January 2017 Moms

Nesting?!

I'm 14 weeks pregnant. I can't stop organizing, cleaning, and mostly stressing about things in the house and wanting to purge everything. 

With my first pregnancy, I didn't have any semblance of nesting until 35 weeks. 

Is anyone else with me? This is madness. 

Re: Nesting?!

  • Yes I'm there with you mama. I have started to organize everything and the more you organize the more you realize how much more organizing you have to do!! 

    I think organization such as clearing my inbox and organizing my files gives me a sense of control. It also strangely makes me feel more ready!!

    If you have any tips or organization hacks let's hear them :)
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  • sweetyjenjsweetyjenj member
    edited July 2016
    I'm not sure what is worse..having nesting feelings and starting to organize and clean, or having nesting feelings but not being able to do anything about it. We're currently living with my sister while we look for a home. I want to start cleaning, organizing, and setting up the nursery. The first house we put an offer on we got outbid, and I had already started visioning the nursery and play room and the baby growing up there. I felt like the other buyer stole my child's home, but quickly got over it when I found another similar home. We put an offer in last night and we're waiting to hear back. I just want to hurry up and move in!! The new house would need ALL new carpet and paint. A friend said, "you'd really only need new carpet on the main level, the rest could get away with just a good shampoo." Nope. I know it's not all that bad, but to me, I can't imagine the baby touching the old carpet!!! I just want to start nesting and preparing the house!! 7 months will go by very quickly...I want to start nesting!

    ETA: mobile ate my words.
    Me: 30 |  DH: 33
    Married: 8/11/2007

    DD: Born 2/3/17
    BFP#2: 5/3, EDD 1/10/19
  • @sweetyjenj all that I want is to bleach my bathrooms. Sanitize the hell out of them. And can't. 
  • @ThePax89 I hear ya!! I have a lot of baby items in my trunk waiting to be sanitized and set up, but I can't put them anywhere yet :( Once we get the new house, I'll want to bleach EVERYTHING, but I can't do that either :/ thankfully my mom, husband, and in-laws all said they'll help with the things I can't do.
    Me: 30 |  DH: 33
    Married: 8/11/2007

    DD: Born 2/3/17
    BFP#2: 5/3, EDD 1/10/19
  • KimC85KimC85 member
    edited July 2016
    My whole weekend has been organizing and purging. But partially because my brothers family is moving in for 3 months and I need to make room for them. 
  • I can't really do much until I find out if we are having a boy or girl. Then, I have tons of totes to start going through. I'm itching to get started. 
  • LecoolLecool member
    I haven't had any nesting urges yet, but my H sure has. He has a huge list of projects he wants to complete, and has spent every waking moment that he isn't at work trying to chip away at his list.

    Me: 28 | DH: 31
    Together since 2006 | Married May 2015
    TTC #1 since November 2015
    BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17

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  • Yes! Before I can do anything for the new baby, I have to get DD moved out of the nursery and into the guest room. But I can't do that until the guest room gets turned into her new bedroom. But I can't do that unless I purge EVERYTHING from that room first. Commence Operation Everything Must Go!

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  • Vivi20Vivi20 member
    I always have what I guess is considered "nesting". I'm the sort of person that cannot relax if things aren't organized, cleaned, and bleached. That's just part of my daily routine. But I have been super antsy about getting the bedroom organized and decorated for the children, but we can't do that till we find out if this little one is a boy or girl. 
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  • aishmcaishmc member
    I'm getting urges to organize, but then I get overwhelmed when I think of everything I need to do. So I do nothing.

    Any tips on what I should prioritize?
  • emy730emy730 member
    I haven't any organizing/cleaning urges yet, but I have been finding all of the baby stuff we'll need and washing it.

    I also really want to start hoarding diapers, but DH says it's too early.
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  • BrialaBriala member
    I nested sooo bad with DS I am hoping to curtail that instinct this time around I drove my poor husband crazy but there are SOME things that really do need to be done around the house before Baby #2 but hopefully I won't go crazy this time. It will be winter for the last half and that is when I nested hard, so I think that will curtail a lot of it. It will be dark, cold, and snowy so I won't have the constant sunlight I did last time. 
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    BFP #2 2/8/2014 (kinda) EDD 10/29/2014
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    TTCAL 11/2015 BFP #3 5/12/16 | EDD Jan 2017
  • Usually hits me mid 2nd trip and again towards the end...nothing so far, so queasy I just want to lay in bed all day and THINK about all the things that should be done...but not doing them...lol
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  • Today I decided to rid our towels of a mildew smell only I can detect. I'm hoping Pinterest knows what it's talking about. 
  • emy730 said:
    I haven't any organizing/cleaning urges yet, but I have been finding all of the baby stuff we'll need and washing it.

    I also really want to start hoarding diapers, but DH says it's too early.
    I'm in the same boat about the diapers, lol.
     I'm also starting to rearrange our room and get baby stuff set up. I'm only 11wks.
  • KRB22KRB22 member
    Usually hits me mid 2nd trip and again towards the end...nothing so far, so queasy I just want to lay in bed all day and THINK about all the things that should be done...but not doing them...lol
    FTM but this is me too right now. 
    I think of all the things I need to get done around the house, and particularly in the nursery. Then I think about doing them and I start to feel queasy and need to lie down. 
  • DH spent all day yesterday cleaning out our nursery, the closet has had boxes of stuff in it for the past 6 years since it was our guest room.  I took DD to my parents house so he would be able to do it all without interruption and I wouldn`t have to help :wink:
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  • I am basically a nag at this point. DH never wants to clean, ever, and so I end up reminding him over multiple days until he finally does whatever chore I'm asking him to do for me. It sucks that I can't just do it myself anymore since bleach and chemical cleaners were my best friends before.
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  • emy730 said:
    I haven't any organizing/cleaning urges yet, but I have been finding all of the baby stuff we'll need and washing it.

    I also really want to start hoarding diapers, but DH says it's too early.
    I'm in the same boat about the diapers, lol.
     I'm also starting to rearrange our room and get baby stuff set up. I'm only 11wks.
    Amazon prime sent me a code for 30% off diapers, on top of 20% off diaper subscription, plus each diaper box had a $3 off coupon...so I bought at least 1 box of each size except nb. I didn't consider this nesting at the time, but it totally was. 
    Me: 30 |  DH: 33
    Married: 8/11/2007

    DD: Born 2/3/17
    BFP#2: 5/3, EDD 1/10/19
  • Vivi20Vivi20 member
    @canavara Totally off topic, and I'm sorry if I'm being a complete blonde, but what does "OH" stand for? Your husband, right? I've been meaning to ask you.
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  • @jlea05 "Other Half" :) We prioritized having the baby before the wedding so even though we intend to get married ASAP I feel weird calling him DH already lol.
  • Vivi20Vivi20 member
    @canavara ahhhh okay, gotcha! 
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