September 2015 Moms

Just curious for those BF and are pregnant again... (some TMI)

I'm at work and kind of having a mini panic attack. Not kidding. I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks and now i'm shaking and my mind is racing. It could be my over thinking, but it just hit me like a ton of bricks; I might be pregnant again. I usually pump a lot. Like 8-10 oz in one sitting. For some reason my supply has been low af. Like only pumping 10 oz. all day. Now that is normal when it's that time of my month, but my period ended 2 weeks ago. We had sex right after my period and we don't use BC. Now low supply would be one thing, but I'm just beyond tired, like draging myself along, 3 cups of coffee and nothing. Also, I'm so hungry I cannot stop eating today. I'm not late or anything and i'm due for a period until another few weeks, but I have had mild cramping the past week If you're BF and pregnant, was low supply one of the first signs.. I don't want to run out to the store and buy a test just yet, but i just have this feeling...  Please tell me I'm just over thiking this..I know there is no way to tell for sure, but someone make me feel a little better lol.

Re: Just curious for those BF and are pregnant again... (some TMI)

  • I totally understand the freaking out part!! I'm Prego and also breast feeding...I wouldn't necessarily say my supply decreased when I got pregnant. I just felt "off" and honesty in the back of my mind I knew. My hubby was the one who suggested I take a test. I found out when I was only 3.5 weeks...so crazy! Wish I could help you more!! Good luck!! 
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  • yellow1daisyyellow1daisy member
    edited May 2016
    If you're not due for your period for another few weeks you might be ovulating now. My supply seems to dip while ovulating and then again right before my period starts. 

    I'd give it a few days. If your supply doesn't recover I'd get a test. 

    ETA: I'm not pregnant or trying

    BFP May 2013 - MMC at 8 weeks
    BFP September 2013 - MMC at 12 weeks
    BFP February 2014 - early loss/CP at 4.5 weeks
    BFP May 2014 - MMC/ complete molar pregnancy at 11 weeks
    BFP December 2015 - DD born 8/18/2015
    BFP November 2016 - pending...



  • Thanks! Yeah I will give a few days and wait and see.
  • I totally understand the freaking out part!! I'm Prego and also breast feeding...I wouldn't necessarily say my supply decreased when I got pregnant. I just felt "off" and honesty in the back of my mind I knew. My hubby was the one who suggested I take a test. I found out when I was only 3.5 weeks...so crazy! Wish I could help you more!! Good luck!! 
    I have been wondering about this. I've been thinking of maybe trying again but I don't want to lose my milk. Did anything change when you got pregnant? I've heard that kids notice a difference. Did LO seem to notice anything?
  • Ditto to having a lower supply when ovulating. I drop the week I ovulate and the week of my period. Hoping it's just that for you... Unless you want another one! Lol 
  • Oh and @rebekahrathe congrats on the pregnancy :)
  • @jclemon  no, my daughter hasn't seemed any different!! My babies will be 14 months apart! Can't believe it but excited I know they will have a good bond. I only bf in the mornings but haven't noticed any difference with my supply! 
  • jen83mnjen83mn member
    edited May 2016
    Ditto to having a lower supply when ovulating. I drop the week I ovulate and the week of my period. Hoping it's just that for you... Unless you want another one! Lol 
    Ditto for me too! My supply is lower from the day of ovulation until the end of my period (which is super frustrating!).

    In fact, last month I was freaking out because one day I had literally no milk ... and not just when I pumped, baby couldn't even get any out! I did everything that day I could think of to get my supply back - ate lactation cookies, drank milkmaid tea, chugged water and Gatorade, ate oatmeal, pumped and nursed frequently. I ended up having to give baby a few bottles of pumped milk because there was nothing there and he was starving. I was also cramping that day and super hungry, nothing would satisfy me. The next day I had milk, not much, but some at least. And within a few days I was back to my normal lower supply until the end of my period, and then it was back to normal again.

    14 days later, boom ... got my period. I was ovulating that day I had no milk, and my supply tanked!

    My guess would be you're ovulating, especially since you had sex immediately after your period ended. That's usually too early in your cycle to be ovulating (although miracles do happen occasionally). 

    Do you want to be pregnant? If not, is there a reason you're not using any form of birth control? I didn't want to go back on hormonal birth control while breastfeeding and before we try for our next kiddo, so we've just been using condoms in the meantime. Yeah, they suck ... but I know I would just worry all the time if we didn't use anything :)

    Hope it turns out the way you'd like it to! And if you don't want to get pregnant, don't have sex right now when you very likely are ovulating :)
  • Wow yeah that all sound just like me. The being hungry, crampy and low supply. Must just be ovulating. And I can't use birth control. I feel like it really messes with my emotions and weight and i get migraines. I just cant do it. And we used to use condoms, but lets be honest, it's not the same lol. So really we just use the "pull-out" method. I mean it wouldn't be a bad thing if i got pregnant again, just the wrong timing. Some days I feel myself wanting a new lil tiny baby and some days like "Girl, wtf are you thinking. Chill out, ovaries..." lol. But i just picture a lil baby boy named Finn. I feel like he is mine already, lmao (now watch my next be another girl, haha).
  • jen83mnjen83mn member
    kkerner87 said:
    Wow yeah that all sound just like me. The being hungry, crampy and low supply. Must just be ovulating. And I can't use birth control. I feel like it really messes with my emotions and weight and i get migraines. I just cant do it. And we used to use condoms, but lets be honest, it's not the same lol. So really we just use the "pull-out" method. I mean it wouldn't be a bad thing if i got pregnant again, just the wrong timing. Some days I feel myself wanting a new lil tiny baby and some days like "Girl, wtf are you thinking. Chill out, ovaries..." lol. But i just picture a lil baby boy named Finn. I feel like he is mine already, lmao (now watch my next be another girl, haha).
    The low supply for half the month definitely sucks ... I wish I was one of those people who didn't get their periods back until they're done breastfeeding. My supply has been lower ever since I got it back at 5 months post-partum, and I had no supply issues prior to that. The only reason I'm able to keep up now is we just added a third meal of solids (breakfast) when he turned 8 months and went down to 5 nursing/pumped milk sessions a day from 6. So now he gets two bottles a day while I'm at work, one mid morning and one mid afternoon, along with oatmeal/fruit for breakfast, veggies for lunch, and oatmeal/fruit for dinner (we're working on adding yogurt in for lunch too). Then he nurses right away in the morning before work, right after work around 6 pm, and at bedtime.

    I still pump three times at work like I had been doing, but now I'm able to make enough in three sessions for those bottles, with a little extra to freeze. It has made a world of difference! Just something to consider if you're having trouble making enough now :) I was so stressed out because I barely had any left in my freezer stash and wasn't making enough on a daily basis; this solved all my problems!

    As for the condom thing, you're right ... totally not the same. I have this "master plan" for when I want to get pregnant again, so that is motivation for me to use protection, but it wouldn't be the end of the world if we did have another now because we want another one anyways :) But I'm with you ... there's days I think, "Let's get pregnant now!" but realistically I'd rather have at least 6 months between when I stop breastfeeding at a year and when I get pregnant again to hopefully get back to my pre-pregnancy weight, because I've found it's impossible for me to lose weight while breastfeeding because my supply tanks if I don't eat plenty of food.

    Crossing my fingers you get your little boy when you're ready! We have a little guy and he's so much fun, but I'm hoping for a little girl next to have one of each, but would totally be happy with two boys!
  • Ugh now I have been sick all day with an upset tummy. I might just take a test to put my mind at ease. 
  • jen83mnjen83mn member
    kkerner87 said:
    Ugh now I have been sick all day with an upset tummy. I might just take a test to put my mind at ease. 
    Wouldn't hurt! Although it could still be too early to tell. Stress also has a way of messing with how we feel, so that could also be contributing. 
  • And my stress and anxiety have been kicking my butt lately. I'm the matron of honor un my bff's wedding and I have been super stressed about the cost and my duties.
  • jen83mnjen83mn member
    I can understand! I'm a bridesmaid in my close friend's wedding July 1 and haven't tried on my dress in months and still haven't gotten my shoes or figured out how I want my hair done. Between that and all the pre-wedding activities, planning and packing for our vacation by plane in a few weeks, and hosting my sister-in-law's baby shower next month, on top of the craziness at work, it's been hard to find time to get everything done!
  • Oh my goodness I'm getting anxiety just reading that! Lol. We will get it done. We birthed humans, so we can do anything. Lol.
  • jen83mnjen83mn member
    kkerner87 said:
    Oh my goodness I'm getting anxiety just reading that! Lol. We will get it done. We birthed humans, so we can do anything. Lol.
    Yes, we can! My husband calls me "Superwoman" all the time ... but sometimes I don't want to be and want some more help! ;)
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