hi everyone, just looking for comfort, advice or just venting. According to my lmp I should be 8 weeks but 1st sonogram measures @5. My doc believes it may not be a viable pregnancy, she said I will most likely miscarry. She wants me to do 1 last sonogram to check if their has been growth. I also recently lost my job & together with this it's been hard to get thru this. Part of me is scared for the sonogram& have to relive these feelings again....
@Magallyta that is a horrible position to be. That's a tough decision to make: go to the sonogram and here bad news or don't go and drive yourself crazy. I hope everything works itself out.
I'm so sorry you find yourself in limbo. I just went through that with my most recent loss. For myself, I actually found it to be a relief to get an answer after the follow up ultrasound, even though it obviously wasn't the one I was looking for. Being in limbo was the hardest for me. Hugs.
I am SO SO sorry. Your situation mirrors mine exactly. The week in between the first and last sonogram while we were in limbo was the hardest as well. It does help with bringing some closure and then you can decide options. It is heart wrenching and difficult. If I can be of any ear, please PM me.
Re: Waiting for last sonogram
Me: 38 DH: 38
Married: 12-15-2012
TTC: January 2014
IUI 12-11-2014 ... BFP: 12-24-2014 MMC: 2-17-2015 @ 12 weeks
IUI 6-1-2015 ... BFP: 6-16-2015 MC: 7-19-2015 @ 9 weeks 2 days
IUI 3-4-2016 ... BFP: 3-20-2016 MC: 5-2-2016 @ 10 weeks 3 days
/loss mentioned/
TTC#1 July 2014
dx: MFI (morphology)
IUI #1 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Sept. 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #2 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Halloween 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #3 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Thanksgiving 2015 ~ BFP!!
hb 146 bpm at 7w5d
1/28/16 ~ began to say goodbye to our beautiful baby at 11w
d&c, followed by cytotec
TTCAL April 2016
IUI #4 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Apr. 2016 ~ BFN
IUI #5 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ CP
IUI#6 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ BFN