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October 2016 Moms
kmtz89
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Monday Bitchfest -4th of July edition
kmtz89
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Re: Monday Bitchfest -4th of July edition
DH: 34
Married: May 2011
TTC #1: May 2015
DS: 10/20/2016
TTC #2: June 2019
#2 EDD: 2/20/2020
a good time to have a stomach revolt.
512am currently and my husband is snoring and im clearly not.
And, I especially hate the people who set them off after midnight. I have a two year old, people. If you wake him, then you can come to my house and try to get his whiny butt back to sleep.
Baby GIRL born 9/16/201
BFP! EDD 8/1/2019 CP 4w2d
Me: 28 DH: 27
I was up almost every hour to pee, but now that I'm awake for the day, I'm bored (home alone). I'm considering going for a nap just to pass some time before I have to go pick him up.
On a personal note, my little babe hasn't moved much in the past day or so. Granted yesterday I was on my feet all day long-- literally and when I hit the bed (when he's most active) I just passed out.. I need to feel him today! It's giving me all sorts of anxiety.
This weekend I got into my first ever fight with my husbands sister. She is the princess of the family and her mom still babies her and she is 25.
A little back ground on her. They paid for all her expenses for a 2 year diploma, that she hasn't gotten a job with in 2 years. She lives on and off with this looser boyfriend who is not good news to say the least.
Anywyas this weekend she pulled another one of her stupid I don't give a shit about the world stunts and I lost my shit.
She brought her stupid huge dogs into my back yard (why they can't stay home is beyond me) that had rolled in fish guts at the lake, so they stunk. This annoyed me off the start. So we start eating lunch and one takes a shit (bound to happen). Most people would jump up and ask for a bag to clean it up. Nope her mom and my husband has to nag fuck her to get her off her ass to clean up after HER dog. So finally she goes gets it, and is going to bring it into the house and put it in my kitchen garbage. WTF?!?! my husband tells her I don't want that in the house. So what does she do?!
.......
swings it over into my neighbours yard behind us. We're all sitting there in disbelief. Her mom says you go get that (cause ya she listens so well-rolls eyes) So that's when I flipped, I marched out there scaled my fence like spider man, got the bag of shit out and told her she is to get her and her fucking dogs out of my yard, and I don't want them back. I chased her out threw the shit in the back of her truck. And then when she went to come back in my house I was greeted by my mother In law saying she had it under control. Ya right lady, she doesn't clean up your yard at all and this yard my kids play in and I keep impeccable so it's clean and safe for them. I continued to rant and loose it some more now on both of them. Told them they are leaving cause it's my house and my rules and if she can't be a respectful house guest in my home and give me basic manners she is not to come back. I was not going to suffer a life time neighbour war with something I didn't do. (we also only have lived her since September, so these are new neighbours to us)
This whole time my husband is on the phone in our bedroom, oblivious to what is going on. Well needless to say I haven't talked to either and refuse to say sorry cause I feel she had it coming and her mommy needs to stop trying to save her 25 year old baby. They were both adult guests in my home and regardless of it being her daughter, her daughter was way out of line and deserved an ass chewing 100%. Her I don't give a shit attitude finally rubbed this hormonal pregnant lady the wrong way on a off day.
They leave. My husband comes downstairs wondering WTF is happening. They leave. My husband went over to his moms an hour later to find out WTF and he needed to get our spare baby monitor. His sister admitted she wasn't going to go get that bag of dog poop. Like what is wrong with this person?! Anyways he chews her ass out and left. She says she is never coming to see us again. Well perfect one less Christmas present I have to get for an ungrateful twat. My FIL wasn't home at the time and I know he is going to die laughing cause he always wants to give her shit and my mother in law won't ever let him. I never ever loose my temper. After I had time to calm down I thought to myself, that was weird I didn't even think I had it in me to ream someone out so extensively.
So remember my being screwed out of summer school? Well I applied for a job for the summer and I know I'm the only qualified person that applied for it (it's a captioning job and the note takers in my department didn't apply). I was all excited knowing I was the only one that applied, but I found out today that my big boss is messaging the note takers asking if they're interested in the job, even though they didn't apply. So let me get this straight - I got screwed out of a job because I didn't apply and another person did, and now I'm getting screwed out of a job because I did apply and someone might say they're interested even though they didn't apply?? Ya I need to find a new job!
@LauraPCOS Seriously, wtf? That is beyond messed up.
Despite all the things me and my husband have been fighting on lately this was the one thing we agreed on. It's been a long time coming. We couldn't even think of another person that would be so rude in someone else's home. He said when he was coming down the stairs and could hear some of the things I was saying the first thing that popped into his head was she is taking the words right out of my mouth.
As expected, I'm tired because I was up at the wee hours of the morning and it's hot as blazes at my in laws' house. I'm bored literally almost to tears. This sucks.
DH: 34
Married: May 2011
TTC #1: May 2015
DS: 10/20/2016
TTC #2: June 2019
#2 EDD: 2/20/2020
@LauraPCOS Find out WTF is going on, be direct and be stern. I was upset with your last post about that job, but this one takes the cake. If this is the SAME boss making these calls, there is some fuckery going on and HR or whoever you CAN go to above your boss needs to be contacted ASAP as well. Sent whoever you can the same e-mail, make the same phone call, go into the office, do what you have to do but you bring that to their attention.
TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year.
BFP 02-15-16 with our first
IT'S A BOY!!!
Seems like insomnia is a thing here... last night I slept 3 hours, and as I live in Mexico well, no holiday for me, so I had to get to my office and work on the end of month with a terrible migraine, and with the EHS coordinator being a douchebag all because I he didn't want me to have an special parking lot and I reached his boss.
I really didn't want to walk out of the office about 1.5 miles in a 101 F sunny day.... So I file a compliance against him for not doing a thing about it in a month, considering that I was out of the office for 2 days because of contractions.
He really hates me now, but I don't really care, at all.... I got my parking space, I get to avoid the shop floor. I may have overreacted but my baby's health is above all things.
The first problem arouse when they were insisting on having it at my MILs house. Well she lives in a tiny house with 3 cats and 5 people and no one has cleaned it in the 3 years they've lived there. She kept saying it would be in the yard. When my mom asked what we would do if it rained, my MIL said "Oh we'll go in the basement." I told my mom to put her foot down and make it at her house because there's no way my grandma would be able to come in my MILs house and my grandma is NOT missing my baby shower.
So after that was settled I begged my mom to pick a date. My dad already kind of messed up the date by planning a trip to CA when it was supposed to be, so now the earliest we can I have it, I'll be 33 weeks. So I said please, set it for that date so it doesn't end up being later than that. Well she had to check with my MIL so she asked my husband to talk to his mom. After a 5 minute conversation with her, he comes back pissed and says, "You better call your mom. She said August 21st is fine, but it will only be from 12-2 and it will NOT be 50 people because we're on a budget."
So I called my mom. She's so annoyed. She goes, "Why would there be an end time? It's a BBQ. People are going to come and go. It's not even worth it for it to be 2 hours long. And *I'm* going to be paying for most of it. I already approved 50 people because I have people I need to invite."
So now my poor mom, who I didn't want dealing with any shower chaos, is having to deal with my obnoxious MIL and will end up having to plan most of it because my MIL wants to do this on the cheap.
I'm a big enough person to say it's sweet that my MIL wanted to do this for me, but she's a horrible woman, I can't stand her, and she's putting my mother through a lot for this stupid thing. I want to call it off. I'm not even going to want to have a BBQ when I'm 33 weeks.