4/16, MC 4/16 (5wks)
BFP #5 7/16, MMC 8/16 (10 wks)
BFP #6 3/4 , EDD 11/9/17
I have a fairly active job as well and I ended up taking a few days off. The pain wasn't too bad, it was enough to make me uncomfortable. I bled for about two weeks after my d&c. I agree with pp about AF with a d&c vs natural mc.
For anyone thinking of doing the D&C without going under general anesthesia, I will warn you - I was given a local block into my cervix (multiple places) and that hurt a lot! They first had to clamp my cervix to hold it in place (not comfortable) and then put a needle into my cervix about 4 times to inject lidocaine (local anesthetic). The doctor was honest and said the injection was going to hurt. Well, she was right.
Interestingly, I actually passed out from a vasovagal reflex. Basically my blood pressure (which is already quite low) got even lower while she was injecting, causing me to pass out. I came to after she was done injecting and the clamp was removed and it was a very scary feeling - I couldn't move my arms/legs, my vision was completely blurry, I couldn't form sentences/speak, my hearing was gone/fuzzy (I could tell the Dr. was speaking to me but couldn't tell what she was saying). She had DH come in to be with me at that point and he said it was very scary seeing me like that - completely out of it, eyes glazed over, unresponsive. Eeek. Over 5-10 minutes, I came to and went back to normal. Very scary experience.
The actual D&C that followed that experience was fine - the last dilator that was inserted hurt quite a bit, and then when she was scraping my uterus at a few different points it definitely hurt a whole lot. I just had to focus on breathing, but I definitely think a few expletives came out. (Oops!)
I also had my HCG levels checked. I'm still at ~200 and that's almost 6 weeks post miscarriage. My levels only went down ~450 in the last 2 weeks. Dr. says it will be up to 6 weeks before I am back to normal because the last 6 weeks don't count as far as recovery from miscarriage since I had the tiniest amount of tissue still inside me. She obliged my request to follow my HCG levels down to zero so that I know where I'm at.
While that was not the most miserable experience of my life, I don't think I would want to do it again. As much as I am afraid of general anesthesia (for no good reason, honestly!), I think I would probably want to go under if there was a next time. (Fingers crossed there never is a next time for any of us!)
TTC#1 - 6.3.16
BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
Misoprostol 4x
D&C - 9.12.16
Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
The doctor asked me if I had taken any meds because I was very lucid. She was right. I was, despite all the meds. She said they should have given me valium, but that doesn't do anything for pain, just anxiety. I wasn't anxious, just in pain.
TTC#1 - 6.3.16
BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
Misoprostol 4x
D&C - 9.12.16
Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
~~~~ TW ~~~~~~
Me: 40 DH: 39
Married 12.19.13
BFP #1 1/14, MC 2/14 (6wks)
BFP #2 1/15, MMC/D&C 3/15 (12wks)
BFP #3 6/15, MC 8/15 (9wks)
BFP #4 4/16, MC 4/16 (5wks)
BFP #5 7/16, MMC 8/16 (10 wks)
BFP #6 3/4 , EDD 11/9/17
I'm so sorry you are still going through this. It should have been over and done with ASAP with anesthesia if the first two misoprostol didn't work. You are in my thoughts as you deal with the memories of that! I pray you never have to experience that again. But if you do, please don't allow your doctor to do that to you again!
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