UO: I do not like to cuddle while I'm sleeping. If we're just getting into bed, I can do some snuggling then but once I fall asleep, I need my space. I can't be wrapped up in someone's arms all night or get sweaty with your body heat.
I really hate iTunes. Apple get on board, you make it easy to buy stuff off my phone so make it easy to cancel a mistake instead of needing to get on iTunes from my Mac computer at home. It's so frustrating!!!
We have two sleeping beauties in heaven. Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016. Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015. They will be forever missed.
@bdesterhouse I've had such good experiences with Apple support when I mistakenly made a purchase on my phone. I once accidentally spent $50 on an audiobook that I only intended to link to, and I was able to just plug in my phone number to the support website and an Apple rep called me back almost immediately. She was super understanding and reversed the charge with no questions asked.
UO: I do not like to cuddle while I'm sleeping. If we're just getting into bed, I can do some snuggling then but once I fall asleep, I need my space. I can't be wrapped up in someone's arms all night or get sweaty with your body heat.
Yesssssssss!!!!!! I don't understand how I got such a cuddly husband, I love it while watching tv or being on the couch talking but sleeping, that's a whole other ball game, and he just doesn't understand it. It hurts his feelings and I'm like its nothing personal but I cannot sleep with your heavy arm and leg on me and wake up with a crick in my neck from your arm under my neck! Love you though ... Lol
@bdesterhouse I've had such good experiences with Apple support when I mistakenly made a purchase on my phone. I once accidentally spent $50 on an audiobook that I only intended to link to, and I was able to just plug in my phone number to the support website and an Apple rep called me back almost immediately. She was super understanding and reversed the charge with no questions asked.
Yeah, I've done that too but I should be able to do it from the app or online without having to download the iTunes software. I don't have to call or email anyone to cancel or return stuff on Amazon and it's a breeze. It should be the same with iTunes.
We have two sleeping beauties in heaven. Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016. Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015. They will be forever missed.
@cantalopes24 haha I say this all the time! My husband does not agree with separate beds, but that's because he's the sweaty furnace. I like to be cold at night and it's impossible with his abnormally high body temperature. It's like sleeping with the Human Torch.
I love cuddling and spooning, but only for a little while. Once I'm mostly asleep, I'll turn over and touch his feet with mine, or scooch my butt up against his. This can be a bit dangerous if one or both of us is gassy. XD
I love cuddling and spooning, but only for a little while. Once I'm mostly asleep, I'll turn over and touch his feet with mine, or scooch my butt up against his. This can be a bit dangerous if one or both of us is gassy. XD
My husband insists on sleeping in the very middle of our king bed. My side is just a sliver. I'm not a cuddler and need my space. The whole thing makes me stabby.
My UO is I hate sunshine. I live in the rainy northwest, it's sunny and 70 degrees today, and all this stupid sunshine is putting me in a crappy mood. Go away, sun.
I've never liked cake either! People look at you like you have 3 eyes when you tell them too. I always had cheesecake at my birthday parties when I was a kid. Oh god, cheesecake sounds great right now..
I've never liked cake either! People look at you like you have 3 eyes when you tell them too. I always had cheesecake at my birthday parties when I was a kid. Oh god, cheesecake sounds great right now..
I have always had ice cream cake. And brought brownies (super fudgy ones) to elementary school to pass out to classmates.
I'm team no cuddle too - which drives DH nuts because if I'm tired I'll fall asleep cuddling on the couch but I can't fall asleep cuddling in bed. I used to be able to but not now... We're in a queen size bed right now, but it is too soft and hurts my back so I head to a futon on the floor part way through the night. I feel bad about it but I can't do much to relieve pain right now so avoiding it is where its at. When we move we're getting a king and I'm so excited...
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I enjoy a little cuddle from time to time, unless I'm too hot - but I LOVE when we wake up a tiny bit in the middle of the night and hold hands for a minute. I think it's just about the romantic thing that happens in our relationship.
Usually I grab his but right after, because Romance.
Team no cuddle here too! My DH loves to cuddle and all I want to do is sleep. I'll cuddle up until I'm ready to fall asleep, then I move as far away from my DH as possible lol
We have a double bed and for a short time we shared a single bed. Ideally I want my own bed. I don't want to cuddle. I don't want to be touched at all when I am sleeping. Many nights I sleep in a different bed, and I love it. To be honest I would love my own room, even just to relax in.
I don't love summer. I don't mind the sun if I don't have to be in it. The humidity and heat make it too hard to breathe and no one should sweat from just standing. I also burn easily. I love the autumn.
Another UO that might show my prudish side: MOTN sexy time is a no-go.
Before DS? Sure, if the mood strikes us.
After DS? If you want to live to see the daylight, do not attempt to wake me up for sexy time. I need all the sleep I can get.
OMG I was so mad at DH, a couple weeks ago he woke me up two nights in a row at like 1am for sexy time. He's never done that before and what made me more mad was he had turned me down earlier in the week claiming it was too weird with a baby in there. So it's too weird for you at like 8pm but sure go ahead and wake me up at 1am and see if I'm in a good mood... The first time I just groaned and told him to get away and fell back asleep. The second night I was like don't do this again, I will not be in the mood for this ever and fell back asleep.
He also has a habit of trying for sexy time after I get out of the shower. Like on a Saturday we'll lay in bed for 30 min or so and he'll have no desire and then I get up and get a shower and when I come out suddenly he's ready. Sorry dude I'm clean now and you lost your chance.
Me: 33 | DH: 34 Married: October, 19, 2015 EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17 EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20 EDD 11/24/23 (Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
We both love to cuddle and shared a full for four years. That seems to be the true UO here!
@concreteangell I'm with you on posed NB photo shoots. They just aren't for me. Maternity shoots aren't either, particularly if they involve making a heart on my belly or similar. I just like straight up candid action photos.
We both love to cuddle and shared a full for four years. That seems to be the true UO here!
@concreteangell I'm with you on posed NB photo shoots. They just aren't for me. Maternity shoots aren't either, particularly if they involve making a heart on my belly or similar. I just like straight up candid action photos.
Every time I see one of those, my eyes roll so far back in my head that I think I see my brain. It was cute the first, like, 5 times someone did it. Now it's a really, really bad cliche.
The NB photo shoots can have their moments. I sometimes find them a little disturbing. I don't like when a kid is obviously all propped up in a way that looks unnatural. I also get kind of weirded out when the baby is obviously fast asleep. I know that makes the photo shoot easier and everything, but why do I want a picture of a sleeping baby? (Edited to remove inadvertently offensive comment)
I've never liked cake either! People look at you like you have 3 eyes when you tell them too. I always had cheesecake at my birthday parties when I was a kid. Oh god, cheesecake sounds great right now..
I have always had ice cream cake. And brought brownies (super fudgy ones) to elementary school to pass out to classmates.
Me too! Ice cream cake and either brownies or cookies. Never been a big cake fan.
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I'll elaborate on the newborn photoshoot UO, expanding to maternity, engagement, wedding photos, announcing a pregnancy etc:
I feel like people try to hard to end up looking like generic magazine photos. No, it doesn't look artsy to scowl and look in the distance in a strange pose for a wedding photo. It ends up looking like you're annoyed you got married and said oh eff it, I'm all dressed up anyways let's capture the moment. Maternity photos always make me crack up too, with wistfully looking and cradling the baby bump. I understand the sentiment but they just seem so forced. Do people really frame these and have them on their walls for years and years? Especially with elaborate tutu outfits or props, just seems odd
My UO- I hate pickles. I don't understand them and they're not allowed in my house due to the disgusting smell. It's a huge fear of mine I'll somehow crave them during pregnancy and every bite will make me cry with confusion.
My UO- I hate pickles. I don't understand them and they're not allowed in my house due to the disgusting smell. It's a huge fear of mine I'll somehow crave them during pregnancy and every bite will make me cry with confusion.
This made me lol. I agree with a lot of these. No cuddling, PDA, sunshine (love a cloudy day), and chil fil a I can take or leave.
My UO: I fucking HATE tail gaiters. Is driving up my butt really going to get you to your destination faster? Is that how that works? Is it????
Re: UO 7/14/16
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
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Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
I also hate PDA.
Unless its my kid. I'm super cuddly with her and my H is always bummed when I'm like "get off meeeee"
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
My UO is cake is gross.
My UO is I hate sunshine. I live in the rainy northwest, it's sunny and 70 degrees today, and all this stupid sunshine is putting me in a crappy mood. Go away, sun.
Me: 33 & DH: 33
Married: 07/2006
TTC: 10/2015
BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017
Who hates sun? That's weird.
Usually I grab his but right after, because Romance.
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Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
I don't love summer. I don't mind the sun if I don't have to be in it. The humidity and heat make it too hard to breathe and no one should sweat from just standing. I also burn easily. I love the autumn.
Before DS? Sure, if the mood strikes us.
After DS? If you want to live to see the daylight, do not attempt to wake me up for sexy time. I need all the sleep I can get.
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
I'm very basic and boring.
First BFP: 12/16/13
EDD: 08/23/14
Baby BOY born: 08/29/14
He also has a habit of trying for sexy time after I get out of the shower. Like on a Saturday we'll lay in bed for 30 min or so and he'll have no desire and then I get up and get a shower and when I come out suddenly he's ready. Sorry dude I'm clean now and you lost your chance.
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
@concreteangell I'm with you on posed NB photo shoots. They just aren't for me. Maternity shoots aren't either, particularly if they involve making a heart on my belly or similar. I just like straight up candid action photos.
The NB photo shoots can have their moments. I sometimes find them a little disturbing. I don't like when a kid is obviously all propped up in a way that looks unnatural. I also get kind of weirded out when the baby is obviously fast asleep. I know that makes the photo shoot easier and everything, but why do I want a picture of a sleeping baby? (Edited to remove inadvertently offensive comment)
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Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **
Me: 31+ H: 32
TTC Since 11/2015
#1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
I feel like people try to hard to end up looking like generic magazine photos. No, it doesn't look artsy to scowl and look in the distance in a strange pose for a wedding photo. It ends up looking like you're annoyed you got married and said oh eff it, I'm all dressed up anyways let's capture the moment. Maternity photos always make me crack up too, with wistfully looking and cradling the baby bump. I understand the sentiment but they just seem so forced. Do people really frame these and have them on their walls for years and years? Especially with elaborate tutu outfits or props, just seems odd
My UO- I hate pickles. I don't understand them and they're not allowed in my house due to the disgusting smell. It's a huge fear of mine I'll somehow crave them during pregnancy and every bite will make me cry with confusion.
My UO: I fucking HATE tail gaiters. Is driving up my butt really going to get you to your destination faster? Is that how that works? Is it????