@BelcherEars I think we might have the same mother in law since she found out we're expecting our third, she won't shut up about how "it better be girl"... Oh yeah? Or what? Last time I said, "okay well if it's a boy and you'll be disappointed about his genitalia, you won't be allowed to hold him". I wanted to add, "and if it has a vagina you can't hold it then either because you've been such a weirdo about wanting a vagina"
im seroous though, I don't want her holding the baby if she's gonna obsess about a vagina. She already has two granddaughters from my husbands brother, and we have the two grandsons she's nuts
@ihateusernames* yeah obsessing over a future granchild is one thing. Obsessing like that over the grandchilds genitals is weird! And good grief, how awful to act like the child is a disappointment if its a boy. Shame on her. Good for you for standing up to her rudeness!
Me: 27 - DH: 33
Married: June 2011
TTC #1: January 2016
BFP #1: February 22nd
2016 MC w/ Misoprostol: March 21st 2016 -Blighted Ovum
Re: FFFC (7/29)
since she found out we're expecting our third, she won't shut up about how "it better be girl"... Oh yeah? Or what? Last time I said, "okay well if it's a boy and you'll be disappointed about his genitalia, you won't be allowed to hold him". I wanted to add, "and if it has a vagina you can't hold it then either because you've been such a weirdo about wanting a vagina"
im seroous though, I don't want her holding the baby if she's gonna obsess about a vagina. She already has two granddaughters from my husbands brother, and we have the two grandsons
Me: 27 - DH: 33
Married: June 2011
TTC #1: January 2016
BFP #1: February 22nd 2016 MC w/ Misoprostol: March 21st 2016 -Blighted Ovum
BFP #2: July 6th 2016 EDD: March 15th 2017
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