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IF/Testing Check-In Week of 9/12

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edited September 2016 in Trying to Get Pregnant
**General TW that this thread can and will mention MC and loss.***

This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with infertility and it becomes a whole new ball game. The road to infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another.  Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have something to say, and treat this like an ongoing conversation. 

Diagnosis (If you've been): 

Cycle/CD: 

Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):  

What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?)
  
How are things going?
  
Any questions? 


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  • @DungeonTrollMel Clomid was actually the culprit that made my period lighter and shorter.
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    Me: 28 | DH: 29
    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
    Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)

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  • @Everycol0r mine was super light the AF before clomid is why I am not suspecting it. 
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.16
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
    Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
    Beta #1 15   Beta #2 38    Beta #3- 71     beta #4 171   Beta # 5- 21  Natural MC 10/21
    HSG- clear
    IVF Jan 2017
    Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
    PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
    FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
    Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
    Baby BOY due 11.29.2017






  • @felix08 so excited for you!!! I really hope IUI works for you....may make me rethink my course of action...hahaha
    TTC #1 - December 2015
    Me:31 H:31
    DX: MFI - 1% Morph 
    12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
    ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
    3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
    ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
    FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!




  • @felix08 this is the link to the video I watched for the Ovidrel shot.  If you are doing a different type of trigger, you should be able to find a video for that medication on this site as well.

    https://www.freedommedteach.com/eng/videos.html?play=ovidrel

    Honestly, it does not hurt at all.  Just one little pinch and it's done.  Good luck! 
    About me:
    TTC#1: October 2015
    dx: PCOS & MFI
    IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP
    July 2016: Blighted Ovum
    IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN
    IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN
    IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN
    IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN
    FET February 2017 ~BFN
    IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17
    Team Blue X 2!
  • @felix08 I teated out the trigger the first time around but haven't since.  And for what it's worth, the second line was gone by about 6 or 7 days after the trigger shot for me 

    also, I used the same video that @beary67 used.  It's super easy.  I recomeneded doing it yourself.  The only time it hurt was the first time because I had DH do it and we were moving relative to each other.  When it's in your own hand it's easier to keep the needle still. 

    I also figure that if there was any real risk to messing up the trigger and causing harm to myself then having inexperienced people do their own shots would not be the norm.  I think the worst thing I could do was drop the needle and somehow spill all the medication lol 
  • Creepy internet hugs @mrsdaddario That had to be really rough seeing the positive and then getting a BFN.
  • Diagnosis (If you've been): 2 blocked tubes 

    Cycle/CD: 16/5

    Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO  

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?) Well, just had my HSG and it was discovered that I have 2 blocked tubes. Left tube is completely blocked, and right has a block, but isn't as blocked as the left. The Dr. said that the chances of us having a baby ever, is though IVF- which we can't afford so won't be doing. 
      
    How are things going? Not good. I'm still holding onto the fact that I did have a BFP last year that ended in a mc so I know it is not completely impossible, although close to it. 

     I always wanted to do special needs adoption, so I think that will be our next step. I think this will be my last day on this board. I wish you all the best of luck and truly hope for good news for each of you! 
      
    Any questions? 


    GTKY: Who would play you in a movie? Courtney Cox or Jennifer Anniston. 
  • @felix08 good luck! hope all goes well wednesday.
    @mrsdaddario *hugs* I'm sorry. I feel your pain, I do.

    Diagnosis (If you've been): looks like secondary infertility

    Cycle/CD: 15/4

    Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):  wto

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?) We'll be oot during fertile week so no treatments.
      
    How are things going? I'm doing pretty good. Maybe it's vacation in a week that makes me feel not so sad. I'm disappointed that 2 monitored iui's with triggers did not work for us (and one unmonitored no trigger iui). My RE said I should be an "easy fix" back in May and that's not proving to be true. My DH is convinced something happened with the m/c or the d&c last July b/c that is when all my difficulties started. It truly happened like a flip of the switch that now I suddenly can't get pg, to think there's no coincidence. But I've had all the stuff done and things look ok in there so I don't know what to think. I don't really hear about others who have been pg 6 times with 3 living kids who now can't get pg. It worries me a little.
      
    Any questions? nope

    GTKY: Who would play you in a movie? Hmm... Brittany Snow maybe?

    DD 6/2007
    DS 4/2009
    m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
    m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
    DD 12/2013
    mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks  <3
    Twin girls! 8/26/2017


  • @Hopeforababy I'm so sorry. I know I haven't known you for very long, but I'll miss you on here. I'm glad you two have an alternate plan, but I know how much it can hurt to be on a different path than expected.
  • Diagnosis (If you've been): still figuring that out. So far nothing is wrong.

    Cycle/CD: 10 ttcal/6

    Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):  WTO

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?) HSG on Wednesday. My Dr wants me to try Clomid next and get the referral started to a RE
      
    How are things going? Nervous about the HSG and about Clomid
      
    Any questions? My Dr wants to start me on Clomid this cycle, but I'm at cd6, no HSG, and no prescription for it yet. They wanted me to start on cd5, so I'm assuming I'll be waiting. I'm really freaking out about this too. She wants to just do blood test monitoring. Based on this board, I'm terrified something is going to go wrong if I don't have ultrasounds too. Am I being ridiculous?


    GTKY: Who would play you in a movie? Ooh... Not sure there a good modern actress, but I'd say Audrey Hepburn if I could pick anyone.
  • @hope for a baby I am really really sorry about the DX. All my thoughts and prayers to you as you figure this out.

    Diagnosis (If you've been):  Left sided hydrosalpinx

    Cycle/CD:  30-something/CD21/DPO3

    Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):  TWW

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?)
    All done with our re-testing, F/U is on Thursday to do over everything.

    How are things going?

    They're going alright. I find myself getting irrationally hopeful and thinking about sibling names/looking at Buy Buy Baby for baby gear and then I find myself absolutely not believing any of this week especially after 2 years of BFNs. I'm just trying not to dwell so I don't get to upset.
      
    Any questions? 


    GTKY: Who would play you in a movie?
    Drew Barrymore probs
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    Me: 28 | DH: 29
    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
    Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)

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  • @Everycol0r Yeah, my GYN has been really great so far about getting the testing ball rolling. She works hand in hand with a fertility clinic, in fact that's who's doing my HSG. I feel like she'd gladly ultrasounds to monitor if I asked. We're getting the referral started, I guess I just hate feeling like I'm in limbo out not doing enough if I wait on Clomid.

    But better safe than sorry, right?
  • @YesOuiCan Audrey is my favorite actress. So classy.  :)  Hope the appointment goes well on Thursday! I hate not having answers.
  • Diagnosis (If you've been): AMA, low AMH

    Cycle/CD: 5/ 39/ 8 DPO

    Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):  TWW

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?) Took clomid for clomid challenge earlier this cycle and passed.  HSG was clear and H's SA came back normal.  
      
    How are things going?  I am not hopeful for this cycle since we missed most of FW.  Next cycle I will take clomid again and they will do an IUI.  
      
    Any questions? 

    GTKY: Who would play you in a movie?  I'm going with Anna Kendrick.  
    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


  • I meant to include these comments in my post: 

    @felix08 GL with everything.  I’m following all my clomid/ IUI peeps closely since that’s what is next for me.

    @mrsdaddario – I’m sorry about the BFN and confusing results.  How frustrating. 

    @rh10264706 I feel the same way.  Sometimes I’m super excited and other times I think this is just a waste of time. 

    @hopeforababy I’m sorry about your results.  It’s really wonderful that you are considering other options.  We will miss you. 

    @daisy621 I love Brittany Snow.  That’s who I’m going to picture when reading your posts from now on.

    @persnickity It’s a bit late in your cycle to start clomid.  Most women will take it CD 3-7 or at the latest 5-9.  Do you have an apt with the RE yet?  

    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog



  • @persnickity I think the general consensus around here is that an RE should be the one to prescribe/monitor clomid cycles. Could you wait until you get the RE referral? On top of the potential health risks, I wouldn't want to "waste" a Clomid cycle with an OB since you can only take it so many times in your lifetime. 
    @wabash15 Thanks! I think you're right--the thought of giving myself a shot is just kinda freaking me out. Shots normally don't bother me, but usually a professional is doing it, ha. 
    @yesouican Hopefully your follow-up appointment gives you some answers and a plan moving forward! Keep us updated. 
  • @Bababatty @felix08 @laurad75 Thanks for the extra information! Yeah, with needing to start on cd5, I'm not going to taking it this cycle. I did reach out and ask if she would do the ultrasounds or if I just need to wait to get in with a RE. Either way, I'm not starting it this cycle.

    @laurad75 My visit summary from the GYN referred to it as a Clomid challenge. Is that different from just taking Clomid for a cycle?


  • @DungeonTrollMel That sounds like great news! Glad your RE is looking out for your emotional health too.
  • @DungeonTrollMel My period after progesterone was exactly the same, short and light, barely 3 days  :/ It's a concern of mine, but the MDs aren't concerned yet.  

     Diagnosis (If you've been):  unexplained IF

    Cycle/CD: Cycle 12, CD 4

    Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):  WTO

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?) IUI #2
      
    How are things going?  I had a hard past few days, which is why I've been MIA.  Feeling a bit better now.  
      
    Any questions? Newp 

    GTKY: Who would play you in a movie?  I always hear Taylor Swift and Nicole Kidman, I'd be pretty honored if one of them did.  
    DD born PPROM preemie at 36 weeks on 10/1/17 after over a year TI, 
    then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.

    Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
    because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
    Babysizer Geeky Pregnancy Tracker
  • Diagnosis (If you've been): So far low progesterone. More bloodwork and DH's SA still pending.

    Cycle/CD: 18/4

    Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):  WTO

    What are you doing this cycle? Still testing and saving up for October, when we plan to do a medicated cycle. 
      
    How are things going? Pretty good, all things considered. I feel like things are finally moving and we are on the same page and have a plan. 
      
    Any questions? So my ultrasound today showed I have a retroflex uterus and my clinician mentioned that could impact IUI and I would have to do a catheter trial, does anyone have any experience with this? 


    GTKY: Who would play you in a movie?
    Geez, I dunno. I don't think I look or act like anyone famous. Could I just pick Emma Watson because I love her? I mean I'm not British but...
    Me: 36, DH: 40
    Married: July 22, 2008
    Fur babies: Yeti (cat) 

    #1 Boy E 9/30/17 
    #2 Girl A 7/27/2020
    #3 ?? ? est. 1/5/2025 
  • @dungeontrollmel FX this dosage works out!
    @mrsdee15 Glad you are feeling better!
  • @ReesaAnne16 I did use a trigger. I didn't test it. The past three cycles it had always been out of my system by 9dpo. But I kept getting (this cycle) faint positives on the cheap Walmart brand tests, but I've gotten BFN's on two FRER's. So I definitely feel out, and I think the Walmart brand is just crazy sensitive to any hcg.  I did contact the RE's office yesterday to be like...wtf is going on? I wanted to go in for a beta before Thursday, which is my appointment, but they refused. They said Thursday was the earliest they could give me a blood test because any time before that could give them a false negative. She asked me if I had any concerning issues that would make me want to come in sooner, but since I am not in any pain (physically lol), I said no. So now the worst part is I have to wait until Thursday for them to tell me (again) that I'm not KU and that I can go off the progesterone. And the progesterone is what keeps AF at bay, and thus keeps me from starting the next cycle. I just want to move on. I'm sorry you're feeling out. I really hope that is not the case. 

    @LadyMillil I have an hour and a half drive to and from work, three hours round trip. And I wonder sometimes if it affects me physically at all. I can't see it manifesting itself physically, definitely mentally sometimes, but I wouldn't be surprised if it causes issues. I'm glad it seems your bleeding is calming down, and I really hope it's regulating. 

  • laurad75laurad75 member
    edited September 2016
    @laurad75 My visit summary from the GYN referred to it as a Clomid challenge. Is that different from just taking Clomid for a cycle?
    Yes.  The clomid challenge is for insurance to show that you have a good chance of responding to fertility treatments.
    They will do base line blood work on CD 3, then you will take clomid CD 5-9, they do bw again on CD 10.  They are looking for appropriate changes in your estrogen levels and FSH levels (I say appropriate bc I don't know exactly what they need to see - they will explain that to you).  

    When you take clomid as part of regular fertility treatment you will likely take it CD 2 or 3 through 6 or 7.  

    Edited: does it automatically tag the person you are quoting if you quote?  
    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


  • @mrsdaddario my love tit is a creepy internet hug. I'm sorry you are in limbo until Thursday. It is an awful place to be. I hope you can find something to distract you for the next day or two.
    *TW*
    TTC 1/2012
    Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
    6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
    TTC #3 5/2016
    Restarted Fertility tx
    IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17

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