@ellenlroberts wth? How is it your fault? Also, save all the receipts/canceled checks for bills you paid for her. Since she'll be entitled to half his retirement I'm sure she'll be happy to pay you back. Get her an attorney so none of you get screwed financially by him.
Apparently my husband and I having a child ruined their marriage. He specifically blamed me because he said that he didn't want to be close to any of the grandchildren and she did. So it's my fault he is a sucky person who doesn't love his grandchildren. He is psychotic I guess.
Re: First Mother's Day a bust!!