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Kay6519
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WTO Thursday
Kay6519
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Months / Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKTFU:
R/R/CS:
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
CD:
WAYDTGKTFU:
R/R/CS:
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
Re: WTO Thursday
CD: 13
WAYDTGKTFU: PNV, temping, monitoring CM and CP, acupuncture, and all the sex
R/R/CS: Spent most of last night at the ER. Everything has been crazy stressful lately, and my anxiety issues have become more of a problem this week. I started having chest pains and my left arm went numb, so DH made me go to the hospital. It ended up being minor. They just gave me some clot busting drug and told me to start a daily aspirin regimen along with avoing anything strenuous or stressful.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
And here I don't have a good answer to my own GTKY... It's so hard to pick just one thing to change!
CD: 9
WAYDTGKTFU: the things.
R/R/CS: I just want to ovulate.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.) Nope. I'm not gonna be that asshole who tries to make things better and fucks up history even more than it already is. Plus I can't learn if I haven't done anything to learn from.
Me: 25 | DH: 25
DD: Aug. 15
ETA: I hope it doesn't happen again
Me: 25 | DH: 25
DD: Aug. 15
TTC Since: Nov. 2015
Dx: PCOS
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round I: BFN
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round II: BFN
Clomid+Ovidrel, Round III: BFP! 7/5/16
CD: 47
WAYDTGKTFU: anything & everything
R/R/CS: Welp, FF took my CH away after a temp drop yesterday so I am back here (wasn't totally convinced I O'd anyway). Saw my OBGYN yesterday and got a referral to an RE. My consult appointment is scheduled for next Thursday. Really looking forward to getting some answers and help with shorter cycles.
GTKY: I agree with @irohspupil and will be an a-hole with her. I wouldn't change a thing. This is a quote I use for me & H: "I feel like everything in my life has led me to you. My choices, my heartbreaks, my regrets. Everything. And when we're together, my past seems worth it. Because if I had done one thing differently, I might have never met you."
BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
CD: 10
WAYDTGKTFU: Green tea, HIO EOD, OPKs starting on Saturday
R/R/CS: Not much today! Had an awesome boot camp this morning and feeling motivated today. Happy Thursday!
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
No idea. This does remind me of GoT, though. The idea that someone might have something to do with affecting history... (Not going to spoil anything for anyone who may not be caught up. There are some theories about some things, though, that I'm intrigued by...)
@khbear - I'm not temping either but I will be doing OPKs, so once I change an OPK, I'll head over. Most people take a good guess and then move over. If you've noticed a change in CM and it went from non-fertile to fertile and back to non-fertile, move over then. I hope that makes sense!
4/4
CD:
5
WAYDTGKTFU:
OPK, CM, SHOW, RLT, PNV, yoga
R/R/CS:
I had a "free month" of no worries for health and wellness last month (since I was going a bit BSC the month before). Up 15 pounds, YIKES. Hitting the reset button today.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
TW Pet Loss - I would give my childhood dog a bath the last weekend I saw him. I was the only one who he trusted to do it (Great Dane/German Shepherd mix). My parents didn't tell me that he would probably be put down before I could visit from college again, and he was euthanized the following weekend when he couldn't stand up anymore. That last bath would give him just a wee bit of dignity in his final days but I was too busy
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
CD: 2
WAYDTGKTFU: Nothing right now as my uterus is falling out.
R/R/CS: I also spent most of last night in the ER. Ive had strep for the past few weeks that seeded into my throat and caused an abscess. *tw: breastfeeding* Although my throat hurts like none other and I will probably need to have it lanced by an ENT today, I am most sad that I have to stop nursing my toddler because of the meds I'm on. I don't get much when I pump anymore so that won't save my supply. His cries last night were heart wrenching and I could hear my husband over the monitor telling him how much mommy loves him and how sorry she is. It's really hard for me as our breastfeeding journey has been full of struggles and accomplishment and is now abruptly over because I'm sick. I feel sad for him.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.). I guess I wouldn't change a thing in my personal life. I love where I'm at and respect where I've been.
CD: 14
WAYDTGKTFU: Letrozole
R/R/CS: Went to the RE's this morning. Zero growth from Monday. Their having me start Letrozole again tonight for 5 days. I sat in the room while the nurse consulted with the other nurses, and held back tears. Why does it have to be so hard?! I mean, I guess it's positive that I responded by producing some eggs, but I think it's completely negative that they are barely growing. I guess we'll see how they look on Tuesday when I go back.
@sammajane19 Guess we're in an emotional state* together huh? When you were on Letrozole, did you have any egg production? Or did you go through them not growing? (If you don't mind my asking).
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.) Blah.
TTC#1: October 2015
dx: PCOS & MFI
IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP
July 2016: Blighted Ovum
IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN
IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN
IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN
FET February 2017 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17
Team Blue X 2!
Married: July 2015
BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
CD: 9
WAYDTGKTFU: pnvs, temping, green tea, pre seed, opks
R/R/CS: I'll start OPKs today when I get home. Super tired today, I am just so ready for the weekend!
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? I believe everything happens for a reason, all the things I've been through has shaped who I am today. So I wouldn't change a thing.
@clover28 I'm sorry! I hope the procedure goes well and you can start to heal quickly.
@mrsdaddario FX for your appointment next week. *hugs* to you.
Months / Cycle: 9/7 (1st cycle TTCAL)
CD: 43
WAYDTGKTFU: cm, cp, OPKs, sex, vitamins/coq10, acupuncture next week
R/R/CS: My temp went up this morning, but I woke up feeling hot so I'm sure that's all it was.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.) I would go back to high school and reach out for help from my peers and teachers when I was needing it. I was almost in tears a few years into college to find out that they had been helping each other with some of the same things I was struggling with and they would have loved to help and support me.
*siggy warning*
mmc . mar 2016
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
surprise BFP . aug 2019
DS . may 2020
dx Hashimoto's 2023
ttc #3 . feb 2023
mmc . apr 2023
mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
dx elevated nk cells
tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
BFP . mar 2025
Months / Cycle: 2/2
CD: 4
WAYDTGKTFU: bbt, charting, pnv, CoQ10, opks, H on daily vitamin + extra zinc and C.
R/R/CS: So my period has been getting shorter. I've always had 4-5 day periods starting light, going to heavy, and then back to light. Lately I've been having periods where I immediately get 2 days of super heavy and then 1 day of light and then it's just over. Even when I was on HBC years ago I never had such short periods. What gives? Is this normal? Have any of you experienced this?
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
Sweet lord that's a big question. I guess I would go back and make sure Hitler got admitted to art school (some may not know that he was rejected from art school) so that he would go into the arts instead of politics...
CD: 20
WAYDTGKTFU: everything normal
R/R/CS: Ugh. I was 100% sure I ovulated yesterday. All the signs pointed to that. And then my temp did not go up at all today. I cannot keep having bad sex. I don't know what to think or do. I might just count this cycle out and just live my life and wait and see. It was only our first cycle trying anyway. Today was supposed to be a fun day hanging out with my SIL and her baby, hitting up some garage sales and stuff. Now I'm just in a bad mood.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.) I don't know. I wouldn't really want to waste this on something in my own life, because I am turning out fine. I would probably stop something bad from happening in history. To early and annoyed for this right now.
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
@steelerfan78 I love your quote!
@kenya715 I'm glad you had a good time. Hopefully you get everything you need accomplished while you are extra motivated!
@thejerilu I'm so sorry for your loss. Poor pup. Take care of yourself. *Hugs*
@clover28 I hope you get to feeling better soon!
@mrsdaddario I'm sorry you didn't get the growth you were hoping for. FX for better news at your next appointment!
@Kay6519 Oh my! That is scary. Take it super easy and be selfish the rest of this week. Do what you need to do for you.
@sammajane19 I'm sorry. I have a tendency to freak out over other's mistakes when I'm on my period. I'm sure I'm not the funnest person to be around. Just take some deep breaths.
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
CD: 16
WAYDTGKTFU: pnv, coQ10, just started omega 3 and Dha yesterday, sex eod until confirmed ovulation...
R/R/CS: oh my word the cramps I had last night almost had me in tears!!! I'm hoping they had to do with ovulation (I got a pos opk two days ago and I'm waiting to see if my temps confirm). I've been negative about this month even before we began, it threw me for a huge loop not even ovulating last month!! Trying to be positive now!!
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.) oh goodness I don't know
CD: 25
WAYDTGKTFU: Normal stuff
R/R/CS: Pretty sure yesterday was O day, got a positive OPK yesterday, etc. We shall see! Happy my DH and I came out of BD retirement and did something, how random, but thank god I am not out this month! Now comes the fun part.......waiting!
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
No way would I change anything. I just watched that new James Franco show on Hulu, wouldn't want to mess things up that I didn't mean to!
Me:31 H:31
DX: MFI - 1% Morph
12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
@Kenya715 Props to you for getting a workout in so early!
Months / Cycle: 4/4
CD: 1, I am okay with this. Our timing was good but it's been such a stressful few weeks that I just knew that it wouldn't happen for us last cycle.
WAYDTGKTFU: Time to get serious with Temping and actually make it part of my routine, Green Tea, RRL & PNV, Diet & Exercise
R/R/CS: As I mentioned above it's been a crazy few weeks. My home town was evacuated due to a forest fire leaving many of my friends and family without anywhere to go. My dad was one of the unlucky ones who lost everything they owned. To say that it's been an emotionally draining week would be an understatement.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
I am also one of those people who wouldn't change anything. I believe that everything happens for a reason.
BFP #1 April 12, 2017 EDD December 19, 2017
@khbear When you were temping, was there a generally time you would O? If you have regular cycle you can move over whenever you think you O'd or if other signs are pointing in that direction. Or you can just hang out here, that's cool too.
@sammajane19 Oh no! Hope they are able to get it all straightened out today.
@Steelerfan78 That's great that you finally got your appointment! FX everything goes well and you get some answers finally
@Kenya715 Way to go on the boot camp! I admire your motivation.
@clover28 Yikes, that's scary. FX you start feeling better soon.
@mrsdaddario I'm so sorry, that sucks! Hopefully this does the trick and you get better news at your next appointment.
@antoto I wonder about that too. My period has definitely lightened up over time. I get one heavy day and then spotting or really light for the rest. Let me know if you find anything out!
@mrsstuessy I hate when that happens! Damn FF just likes to ruin our days sometimes. FX you get your temp rise tomorrow.
@1017Shannon FX you O soon! Sorry you had such bad cramps.
@Zoey1019 It only takes one time, hopefully it was worth it!
@MrsRoss89 I'm so sorry you and your family are going through that. Do you live in Canada? We are in the next major city from huge forest fires and a lot of the evacuees are in the city and my heart just breaks for them. T&P being sent your way.
Month/ Cycle: 10/10
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: Sex and Vitamins.
R/R/CS: Not much going on. Just waiting to O. Hoping and praying.
GTKY: I don't like the idea of changing history, things happen for a reason. If I had to change anything though, I would have lived a little and accepted that free donut that was offered to me last week at work. You only live once!
10/2/10
Me:29 H: 31
TTC#1: Aug 2015
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
mrsdaddario Sorry for the bad news. I hope the new meds make a difference and give you some great results!
sammajane19 That is no fun, I am sorry they mixed up your prescriptions. My DH is type 1 diabetic so we have a 24/7 pharmacy that we use. With mistakes Safeway has made in the past, I don't like taking chances anymore.
CD: 9
WAYDTGKTFU: Pee on all the things, eat all the vitamins
R/R/CS: Was doing pretty well yesterday, until I went to the grocery store and the bagging lady asked "Is your kid in school". Had to respond with no children yet and hold back from punching her in the face. The times that I am out and about are the times I think less about TTC. Why in world did you just ruin my walk home!
Anyway, on to the outlets today because why not! Can't wait to leave tomorrow to Vancouver and spend some time with my DH.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
TW- Loss Mentioned
The only thing I would change is to go back and spend as much time with my parents as possible. I didn't know their time on this earth would be so short.
Me: 29 : Him: 30
Married Since: May 2013
mrsstuessy thanks. i'm not usually this emotional during AF, but this month it's been beastly.
TTC Since: Nov. 2015
Dx: PCOS
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round I: BFN
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round II: BFN
Clomid+Ovidrel, Round III: BFP! 7/5/16
BFP #1 April 12, 2017 EDD December 19, 2017
CD: 9
WAYDTGKTFU: Added B6 and started ten days of that plus Mucinex, as per doctor's request. Probably go in for my first stick on Saturday...
R/R/CS: FW is upon us! I basically told DH I want to max it out this time so... we shall see!
++ETA++ Grandma went into home hospice at my aunt's house, so if you could keep her and the family in T&P would be appreciated... :( +++
GTKY: So hard, but if I had to look at recent history in our own lifetimes, I would say if they had used the intelligence or whatever to apprehend the hijackers from 9/11 and have just prevented that whole awful thing. I hate to say it, but I think the government uses awful situations like that as an excuse to exert more power, more control, and then you get all the extra surveillance into ordinary people's lives who are minding their own business, TSA, and overuse of police authority, where they can even forcibly take your blood in some situations, or just take your money if they decide you have too much cash on you! It's crazy the things about life that millennials just take for granted, but I remember when they weren't always like this. We lost so many innocent lives that day, and signed over so many of our freedoms since then, and I think if that all could have been prevented, the world would be a very different place today.
CD: 12
WAYDTGKTFU: pnv's, vitamin D Supplement, opks, temping...we are prob done with sex for the FW as I'm confident based off opks, and other signs that O is today and OH is working 24 hour shift so we aren't able to get another BD session in
R/R/CS: my chart is terrible this month. Open ended circles, up and down. My sleeping has been so erratic so there's not much I can do about it. I woke up at 3:51 am today and couldn't go back to sleep.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.).
debbie downer here - but I prob would go back to the week my mom passed; I didn't go see her that sunday bc I was going to go see her Wednesday the day of her scheduled surgery and she passed Monday
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
@khbear I think you can move over once you are confident that you O'd. I will say the longer you hold out, the longer the craziness of the TWW will stay at bay.
@Steelerfan78 I hope your appointment goes well next week. Glad you were able to get in so quickly.
@mrsdaddario I haven't been following along as closely as I'd like this week but I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. I will be sending positive vibes and hope that you see better results at your next ultrasound.
@MrsRoss89 So sorry your family is going through the fires. Hugs from a fellow Canadian!
@BusinessWife Thinking of you and your family
Month/cycle: 5/1
CD: 137
WAYDTGKU: PNV. Whole30 (day 11 of 30), HBC (day 14 of 21), then Letrozole, then TI, then U/S, then progesterone then we will see.
R/R/CS: Ended up having two days off midweek which was awesome! I feel like I've gotten a lot accomplished at home and have gone out for a long walk both days. Dogs are happy, house is clean, meals have been made.
GTKY: I also choose not to change anything. Although not totally on board with the whole "everything happens for a reason" I do think that everything/ every event influences everything else and if I changed one negative thing, who's to say something different but comparably bad, or worse would not have happened.
Him:31
Married: Sept'15
TTC#1: Jan'16
PCOS Dx: Apr'16
BFP #1: Jul'16
DS Born: Mar'17
10/2/10
Me:29 H: 31
TTC#1: Aug 2015
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
CD: 18
WAYDTGKTFU: Charting/OPKs, Vit D & Metformin
R/R/CS: 1st time poster so excuse my ignorance- Using OPKs for the first time- previous cycle was 51 days which was annoying. Also when did it become a thing to wish EVERY woman a Happy Mother's Day?
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.) Nada- i'm pretty crazy and still wouldn't change a thing
Married: Nov 2013
BFP: March 2015
D&C: May 2015
TTCAL: Sept 2015
Him:31
Married: Sept'15
TTC#1: Jan'16
PCOS Dx: Apr'16
BFP #1: Jul'16
DS Born: Mar'17
Months / Cycle: 1/1
CD: 17. Add me in the camp of people not knowing when to head to the 2WW. I was charting CM but it has gone from creamy to sticky and I have no idea if that is the best I am going to get this cycle, or if things are just wonky with my hormones. I am going to stay here at least a few more days.
WAYDTGKTFU: SEX EOD, PNVs
R/R/CS: Not much to report
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
Get rid of Hitler, do something to abolish slavery earlier. Neither of those things happened in my country but they were awful.
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Months/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 4
WAYDTGKTFU: Shaving my legs
R/R/CS: So my H got invited to a Mario Kart party tomorrow. Without me. Boys only. Wtf.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.) I wouldn't have cut my hair in '05.
Me: 32 | DH: 36
Married June 2005
1/2016 - TTC#1
4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)
7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst
9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018
Months / Cycle: 1/1 (+2 not charting)
CD: 14
WAYDTGKTFU: charting
R/R/CS: Nothing exciting. Waiting to see a temp spike....I am thinking about buying some cheap OPKs next month.
GTKY: If you have the opportunity to go back in time and change one thing, what would that be? (The change can be in your own history or the world's history.)
The only thing I would think about changing in my life is taking things a little slower. I took advanced classes all through high school while working a part time job (full time in the summer), then got my undergrad in 3 years and started grad school immediately. Now I'm on track to get my PhD a year early. Now that I'm near the end, I'm not sure if it was worth it just to be done a few years earlier.