Angry pregnant woman

little_bren · May 2016

Anyone else making the transformation to pissy angry pregnant woman? I have four weeks left but that feels soooo long. I'm out of breath doing nothing. Enter comments from people I hardly know or don't know at all... "Oh, honey you're about to pop. That sucks!" "Wow, you're huge!" "You look uncomfortable." "That's awesome that you don't have a fat face or cankles yet." Sorry for the whine fest. MH just complained that I didn't clean up well enough after making box mac n cheese for dinner. *eye roll*

alileecam · May 2016

Same... except I hold on to the "not pregnant in the face" thing as an awesome compliment though. (I have one crazy cankle I try to keep covered, so I am not eligible for the second part of that observation!)

chesterdoodle · May 2016

Um yeah, my temper has been out of control. I literally had road rage after some idiot stole my parking spot at the hospital last week. Full on screaming and cursing out the window. Okay, maybe he didnt steal my spot per se but wouldnt let me back up 3 feet so i could get a spot. i know i know, if you have to back up to get the spot, its not yours, but im pregnant and was heading to a NST because one of the babies hadnt moved in over 12 hours. Im using my pregnancy card.

lm45678 · May 2016

I was really enjoying pregnancy until I became a whale overnight and got a bad cold/sinus thing at 35 weeks. I'm now fat, grumpy, uncomfortable and pissed off. I feel like I am just a huge belly connected to a cankle

Knottie95349912 · May 2016

I haven't really cried at anything this pregnancy but my anger has skyrocketed and working in a call center does NOT help!!!

aoliveira0726 · May 2016

Super angry and being so close to the end, my phone is constantly blowing up asking how im doing or feeling. While i appreciate that im being thought of, its like...leave me alone. I dont want to respond to the same 18 texts about how im still puking and how it takes me 4 minutes to roll over in bed.

NLewis1 · May 2016

Yep. I don't like my coworker who sits literally a foot away from me. I can usually at least tolerate him - now I can't even stand the way he breathes! Ugh!! I'm just irrationally pissed about his general presence now. I cannot wait until we move buildings this summer and I get my own office!

little_bren · May 2016

Haha awesome ladies. Glad to know I'm not alone.

zanaerob1 · May 2016

Ugh, soooo angry pregnant woman.

My husband is an angel and is doing everything for me, including running up and down the stairs everytime I need something, and I'm still getting grumpy at him for EVERYTHING. Like literally breathing too loud.

Called my awesome and incredibly supportive mum Saturday to see if she wanted to go out for coffee and she asked if she could call me back in 10 minutes as she was talking to a friend. Took her 30 minutes and by the time she called it was all I could do not to snap her head off and refuse to go for having the nerve to keep me waiting around so long.

Plus, I've got 3 weeks of work left (am a family doctor) and I'm being so impatient. I feel terrible, and I'm sure I'll lost some patients before I leave from being so grumpy but I just can't seem to help it. Every day I come in determined to stay cool and by lunchtime I'm just tetchy and struggling to explain for the 4th time why some kid with a cold doesn't need antibiotics without outright calling someone an idiot.

So, yeah. I'm basically just a terrible person right now and I'm not sure how someone hasn't murdered me yet.

BPaisley · May 2016

Ugh, yes! I'm so grumpy. I just wish I could hibernate and be left alone for the next 4 weeks. I have no idea how I'm going to survive, I seriously can't deal with anyone.

AmberLiz99 · May 2016

I've definitely been more on edge. I'm proud of myself though for mostly holding it together, despite feeling less patient. My husband has been super stressed and complaining about work, pressuring me to find a full time job, and got himself into a huge mess with this car he purchased, and I haven't blown up at him yet (except in my head of course).

My SIL has pulled a couple really jerk moves lately, so I'm controlling my rage by talking to her as little as possible. Almost lost it at her yesterday

little_bren · May 2016

MH called me a fire breathing dragon today haha I pointed out that that's a bit of a double standard bc he's been pissy lately so
whatevs. We're both a treat.

lisawiden · May 2016

Same same same! I've been working from home for many of these reasons and was asked to come in tomorrow. After much protesting, I was informed the reason I need to come in is for a surprise baby shower. A holes! Seriously, who wants a surprise party with annoying work people right now?! So pissed. And clearly a terrible person right now.

nightwitch · May 2016

Lost my shit with my parents who live with me because they both have memory problems this morning. My Alzehiemers-ridden step father had an appointment at the neurologist and my mother just could not wait for me to get out of bed and had to knock on my fucking bedroom door 6 minutes before my alarm was set to go off because this crazy lady thinks we need to show up to every appointment 20 fucking minutes early so my dad can then drive me crazy asking every three seconds why we're there because he's scared. Lost. My. Shit. Like, swearing, screaming at them to hurry their ass up since it was so damn important to get me out of bed. And then proceeded to have to hear him ask 30x in the waiting room why we were there because we were there 15 minutes earlier than I planned on. Wanted to snatched my mother's head off. I have never missed an appointment or been late. There's a reason you live with me assholes, because I'm the one who gets it done. So much rage.

nightwitch · May 2016

Oh and can all of my asshole friends stop bothering me to "hang out?" The only thing I want to hang out are my boobs out of my bra and my feet out of my shoes. Why is this so hard for people to understand? 2 weeks from my due date, asshole parents to mind, two college courses I'm racing the clock to finish, and working 40-50 hours a week still. The last thing I want to do is be dressed any longer than I need to be or sitting watching you fuckers drink while my feet swell up to the size of mini Coopers, esp when there's still last minute baby prep I'd much prefer expending my limited energy on!

Rosehip15 · May 2016

There is simply no desperation like that of a woman who is 9 months pregnant. This is my third, and I'm shocked by how brutal the end is every time.

Knottie1442608703 · May 2016

I am so ready to be done being pregnant. 4 weeks left and I am having a hard time keeping my shit together. going to work is a bigger struggle than it ever has been before and I love and appreciate everything my SO is doing for me but he still annoys me. Its nice to know that I'm not the only one having these emotional issues, how is everyone dealing with them? Do we just suck it up for a month or does anyone have recommendations on how to be a little calmer??

KRuthie25 · May 2016

I just stopped caring about everything. If I'm late to work...oh well...they are are lucky I even made it in. I stopped responding to ignorant texts from family and friends regarding "how are you feeling" or "any day now" yeah...and 20 days later...grrr.

almostpriceless · May 2016

Rosehip15 said:

There is simply no desperation like that of a woman who is 9 months pregnant. This is my third, and I'm shocked by how brutal the end is every time.

This is also my 3rd baby and I feel exactly the same way. I'm a fat, swollen, sweaty ball of cranky bitch. It's horrible. Desperate and brutal are excellent word to describe this situation.

Knottie13257900 · May 2016

I feel like I am a lot less tolerant of BS at work. I supervise people who act like children sometimes. I am no longer willing to put up with it.

RMLandy · May 2016

My son's preschool teacher left an annoying post-it on the sign in sheet bc my husband didn't sign him out once last week when he picked him up. When I saw it this morning I tore it off the page, crumpled it up and threw it on the floor, then walked away. I'm so embarrassed now but in the moment it felt like the appropriate thing to do!

aoliveira0726 · May 2016

Hubby ordered dinner tonight. He ordered me a roasttbeef club sandwich with buffalo sauce and french fries which i was so looking forward to. Got home and it was badically a giant bacon sandwich. Someone messed up the order. I was so angry that i threw a temper tantrum and cried.

helca · May 2016

When colleague asked me how I am and I answered honestly that I was feeling quite fed up and done with this pregnancy as I am not the youngest (aged 39) - her response - oh,;but there are older women giving birth, you are not old and should not feel like that!!! Really. Why bother asking then!!!!!????

chesterdoodle · May 2016

My husband just told me not to be needy tonight - his back hurts. Wth. I am nearly 37w with twins. Everything hurts and im about to have to deliver 2 babies!!!!! I seriously almost lost it.

Tawny87 · May 2016

chesterdoodle said:

My husband just told me not to be needy tonight - his back hurts. Wth. I am nearly 37w with twins. Everything hurts and im about to have to deliver 2 babies!!!!! I seriously almost lost it.

This deserves a junk punch!

NLewis1 · May 2016

I've walked two miles every day, my entire pregnancy. If ONE MORE PERSON tells me to "get to walking!" I'm going to full on rage! I'm due in two weeks and I lost my sense of humor 4 days ago. I'm just SO done.

taralynnosullivan · May 2016

My mom and aunt keep telling me "this one is coming early" and were practically hyperventilating about "leaving me" for the weekend (to go two hours away). Beeches, I still have 3+ more weeks to go, DD was LATE, and DH AND I DONT WANT YOU AT THE HOSPITAL, ANYWAY. He's NOT coming this friggin early, and leave me alone. Also, could the same aunt PLEASE stop insisting that he come out on her birthday (June 19th). Breezy, I'll cross my damn legs if I have to. It's not happening.

MynaBird · May 2016

My husband came home from two weeks out of state working on a consulting job (which I supported -- it's great work that he loves -- but it meant I was the primary full-time caregiver for our toddler while dealing with all the appointments related to the baby's urinary tract problems and fluid levels, coordinating all the child care, cooking all the meals, changing all the diapers, working full-time, being nine months pregnant AND trying to get enough rest and hydration to build up more amniotic fluid so our baby wouldn't have to be delivered early) and spent the first 48 hours complaining about how tired he was because he'd been in a middle seat on the way home.

Oh, I'm sorry -- are you tired from sitting in a chair for five hours? In your perfectly healthy body? During which time you could drink as much alcohol as you wanted, had to take zero pills for nightmare-grade reflux, and didn't have to deal with one single tiny person demanding you put on "Aladdin" for the 117th time? THAT SOUNDS AWFUL.

ashkee05 · May 2016

taralynnosullivan said:
My mom and aunt keep telling me "this one is coming early" and were practically hyperventilating about "leaving me" for the weekend (to go two hours away). Beeches, I still have 3+ more weeks to go, DD was LATE, and DH AND I DONT WANT YOU AT THE HOSPITAL, ANYWAY. He's NOT coming this friggin early, and leave me alone. Also, could the same aunt PLEASE stop insisting that he come out on her birthday (June 19th). Breezy, I'll cross my damn legs if I have to. It's not happening.

(I have no idea why my first comment was blank!??)

Omg! So I went into preterm labor st 33wks but they were able to stop it. Now here I am at 37+3 and my mom and mil think I can't do anything alone. They constantly pop in and text me like every hour asking me how I'm doing. I know they mean well, but I called you guys the first time I am pretty sure I will call you when it happens again!! Also both sets of grandparents have literally given me a list of days I can not have him!!! Hmmm??! Hell come when he wants to come as he has already proved!!! At this point I really hope he picks one of those days!! I truly feel your pain!!!

ahernandez16 · May 2016

If one more person texts me to ask how I'm feeling....

It enrages me so much. I feel 9 months pregnant. I don't even care that they mean well anymore. Leave me alone.

huskypuppy14 · May 2016

ahernandez16 said:

If one more person texts me to ask how I'm feeling....

It enrages me so much. I feel 9 months pregnant. I don't even care that they mean well anymore. Leave me alone.

How did your graduation go? Is your SIL (or cousin in law?) still being crazy?

Tawny87 · May 2016

ahernandez16 said:

If one more person texts me to ask how I'm feeling....

It enrages me so much. I feel 9 months pregnant. I don't even care that they mean well anymore. Leave me alone.

My MIL told me I will know when the contractions are "real". This was when she was upset with me because I went to the hospital at 33 weeks with contractions instead of going to some frequent inane family gathering at their house. I was all thanks lady, tell that to someone who has given birth at 33 weeks...

ashkee05 · May 2016

ahernandez16 said:

If one more person texts me to ask how I'm feeling....

It enrages me so much. I feel 9 months pregnant. I don't even care that they mean well anymore. Leave me alone.

this one is KILLING me too!! It's even starting to bug my husband. If I take a shower they will text him to make sure I am ok since I didn't answer... Ugh just let me shower!!! Lol

ashkee05 · May 2016

RMLandy said:

My son's preschool teacher left an annoying post-it on the sign in sheet bc my husband didn't sign him out once last week when he picked him up. When I saw it this morning I tore it off the page, crumpled it up and threw it on the floor, then walked away. I'm so embarrassed now but in the moment it felt like the appropriate thing to do!

You are far better than I. I have been so angry I probably would have marched the note up to her and had some words lol

ahernandez16 · May 2016

huskypuppy14 said:

ahernandez16 said:

If one more person texts me to ask how I'm feeling....

It enrages me so much. I feel 9 months pregnant. I don't even care that they mean well anymore. Leave me alone.

How did your graduation go? Is your SIL (or cousin in law?) still being crazy?

Graduation went well! She is definitely still insane. Her shower that day was uneventful but since then she checked into L&D and claimed they sent her home having contractions a minute apart at 26 weeks. And labor magically stopped a few hours later.

She also claims her OB will induce her whenever she asks.... so probably the day I give birth. Ha!

aoliveira0726 · May 2016

Omg!!! I just want everyone to stop telling me what to expect when we get to L&D and what will happen when its time to deliver. I dont give a shit about how u went natural or spent 90000 hours in labor. Just shut up. U think i havent spent time in a forum or doing research on what to expect??? U think my docs havent been warning me that labor is called labor and not "carnival" for an effing reason???!!! I dont wanna hear your long ass birthing story for the 10th time. Its 99 degrees out and i just want a virgin daiquiri while not wearing a bra or pants...is that too much to ask for??

vintagevix2016 · May 2016

I'm tired of the unsolicited advice (as I'm sure we all are). Please stop sending me terrible "list" articles, such as "Things not to do when caring for a newborn as a terrified mother." No joke, one of the items on the list was "Don't starve your newborn." Well no shit....

NLewis1 · May 2016

vintagevix86 said:

I'm tired of the unsolicited advice (as I'm sure we all are). Please stop sending me terrible "list" articles, such as "Things not to do when caring for a newborn as a terrified mother." No joke, one of the items on the list was "Don't starve your newborn." Well no shit....

You should email that person back and be like "I am SO GLAD you sent me that list! I NEVER would have thought that I actually had to FEED THE BABY!" Maybe they will pick up on how ridiculous that article was...

nightwitch · May 2016

aoliveira0726 said:

Omg!!! I just want everyone to stop telling me what to expect when we get to L&D and what will happen when its time to deliver. I dont give a shit about how u went natural or spent 90000 hours in labor. Just shut up. U think i havent spent time in a forum or doing research on what to expect??? U think my docs havent been warning me that labor is called labor and not "carnival" for an effing reason???!!! I dont wanna hear your long ass birthing story for the 10th time. Its 99 degrees out and i just want a virgin daiquiri while not wearing a bra or pants...is that too much to ask for??

YESSSSSS. So much yes. Had a guy at work tell me all about his wife's labor and pooping details. I told my husband he'd be pooping in a bag if he ever shared any of these disgusting details with anyone

little_bren · May 2016

Who knew we were all so angry! Haha I'm enjoying reading your responses and feeling like I'm not that angry after all haha

huskypuppy14 · May 2016

I'm angry at babies R Us. So I return a couple things that I received duplicates of at my shower. I returned it yesterday, and that was easy enough. I got a gift card, no problem. Then I look at the registry today, and those items that I returned, were put back on my registry.. Um, I returned them for a reason!!

Then I go to spend 500 dollars on a bunch of the remaining items on my registry and my completion discount code doesn't work! Of course after I want to talk to a live chat agent, it's past the time that they are open. I'll have to see if I can do it tomorrow. I'm going to tell them if they don't figure it out, I'm spending that money at amazon instead.

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Crohn's Dx: August 2008

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Mrs. H

Crohn's Dx: August 2008

Endometriosis Dx: May 2010

Married: 05/19/2012

TTC #1: June 2013

BFP: December 2013

DS: Born 08/29/2014

TTC #2: July 2015

Mrs. H

Crohn's Dx: August 2008

Endometriosis Dx: May 2010

Married: 05/19/2012

TTC #1: June 2013

BFP: December 2013

DS: Born 08/29/2014

TTC #2: July 2015

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