Due today. I am insanely jealous of all these babies. I have been doing everything I can go get this kid out, and nothing seems to work. I haven't progressed any since last week, and it is so disheartening.
Due today, too. I gave up trying anything to get this baby out. It's like buying a lottery ticket for me. I rationally know the chances of winning are slim to none, but I get irrationally upset when I don't win. I mean, why would I buy the ticket if I don't think I'll win, right? Trying to kick start labor feels the same way. I wouldn't be trying it if I didn't think it would work. So when it doesn't I'm insanely pissed.
Also due today! Got a sweep and some perspective at the midwife's office today. Not sure which is making me feel more zen, but feeling much more zen about going overdue today than I have felt for the past few weeks. Setting OWTs aside for a while. Time to try to relax. So what's everyone wearing these days? I swear NOTHING fits at this point!
@pootsdragon I plan to be in pajamas until this creature emerges. I am on maternity leave now and I see no reason to wear anything other than maternity sweats and tank tops.
I am wish I were zen about this. @LadyFleck totally agree on the being upset at nothing working. They say to avoid pumping and nipple stimulation while pregnant, because that produces contractions. So me bouncing on my ball, cervix covered in semen, eating pineapple and pumping should be the magic ticket right?!? Not a fucking thing. And now people have upped their texting game to all day every day. "Any news yet?" "Baby here yet?" "She just wants to be a patriotic baby" "you SHOULD WAIT until July 4th!" So much rage towards everyone.
Hi ladies! Im from the June club but am going to be a July mama. Thought I would say hello! Currently 41 weeks today. 1 sweep Tons of raspberry leaf tea evening primrose oil orally (going to try internally tonight) lots of sex bouncing on the ball walking
talking about more sweeps and then cervadil. I have been planning a home birth and the last thing I want is to be in a hospital restricted with the monitoring equipment unless absolutely necessary!
im also talking to baby little chats about how nice it is out here .... Because ...why not!
I am wish I were zen about this. @LadyFleck totally agree on the being upset at nothing working. They say to avoid pumping and nipple stimulation while pregnant, because that produces contractions. So me bouncing on my ball, cervix covered in semen, eating pineapple and pumping should be the magic ticket right?!? Not a fucking thing. And now people have upped their texting game to all day every day. "Any news yet?" "Baby here yet?" "She just wants to be a patriotic baby" "you SHOULD WAIT until July 4th!" So much rage towards everyone.
Oh I hear you. If I could punch each person who has sent inconsiderate baby messages. Because we all know I'm sooooo good at kiegels that I am holding this baby in.
TTC#1 since Jan 2015 BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36) BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
BFP 11/18/15 • DD born at 41 weeks (age 37/38)
TTC#2 since May 2017 BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39) BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40) 9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied) RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy. BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
BFP 5/11/19 • Fraternal twins • MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w) • Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)
I'm a couple days from my due date and I put it out there to my family that if they start the where's the baby chatter I will not be communicating with them again till after he's born because it's annoying and I don't have a crystal ball in my vagina. That has helped immensely
@gauge1234 41 weeks? Ouch! I am sorry. I'm glad you will be able to have cervadil at home! Hope your little one makes an appearance asap!!!
I'm trying to remember that we are having a baby super soon no matter what. I won't be pregnant forever but yes. There is a wait.
Everyone who was excited and texting around my due date has stopped lol. And my MIL rescheduled her flight so she is not sitting around waiting for me to have the baby.
I was due June 30th. The whole "she could come at any time or not" thing has got me seriously anxious! It's the waiting that's a killer.
I mean we've waited 10 months, but for some reason I can't wait another couple days? I think part of its also that it's my first time, so anytime I feel anything different I think "is that it, is it time??!!". It's exhausting!
Good luck to us all in trying to stay calm for the little ones arrival!!
I'm due today (the 3rd) but I see zero hope of him coming out... My initial due date was the 10th, but they changed it (early on), and now I'm thinking they shouldn't have. (Ya, I got a chunky kid, maybe I just make big babies!) I told DH I just wanted to sleep til my water broke and we could go to hospital. Apparently that wasn't an acceptable answer *shrug* Hang in there ladies, you guys are doing awesome and hopefully we'll see these babies in no time!
Being overdue is so mentally and emotionally exhausting. What is everyone doing to keep busy? If I hear one more person tell me to read a book or try to get some rest, i will literally kill them.
@LadyFleck I've been up since 4am thinking about exactly this! Physically, emotionally, mentally exhausted, but knowing I need to save my physical body for labor, keep my mental state positive for labor and PP, and have the emotional capacity to keep my heart open for my son and to be a good partner to my husband and not leave his needs in the dust... I've decided resting is the best idea, though it's boring as all hell. I got a haircut and plan to do my nails tomorrow. I've also started playing a bunch of garbage app games and some World of Warcraft to pass the time. Web surfing is too stressful with current interests and I don't have the energy for projects or going out. Let me know if you come up with anything brilliant to do
Ive decided "screw resting". I'm too antsy to sit at home and obsess over every little twinge. My two six year olds need entertainment and my husband needs a kick in the ass. The beach it is!
Ive decided "screw resting". I'm too antsy to sit at home and obsess over every little twinge. My two six year olds need entertainment and my husband needs a kick in the ass. The beach it is!
Oh wow that sounds like the perfect combo of relax and get out! I'd kill for a beach trip!
I'm not currently overdue, but was with DD so I completely remember and sympathize with all of you ladies. I promise you, you will not be pregnant forever and am anxiously awaiting your birth stories/pictures should you choose to share them (and respectfully understand if you do not).
I made the mistake of taking my due date off from work while pregnant with DD. I tried all the old wives tales, ran (as well as one 40+ weeks can waddle/run), did all sorts of deep cleaning, and nothing. Then since DD hadn't come yet, I had to go back to work. I was a mess that week at work. Thankfully I had awesome co-workers who brought me snacks and were as encouraging as they could be.
It may seem like crazy advice because at this point all you want is the baby out, but please, take the time to do something special for yourself. Mani/pedi, massage, a giant pint of ice cream and a sappy movie... Whatever your guilty pleasure is, please do something just for you!
I still have until the end of the month but am following this thread just because I was 11 days past due with DD when I was induced. Not too hopeful this baby will born in July and there's a good chance I'll have the last baby in our group. I didn't mind being overdue rooming, but I kept busy. Date night on our due date, going to a movie, seeing friends (that won't bug you), etc. I did not sit at home at all.
I still have two weeks until my due date but I was 7days overdue with my last and 1week early with my first. Was curious if you ladies who are overdue had a due date based off a sizing Ultrasound or is it a date based off your last missed period?
I still have two weeks until my due date but I was 7days overdue with my last and 1week early with my first. Was curious if you ladies who are overdue had a due date based off a sizing Ultrasound or is it a date based off your last missed period?
Mine was based off of my missed period, but my ultrasounds were always within a day of that anyways.
@lolomommy1 I was temping and charting and know which day I ovulated. My ultrasound measurements confirmed gestational age and for the past 6 weeks so does fundal height. He was definitely 40 weeks either the 31st of June or 1st of July no doubt about it!
@lolomommy1 I was temping and charting and know which day I ovulated. My ultrasound measurements confirmed gestational age and for the past 6 weeks so does fundal height. He was definitely 40 weeks either the 31st of June or 1st of July no doubt about it!
40+4 and finally in labor! Water broke this afternoon, we were admitted at 9 pm, cytoec started at 11pm and contractions started around midnight. Hope this kid makes a fast appearance!
I'm not due until the LAST day of this month, so I've been quiet in this thread but following. Hopefully your babies aren't TOO overdue. Hang in there mamas! And good luck @blissylissy86!
OK, I'm calling it. 10:45pm here on the west coast and I don't think this baby is coming in the next hour. Overdue it is! Good luck to @blissylissy86, hang in there ladies!
Officially overdue had contractions for a few hours not bad ones but then they stopped. I'm pissed and frustrated and angry and know that without much doubt my parents and brother won't be able to meet her since they have to leave tomorrow to bring him out to Virginia for college
Overdue and at work on my birthday. It's 10AM and I've been asked, to my face, if I'm "still here" 3 times now. Yep. I'm here, and enormous, can't miss me! And nope I can't take the day off because I need all of my PTO to get my 12 weeks leave. And nope I have no induction planned. 42 weeks is the 14th for me (midwives try a foley bulb and castor oil induction) and 42+3 (forced medical induction) is 17th so I'm going to be here a while... And no I don't care if my baby is huge as long as we're both healthy, and no I'm not scared but thanks for asking. Also I don't necessarily believe he's huge just because I'm over- I still haven't gotten to 25lbs so he might just be little and need the extra time! But if everyone could keep asking me over and over again and questioning my judgement and instincts that'd be f**king fantastic!!! GREAT!
Re: Overdue club
Due today, too. I gave up trying anything to get this baby out. It's like buying a lottery ticket for me. I rationally know the chances of winning are slim to none, but I get irrationally upset when I don't win. I mean, why would I buy the ticket if I don't think I'll win, right? Trying to kick start labor feels the same way. I wouldn't be trying it if I didn't think it would work. So when it doesn't I'm insanely pissed.
Im from the June club but am going to be a July mama. Thought I would say hello!
Currently 41 weeks today.
1 sweep
Tons of raspberry leaf tea
evening primrose oil orally (going to try internally tonight)
lots of sex
bouncing on the ball
walking
talking about more sweeps and then cervadil. I have been planning a home birth and the last thing I want is to be in a hospital restricted with the monitoring equipment unless absolutely necessary!
im also talking to baby little chats about how nice it is out here .... Because ...why not!
any STM with cervadil experience?
BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
TTC#2 since May 2017
BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
I'm trying to remember that we are having a baby super soon no matter what. I won't be pregnant forever but yes. There is a wait.
Everyone who was excited and texting around my due date has stopped lol. And my MIL rescheduled her flight so she is not sitting around waiting for me to have the baby.
Commmmonnnnnnnnn cervix!!
I mean we've waited 10 months, but for some reason I can't wait another couple days? I think part of its also that it's my first time, so anytime I feel anything different I think "is that it, is it time??!!". It's exhausting!
Good luck to us all in trying to stay calm for the little ones arrival!!
Hang in there ladies, you guys are doing awesome and hopefully we'll see these babies in no time!
I made the mistake of taking my due date off from work while pregnant with DD. I tried all the old wives tales, ran (as well as one 40+ weeks can waddle/run), did all sorts of deep cleaning, and nothing. Then since DD hadn't come yet, I had to go back to work. I was a mess that week at work. Thankfully I had awesome co-workers who brought me snacks and were as encouraging as they could be.
It may seem like crazy advice because at this point all you want is the baby out, but please, take the time to do something special for yourself. Mani/pedi, massage, a giant pint of ice cream and a sappy movie... Whatever your guilty pleasure is, please do something just for you!