Mine is that my dinner last night consisted entirely of a bowl of shredded cheddar cheese. Then I went all Bruce on my leftover birthday cake from Tuesday.
DH and I are going to Red Robbin for dinner tonight and I always go in telling myself I'm getting salad as my side but I almost always end up ordering the fries anyways. By almost always I mean I've ordered the salad exactly once in like the last 5 years... and it was because we got the onion ring appetizer...
Me: 33 | DH: 34 Married: October, 19, 2015 EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17 EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20 EDD 11/24/23 (Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
@mrsdaddario it was late and I was too lazy to actually cook anything, and that bag was just laying there pathetically in my fridge saying "eat me!" I couldn't resist.
DH and I are going to Red Robbin for dinner tonight and I always go in telling myself I'm getting salad as my side but I almost always end up ordering the fries anyways. By almost always I mean I've ordered the salad exactly once in like the last 5 years... and it was because we got the onion ring appetizer...
Ugh now I want Red Robin! Have you ever had their mac and cheese as a side? Deeeelish!
My confession is that I have gotten into such a bad habit of being super unproductive at work this last month. Things have slowed down considerably at the moment to the point where the only things on my todo list are long term projects that no one is really waiting on. Sooo yeah, I've regularly decided to play around online instead of do them At least I feel guilty about it!
Also i ate 8 publix chocolate chip cookies the other night. 8. That is 4x the serving size. I don't actually feel guilty about that one though.
Me: 30 DH: 31 Married 2010 TTC since Nov. 2015 BFP#1: 2/8/16 MC: 3/19/16 BFP#2: 9/3/16 EDD: 5/17/17
Me: 32 | DH: 33 Met: October 2011 Married: February 2015 TTC #1 Since March 2016 Diagnosed with Hypothyroidism June 2015 Diagnosed with Hashimoto's September 2015 Started Levothyroxine for high TSH June 2015
Haha @Scarlett830 that is awesome! @mleandre and @jatwal128 I am with both of you on the slow work time! Plus, my boss is out today And maybe my FFFC should be that I've never been to Red Robin?
No, instead my FFFC is that I have zero f*cks to give today about eating healthy, exercising, meeting my step goal, or accomplishing anything at work. I just want to go home and drink (a whole bottle of) wine and eat cake. Haha, probably should have stayed in bed today with this attitude!
I have chocolate covered raisins at work, and I like to eat them when they're slightly warm. So I put a few in the crook of my elbow and use my body heat to warm the chocolate. There's a thin waxy coating that keeps it from melting everywhere. After a minute or so they're perfect. My coworker the other day came to ask me a question after I had placed the raisins, and looked down after a minute and says "You have chocolate in your elbow." I blushed and said "Don't judge me, I'm weird."
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
A couple weeks ago I saw a little black bug hanging out on my window sill, it looked harmless so I named it Fred and let it hang out. It stayed there for a few days and each morning I would greet him " Good Morning, Fred. Have a good day". DH thought I was going insane and just laughed at me. The bug eventually disappeared, but then yesterday DH saw one by the patio doors and said I think Fred ventured over here now. I just about died laughing. I guess my FFFC is if I find a bug, I like to name it. Unless it is a spider than that thing needs to leave ASAP!
@Scarlett830 Never, ever apologize for cheese. There's just no need to!
@eggplantface I. Am. DEAD! That is hilarious!!! You are my spirit bumpie.
My confession is that an absent-minded coworker left some lovely prosciutto-wrapped mozzarella sticks in the work fridge and I totally knew she forgot all about them so I ate two of them for breakfast (which left her three). No regrets even though I know this is THE WORST. See? Never apologize for cheese.
Formerly ahrains Me:
42 | DH: 45 TTC since Dec. 2014 BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015 Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! |
Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17 The road probably ends here
FFFC: I fear I will never travel over seas because of how terrified I am of flying. I have a friend who lives over in Europe now and it would be the perfect time to go, no children yet, disposable income, somewhere to stay, and yet when I think about purchasing that plane ticket I literally feel ill. I hate it, it's freaking depressing. Especially because I love travelling so much! Le sigh.
@Scarlett830 Never, ever apologize for cheese. There's just no need to!
@eggplantface I. Am. DEAD! That is hilarious!!! You are my spirit bumpie.
My confession is that an absent-minded coworker left some lovely prosciutto-wrapped mozzarella sticks in the work fridge and I totally knew she forgot all about them so I ate two of them for breakfast (which left her three). No regrets even though I know this is THE WORST. See? Never apologize for cheese.
My rule is 24 hours with no tupperware or name on it and it's fair game. NO MERCY.
DH and I are going to Red Robbin for dinner tonight and I always go in telling myself I'm getting salad as my side but I almost always end up ordering the fries anyways. By almost always I mean I've ordered the salad exactly once in like the last 5 years... and it was because we got the onion ring appetizer...
@marriedhamstermom I looooove RR fries! Have you ever had them with their "campfire" sauce?! It is the best thing on earth!
@ahrains "Never apologize for cheese." Love it, I'm going to cross stitch that on a pillow.
@Schumerator Would drugs help? My friend was afraid to fly and her doctor gave her valium. Another friend uses Xanax. It would be a shame to miss out on the trip! Especially because flights are so cheap right now.
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
I was so sure that this was going to be our cycle that I spent last Sunday morning at one of those paint-your-own pottery cafes making a dad mug for H so that it would be ready to give him the good news this weekend when he was home from work.
ETA:
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
MY FFFC is sometimes I tell my H I am running out to do errands but really I go get ice cream and eat it in the parking lot alone. I love the quiet time and no one trying to steal my blizzard Sorry not sorry
@TheJerilu I would MURDER you if you took my food, even after 24 hours. Sometimes I want to save some for tomorrow!
Then put your name on it or bring it in a Tupperware.
I have an office where lots of folks leave their stuff for weeks at a time, so it becomes the office manager and mine's job to clear out their nasty spoiled garbage. For those that actually take care of their food, I don't toucharino.
@TheJerilu I am the designated refrigerator manager on my hallway - 40 busy teachers end up leaving a lot of stuff behind. I usually send a couple of emails out on the week I'm going to clean out the refrigerator saying "Clear out ALL of your stuff by 3pm Friday. Anything left behind will be thrown out." On the day, I make an announcement from the main office after the kids have left for the day, saying that it's last call for grabbing your stuff from the refrigerator. I then hold a garbage bag in front of the refrigerator door and do a clean sweep of the shelf without looking at anything. Been doing this for years and no one's complained - they had fair warning!
@TheJerilu same here! I get so tired of throwing away other people's shiz. I take whatever I had left over at the end of the week home and for some reason people can't figure out what is there's.... Drives me nuts!
@eggplantface no joke I had to scroll back up to look at your name three times because I kept forgetting it by the time I got to the bottom of the screen to respond, my brain is mush today! And yes I have wanted to try xanax or something on a flight I hear it helps, I have never taken it before though so it makes me nervous. I definitely don't want to turn into a psycho who makes a scene on the plane lol. I may have accidentally convinced a lady next to me that we were going down once, not on purpose but I was literally having a panic attack, and although I wasn't being loud, she looked at me and noticed I was freaking out and then started to grab onto her chair rails tightly as well lol... woops! I have also tried the dream water before with the natural melatonin in it and it just made me extremely tired but my body was still amped up from being anxious so I was awake, exhausted, and anxious, it was greeeeaaaat.
ETA: To be fair, that was the first flight I had ever freaked out on, I used to love flying prior to that particular flight. It was really bad thunder storms and they kept dipping and diving to even out cabin pressure. It was a torturous experience.
I work in the ICU, and I have to walk through the entire hospital at 6:30 am. My FFFC is that I don't want to talk to anyone at that time, so if you walk in at the same time with me, I will purposely slow down or go a different way to avoid having to converse. I want to look at my phone before I put it down for the day or put on chap stick and hand moisturizer without being judged Anti-social, no shame!! I will go out of my way to avoid you!
Me: 27 years old DH: 27 years old Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
Married in July 2014
TTC #1 since late Feb 2016
BFP #1 3/29/16 MMC: 5/5/16 BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16 BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17 My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast: Juicebox Podcast Episode 118 A1Cs: 1/12/16 6.7% 5/25/16 6.0% 11/2/16 6.1% 3/22/16 5.8% 4/27/17 5.4% 6/13/17 5.3% "Sugar Fancy Tutu"
Sometimes I work from the office at my boss' restaurant because it's air conditioned and I get free food, and sometimes I'll stop by in the morning to check in with him and then just get too lazy to go my office down the street and nobody cares anyway.
Sometimes they'll ask me to do food deliveries in which case I get paid $6 plus the tip, and sometimes I'll do a few a week. I've totally been not telling DH I do this and I hoard the money and spend it on clothes he doesn't know about.
And this is so hypocritical because I'm usually the one to preach the importance of 'our' money and how things should be even and fair.
Ah well.
Me: 32 DH: 33 Married: October 2015 TTC #1: October 2015 EDD #1: June/July 2017
DH has been out of town all week and I had all these big plans about eating healthy and getting all my runs in and cleaning the house til it shined. Well...I have eaten out every night this week, the only exercise I did was hiking with my dog last night (we got Dairy Queen afterwards), and I have done exactly zero cleaning or laundry...and he gets home tonight
DH has been out of town all week and I had all these big plans about eating healthy and getting all my runs in and cleaning the house til it shined. Well...I have eaten out every night this week, the only exercise I did was hiking with my dog last night (we got Dairy Queen afterwards), and I have done exactly zero cleaning or laundry...and he gets home tonight
You just described my life every. single. week. I enjoy the planning of doing all the things much more than doing all the things.... Glad I'm not the only one
DH has been out of town all week and I had all these big plans about eating healthy and getting all my runs in and cleaning the house til it shined. Well...I have eaten out every night this week, the only exercise I did was hiking with my dog last night (we got Dairy Queen afterwards), and I have done exactly zero cleaning or laundry...and he gets home tonight
You just described my life every. single. week. I enjoy the planning of doing all the things much more than doing all the things.... Glad I'm not the only one
I could not have worded it any better myself!! @Schumerator
@Scarlett830 I also ate all my leftover birthday cake Tuesday! b Poor H was bummed.
My FFFC is I started reading Outlander Monday and have been using it as fodder for all the FW banging I've had to do. I swear if I get knocked up this cycle I will name my child Jamie for a boy or Claire for a girl, and someday I will horrify them by telling them why.
@Scarlett830 Your one mistake was that you should have spread that cheese out on a plate and then microwaved it. Then it would have been a lo-carb, hold the sour cream and salsa quesadilla. My sisters and I used to to that when we were kids. We'd call them cheese melts and twirl the melty cheese around forks. Bet it drove my mom insane. @RedBreast35 I actually like having something to force me into action when I'm feeling that way. Then at least it takes my mind off of it some. Drink all the wine tonight. Right outta the bottle if you please! @eggplantface Look, you can't help it if other people don't know the best way to eat stuff. Just like people who don't know to put butter packets in their pockets first thing so it's spreadable when they're ready. @Schumerator Now I have to try Red Robin mac and cheese. I'm also sorry that you're terrified to fly. Do actual statistics do anything to help? (As in H has spent over 10,000 hours in the air and he's fine.) Or maybe you could do a Transatlantic cruise! Seriously, though, if you love traveling and want to do it, maybe you could work with someone who would give you strategies to make flying tolerable. @Sugargirl1019 I think it's totally fair to avoid people before you start your day. I work in a much lower-pressure job and even I hate it when my morning routine gets interrupted and I start the day off on the wrong foot. Especially if you're not getting paid yet! @MelissaM090 I think that regular pay is family money and then above and beyond stuff is your own fun money. The one thing that sucks about that policy is that I'm salaried so it's not like I can pick up a couple hours here or there like H can. But he's always turning it down when I tell him that his quarterly bonus money is his to do with as he pleases. @SienaC Sometimes when H is gone, that's when I'm the most productive. I go to the gym, I clean, etc. Lots of times, though, I just live like a feral animal. I'm actually pretty certain our dog knows when H is coming home because I hurry and make the bed, pick up the bathroom/kitchen, and vacuum. I've noticed that he starts checking out the window a lot more often when I do that.
Edit: WTF? TB is obsessed with tagging randos when I haven't even typed an @. Removed the one I saw.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
snip @eggplantface no joke I had to scroll back up to look at your name three times because I kept forgetting it by the time I got to the bottom of the screen to respond, my brain is mush today! And yes I have wanted to try xanax or something on a flight I hear it helps, I have never taken it before though so it makes me nervous. I definitely don't want to turn into a psycho who makes a scene on the plane lol. I may have accidentally convinced a lady next to me that we were going down once, not on purpose but I was literally having a panic attack, and although I wasn't being loud, she looked at me and noticed I was freaking out and then started to grab onto her chair rails tightly as well lol... woops! I have also tried the dream water before with the natural melatonin in it and it just made me extremely tired but my body was still amped up from being anxious so I was awake, exhausted, and anxious, it was greeeeaaaat. snip
@Schumerator Maybe you could try taking it at home first. Both my mom and sister take valium to fly and they were worried about the same thing. But they first took it when they were just spending the day at home to see how it'd make them feel. I agree with @eggplantface - it'd be a shame to miss out!
My FFFC is that I love Lord of the Dance (followed closely by Feet of Flames). Love it. I discovered it when I was little and my dad recorded it for me off of one of those PBS fundraiser things. I just watched it again yesterday for maybe the thousandth time. I love the music and the dancing and ever since I was a little girl I wanted to be one of those dancers sooooo bad.
Me: 32 | DH: 36
Married June 2005
1/2016 - TTC#1
4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)
7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst
9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018
Re: FFFC 06/10
ETA: grammar
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Also i ate 8 publix chocolate chip cookies the other night. 8. That is 4x the serving size. I don't actually feel guilty about that one though.
Married 2010
TTC since Nov. 2015
BFP#1: 2/8/16
MC: 3/19/16
BFP#2: 9/3/16 EDD: 5/17/17
mommy to the cutest rescue mutt ever.
my chart
@marriedhamstermom - I do love RR's fries. Now I want fries, too.
Met: October 2011
Married: February 2015
TTC #1 Since March 2016
Diagnosed with Hypothyroidism June 2015
Diagnosed with Hashimoto's September 2015
Started Levothyroxine for high TSH June 2015
DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
@mleandre and @jatwal128 I am with both of you on the slow work time! Plus, my boss is out today
And maybe my FFFC should be that I've never been to Red Robin?
No, instead my FFFC is that I have zero f*cks to give today about eating healthy, exercising, meeting my step goal, or accomplishing anything at work. I just want to go home and drink (a whole bottle of) wine and eat cake. Haha, probably should have stayed in bed today with this attitude!
Married 2010
TTC since Nov. 2015
BFP#1: 2/8/16
MC: 3/19/16
BFP#2: 9/3/16 EDD: 5/17/17
mommy to the cutest rescue mutt ever.
my chart
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
10/2/10
Me:29 H: 31
TTC#1: Aug 2015
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
@eggplantface I. Am. DEAD! That is hilarious!!! You are my spirit bumpie.
My confession is that an absent-minded coworker left some lovely prosciutto-wrapped mozzarella sticks in the work fridge and I totally knew she forgot all about them so I ate two of them for breakfast (which left her three). No regrets even though I know this is THE WORST. See? Never apologize for cheese.
Me: 42 | DH: 45
TTC since Dec. 2014
BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
@eggplantface I can't even, that is great!
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
Me: 42 | DH: 45
TTC since Dec. 2014
BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
@marriedhamstermom I looooove RR fries! Have you ever had them with their "campfire" sauce?! It is the best thing on earth!
Me: 26 Hubs: 28
Married: 6/6/15
Baby Girl: 3/22/2017
@Schumerator Would drugs help? My friend was afraid to fly and her doctor gave her valium. Another friend uses Xanax. It would be a shame to miss out on the trip! Especially because flights are so cheap right now.
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
We don't have RR here...and I love french fries
Me: 42 | DH: 45
TTC since Dec. 2014
BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
________________________________________________________
Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
ETA:
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
MY FFFC is sometimes I tell my H I am running out to do errands but really I go get ice cream and eat it in the parking lot alone. I love the quiet time and no one trying to steal my blizzard
Sorry not sorry
...But BUTTS ARE MINE if I catch anyone eating my food, too!
*siggy warning*
mmc . mar 2016
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
surprise BFP . aug 2019
DS . may 2020
dx Hashimoto's 2023
ttc #3 . feb 2023
mmc . apr 2023
mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
dx elevated nk cells
tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
BFP . mar 2025
I have an office where lots of folks leave their stuff for weeks at a time, so it becomes the office manager and mine's job to clear out their nasty spoiled garbage. For those that actually take care of their food, I don't toucharino.
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
________________________________________________________
Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
@eggplantface no joke I had to scroll back up to look at your name three times because I kept forgetting it by the time I got to the bottom of the screen to respond, my brain is mush today! And yes I have wanted to try xanax or something on a flight I hear it helps, I have never taken it before though so it makes me nervous. I definitely don't want to turn into a psycho who makes a scene on the plane lol. I may have accidentally convinced a lady next to me that we were going down once, not on purpose but I was literally having a panic attack, and although I wasn't being loud, she looked at me and noticed I was freaking out and then started to grab onto her chair rails tightly as well lol... woops! I have also tried the dream water before with the natural melatonin in it and it just made me extremely tired but my body was still amped up from being anxious so I was awake, exhausted, and anxious, it was greeeeaaaat.
ETA: To be fair, that was the first flight I had ever freaked out on, I used to love flying prior to that particular flight. It was really bad thunder storms and they kept dipping and diving to even out cabin pressure. It was a torturous experience.
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
Sometimes they'll ask me to do food deliveries in which case I get paid $6 plus the tip, and sometimes I'll do a few a week. I've totally been not telling DH I do this and I hoard the money and spend it on clothes he doesn't know about.
And this is so hypocritical because I'm usually the one to preach the importance of 'our' money and how things should be even and fair.
Ah well.
DH: 33
Married: October 2015
TTC #1: October 2015
EDD #1: June/July 2017
DH has been out of town all week and I had all these big plans about eating healthy and getting all my runs in and cleaning the house til it shined. Well...I have eaten out every night this week, the only exercise I did was hiking with my dog last night (we got Dairy Queen afterwards), and I have done exactly zero cleaning or laundry...and he gets home tonight
Me: 26 Hubs: 28
Married: 6/6/15
Baby Girl: 3/22/2017
I could not have worded it any better myself!! @Schumerator
Me: 26 Hubs: 28
Married: 6/6/15
Baby Girl: 3/22/2017
My FFFC is I started reading Outlander Monday and have been using it as fodder for all the FW banging I've had to do. I swear if I get knocked up this cycle I will name my child Jamie for a boy or Claire for a girl, and someday I will horrify them by telling them why.
@RedBreast35 I actually like having something to force me into action when I'm feeling that way. Then at least it takes my mind off of it some. Drink all the wine tonight. Right outta the bottle if you please!
@eggplantface Look, you can't help it if other people don't know the best way to eat stuff. Just like people who don't know to put butter packets in their pockets first thing so it's spreadable when they're ready.
@Schumerator Now I have to try Red Robin mac and cheese. I'm also sorry that you're terrified to fly. Do actual statistics do anything to help? (As in H has spent over 10,000 hours in the air and he's fine.) Or maybe you could do a Transatlantic cruise! Seriously, though, if you love traveling and want to do it, maybe you could work with someone who would give you strategies to make flying tolerable.
@Sugargirl1019 I think it's totally fair to avoid people before you start your day. I work in a much lower-pressure job and even I hate it when my morning routine gets interrupted and I start the day off on the wrong foot. Especially if you're not getting paid yet!
@MelissaM090 I think that regular pay is family money and then above and beyond stuff is your own fun money. The one thing that sucks about that policy is that I'm salaried so it's not like I can pick up a couple hours here or there like H can. But he's always turning it down when I tell him that his quarterly bonus money is his to do with as he pleases.
@SienaC Sometimes when H is gone, that's when I'm the most productive. I go to the gym, I clean, etc. Lots of times, though, I just live like a feral animal. I'm actually pretty certain our dog knows when H is coming home because I hurry and make the bed, pick up the bathroom/kitchen, and vacuum. I've noticed that he starts checking out the window a lot more often when I do that.
Edit: WTF? TB is obsessed with tagging randos when I haven't even typed an @. Removed the one I saw.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
My FFFC is that I love Lord of the Dance (followed closely by Feet of Flames). Love it. I discovered it when I was little and my dad recorded it for me off of one of those PBS fundraiser things. I just watched it again yesterday for maybe the thousandth time. I love the music and the dancing and ever since I was a little girl I wanted to be one of those dancers sooooo bad.
Me: 32 | DH: 36
Married June 2005
1/2016 - TTC#1
4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)
7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst
9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018
April 2016 - AMH, FSH, Progesterone normal
June 2016 - HSG clear
*TW* BFP - Aug16, demise confirmed Sep16, incomplete m/c, D&C Nov16
BFP 3/27/17, edd 12/7/17
DS - 12/9/17
TTC #2 December 2018
BFP 2/22/19, edd 11/4/19
DD - 11/1/19
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