I either need a reality check or a hug. It's 3am here and I can't sleep. I'm 21 weeks pregnant and spent the day at home with my 15 month old. I deep cleaned the bathroom and worked on cleaning other parts of the house in between playing and caring for ds, then I made a chicken pot pie from scratch for dinner. My husband comes home from work, he showers and plays a little with ds while the meal is cooking. But that's all. The rest of the night he is sitting on the couch watching tv and playing on his phone. Then later this evening after we are all fed and I've put ds to bed, he texts me from the couch that he was looking at pics of me from 2013 and telling me how hot I was. Okay. That was before kids. I was also at least 50 pounds thinner and had time to myself to shower and put makeup on and wear nice clothes. Thanks? So here I am at 3 in the morning in bed and he's still on the couch and I feel like I am fat and unloved and actually lonely. Basically super emotional and vulnerable. I work part time, take care of the finances, do all the cooking, planning, cleaning, and laundry and he works full time, sits on the couch, eats the food I cook, wears the clothes I wash and buy for him, basically he takes what he wants. I just feel like it's unfair. I don't know, maybe it's hormones. I miss my old body too. I miss my youth. I miss feeling like my husband loves me.