Thank you all for your kind words. This is the first time I ever felt like I was part of an online community instead of just on the outskirts of it. It means a lot to see so much support.
@honeybeewebb2424, I truly hope you got good news today. Thank you for thinking about me.
@ohsoridiculous7, I'm so sorry that you're going through this too.
Me: 29, DH: 31 Married: October 2014 Began TTC: April 2015 BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w) BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w) BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17 BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
Omg this just gave me chills and tears! I'm so unbelievably sorry! It's awful there were no signs anything was wrong! Hang in there as best you can and hopefully your rainbow baby will be on its way soon! Hugs and prayers!
I am sooo sorry for your loss and pain. Yesterday I went for my first official us... Im a er nurse and had played with the us machine at work and got to see the flicker of my babys heart on friday. But monday at my appt there was no heart beat, no blood flow. Worst feeling ever to see the screen and not hear the heart beat or see it flickering.. And when the technician says ill let the doctor discuss your results and placed the photos on my chart and not in my hand... just this precious little baby motionless is all we got to see.
We are heartbroken and I dont know how ill be able to go back to work ... How will I be able to be a good nurse .. My next pt who her diagnosis is threatened miscarriage and my pain of my own experience makes it hard to keep it all together... Nobody wants your nurse to be crying at your bedside...
My heart is shattered.. And I just feel like a basket case...
I pray for the safe and healthy delievery of all of your babies.
I'm so sorry this happened, especially at a time when you'd think you could relax. It's not fair.
LFAF/Nov 16 challenge: Bad TV moms that shouldn't be celebrated
BFP #1 10/30/15 MMC found 11/30/15 D&C 12/11/15 EDD 7/9/16
healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that’s ok, that’s ok, darling. you are still healing, you are still healing- Ijeoma Umebinyuo, be gentle with yourself BFP #2 3/21 EDD 11/28/16
I am so sorry you have to go through this and for the loss of your little one. I haven't had consecutive miscarriages but I've had a missed miscarriage like yours. We heard a heartbeat at 6 weeks and found out that we lost the baby at 7 weeks when I thought I was 12 weeks. I remember almost being upset with myself as if I should have known or something (which is completely illogical).
To answer your question about the d&c... You can schedule it if you want or wait. I really just wanted to miscarry naturally and, for me, it took another 2 weeks for that to happen. You doctor can also give you a prescription to induce the miscarriage if you'd like to go that route. Take your time and grieve though and do whatever makes you comfortable. Hope this info helps
Re: *TW We lost another baby
@honeybeewebb2424, I truly hope you got good news today. Thank you for thinking about me.
@ohsoridiculous7, I'm so sorry that you're going through this too.
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
(edit after posting too early)
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
We are heartbroken and I dont know how ill be able to go back to work ... How will I be able to be a good nurse .. My next pt who her diagnosis is threatened miscarriage and my pain of my own experience makes it hard to keep it all together... Nobody wants your nurse to be crying at your bedside...
My heart is shattered.. And I just feel like a basket case...
I pray for the safe and healthy delievery of all of your babies.
BFP #2 3/21 EDD 11/28/16
I am so sorry for your loss.
IUI #1 Feb 2012= DS1 born 11/2012
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle)=DS2 born 9/2014
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle again)= EDD 11/2016
DD: 8/20/14; DS: 11/13/16; DD: 5/3/19; DD: 8/31/21; Baby #5 (team green) due 3/24/24
To answer your question about the d&c... You can schedule it if you want or wait. I really just wanted to miscarry naturally and, for me, it took another 2 weeks for that to happen. You doctor can also give you a prescription to induce the miscarriage if you'd like to go that route. Take your time and grieve though and do whatever makes you comfortable. Hope this info helps