**General TW that this thread can and will mention MC and loss.***
This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with infertility and it becomes a whole new ball game. The road to infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another. Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have something to say, and treat this like an ongoing conversation.
Diagnosis (If you've been):
Cycle/CD:
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?)
How are things going?
Any questions?
GTKY: Who would play you in a movie?
Re: IF/Testing Check-In Week of 9/12
Cycle/CD: month 10 cd 3
probably Kathryn heigl. When she first started on greys we looked almost identical. Doesn't help I'm in surgery too
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.16
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
Beta #1 15 Beta #2 38 Beta #3- 71 beta #4 171 Beta # 5- 21 Natural MC 10/21
HSG- clear
IVF Jan 2017
Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
Baby BOY due 11.29.2017
Diagnosis (If you've been): MFI - 0-1% Morph
Cycle/CD: CD 17 - pretty sure today is O
Me:31 H:31
DX: MFI - 1% Morph
12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
Cycle/CD: cycle 14, cd15
my Boobs hurt more than usual, but I am sure that was from the trigger. The progesterone cramps have started so that's cool lol
Nah... Just trying to find ways to distract myself for the next 10 days
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.16
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
Beta #1 15 Beta #2 38 Beta #3- 71 beta #4 171 Beta # 5- 21 Natural MC 10/21
HSG- clear
IVF Jan 2017
Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
Baby BOY due 11.29.2017
Cycle/CD: cycle 13, CD5
rachael mcadams
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
Cycle/CD: 13; CD13
Cycle/CD: 12/9 CD 24
Me:31 H:31
DX: MFI - 1% Morph
12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
cycle/cycle day: 11/12
status: WTO
What are you doing this cycle? Clomid 2-6, iui on O which will probably be in two days. I am going in for a scan tomorrow. Then progesterone from 1dpiui until I get my period.
How are things going? Fine. I go back and forth between feeling hopeful and feeling like it is never going to happen. The beginning of my cycle leading up to fertile week is the easiest for me bc there is really nothing I can be doing so I don't think about it as much.
GTKY: hm that's a tough one. I pick sienna Miller just because I think she's the most gorgeous person ever even though she looks absolutely nothing like me haha.
@DungeonTrollMel - I do 600mg of progesterone starting 1dpo and it has never affected my periods. I even still get my period right on time despite being on the progesterone. I wouldn't worry about having a lighter period since everyone responds to all these hormones differently.
https://www.freedommedteach.com/eng/videos.html?play=ovidrel
Honestly, it does not hurt at all. Just one little pinch and it's done. Good luck!
TTC#1: October 2015
dx: PCOS & MFI
IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP
July 2016: Blighted Ovum
IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN
IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN
IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN
FET February 2017 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17
Team Blue X 2!
also, I used the same video that @beary67 used. It's super easy. I recomeneded doing it yourself. The only time it hurt was the first time because I had DH do it and we were moving relative to each other. When it's in your own hand it's easier to keep the needle still.
I also figure that if there was any real risk to messing up the trigger and causing harm to myself then having inexperienced people do their own shots would not be the norm. I think the worst thing I could do was drop the needle and somehow spill all the medication lol
Cycle/CD: 16/5
I always wanted to do special needs adoption, so I think that will be our next step. I think this will be my last day on this board. I wish you all the best of luck and truly hope for good news for each of you!
@mrsdaddario *hugs* I'm sorry. I feel your pain, I do.
Cycle/CD: 15/4
DS 4/2009
m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
DD 12/2013
mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks
Twin girls! 8/26/2017
@zoey1019 Thanks!! I hope so, too. :-P And don't double guess yourself!! You have better odds than I do as it is now.
@beary67 Awesome--why didn't I think of watching a video on my own?? Haha! Thanks.
@furbabymom2007 Haha good call--I was originally thinking about having H do it but I'm definitely re-thinking that.
@hopeforababy (not sure if that will tag you??) So incredibly sorry for the news you received. I hope you and your partner come up with a plan that you're happy with. We'll miss you (and please know that you are still more than welcome here even if you aren't actively trying anymore)!
@daisy621 I really think REs should never make comments like "you'll be an easy fix" -- don't you think they would know better than to get someone's hopes up like that!?
Cycle/CD: 10 ttcal/6
Cycle/CD: 4/23
@dungeontrollmel sorry i'm no help here, TW* the only cycle I did progesterone was my rainbow cycle TW*
@marley629 I'm glad you were able to cancel the reception without fees and that your hopefully going to get the wedding you wanted. Hooray for IVF being in reach.
@Felix08 I did my shots, DH would not have done well trying to give them to me. I think the apprehension the first time is the worst part. The shot itself isn't that bad. just take a deep breath and go for it.
@mrsdaddario I was looking for your post. I'm so sorry your stuck in this ambiguous place. Fx so hard that the first test was right. creepy internet hugs
@hopeforababy I am so sorry to hear your news. Creepy internet hugs. I hope your adoption road goes smoothly and you end up with the baby/child that was meant for you.
@daisy621 I'm sorry this time around is so challenging. It sucks when an RE says things that imply the journey will be quick and simple, mine did that too. *TW when I had my loss my RE wanted me to avoid a D&C if possible because it can cause scaring making it harder to get pregnant again. end TW**
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
RE = Gets you KU
OBGYN = Helps you stayed KU
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
Cycle/CD: 30-something/CD21/DPO3
They're going alright. I find myself getting irrationally hopeful and thinking about sibling names/looking at Buy Buy Baby for baby gear and then I find myself absolutely not believing any of this week especially after 2 years of BFNs. I'm just trying not to dwell so I don't get to upset.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
But better safe than sorry, right?
@mrsdaddario It sounds like you've been on a rollercoaster the last day or two. My fingers are crossed for your beta!
@Marley629 So glad to hear you were able to cancel and that IVF will be an option in just a couple months!
@persnickity Yesss, I love Audrey Hepburn too!
Cycle/CD: 12/21
Cycle/CD: 5/ 39/ 8 DPO
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
@felix08 GL with everything. I’m following all my clomid/ IUI peeps closely since that’s what is next for me.
@mrsdaddario – I’m sorry about the BFN and confusing results. How frustrating.
@rh10264706 I feel the same way. Sometimes I’m super excited and other times I think this is just a waste of time.
@hopeforababy I’m sorry about your results. It’s really wonderful that you are considering other options. We will miss you.
@daisy621 I love Brittany Snow. That’s who I’m going to picture when reading your posts from now on.
@persnickity It’s a bit late in your cycle to start clomid. Most women will take it CD 3-7 or at the latest 5-9. Do you have an apt with the RE yet?
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
Cycle/CD: 15/10
@persnickity I agree on asking to be monitored with u/s while on Clomid. With my first round of Clomid last cycle, I was well on my way to 5 large follies, in which case we would have had to cancel the IUI due to the larger risk of high order multiples. The RE doing the monitoring said no to even BDing at that point. But you wouldn't know that (or how thin your lining is, for that matter) without an u/s (or three in my case).
@laurad75 My visit summary from the GYN referred to it as a Clomid challenge. Is that different from just taking Clomid for a cycle?
Now to just survive the clomid headaches again
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.16
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
Beta #1 15 Beta #2 38 Beta #3- 71 beta #4 171 Beta # 5- 21 Natural MC 10/21
HSG- clear
IVF Jan 2017
Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
Baby BOY due 11.29.2017
Diagnosis (If you've been): No diagnosis, but suspected cilia issues. Someone asked last week what testing we had done. I had a normal HSG, ultrasound, and blood tests.
Cycle/CD: Cycle 18, CD 19
BFP after IVF March 2017
Diagnosis (If you've been): unexplained IF
Cycle/CD: Cycle 12, CD 4
then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
@hopeforababy I read an article once that HSG are more likely to give a false positive of a blocked tube than hysteroscopy https://humrep.oxfordjournals.org/content/14/8/1923.full I don't know if a second opinion doing a scope instead is an option, but I just thought I would share that with you. Bless you for having a heart for special needs adoption, I wish you SO much success in the next stage of your journey.
Diagnosis (If you've been): Unexplained + high DNA fragmentation
Cycle/CD: 17/ 24
MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
Aug 2016 - May 2017 6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN
April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo
June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved.
Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature
5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP!
May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy
TTC #2 since July 2019
July 2019 - FET - BFN
Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues
Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy
July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy
So sorry @hopeforbaby
Diagnosis (If you've been): unexplained bleeding and MFI - low morph
Cycle/CD: 21/23/6dpo
Cycle/CD: 18/4
Geez, I dunno. I don't think I look or act like anyone famous. Could I just pick Emma Watson because I love her? I mean I'm not British but...
Fur babies: Yeti (cat)
#1 Boy E 9/30/17
#2 Girl A 7/27/2020
#3 ?? ? est. 1/5/2025
@mrsdee15 Glad you are feeling better!
@LadyMillil I have an hour and a half drive to and from work, three hours round trip. And I wonder sometimes if it affects me physically at all. I can't see it manifesting itself physically, definitely mentally sometimes, but I wouldn't be surprised if it causes issues. I'm glad it seems your bleeding is calming down, and I really hope it's regulating.
They will do base line blood work on CD 3, then you will take clomid CD 5-9, they do bw again on CD 10. They are looking for appropriate changes in your estrogen levels and FSH levels (I say appropriate bc I don't know exactly what they need to see - they will explain that to you).
When you take clomid as part of regular fertility treatment you will likely take it CD 2 or 3 through 6 or 7.
Edited: does it automatically tag the person you are quoting if you quote?
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17