February 2017 Moms

Thoughts and Prayers please - UPDATED 8/25

Tennis11785Tennis11785 member
edited August 2016 in February 2017 Moms
This might be a bit of a speshul snowflake post and might belong someone else, so sorry.  

Last week I had my NT scan, and from the get-go, I could tell something was wrong.  Once the sonographer took about a zillion photos she said "well it's thick, so you'll meet with the doctor to learn what that means."  

A few minutes later, my doctor came in and said I had extremely high ranking on the NT exam, and they were trying to get me in for a CVS ASAP.  Luckily, their specialists were able to get me in about a half hour later, where they immediately did a CVS.  Afterwards we chatted, but the prognosis doesn't appear good.  You could just tell by the look in the doctor's eyes that they have little hope for good news.  They gave me the percentages and what it most likely was, including a high possibility that the baby will not survive to term.  

I was supposed to get the results on Monday, but there wasn't enough of a sample in the CVS they took.  Luckily instead of going in for second one, they think they will be able to grow the cells in the lab.  So now I should get the first round of results tomorrow, followed by more on Friday.   

I'd appreciate any thoughts/prayers/good vibes/whatever positive thoughts you believe in.  The next week or so is going to be a tough one as results roll in.  

** TW **
I'm so unbelievably nervous.  For those of you who may have followed my story, I had a miscarriage last winter.  This is not exactly how I had imagined my rainbow baby pregnancy to be.  



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Re: Thoughts and Prayers please - UPDATED 8/25

  • I'm so sorry, I can't imagine what you must be feeling right now. I'll be thinking of you, please keep us posted. 
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  • I'm so sorry. All the positive thoughts your way. *creepy Internet hugs*
  • poofwokpoofwok member
    edited August 2016
    I'm so so sorry you are going through this. I can't even fathom to wait on such results. I'm sending lots of T&P's your way and hoping that you get a positive result! 
    I'll definitely be keeping my eye out on your update! 
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  • I'm so sorry. My heart breaks. As a fellow mom of loss, I'm praying things come out well and it is a false alarm. I'm praying you get an adorable rainbow baby in February. Tight hugs.

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  • I'm so very sorry, Tennis. I can't begin to imagine what you're going through. You're in my prayers. Please keep us posted. 
  • I'll be thinking of you tomorrow and I'm sorry you're going through this. Prayers for a more positive result and a miracle rainbow baby...
  • Ugh, I'm so so sorry. The anxiety and not knowing is just awful. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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  • Oh no, I'm so sorry.  My thoughts are with you and I can't imagine what you must be feeling.  I'll be keeping everything crossed that this will be your rainbow.

    Hugs.



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    Thinking and praying for you. I pray for comfort and peace for you in this uncertain time. 
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  • I'm so, so sorry :( sending you all the positive thoughts and prayers that I can to you and your family. Please keep us posted and keep taking care of yourself as best you can
  • oh, I am so so sorry. sending good vibes your way. *hugs*
  • You're in my thoughts and prayers. I hope everything turns out to be a mixup and that the results come back with positive news!
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  • I am so sorry and you are in my prayers ❤️
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  • I'm so sorry. I can imagine the delay in the results makes everything more frustrating but in glad they didn't have to repeat the CVS. Praying for good results for you tomorrow.
  • I know the waiting and not knowing is beyond difficult. Sending positive thoughts and prayers. 
  • I am so very sorry you are facing this. I will continue to think about you and will not stop praying for you. 
  • I am so sorry. thinking of you. 

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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll be thinking of you and sending positive thoughts. 
  • I'm so sorry! Praying for tomorrow 





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  • I can't imagine what you're going through. You're in my thoughts this weeks. 

                                        
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  • I'm so, so sorry you're going through this. I can't imagine the stress and worry. Take time to do something you find relaxing, and as impossible as it may seem, please try to not stress too much. You're in my thoughts and prayers, seriously pulling for good results for you! ~creepy internet bearhug~
  • This is so terrifying. I'm so sorry :(
  • Sending love and light your way mama
  • Im so sorry you are going through this, you will be in my thoughts & prayers & hoping for the best possible news for you
  • Obviously this isn't the outcome that all will end up with, but this couple's story might give you a tiny bit of hope... I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, you will definitely be in my thoughts and sending good vibes your way!

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  • Oh my gosh, I'm so so sorry. Hoping for the best and quick results. 
  • I'm so sorry! You'll be in my thoughts and I'm keeping my FX that everything turns out to be just fine for your rainbow baby! Sending hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry to read this. Thinking of you and sending you lots of positive vibes.
  • I'll be praying for you that everything turns out okay and that there is still hope. Im so very sorry you have to go through this agonizing ordeal. I'm hoping so badly that everything ends up just fine for you. I'll be thinking of you.
  • I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. Good healthy vibes coming your way. 
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  • I'm so sorry.  You are in my thoughts and prayers. 
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  • I'm so sorry. You definitely have my thoughts and prayers
  • I am so so sorry, positive thoughts and prayers your way!!!!!! 
  • I will be praying for you! My cousin went through the same thing last year with her little boy, including a large cyst on the back of the neck which later showed on the ultrasounds. They gave her low chances of him surviving to term, but towards the end of her pregnancy the cyst resolved on its own and he was born healthy. It was a very scary time waiting to see what would happen.

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  • Thoughts and prayers sent your way for good news, so sorry you're having to go through this! 
  • My thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep us posted on your results.
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  • This breaks my heart.  I am so so sorry!!  I hope that the docs are wrong and that the results come back better than expected.  I will be including you in my prayers. So many hugs and I also pray that your wait passes quickly.  So many hugs.
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  • You are definitely in my prayers! I hope the docs are able to get the results quickly and be able to know how to help your little one.
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  • I'm so sorry. I'm thinking about you and hoping for the best!!! I know how terrible it is waiting for results. 
  • I've been through this with one of my daughters.  I remember the waiting and wondering about a diagnosis. It is a very hard thing! I'm in that stage of pregnancy right now where we were going through testing and ultrasounds and all of that for diagnosis and to see how baby was, so it's been on my mind again this past week.  Praying for a peaceful heart for you as you wait. 
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