Timing: Either -5, -4, IUI on -1, O or -4, -3, IUI on O, +1
Testing: Still holding strong for Monday or beta next Thursday
R/R: I had a dream last night that I popped a digi. It said Pregnant 6-12 weeks. It felt so real because I was sitting on the toilet in my bathroom starring at the test. And I thought in the dream, well I'm definitely not 6-12 weeks, could be my trigger. Sigh. In other news I went in for a progesterone check this morning. I'm sure my levels are where they need to be but I'm anxious to see where they are anyway.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? I think Beyonce. Only because she's the end all be all of amazingness to me. She's gorgeous, she's a lovely person, and she has a killer voice. I would probably just sit at home and sing all day lol.
Testing: Will have to test the morning of the 17th as I am going out to dinner with a friend and want to know if I'll be able to have any drinks, if I so desire.
R/R: I seem to have caught my bi-annual cold. I just hope it's a short one and already on it's way out the door. I hate the disconnected feeling I get when I have a cold.
Also, my cubicle neighbor is eating chips again. She is crunching them very LOUDLY and it makes me want to punch her.
CS/Q: What kind of tests do you typically use? (that can be bought in a store). I've used FRERs the past few times but don't want to keep using the expensive ones.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Angelina Jolie, I just think she is such an interesting person.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@AvidVertigo FX for you next cycle! @mrsdaddario Maybe that was a sign this will be the cycle for you!
Month/Cycle: 10
CD/DPO: 25/9
Timing: -4, -1, +1
Testing: Not until AF is late
R/R: Today is my Friday!
CS/Q: So I got my BBThermometer last night, and used it this morning for the first time. I know I've read that you need to be sleeping soundly for three hours before, and it should be the first thing you do when you wake up. I am a light sleeper, and sometimes my dog rustles and wakes me up a tiny bit, will that affect it? Also, I would take it at like 5 or 6 when I wake up for work M-Th, but then much later on F-Su when I sleep in, will that affect it's accuracy?
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? I think Blake Lively, only because I dream of being married to Ryan Reynolds.
R/R: Of course my temp has to rise again this morning, just to mess with me. I only tested because I figured better to just leave it at that then to keep wondering all day long if... maybe??? So third day of spotting so far (even though first day was really later in the evening, and today is super light), so AF may not show still till tomorrow... :/
CS/Q: nah.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? <b>Edited because I was in a rush to post earlier and forgot to answer my own GTKY!</b> I might actually have to say Britney Spears. I know, I know, but she has been through so much career-wise, and still just looks like she's having fun and maybe doesn't take her celebrity status too seriously. I would also love to perform her Vegas show for a night! lol
R/R: H's SA is this afternoon (had to reschedule because he got sick last week), so he wanted me to test this morning as his last ditch effort to get out of it. His words, lol. I tested with a Wondfo and had my first experience with a squinter/evap line. So I dipped another Wondfo and same thing. Both the answer brand and a digi were negative, though, so I guess it was nothing. This sucks.
CS/Q:
GTKY: Oh I have no idea. Emma Watson or Amy Poehler?
Me: 26, H: 28
Married since 2012
TTC #1 since July 2015 **TW**
Laparoscopy and Endometriosis dx February 2016
HSG and SA all clear! September 2016 Testing with RE October 2016 BFP 11/5/2016 ~ EDD 7/19/2016
@AvidVertigo sorry you're out! Hope you treat yourself to a little something special today! @mrsdaddario sounds like a premonition to me! Fx for you!!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 22/either 7 or 8 DPO as I'm not sure on O date
Timing: Either -3, -2, -1, +1, +2, +4 or -4, -3, -2, 0, +1, +3
Testing: Holding out until Saturday at the earliest
R/R: I just want to thank everyone who contributes to these boards! I feel like just by lurking so many of my questions have been answered and I have such a better understanding of TTC! Plus you ladies seem to be such a great support system to one another, that's pretty rare to find these days!
CS/Q: Not right now
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? -- Taylor Swift! ❤️ Don't make fun of me, I am 26 and still listen to Taylor on a regular basis! She seems so down to earth and I love how much she gives back!
Testing: Ha! Dipped another Wondfo today, stark white. I have no restraint.
R/R: The good news is I get to spend the day at home in pajamas, but the bad news is I really have to crank out some homework & internship work. Bleh. I kind of just want a lazy TV day.
Also, DH got home at midnight Tuesday night when I was sleeping after being out of town since early Saturday morning. He is leaving to go out of town again today and the way our schedules line up I won't see him until Sunday before work. At least we got a couple hours together yesterday & had a lunch date! I'm not loving our schedules lately.
CS/Q: (TMI?) yesterday I saw a literal drop of brown blood in my underwear, teeny tiny smaller in diameter than an eraser head on a pencil. I checked for CM and no pink or brown tinge to imply bleeding there, nothing on TP, nothing this AM. Would you still count this as "spotting" on your FF chart?
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
Hmmm I really don't know! My #1 celeb crush is Joseph Gordon Levitt, but his wife isn't "famous" so I don't think I can pick her maybe Jennifer Lawrence because she seems very confident, witty, and of course successful
Me (28) & DH (35) Met 4/2010+Married 8/2014 TTC #1 August 2016. BFP 10/2016= DD Born 6.23.17
NTNP April 2018. BFP 5/2018 EDD 1.29.19 *Team Green*
sorry @AvidVertigo@alysapuggles @mrsdaddario keeping FX for you! @lulu1180 loud eaters are my pet peeve!! @BusinessWife do you always spot for so many days before? @pretzel2plus1 hmmm....I'm still keeping my fx for you that maybe the other tests weren't as sensitive. @PolarBear517 I had that - a couple light, faint spots of pink blood on 10dpo and nothing else - I put it in my chart as spotting since I've never had that before, and made a note of the description in my notes section.
Month/Cycle: 14/14
CD/DPO: 27/14
Timing: -4, -2, iui on o
Testing: expecting AF today. Beta is tomorrow so I'll test in the morning if AF still isn't here, though I'm fully expecting it today.
R/R: less than 2 weeks til vacation! I'm so ready!
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Really can't think of a celebrity I'd want to be.
Testing: probably tomorrow if my temp doesn't go down
R/R: I was up for hours tossing and turning all night so I didn't get to temp. And now I have a headache from lack of sleep. Also feeling a little bit of cramping. Just want to go back to bed today.
CS/Q: not today
GTKY: if you could be any celebrity for a day who would you pick? Hmmm maybe Jennifer Lawrence. She's way funnier than me.
H & I: Both 28 Married: June 2015 TTC #1: June 2016 BFP: 11-24-16 ~ EDD 8-9-17 IT'S A BOY!
@AvidVertigo@alysapuggles, so sorry this wasn't your cycle. FX next cycle is the one! @BusinessWife, so sorry for the BFN. I really thought your chart looked promising. @mrsdaddario, awesome dream! Here's hoping it comes true this cycle! Don't digi's only go up to 3+ weeks? Just curious (at least that's what they show on the commercials!). @LadyMillil, let us know if you try those period undies (yes, undies because I can't say the "p" word without driving myself crazy!) @pretzel2plus1, FX those cheap wondfos are the real deal!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 26/6
Timing: -4, -2, +1
Testing: maybe Sunday (not because I think it will be positive on 9dpo, but because it's football time and I'll be partaking in some drinks!) Go, Pack, Go! (Shameless plug...)
R/R: nothing today.
CS/Q: temp was exactly the same as yesterday. It's happened to me before, k just always find it odd.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Eva Mendes. Only because then I'd be married to Ryan Gosling. Seriously, the struggle is real!
Me: 31 DH: 32 Dating since: 11/17/2001 Married: 9/26/2009 TTC: June 2016
Testing: Still not sure....maybe next Tuesday (@ 10/11dpo)
R/R: Today is our office picnic, and I have zero desire to go. However, I have to because I have somehow managed to get sucked into helping out. How do I get myself into these situations????
CS/Q: Nothing!
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
Hmmm, that is a tough one. Honestly can't really think of anyone I would want to be.
@lulu1180, OMG! Who eats chips before 9am?!? At my last job, the woman in the office next to mine would snap her gum All Day Long. Seriously, I came so close to walking in her office, pulling that f'in gum out of her mouth, and putting it in her perfectly styled long blonde hair! Is that too far?! Now, thanks to her, I can pick out that sound from miles away.
Me: 31 DH: 32 Dating since: 11/17/2001 Married: 9/26/2009 TTC: June 2016
@BusinessWife - aw man no I have been routing for you this whole time and even during my absence, you were/still are in my daily prayers. I always hope it is your cycle. So sorry for the BFN and impending AF. This just sucks. SUPER BIG HUGS TO YOU!!!
Month/Cycle: 31 / 24
CD/DPO: 43 / 9 or 10ish
Timing: It was decent if I O'd when I think I did
Testing: Nope. I really feel I will not test at all.
R/R: Last nights girls night was so much fun!!!! Lots of good food and even a couple of drinks! And a blueberry muffin this morning was a great way to set the day up. It has been shit morning at work already so I thought "Why not??"
CS/Q: nope!
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Emma Stone!!! I effing love her!
@BusinessWife How annoying! I'm so sorry for the BFN!
@pretzel2plus1 That sounds like a total mind F. I'm so sorry!! Were the tests from the same batch?
@Jenshoes I am a light sleeper, and sometimes my dog rustles and wakes me up a tiny bit, will that affect it? Yes, but as long as you take it at the same time daily, you should be able to see the shift.
Also, I would take it at like 5 or 6 when I wake up for work M-Th, but then much later on F-Su when I sleep in, will that affect it's accuracy? Set an alarm for Friday-Sunday then go back to sleep when you're done temping. I know it sucks, but it has to be consistently the same time every day for the shift to be visible.
When I first started temping, the advice around here was "It's the entire forest, not a single tree". As in, you want to have the entire chart show the shift, one single temp isn't going to tell you anything.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? I don't think I would really enjoy being a celebrity but I'm going to say Anna Kendrick because she doesn't seem to be too effected.
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
@AvidVertigo sorry to see you go but I didn't get a chance to say congrats on the new job so CONGRATS and maybe celebrate that and commiserate the other with some drinks, if that's your thing @LadyMillil sorry you're spotting in your TWW By "period panties" do you mean those ones that are absorbent or ones that you just don't care about/are dark colored etc? @mrsdaddario aww that dream description made me tear up (but what doesn't lately?!); fx for fantastic progesterone results @lulu1180 my fav store-boughts are dollar store cheapies but I don't know if those are available to you (>>>>Canadian) aw crap, so sorry for bfn @BusinessWife ..especially with another temp rise, wtf??!! @alysapuggles sorry for AF, take care of yourself @pretzel2plus1 laughing a little at your H wanting to get out of SA but not at evap lines Boo to that! Tho I'm also hoping it's actually a BFP
Month/Cycle: 3/3 TTCAL
CD/DPO: 23/9
Timing: -4, -2, 0
Testing: DH's schedule keeps changing and it's making me question my testing plans and then part of me doesn't want to test at all lol
R/R: Ya I'm a mess lol And I should be sleeping. I was awake before DHs alarm at 5 and haven't been able to fall back asleep since (2+hrs ago) so of course I came to Bump lol
CS/Q: can't temp unless I sleep better
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? I can't think of anything better right now so I'm thinking Justin Timberlake's wife (her name eludes me right now and I don't feel like googling). Not because I have the hots for him but because he seems really fun to be around and very enthusiastic/positive and I feel like we'd write a song together or just sing and dance all day long because I love both of those things
@GrabberBlue2010 @mrsdaddario @BertieMeetsGertie Thanks, ladies. I was kind of a mess yesterday, but maybe I'm a little better today. :/ ETA @rainbowturtles
@daisy621 Yeah, unfortunately, 3 days of spotting has been pretty standard for me for some time, that's why they started me on the progesterone. The spotting actually starts before I've taken my last pill though, so IDKWTF. MAAAAYBE it's lighter than it used to be? I was able to see a chart from January in my history though, that was crazy to compare the difference in the lengthened LP. I was getting some 11-12 day LPs in there, and now my norm is closer to 13-14, so that's cool? Sigh. <img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/6m/c52rcqa7c5wa.jpg" alt="">
Month/Cycle: CD31/12DPO Timing: -2 or -3, not sure honestly when O was Testing: I lost the instructions on the pregnancy test so not sure if I did it right. It came out positive. Did I do it correctly?
R/R: Kind of freaking out - Not sure if I'm pregnant or not. Last time, it took until 16DPO to get BFP so I feel like something is not right - I should have taken a picture of the test to show you guys GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? I would be Gigi Hadid or someone else equally beautiful - It would be awesome to be rich and beautiful for the day
@lildropofheavn23 Congratulations!! Thank you for NOT posting a picture, since that is against TOU to post that here. Please edit your post to remove the description of your testing, and go ahead and intro at your new BMB if you are ready. You may also post over in the 1st Tri Board at, "what does a positive test look like," if you so choose. GL and FX for all good things for you!!!
R/R: Although it looks like I'm not pregnant this month, my family is still growing! I am getting a new kitten tomorrow! My 3 year old cat, Scribbles, is always so lonely while DH and I are at work all day so I know he is going to love having someone to play with all day.
CS/Q: I am a little confused about timing for HPTs. I know they say to wait at least 14dpo before testing, but they also say to wait until AF is late to test (yes, I know I broke both rules this month. I suck.) Which rule do you go by? For me, 14dpo and the date that AF is due are off by a few days. If I test at 14dpo, AF is still not due for 1-3 days.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Anyone from The Young and the Restless. I love that show and would love to know what it's like to be on it!
Jenna (27), DH: Jeremy (27) Married June 2014 Baby Maya due June 2017
R/R: Even with the less than ideal circumstances at the cabin, we got the best timing we've ever had! And the one day we missed (the important one lol) we were already home and H was just not interested.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Sia. Inconspicuous, yet super rich and beautiful voice.
@MrsJennaSheppard03 Everybody's different and it kind of comes down to personal preference. Some women prefer to wait as long as possible to avoid any confusion of trying to read "squinters" and others just want to test all-day err-day because. Generally, your chance of false negatives drops significantly at 11DPO, so it's wise to wait at least until then. 14DPO ought to be even better, BUT still not 100% of positives are showing yet at that point either! Especially if you have a longer LP, like you said, expected AF and 14DPO might not be the same day. By 16DPO the stats are still better, and I think MOST PEOPLE should have a BFP or AF by 18DPO. Hope that helps!
@BusinessWife, I really wanted this to be your month. You are awesome. I'm sorry about the spotting. It is good about the longer LP.
Sorry I don't post everyday guys. I've been a little anxious.
Month/Cycle: 2/1 CD/DPO: 32/9 Timing: -2,-1,O Testing: A great debate for me. On the one hand, I think maybe I should wait until I have reason to believe it's possible. On the other, I'd rather find out over this weekend, so I can have time to be either excited or disappointed. On Saturday (11DPO), H and I have morning volunteer plans. I was thinking that may be a good day because if the news isn't what we wanted, we'd be going out and doing community service and getting our minds off it. CS/Q: How do you change your default temp time (solid dot) in FF? I have more temps in the 5:15-6:15 range than anything else, but FF is still counting 7:30-8:30 as my temping time. This cycle was weird because I was on vacation for the first two weeks of it.
TTC since 8/7/16 BFP 9/13/16 MMC 10/18/16 D&C 10/20/16
@BertiemeetsGertiesame about the P word. It's a gross word. Undies all the way!
@PolarBear517 So I get ovualtion spotting. It's literally one drop the day after I ovulate. So I added ovualtion spotting to my specifics and do that. This way when I look back it's right there on my chart view all color coded and pretty. But during days in the TWW, like this morning, where I had one teeny tiny spot on the TP as soon as I woke up; I just marked the whole day as spotting so I can see it easier on my chart and my calendar. I'll make a comment in my notes too, but this way next month I don't have to searching through every day on the calendar reading where I left notes to see if I spotted that day or not.
@lulu1180 loud eaters and loud breathers in an open office setting. Die. Oh and the ones that talk to themselves and read every email aloud and then comment or groan about it. Die twice.
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 20/8 or 7 depending on whether I trust FF or my gut
Timing: Good (for us)
Testing: nope
R/R: So yesterday I had no symptoms at all. Then today happened. I woke up this morning to a huge temp drop (just below CL), a tiny, but still depressing spec of blood first thing, and then cramps. I just want to go home and throw myself a pity party (ie bed, jammies, cat who cuddles like a champ, bad reality tv). AF is immenent, its just a matter of time. I'm hoping for at least three more days, other wise this was an insanely short cylce.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Amy Poehler, Tina Fey, Jennifer Lawerence, whichever model Leo (minus man-bun) is dating, whichever girl Jake is dating...
@mrsegan13 somehow I am just noticing that we are cycle twins this month, some CD and DPO! I have tested twice because I'm insane but I also am trying to hold out until Saturday or Sunday now
@lulu1180 awesome timing! Hope your cold passes quickly. Also I know you specified "that can be bought in a store" but... I'm loving these cheapie wondfos, well worth the wait for Amazon. I have some FRERs I'm waiting to use to confirm if I have a + wondfo. I also HAAAATE chewing noises and LOVE when other people have this complaint as well...makes me feel a tad less crazy
@businesswife sorry for the negative wondfo I have been rooting for you. Also, I love Britney! I will be in Vegas in December for a few nights but with DH so doubtful he will be up for seeing her. But, I'm still going to try and convince him its a good idea
@pretzel2plus1 definitely test again tomorrow or the next day... I've heard of several people turning wondfos before a digi would turn. Who knows?
@NurseK2016 Great timing! I was glad just to hit FW twice lol
@Daisy621 Woo! Vacation is almost here! Fx this is your cycle!
@PolarBear517 Thankfully not lol If we're lucky enough this cycle, it'll be a "Oh man, I didn't sleep long enough last night. I need a super long nap. No one else come in" baby lol
@pretzel2plus1 - Did you look at the results within the recommended testing window? Did the second line have the pink color to it? If so, it doesn't sound like an evap to me. I know it takes longer to turn a digi positive, though I don't know much about sensitivity of the answer brand. I'd wait a couple more days and try a digi again if no AF.
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 23/8
Timing: O
Testing: No plans yet
R/R: Just the status quo around here
CS/Q: None
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
It might be cool to be a singer and/or actress, but I really don't have a favorite. The science nerd in me might want to see what it's like to be Bill Nye the Science guy for a day. Oh yeah, I'm cool like that
Married since 8.2.08 DS born 8.11.14 BFP #2: 9.14.16, EDD: 5.24.17
@PolarBear517, I noticed that too. Like you, I just discontinued bc (I was on bcp) before this cycle. I'm hoping my longer cycles can be attributed to 13 years on continuous bc. Ovulating on day 24 was exhausting (if you know what I mean...haha)
TTC since 8/7/16 BFP 9/13/16 MMC 10/18/16 D&C 10/20/16
I'm out. All the best to those still waiting to test! FX for you.
Me:28 (PCOS, DOR), DH: 32 (low morphology) TTC since March 2012 2013-2014 - 6 rounds of Clomid - BFNs 3 failed IUIs in 2015 October 2015 - wait listed for IVF #1 IVF #1 March 2016 - bfn, zero frosties! Femara cycle 1 May 2016 - POAS starting May 21st / beta testing May 25th....
@mrsegan13 Oh yeah, I was on vacation until CD 20 & thought "Yay! I'll O during vacation probably, and won't even have to worry about our timing" Yeah, no. lol we got home from vacation super late, were both jet lagged and exhausted the whole next day when I finally got my + OPKs plus DH spent the whole day with a relative who was in from out of town. He had to leave on Monday morning for a work project a couple hours away and we got 1 more BD in before that pretty much just because of the + OPKs. So, if I actually get KU this cycle, I'll have wondfos to thank haha I'm glad I ended up actually using them, wasn't sure about it cycle #1! Also, like you, I'm hoping that I O a little earlier next month
Me (28) & DH (35) Met 4/2010+Married 8/2014 TTC #1 August 2016. BFP 10/2016= DD Born 6.23.17
NTNP April 2018. BFP 5/2018 EDD 1.29.19 *Team Green*
K thebump wasn't working at all this a.m. and now I'm at work... so I'll be back tonight later to comment!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 13/28
Timing: -5, -3, -1
Testing: no... just waiting for AF
R/R: run #2 done for the week! Wooo! My boss' boss' boss was on the treadmill next to me... aND we were in this little workout room alone together, and he was totally dancing to his ipod while running... it wasn't awkward at all lol
CS/Q: nope... af can hurry up and get here
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Hmm... this is kind of tough... I'm not really into any particular celebrity. Maybe Alex Trebec... hosting Jeopardy seems pretty fun
Testing: Couldn't hold out so I peed today. I swear I must enjoy torturing myself, I keep looking at it under different lights, squinting, it's way past the ten minute mark but I keep checking it. Ugh. I need therapy.
R/R: DD1 has walked herself to school and home the last couple of days. It is so nice to not have to worry about getting her there in time (I take DS to preschool 25 minutes from our house so their schedules clash a little if I take her too) and it's so nice to be able to let the little ones nap in the afternoon (the last few years I had to wake them to go pick her up). I think the best part though is the look of pride on her face every afternoon when she gets home. She is loving the independence and trust that she is getting Also, I'm buying her a watch that has GPS hahaha!
CS/Q: Nah, just a waiting game now
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Ooo I dunno. Probably someone who is married to someone hot or someone who has a job that involves eating or reviewing movies or something
Formerly ChoicesMom "Squishy" 2007 "Lyric" EDD Nov/4/11 - c/p Feb/11 "Fishy" 2012 "Bean" 2014 "Lux" EDD Apr/21/17 - c/p Aug/16 "Kokonah" EDD May/24/17 - m/c Oct/16 1 surprise - 1 Noonie - 1 preemie - 3 gone but not forgotten - One more on the way!! Grab bag of mental health disorders Pancolitis
Re: TWW Thursday
DS - 5/2010
DD - 6-2013
TTC #3 - Cycle #9
CD/DPO: CD 20 - 8dpt - 7dpiui - 6 or 7 dpo
Timing: Either -5, -4, IUI on -1, O or -4, -3, IUI on O, +1
Testing: Still holding strong for Monday or beta next Thursday
R/R: I had a dream last night that I popped a digi. It said Pregnant 6-12 weeks. It felt so real because I was sitting on the toilet in my bathroom starring at the test. And I thought in the dream, well I'm definitely not 6-12 weeks, could be my trigger. Sigh. In other news I went in for a progesterone check this morning. I'm sure my levels are where they need to be but I'm anxious to see where they are anyway.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
I think Beyonce. Only because she's the end all be all of amazingness to me. She's gorgeous, she's a lovely person, and she has a killer voice. I would probably just sit at home and sing all day lol.
CD/DPO: 15/5
Timing: ED in FW except -4
Testing: Will have to test the morning of the 17th as I am going out to dinner with a friend and want to know if I'll be able to have any drinks, if I so desire.
R/R: I seem to have caught my bi-annual cold. I just hope it's a short one and already on it's way out the door. I hate the disconnected feeling I get when I have a cold.
Also, my cubicle neighbor is eating chips again. She is crunching them very LOUDLY and it makes me want to punch her.
CS/Q: What kind of tests do you typically use? (that can be bought in a store). I've used FRERs the past few times but don't want to keep using the expensive ones.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Angelina Jolie, I just think she is such an interesting person.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@mrsdaddario Maybe that was a sign this will be the cycle for you!
Month/Cycle: 10
CD/DPO: 25/9
Timing: -4, -1, +1
Testing: Not until AF is late
R/R: Today is my Friday!
CS/Q: So I got my BBThermometer last night, and used it this morning for the first time. I know I've read that you need to be sleeping soundly for three hours before, and it should be the first thing you do when you wake up. I am a light sleeper, and sometimes my dog rustles and wakes me up a tiny bit, will that affect it? Also, I would take it at like 5 or 6 when I wake up for work M-Th, but then much later on F-Su when I sleep in, will that affect it's accuracy?
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
I think Blake Lively, only because I dream of being married to Ryan Reynolds.
CD/DPO: 25/14
Timing: -2, -1, +1
Testing: negative Wondfo this morning
R/R: Of course my temp has to rise again this morning, just to mess with me. I only tested because I figured better to just leave it at that then to keep wondering all day long if... maybe??? So third day of spotting so far (even though first day was really later in the evening, and today is super light), so AF may not show still till tomorrow... :/
CS/Q: nah.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? <b>Edited because I was in a rush to post earlier and forgot to answer my own GTKY!</b> I might actually have to say Britney Spears. I know, I know, but she has been through so much career-wise, and still just looks like she's having fun and maybe doesn't take her celebrity status too seriously. I would also love to perform her Vegas show for a night! lol
Me: 36 DH: 41
Month/Cycle: 14/11
CD/DPO: 32/13
Timing: -1, O, +1
Testing: this morning
R/R: H's SA is this afternoon (had to reschedule because he got sick last week), so he wanted me to test this morning as his last ditch effort to get out of it. His words, lol. I tested with a Wondfo and had my first experience with a squinter/evap line. So I dipped another Wondfo and same thing. Both the answer brand and a digi were negative, though, so I guess it was nothing. This sucks.
CS/Q:
GTKY: Oh I have no idea. Emma Watson or Amy Poehler?
**TW**
Testing with RE October 2016
BFP 11/5/2016 ~ EDD 7/19/2016
@mrsdaddario sounds like a premonition to me! Fx for you!!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 22/either 7 or 8 DPO as I'm not sure on O date
Timing: Either -3, -2, -1, +1, +2, +4 or -4, -3, -2, 0, +1, +3
Testing: Holding out until Saturday at the earliest
R/R: I just want to thank everyone who contributes to these boards! I feel like just by lurking so many of my questions have been answered and I have such a better understanding of TTC! Plus you ladies seem to be such a great support system to one another, that's pretty rare to find these days!
CS/Q: Not right now
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? -- Taylor Swift! ❤️ Don't make fun of me, I am 26 and still listen to Taylor on a regular basis! She seems so down to earth and I love how much she gives back!
Also, DH got home at midnight Tuesday night when I was sleeping after being out of town since early Saturday morning. He is leaving to go out of town again today and the way our schedules line up I won't see him until Sunday before work. At least we got a couple hours together yesterday & had a lunch date! I'm not loving our schedules lately.
Hmmm I really don't know! My #1 celeb crush is Joseph Gordon Levitt, but his wife isn't "famous" so I don't think I can pick her
Met 4/2010+Married 8/2014
TTC #1 August 2016. BFP 10/2016= DD Born 6.23.17
@mrsdaddario keeping FX for you!
@lulu1180 loud eaters are my pet peeve!!
@BusinessWife do you always spot for so many days before?
@pretzel2plus1 hmmm....I'm still keeping my fx for you that maybe the other tests weren't as sensitive.
@PolarBear517 I had that - a couple light, faint spots of pink blood on 10dpo and nothing else - I put it in my chart as spotting since I've never had that before, and made a note of the description in my notes section.
Month/Cycle: 14/14
R/R: less than 2 weeks til vacation! I'm so ready!
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Really can't think of a celebrity I'd want to be.
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DS 4/2009
m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
DD 12/2013
mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks
Twin girls! 8/26/2017
Married: June 2015
TTC #1: June 2016
BFP: 11-24-16 ~ EDD 8-9-17
IT'S A BOY!
@BusinessWife, so sorry for the BFN. I really thought your chart looked promising.
@mrsdaddario, awesome dream! Here's hoping it comes true this cycle! Don't digi's only go up to 3+ weeks? Just curious (at least that's what they show on the commercials!).
@LadyMillil, let us know if you try those period undies (yes, undies because I can't say the "p" word without driving myself crazy!)
@pretzel2plus1, FX those cheap wondfos are the real deal!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 26/6
Timing: -4, -2, +1
Testing: maybe Sunday (not because I think it will be positive on 9dpo, but because it's football time and I'll be partaking in some drinks!) Go, Pack, Go! (Shameless plug...)
R/R: nothing today.
CS/Q: temp was exactly the same as yesterday. It's happened to me before, k just always find it odd.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
Eva Mendes. Only because then I'd be married to Ryan Gosling. Seriously, the struggle is real!
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 18/ 5 or 6
Timing: either -3, -1, 0 or -5, -2, 0, +1
Testing: Still not sure....maybe next Tuesday (@ 10/11dpo)
R/R: Today is our office picnic, and I have zero desire to go. However, I have to because I have somehow managed to get sucked into helping out. How do I get myself into these situations????
CS/Q: Nothing!
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
Hmmm, that is a tough one. Honestly can't really think of anyone I would want to be.
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
Month/Cycle: 31 / 24
CD/DPO: 43 / 9 or 10ish
Timing: It was decent if I O'd when I think I did
Testing: Nope. I really feel I will not test at all.
R/R: Last nights girls night was so much fun!!!! Lots of good food and even a couple of drinks!
And a blueberry muffin this morning was a great way to set the day up. It has been shit morning at work already so I thought "Why not??"
CS/Q: nope!
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
Emma Stone!!! I effing love her!
Me: 31 / DH: 37
Married: November 2015
TTC #1 Since March 2014
MC: New Years Eve 2014
Mommy to 4 furbabies
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@pretzel2plus1 That sounds like a total mind F. I'm so sorry!! Were the tests from the same batch?
@Jenshoes
I am a light sleeper, and sometimes my dog rustles and wakes me up a tiny bit, will that affect it?
Yes, but as long as you take it at the same time daily, you should be able to see the shift.
Also, I would take it at like 5 or 6 when I wake up for work M-Th, but then much later on F-Su when I sleep in, will that affect it's accuracy?
Set an alarm for Friday-Sunday then go back to sleep when you're done temping. I know it sucks, but it has to be consistently the same time every day for the shift to be visible.
When I first started temping, the advice around here was "It's the entire forest, not a single tree". As in, you want to have the entire chart show the shift, one single temp isn't going to tell you anything.
@Daisy621 So sorry
**TW**
Testing with RE October 2016
BFP 11/5/2016 ~ EDD 7/19/2016
CD/DPO: 35/4
Timing: crappy
Testing: nope.
R/R:
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? I don't think I would really enjoy being a celebrity but I'm going to say Anna Kendrick because she doesn't seem to be too effected.
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
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@LadyMillil sorry you're spotting in your TWW
@mrsdaddario aww that dream description made me tear up (but what doesn't lately?!); fx for fantastic progesterone results
@lulu1180 my fav store-boughts are dollar store cheapies but I don't know if those are available to you (>>>>Canadian)
aw crap, so sorry for bfn @BusinessWife ..especially with another temp rise, wtf??!!
@alysapuggles sorry for AF, take care of yourself
@pretzel2plus1 laughing a little at your H wanting to get out of SA but not at evap lines
Month/Cycle: 3/3 TTCAL
CD/DPO: 23/9
Timing: -4, -2, 0
Testing:
DH's schedule keeps changing and it's making me question my testing plans and then part of me doesn't want to test at all lol
R/R:
Ya I'm a mess lol And I should be sleeping. I was awake before DHs alarm at 5 and haven't been able to fall back asleep since (2+hrs ago) so of course I came to Bump lol
CS/Q: can't temp unless I sleep better
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
I can't think of anything better right now so I'm thinking Justin Timberlake's wife (her name eludes me right now and I don't feel like googling). Not because I have the hots for him but because he seems really fun to be around and very enthusiastic/positive and I feel like we'd write a song together or just sing and dance all day long because I love both of those things
@daisy621 Yeah, unfortunately, 3 days of spotting has been pretty standard for me for some time, that's why they started me on the progesterone. The spotting actually starts before I've taken my last pill though, so IDKWTF. MAAAAYBE it's lighter than it used to be? I was able to see a chart from January in my history though, that was crazy to compare the difference in the lengthened LP. I was getting some 11-12 day LPs in there, and now my norm is closer to 13-14, so that's cool? Sigh.
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Timing: -2 or -3, not sure honestly when O was
Testing: I lost the instructions on the pregnancy test so not sure if I did it right. It came out positive. Did I do it correctly?
R/R: Kind of freaking out - Not sure if I'm pregnant or not. Last time, it took until 16DPO to get BFP so I feel like something is not right - I should have taken a picture of the test to show you guys
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? I would be Gigi Hadid or someone else equally beautiful - It would be awesome to be rich and beautiful for the day
CD/DPO: 20/6
Timing: -1, 0 , +1 (I think)
Testing: Not yet
R/R: I have a sore throat
CS/Q: None
GTKY: Jennifer Lawrence, but I really love @BertieMeetsGertie 's answer. It's making me reconsider!
CD/DPO: 30/14
Timing: Almost ED during fertile window
Testing: Negatives at 11dpo and 13dpo
R/R: Although it looks like I'm not pregnant this month, my family is still growing! I am getting a new kitten tomorrow! My 3 year old cat, Scribbles, is always so lonely while DH and I are at work all day so I know he is going to love having someone to play with all day.
CS/Q: I am a little confused about timing for HPTs. I know they say to wait at least 14dpo before testing, but they also say to wait until AF is late to test (yes, I know I broke both rules this month. I suck.) Which rule do you go by? For me, 14dpo and the date that AF is due are off by a few days. If I test at 14dpo, AF is still not due for 1-3 days.
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Anyone from The Young and the Restless. I love that show and would love to know what it's like to be on it!
Jenna (27), DH: Jeremy (27)
Married June 2014
Baby Maya due June 2017
Month/Cycle: 6
CD/DPO: 22/4
Timing: -3, -2, -1, +1
Testing: Not yet
R/R: Even with the less than ideal circumstances at the cabin, we got the best timing we've ever had! And the one day we missed (the important one lol) we were already home and H was just not interested.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Sia. Inconspicuous, yet super rich and beautiful voice.
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
Sorry I don't post everyday guys. I've been a little anxious.
Month/Cycle: 2/1
CD/DPO: 32/9
Timing: -2,-1,O
Testing: A great debate for me. On the one hand, I think maybe I should wait until I have reason to believe it's possible. On the other, I'd rather find out over this weekend, so I can have time to be either excited or disappointed. On Saturday (11DPO), H and I have morning volunteer plans. I was thinking that may be a good day because if the news isn't what we wanted, we'd be going out and doing community service and getting our minds off it.
CS/Q: How do you change your default temp time (solid dot) in FF? I have more temps in the 5:15-6:15 range than anything else, but FF is still counting 7:30-8:30 as my temping time. This cycle was weird because I was on vacation for the first two weeks of it.
BFP 9/13/16
MMC 10/18/16
D&C 10/20/16
@BertiemeetsGertiesame about the P word. It's a gross word. Undies all the way!
@PolarBear517 So I get ovualtion spotting. It's literally one drop the day after I ovulate. So I added ovualtion spotting to my specifics and do that. This way when I look back it's right there on my chart view all color coded and pretty. But during days in the TWW, like this morning, where I had one teeny tiny spot on the TP as soon as I woke up; I just marked the whole day as spotting so I can see it easier on my chart and my calendar. I'll make a comment in my notes too, but this way next month I don't have to searching through every day on the calendar reading where I left notes to see if I spotted that day or not.
@lulu1180 loud eaters and loud breathers in an open office setting. Die. Oh and the ones that talk to themselves and read every email aloud and then comment or groan about it. Die twice.
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 20/8 or 7 depending on whether I trust FF or my gut
Timing: Good (for us)
Testing: nope
R/R: So yesterday I had no symptoms at all. Then today happened. I woke up this morning to a huge temp drop (just below CL), a tiny, but still depressing spec of blood first thing, and then cramps. I just want to go home and throw myself a pity party (ie bed, jammies, cat who cuddles like a champ, bad reality tv). AF is immenent, its just a matter of time. I'm hoping for at least three more days, other wise this was an insanely short cylce.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Amy Poehler, Tina Fey, Jennifer Lawerence, whichever model Leo (minus man-bun) is dating, whichever girl Jake is dating...
@lulu1180 awesome timing! Hope your cold passes quickly. Also I know you specified "that can be bought in a store" but... I'm loving these cheapie wondfos, well worth the wait for Amazon. I have some FRERs I'm waiting to use to confirm if I have a + wondfo. I also HAAAATE chewing noises and LOVE when other people have this complaint as well...makes me feel a tad less crazy
@businesswife sorry for the negative wondfo
@pretzel2plus1 definitely test again tomorrow or the next day... I've heard of several people turning wondfos before a digi would turn. Who knows?
@NurseK2016 Great timing! I was glad just to hit FW twice lol
@Daisy621 Woo! Vacation is almost here! Fx this is your cycle!
@GrabberBlue2010 I hope your work day gets a lot better
@Dilynne Outhouse baby?? Just kidding lol Many studies have -1 as the most important day rather than O actually, so I'd say your timing was great!
@berg I hope AF holds off for you!
Met 4/2010+Married 8/2014
TTC #1 August 2016. BFP 10/2016= DD Born 6.23.17
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
@pretzel2plus1 - Did you look at the results within the recommended testing window? Did the second line have the pink color to it? If so, it doesn't sound like an evap to me. I know it takes longer to turn a digi positive, though I don't know much about sensitivity of the answer brand. I'd wait a couple more days and try a digi again if no AF.
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 23/8
Timing: O
Testing: No plans yet
R/R: Just the status quo around here
CS/Q: None
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick?
DS born 8.11.14
BFP #2: 9.14.16, EDD: 5.24.17
BFP 9/13/16
MMC 10/18/16
D&C 10/20/16
All the best to those still waiting to test! FX for you.
TTC since March 2012
2013-2014 - 6 rounds of Clomid - BFNs
3 failed IUIs in 2015
October 2015 - wait listed for IVF #1
IVF #1 March 2016 - bfn, zero frosties!
Femara cycle 1 May 2016 - POAS starting May 21st / beta testing May 25th....
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
Met 4/2010+Married 8/2014
TTC #1 August 2016. BFP 10/2016= DD Born 6.23.17
CD/DPO: 8DPO
Timing: -2, -1, 0, +1
Testing: Couldn't hold out so I peed today. I swear I must enjoy torturing myself, I keep looking at it under different lights, squinting, it's way past the ten minute mark but I keep checking it. Ugh. I need therapy.
R/R: DD1 has walked herself to school and home the last couple of days. It is so nice to not have to worry about getting her there in time (I take DS to preschool 25 minutes from our house so their schedules clash a little if I take her too) and it's so nice to be able to let the little ones nap in the afternoon (the last few years I had to wake them to go pick her up). I think the best part though is the look of pride on her face every afternoon when she gets home. She is loving the independence and trust that she is getting
CS/Q: Nah, just a waiting game now
GTKY: If you could be any celebrity for a day, who would you pick? Ooo I dunno. Probably someone who is married to someone hot or someone who has a job that involves eating or reviewing movies or something
Formerly ChoicesMom
"Squishy" 2007
"Lyric" EDD Nov/4/11 - c/p Feb/11
"Fishy" 2012
"Bean" 2014
"Lux" EDD Apr/21/17 - c/p Aug/16
"Kokonah" EDD May/24/17 - m/c Oct/16
1 surprise - 1 Noonie - 1 preemie - 3 gone but not forgotten - One more on the way!!
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