Hi all, I just came from my first prenatal checkup and the Dr explained genetic pre-screening and told me to think about it. I'm currently 7 weeks and go for my first ultrasound this Friday. I should mention I am located in Canada so the testing procedure may be a bit different.
I'd like to hear people thoughts on this. Are you doing it or passing??
Married: July 2013
Me: 33 DH: 34
TTC since Oct 2014
ME: PCOS not ovulating + low progesterone
HSG = clear; FSH + AMH = good
DH: SA = normal
Apr 2015 - Dec 2015 - Letrozole + Clomid with OBGYN
Jan 2016 - Referral to RE
Mar 19/2016 - IUI #1 Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + Progesterone = BFN
Apr 2016 - Cyst found, on BCP for month
May 18/2016 - IUI #2 Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + Progesterone
June 2/16 - BFP!!!!

Re: Genetic pre-screening....thoughts?
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
Expecting Baby Bean February 2017
I didn't with my first because I was worried any abnormalities would interfere with my connection to the baby I was growing. I wanted more time to bond.
this time around I am open so I have more time to research and prepare, given I have significantly less free time in my hands with a toddler to chase.
I did it with DS and will do it with this pregnancy. It's more about being prepared for anything and arming myself with as much knowledge as I can.
Being 100% transparent, I can sit here and say that it doesn't matter what the results show and that I'd love my baby no matter what. Well, saying that bothers me. Because 1) it would imply that if I did choose to terminate the pregnancy, that I didn't love my child and 2) I can't say how I would react to such emotional and mental news like that without having gone through it.
The people that have gone through it? The hopeful mothers and fathers who are sitting in a doctor's office receiving some of the most devastating news of their lives? I would never dream of putting myself in their shoes and to have to discuss how they will choose to proceed. And not just in that moment, but for the rest of their lives and the potential judgment they may receive.
It's a personal decision.
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
edit: I will be getting the IPS screening done. I had it done with DD and will have it done again. For me I would like to be prepared. I know if there are any soft markers during the IPS screening or anatomy scan OHIP in Ontario will cover the cost of the Harmony test.
Diagnosed with PCOS March '10 - Started 1000mg of Metformin

After 3 unsuccessful Clomid cycles, FSH+Ovidril+IUI+Progesterone=BFP!
Time to make Emilie a big sister!
May '16 2.0: Letrozole+FSH+Menopur+Ovidril+IUI+Progesterone=BFP! first beta-45.44, second beta-148
I always have all prenatal testing available. For me it is a matter of wanting to be as prepared as possible. Depending on the issue you may need specialists in the delivery room or even to deliver at a different hospital. I have known more than a few women who have had serious issues while under 27 and having no family history of anything. They were all low risk. It might be having a personal connection to quite a few women who have faced issues that I think it is important to have prenatal testing.
A couple of women off the top of my mind were between the ages of 22 and 26 and both found serious issues due to prenatal testing. One baby would be dead if they hadn't bad the tests because they needed to be at a different hospital and the baby needed treatment right away. One baby was not going to make it to birth and the parents were able to go through labour and spend time with their little girl before she passed.
I do find it a bit annoying when people say I don't have testing because I will love my baby no matter what and I would never terminate. While pregnant with my daughter and after having an amino my cousin said that to me almost exactly. (After hearing of what I just went through she said she could never risk an amino because she loves her baby too much, she never has any sort of testing because it wouldn't change their love. I said I have testing because I lI've my baby too much not to. (The harmony testing was offered 3 weeks after I had the amnio-wish I would have known) edit
I had more to add but I will do it later, my daughter calls..
Me: 33 & DH: 33
Married: 07/2006
TTC: 10/2015
BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017
Edit
This topic came up on a few BMBs in the past and it had an underlying tone.
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
That's in part because my husband did his grad work focused on biomedical entrepreneurship, so he's fascinated by the changes in testing and wants to see how it works out commercially
Me: 35 DH: 38 | Married: 6/2013 | Pregnancy #1, APurp born 10/2014
Pregnancy #2, BFP 6/4/2016, MMC at 9W, D&E: 7/21/16 | Pregnancy #3, BFP 11/22/16
I also had it done with my son because they saw something in the ultrasound that made them think he may have had a genetic disorder, but insurance didn't cover it at all for us then so we paid out of pocket.
Me: 33 DH: 34
TTC since Oct 2014
ME: PCOS not ovulating + low progesterone
HSG = clear; FSH + AMH = good
DH: SA = normal
Apr 2015 - Dec 2015 - Letrozole + Clomid with OBGYN
Jan 2016 - Referral to RE
Mar 19/2016 - IUI #1 Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + Progesterone = BFN
Apr 2016 - Cyst found, on BCP for month
May 18/2016 - IUI #2 Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + Progesterone
June 2/16 - BFP!!!!
I have no plans to terminate but if there is something I can make plans for I can't imagine a reason why I wouldn't.
Married to my Soul Mate since 09/06/09
TTC #1: 3/2016
Me 39 - DH 44
BFP 5/27/16 EDD 1/30/17
DD born 2/3/17
TTC #1: 3/2016
Me 39 - DH 44
BFP 5/27/16 EDD 1/30/17
DD born 2/3/17
TTC #1: 3/2016
Me 39 - DH 44
BFP 5/27/16 EDD 1/30/17
DD born 2/3/17
A friend of mine said even if you get a positive test its still a very small percent chance that there will be an abnormalities.. is this true?
Married to my Soul Mate since 09/06/09
the costs of the test aren't worth it where we live when we'd love this baby no matter what the test says.
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
I have the prenatal testing because I love my baby no matter what.
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.