Month/Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
GTKY: since it's back to school season, what was your favorite school subject?
Me: 33 DH: 31
DS: 5 years old
TTC #2 since August 2015
July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN
August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts
November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
April 24, 2017: FET#3 - BFN
May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18

Re: TWW Thursday
R/R: I hate this boring early part of the TWW where I'm SS and mentally know all the "symptoms" mean nothing.
DS: 5 years old
TTC #2 since August 2015
July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN
August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts
November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
R/R: nothing
edit: fix mistakes
DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
* formally bornmommy
CD/DPO: 21/11
Timing:-4, -1, +1
Testing: BFN yesterday. Gonna try to hold off until CD 28, which was my original plan anyway. Due to illness close to my crosshairs I really don't know for sure how many DPO I am.
R/R: I hope I did actually ovulate when FF thinks I did because I timing was pretty good then. Also it would mean a shorter cycle which means less waiting...right?
CS/Q: Not today
GTKY: I was bookish kid. I loved every subject except math and gym.
Married 6-15-13
DS born 4-9-15
Septate Uterus
BFP 10/12/16--EDD 6/24/17
R/R: not really.....tomorrow is Friday! woohoo for Friday eve!
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
CD/DPO 22/4
Timing: -5,-4,-2,0,+1
Testing: I'm vacationing with friends next week, sans the husband, so I'll probably test right when I get back. It'll give me some control to not test while I'm with them because I would blurt it out but H should be the first to know.
R/R is it five o'clock yet?
CS/Q: this is my first cycle charting and also my first cycle after a loss so I am still trying to make sense of everything my body is doing.
GTKY: In Jr. High and high school I loved math and history but in college I loved my philosophy and physics classes.
R/R: Just sitting here waiting for AF to show...
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
Month/Cycle: 6/6
R/R: Tired of seeing bfns. I know technically I'm still kind of testing early but my timing this month wasn't exactly good so losing hope on this being the month.
@bornmommy I never minded shop either. I mean, it certainly wasn't my favorite, and I only took it in junior high when it was required. But it wasn't awful!
@JackieMarie1989 Gym was the bane of my existence!
@lulu1180 For some reason the link you pasted says page not found. Can you put a picture of your chart instead?
@Redpuma119 I'm vacationing next week too! I hope you have a blast! Where are you going?
@Pinky917 You have some willpower not to have tested yet!
@LadyMillil When does YH meet back up with you??
@krisnicole23 I was going to write this days ago, when you first said you were going to start testing at 7dpo, but I held off. Girl, do yourself a favor and don't start testing that soon. That is not good for the soul lol. Barely anyone gets a BFP at 7dpo. Most people don't even start getting them until 10dpo, and then the majority by 14dpo. Even if any given cycle ends in a BFN, if you start testing that soon it's bound to make the rest of the wait unbearable. At least give yourself some hope for a few days longer you know? Just a thought, hope you're not offended by that. I just hate to see the hurt feelings that comes with a BFN, trust me I know the feeling all the well.
R/R: Just waiting for AF at this point. Glad she has held off this long actually. It would be best if I got it tomorrow or Saturday. We have a consult with our RE on Monday to go over the last three unsuccessful cycles, and talk about moving forward. If Monday happens to be CD 2, 3, or 4 then I can get all of my baseline blood work and u/s out of the way, and I'll be able to start the injectables on Monday. Which would be optimal because then we could get our fourth medicated cycle show on the road. I just have to put out there that even though I am upset that we are still not KU, and have to go through all of this mess, that I am thankful we are even at this point. I know a lot of women with IF have waited years and years to get to the point where MH and I are. We've only been TTGP since September 2015. I got my PCOS diagnosis in March 2016. We started medicated cycles in April 2016. So compared to a lot of other suffering couples, we've moved pretty quickly. And I've never had a loss. So I just want to put out there that I'm grateful for the "quickness" in which we're moving, and also have so much respect for women who are TTCAL and have been dealing with IF for much, much longer than I have.
Anything English related. It came extremely easy to me.
@Redpuma119 I'm in the same boat that I'll be on vacation until 12dpo. I'm not bringing any tests and H will be at home so it will help with the willpower (or lack thereof...)
@krisnicole23 Sorry about the BFNs. Sometimes I think I use OPKs just because I get a positive line on SOMETHING. Small victories.
I'm in the TWW!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
R/R: I'm just glad I o'd after a false surge earlier this cycle.
@mrsdaddario Haha no I completely agree! In the past, when I had a faint bfp, I got it early like 7 or 8 dpo. That's the only reason I do them that early. It's tempting. But I know each cycle is different and that I should wait longer to poas so it's less time stressing. It's more our bad timing this month that makes me lose some hope not necessarily the negative tests. Still will keep my fx though for some good news and for all you guys!
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
Sorry to see all the BFNs today - y'all do something kind just for yourself today. My orders
R/R: Should hear from my doctor about my CD21 progesterone blood work so fingers and toes crossed and hair braided that I have good levels this month. Moving on to the RE in three weeks if this isn't ~the month.~
Me: 42 | DH: 45
TTC since Dec. 2014
BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
R/R: Tonight is Diner En Blanc and I am so excited (but so tired from card night last night lol)!! Everyone dresses in white and brings everything to dine outside at a secret location in the city. I love the mystery! I just wish the humidity wasn't at 90% today. Hello big hair! Any other naturally curly hair people out there?
CD/DPO: 25/ 9
Timing: -2 -1
Testing: I will probably cave and test this weekend, unless my temp drops. I never count down to a testing date, but I have a lot of cheapies to burn.
R/R: My temps are still high, so that's a good thing. While I was waiting for my BBT to beep, I just kept praying that it would be higher than yesterday, which is was, which means I am totes KTFU, right?!? lol
CS/Q: Nope. I stare at my chart enough for everyone.
GTKY: Can I pick lunch time, because that was totally my favourite time of day!
I also enjoyed Art class and English in the later years of school.
10/2/10
Me:29 H: 31
TTC#1: Aug 2015
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
R/R: I went down the rabbit hole of charts like mine last night... 70% of which were BFP's... to add to it last night I had repeated dreams that I POAS (probably 50 of them) and they were all positive, only to wake up to a further temp drop. I still POAS any ways
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
R/R: nope
Edit: because I can't morning.
Dating: 11/14/2010
Married: 10/18/2014
TTC April 2016
BFP: 5/12/2016 ~ MC: 5/25/2016
@mrsdaddario sigh, you are an inspiration of positivity! must be more like you.
@krisnicole23 Hope you are at least using cheapies. I made the mistake of testing too early with FRERs in the beginning and boy did that get expensive! FX it is just too early to tell!
@wabash15 I always wondered if those percentages were right.... here's hoping your dreams come true!
@PepperAT Chart looks good to me!!
@ahrains Nice to see you here!! FX for you this cycle!! And OMG that is busy!
@lulu1180 It is all about trends and your chart looks good to me!
@hartmich Long cycles are a killer... glad you made it over here
@LadyMillil CD 14 looks right to me. It wouldn't be crazy to have one more day of EWCM but hey I am no expert.
ETA @KhRun17 Did I read that CD14 right? Did you O on CD3? I'm confused.
@KhRun17 Thankfully we have central air and a ceiling fan, both of which are going at night. I generally wear the same thing to bed and cover with a sheet and light quilt. The only thing I can think of is that my sleep patterns haven't been great but at the same time I'm not sure how bad they've been since I refuse to look at the clock when I wake in the middle of the night
@Saralee797 Thanks for taking a look! It makes me feel a little better that it's not bad (or at least as bad as I thought it might be...)
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
R/R: 99% sure this isn't the month and for the next 2 months H and I will be on opposite sides of the country for the majority of my fertile period.
@mrsdaddario Just wanted to tell you I think the outlook you're taking on this process is awesome.
@Saralee797 I have the opposite hair problem, and it gets flatter and flatter the more humid it gets.
Random question for all of you: I know most of the bump ladies are in the "drink til its pink" camp. But we are going to a large birthday celebration on Saturday where drinking will begin at 11am. I'm fine with a glass or two of wine, but I'm not trying to pound shots during the TWW. I will be pretending to participate but someone will likely notice. I just don't want to deal with the "OMG are you pregnant?" questions. Have any of you all dealt with this?
@hartmich I am on team ' Drink til it's pink ', but everything in moderation for sure. Maybe you could just mention that you don't feel like drinking too much? I am not a huge drinker so people probably wouldn't question if I said that. Maybe there will be enough people that they won't notice or they will be drinking so much they won't care. haha Enjoy your couple glasses of wine!
10/2/10
Me:29 H: 31
TTC#1: Aug 2015
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Sorry for all those BFNs today ladies. Hope you all have some chocolate or wine or Netflix binge today.
@lulu1180 I feel like your chart looks like many I have seen before. Since all the temps are well above cover line it seems very "normal" to me.
@krisnicole23 I don't know how you do all that early testing! It just always prolongs my unhappiness, because obviously the BFN makes you sad, but you also have hope that it's just too early so every day turns into this crushing blow and then hope for the next day. That's exhausting. I think by my 3rd cycle I just started testing 12 dpo or later.
AFM
R/R: So happy to be on this side of the cycle. Neither H nor I are usually up for sex every day so the past 4 days were pretty tiring. Time for a break.
Dating: 11/14/2010
Married: 10/18/2014
TTC April 2016
BFP: 5/12/2016 ~ MC: 5/25/2016
@antoto I try to be more on the optimistic side and just think ''it's still early''. Especially if our timing was good (except not this month!). I never start before 8 dpo and that's only if I have the sensitive cheapies. If not, I test around af.
R/R: I had dinner with my hs girlfriends last night and it was so wonderful. No matter where we are in life we can always come back together and pick up where we left off. I'm sad to be moving away from them but it makes me so grateful to know that I have three beautiful women in my life that I can turn to for anything. Oh man the TWW makes me an emotional wreck.
R/R: I worked out yesterday! Then felt proud of myself for flushing my FMU today. Temps are staying steady with the exception of one drop. Doubt it means anything but time will tell. Per my prior charts 12 dpo is when things start to go downhill with spotting, watery discharge and maybe a temp
drop.
Married May 2013
BFP #1: 10/14/16 - DD born 6/2017
TTC #2 November 2018 (Mirena removed October 2018 after 1 year)
BFP #2 9/11/19 - EDD 5/24/20 - DD born 5/2020
TTC #3 May 2022 (Mirena removed after almost 2 years)
BFP #3 11/24/23 - EDD 7/30/24
Month: 1/1
CD/DPO: 14/4
Timing: -3,-1,0,+1
Testing: Not yet
CS/Q: I am obsessively looking at my temps from my chart in 2014 when we got pregnant with DD, LOL.
GTKY: School supply shopping for sure!
@hartmich The night before both my sons' BFP, I was drrrrunk. I took a test both mornings with FMU prior to drinking and then again before the two parties (one was a going away for my cousin leaving for a tour in Afghanistan and the other was my SILs wedding) The next day I got my BFP. I have done a bunch of "fake drinking" (filling up beer bottles with water, drink grape juice instead of wine, putting a straw in fau-vodka sodas... etc) too, to hide my pregnancy a bit longer and I have to say - I think I'm the only one that noticed. By the time you "drink" a couple glasses, everyone else will be drinking too. Chances are no one will really be looking at you.
DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
* formally bornmommy
Married May 2013
BFP #1: 10/14/16 - DD born 6/2017
TTC #2 November 2018 (Mirena removed October 2018 after 1 year)
BFP #2 9/11/19 - EDD 5/24/20 - DD born 5/2020
TTC #3 May 2022 (Mirena removed after almost 2 years)
BFP #3 11/24/23 - EDD 7/30/24
@sevenn Fx this is your month!
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
R/R: both a rant and a rave I guess: I'm on the home stretch of TWW so I'm obsessed, symptoms actually seem pretty real and not imagined. Boobs are sore and heavy, I've been majorly bloated to the point of uncomfortable, and I've been super dizzy for a couple days straight, and then adding in all the other little symptoms plus the OPK lines-I have a good feeling. Like I said yesterday, my hopes are way up and so I'm all in this month. Scared of the potential disappointment but the excitement keeps me positive.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@hartmich Even though we are forced into some self control its still self control!!