I apologize for long read and want to thank you for any feedback you can give me.
A little background on me: I'm a g4p0mc3. I lost my first 3 at around 8-9 weeks each time and I'm 22w5d now. The Dr considers me high risk due to the reoccurring losses and the fact I had spotting from 8 weeks-12 weeks. I adore my Dr and truly believe if it wasn't for her proactively testing me for any and everything that could cause me to lose him and treating me for those deficiencies I would have lost him. I have low progesterone and she prescribed me 200mg of prometrium every night with biweekly checks on my levels.
With all of that said, I had my anatomy scan at 19 weeks. When I went yesterday for my monthly checkup she said she saw some funneling of my cervix on the scan but because I am so close to viability she didn't want to do a stich. The ultrasound tech did not measure my cervix nor the amount of the funneling. However, the Dr said my cervix looked nice and long. She said she may do another ultrasound in a week or 2. Though she didn't tell me, I assumed that I would need to be on bed rest until the ultrasound. I sent her an email about it this morning to see if she wanted me on strict or modified BR and she replied she didn't want me on any. She stated I can continue as normal including sex. I just needed to let her know if I feel any extra pressure, have more spotting, or have contractions.
So, should I just trust her on this and not worry about it? Ignore her and do bed rest until the ultrasound? Insist on the ultrasound this week? Get a second opinion? I don't want to be a pain in the butt patient, but it is really concerning to me. I don't feel that possible CI is something to be nonchalant about. He is already my whole world and the idea of anything happening to him is freaking me out. What do you lovely ladies think I should do?
Re: Funneling of the cervix... possible TW
BFP 3.8.16 EDD 11.20.16
(I'm not a doctor, just thinking out loud
Edit: it only posted the first sentence.
If you're not seeing a specialist, you may want to consider asking for a referral for a second opinion. At the very least it seems like your idea to request an ultrasound with a cervical measurement is a good idea.