Im officially back from N'16. I won't go in to the full story which I posted on the MC/L board if anyone wants to read it. I hate to be back here or that any of us are here, but I'm happy to know that this board is here.
I'm having a D&E next week, but I'm off for the next week or so and doing some thinking about our next steps.
I'm turning 37 next month and will have had 2 late 1st tri losses due to chromosomal abnormalities. The 1st of unknown origin, the 2nd because of triploidy, which strangely has no relation to AMA. Because it will have been a year of TTC by the time we are ready to start TTC again and because we want 2 children and because we can't handle another loss emotionally, we are strongly considering skipping right to IVF with PGD. My body seems to gets pregnant every time I have unprotected during my ovulation period. This makes me think I'm one of those awesome "superfertile women" that accepts every fertilized egg instead of rejecting the bad ones. The worst part is these pregnancies last for a long time and so I'm losing my precious fertility time.
Am I being crazy? Should I hold off and wait for my body to recover, make sure I'm taking my Coq-10 and hope for the best when it's time to TTC? I'm just wondering if anyone else who has had multiple losses had considered it? I have great IF coverage and H's parents have offered to pay for anything that stops us from going through this again.
Age 39, H 38
Pregnancy #1, MMC, D&C November/December 2015
Pregnancy #2, Dx with Triploidy at 12 weeks, MMC, D&C May 2016
Pregnancy #3 BFP 10/20/2016- EDD 7/01/2017
DD was born on June 26, 2017
Pregnancy #4 CP 4/2018
Pregnancy #5 BFP 9/13/2018, EDD= 5/27/2019