June 2016 Moms

Monday Check-In

How far along are you?

Rants/raves/symptoms:

What are you doing to prepare for baby?

Questions?

GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing?

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  • how far along are you? 31 weeks
    rants/raves/symptoms : We got some news last Tuesday that my care is being transferred to high risk OB(partial placenta previa )and have been waiting for a call since then...hate this feeling of limbo! And Google doesn't help
  • @mrsschmity the only time I wanted sex later in pregnancy was after 37 weeks to help gets things started;) otherwise I didn't enjoy it either 
  • How far along are you? 33w2d

    Rants/raves/symptoms: 

    DH lost his job Friday. He worked in the oil and gas industry so we always knew it was a possibility, but it still stings. We are good for a while and we are looking on the brighter side of this. With his severance that he recieved and that we will have insurance for another 3 months he will try to stay home until after our LO is born. He may never get an opportunity like this again. I'm enjoying having him home during the day so he can help me with DD and the housework.

    Symptoms: Yesterday, I put myself in bedrest because I was getting lightheaded and having lots of BH. I don't know if I had overdone it Saturday or if it was something else. Doing much better today.

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? The nursery is pretty much done. Crib and bedding is set up. Clothes are washed and in drawers. We are waiting for our rocker to arrive but that's not supposed to be here until the end of my pregnancy. 

    Questions? 

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing? I have my associates from a community college. I mainly studied business and general office studies. I worked as an administrator assistant and in accounting until I became a SAHM almost 3 years ago. 

    2 angel babies to watch over us- bfp 3/16/13, c/p 3/27/13- bfp 6/27/13, c/p confirmed 7/4/13- We will always carry you in our hearts

     

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  • @DeePaddy24 aw so sorry to hear that you're sick!
    @amidavey06 I'm SO sorry to hear about your husband's job and impressed that you're both able to look on the bright side at a difficult time like that.
  • How far along: 30+5

    Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Sciatic nerve pain on the left side is kicking my butt!! Makes sleeping more difficult and the last couple of nights in the middle of the night I would get out of bed to pee and not feel like I could shift my weight back and forth from leg to leg because of the pain. Doing stretches and going to get a massage this week to try to ease it up a little. Driving home from KC Kansas right now so sitting in the car for 6 hours might not improve the situation. BUT I got to play with a hilarious 3 year old and a sweet 4 month old all weekend so I think it was worth it.

    What are you doing to prepare for baby: Going to a breastfeeding series this week and keeping up with my GD diet. Had a great scan this past Friday and it gave me continued motivation to keep it up. 4 weeks in, I can definitely rock this for another 9 weeks.

    GTKY Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing? Absolutely. Thank goodness I love what I do because I spent 4 years in undergrad, 2 years for a masters, and 4 years towards my PhD (all but dissertation. I quit so I didn't lose my mind) to do this. I am a mental health and substance use counselor. I look forward to work most days, I get excited to see people getting healthier, and I feel like what I do helps makes a positive influence on other peoples lives. Plus, I've gotten to do some pretty cool stuff like work in a jail, teach community members the benefits of Naloxone for opiate overdose, work with people between the ages of 3-70, collaborate with schools, courts, community programs, and families, and teach college courses. I'm broke and will be paying back student loans for the rest of my life but I love this career so much. It's what I've wanted to do since I was a peer counselor in high school and took my first psych course. Although, I truly thought I would take years off of work to be a SAHM and my plan did have to get adjusted for that. Going to try to balance it as best as possible.
  • @Bakerbird525 I remember having this dilemma with my DS.  I hung up all of his shirts, onsies, and one piece outfits.  Pants and jammies are folded in the drawers.  Also, I hung everything up by size.  That made it really easy to know what was going to fit him and when.  If you end up packing away bigger sizes, I always kept the next size up, so then when he started out growing some things, he could wear the things that ran small.
  • How far along are you? 32w5d

    Rants/raves/symptoms: Rants: Sleeping is getting harder by the day Rave: My sciatic nerve finally went away, I didn't think I could survive that for another 8 weeks so I'm thankful! Symptoms: Other than being insanely tired I'm pretty good. Just uncomfortable

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? We finally got some decor on the walls in the nursery. All I have left to do in there is paint his dresser and organize clothes

    Questions?

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing? Absolutely not. My degree is Hospitality Admin- I worked at a wedding venue right out of college for a few years, then moved to Catering Manager at a semi pro baseball park and now work at a Physical Therapy office doing accounting and billing. NOT what I had in mind for myself. 

  • How far along are you? 33+1

    Rants/raves/symptoms: rant- my cat is a douchebag and meows all night, so I'm still exhausted. Raves- had our shower yesterday!!! It was so much fun! Symptoms- BH and mild heartburn :(

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? Organizing all the gifts we got, putting them away and returning duplicates.

    Questions?

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing?

    Not at all!! I went to culinary school for both my AS and BS. I was in the industry for about 6 years and left because my last boss was an ass and had zero respect for a woman being in a kitchen. Now, I'm an ice skating coach and a seamstress making custom skating dresses :)


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  • How far along are you? 30 weeks and 5  days

    Rants/raves/symptoms: Symptoms: so so tired, and  RLP is real. Rants: my 16 month old has decided to be an absolute crazy monster and her naps are all over the place so it does not bode well for when I am dealing with sleep deprivation and a newborn! Raves: We have had amazing weather over the last few days and I have loved it. I'm also so glad we won't be pregnant during sweltering summer months. 

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? Freak out! 

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing? I'm currently a SAHM but am planning to go back to work at the end of this year. Nothing could have prepared me for the last 17 months! Lol. I was unprepared. 

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  • How far along are you? 32+5

    Rants/raves/symptoms: Totally overdid it over the weekend at our college reunion, and the travel was really hard on my already bothersome back/pelvis.  Trying to take it easy-ish today. DH is starting to "baby" me a little bit lately, he doesn't want me lifting things and I vacillate between thinking it's sweet and finding it annoying.  

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? Just went through all my son's old clothes to see if any were gender neutral enough to use for LO. Bought all the remaining baby bedding from our registry, and am currently trying to figure out the dates for my maternity leave since I will have to take some unpaid time.

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing? Not what I went to school for, but not surprising given my interests (I am in publishing).  I was a history major, so that doesn't really prepare you for a whole lot...

  • @MsBeachNJ  great to hear about your dad! 

    @hockeyfan42 I feel you on being annoyed by everyone... it is Monday and I am irritated by literally everyone I come in contact with lol

    @mrsalliekat Woo Hoo HOUSE!! Congrats :smiley: 

    @Kballew10 Congrats & good luck on listing the house! 

    @DeePaddy24 I hope you feel better soon!


    How far along are you? 31 + 3

    Rants/raves/symptoms: Rants: It is Monday & Patriots Day (do other places celebrate this day? I feel like it may just be a Boston thing) and I am at work. Raves: Even though I am a grumpasaurus rex at work it is beautiful outside. Tonight DH & I will take an after-dinner walk to enjoy some of this spring weather. Symptoms: So much pressure down there. I keep joking that he is just going to fall out! But seriously, I am getting pretty uncomfortable. 

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? Prepared childbirth class this Saturday! 


    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing? Yes! I got my BA in Psychology, my Master's in Mental Health Counseling and a certification in Substance Abuse Counseling. I currently work with clients who have chronic mental illness and a large part of the population are struggling with substance abuse. I love it! (Even though I don't want to be working today lol).

  • How far along are you?

    33 weeks today!!!!

    Rants/raves/symptoms:
    Rant: I am tired of my boss piling all of these new responsibilities on me to help free her up for new duties due to her promotion. I love to help and be involved but was it necessary to put me on committees and reporting responsibilities when I'm only a few weeks from maternity leave? I can't learn all of this stuff before I go out and then I'll have to relearn it when I get back....its not productive and doesn't give me time to tie up loose ends or delegate tasks that can't wait until I get back. I already tried to help her out by taking a shortened leave and offering to work longer hours until my due date, calm down lady. 

    Raves: my baby shower was yesterday and I am overwhelmed by everyone's kindness and generosity! 
    Symptoms: Headaches and insomnia!

    What are you doing to prepare for baby?
    my shower was yesterday, so organizing, washing and setting up everything while H works on finishing the hall bathroom. 

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing?
    Yes, but I didn't start here. I was in the medical field/laboratory sciences bc it was the hot thing when I was in college picking a major, but I ALWAYS wanted to be an accountant. After we got married I got sick and was not cleared to try to have children for a few years so my husband was supportive of me using the time in going back to school and making a career change. I couldn't be happier now!


  • 32+2

    Rants: It is Monday!! Raves: It is beautiful outside and I am working from home today. Symptoms? I second @thycapa insomnia and headaches.

    GTKY: I never imagined I would be working in accounting and finance but here I am...

    @bakerbird525 Everything is in the drawer and folded by type of clothes. Each age group nb, 0-3 months, and 3-6 has it's own drawer. Makes it easy to pack up to give away after she grows out of them.

    @MrsAlliKat Congrats!! I am so excited for you.

    @MrsBeachNJ so glad to heat about your dad.
  • How far along are you?
    32+2

    Rants/raves/symptoms:
    Rant: I know sex can be all over the place during pregnancy, but can I just say that 3rd trimester sex is in not sexy in any way, shape or form? I either: A) feel like a stuffed walrus B ) feel like my belly is being uncomfortably squished or C) feel various body parts flopping or moving when they shouldn't be and it's distracting. Ready to have my body back now.
    Rave: It's 7am, the birds are chirping and it's already 63 degrees outside. Thank you, Minnesota! OB appt this afternoon. I decided that I'm stopping at Bellies to Babies (maternity consignment store) on my way there because I refuse to wear H's tshirts and uncomfortable clothes for the next 2 months.
    Symptoms: All the usual. 

    What are you doing to prepare for baby?
    Tearing apart our house. Floors go in this weekend.

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing?
    Nope. I was a project manager for a software company before getting laid off, and I kind of just "fell into it". It's not what I imagined myself doing, but it's a good stable career. If I end up going back to PM work, I wouldn't mind being in a different industry. 

    This rant all the way .... I keep telling my husband I want to have sex which I do but the logistics are challenging 
    Ugh lol 

  • How far along are you?

    30+4 

    Rants/raves/symptoms:

    Rant - so horny yet so not sexy. I was trying to put the moves on DH and got stuck and actually had to think about how to roll myself to get up like a tummy up turtle. My husband giggled and then we had sex for my new max of 2 minutes .... 


    Rave - getting weird bursts of energy where I feel like my old self and then I promptly need a nap


    What are you doing to prepare for baby?

    Trying to get enough sleep and limit my refined sugar intake - and get through the next 6 weeks of work 

    I have some hypno apps I want to practice for the birth 

    Questions?

    Nope 

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing?

    I have a degree in business / commerce and I work in corporate sales at an executive level. So yes this is what I went to school for :)


  • How far along are you? 31w3d

    Rants/raves/symptoms: I'm ready to be done. My hips and back hurt.

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? I'm almost done with the nursery. I'm trying to finish stocking our freezer with meals.

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing? I have a degree in Psychology. I've been wanting to go back and get my masters. I'm currently not working. I was working in a shelter for women and children. The social service/mental health field is what I've always wanted to do. My husband is military and we had just moved when I found out I was pregnant. I had been looking for a job, but DH and I decided I could quit looking since I was going to quit after DD comes.


    37 y/o
    Married 9/1/13
    Off OCP 3/1/14
    TTC 6/1/14
    DX Endometriosis in 2002
    Laparoscopy 2002 and 2007
    HSG 8/2014, right tube partially blocked
    1st BFP 1/5/15 EDD 9/12/15- miscarried 1/8/15
    BFP 10/5/15 EDD 6/17/16- delivered healthy girl 6/18/16
    BFP 8/4/16 EDD 3/2/18- trisomy 18 girl- no heartbeat 8/25/17 at 13 weeks d&c 8/28/17
    BFP 12/4/17 EDD 8/19/18



  • @ShawnaG123 Yes I live in MA in one of the marathon route towns and had today off. It's just a Massachusetts holiday due to the Boston Marathon. 

    How far along are you?
    30+2
    Rants/raves/symptoms:
    Rant: I'm ok mostly. I have a lot of work to do before I go on maternity leave, so that's weighing on me.
    Rave: I had a prenatal massage yesterday and it was awesome. I feel pretty good and it was a beautiful day to watch the marathon.
    Symptoms: Peeing a lot, BH.What are you doing to prepare for baby?
    Why is this a question every day- I feel I say the same thing all the time? Childbirth class coming up this weekend, ordered more stuff for the nursery this past weekend.GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing?Yup, degree in biochemistry, and I'm a scientist in biotech. Exactly what I wanted to do.



  • How far along are you? 31+5

    Rants/raves/symptoms:  Rant: Had a wasp get stuck in my curly hair today, which freaked me out, made me trip over my flip flops, and fall backwards on the driveway. I'm okay, baby's okay. I'm pretty sure I'll have a nice bruise tomorrow. Wasps are such a holes.

    Rave: My OB appointment was awesome today. My last scan pretty much can be summed up in saying that my baby and me are about at normal as normal can get. Its measuring at 50th percentile in everything which was  a concern for me because I'm a plus size woman. So, that's good!

    Symptoms: BH, back pain, hip pain, I want my lungs back mostly. 

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? keeping up with my registry, finishing decorating the nursery, and we got a hardly used chicco playard from some friends at church which I was wanting for baby to sleep in next to me. So I'm happy to have another pricey thing off my list!

    Questions? 

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing? I went to school for a few years as an English and literature major for education. But I hated it, and quit. I'm a bank teller now, which I actually really enjoy, for the most part. What I really want is to be a SAHM, but we just can't afford it. Oh well, life goes on.

  • How far along are you?

     31w 2d

    Rants/raves/symptoms: 

    I have the equivalent of work senioritis as the countdown to maternity leave (@36w) begins! Also, this weekend and today especially my feet are finally starting to swell!!! Probably because it's been heating up into the 80s. Soo annoying, itchy, and uncomfortable feeling like a stuffed sausage below the knees.

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? 

    Counting the days until our sprinkle in two weeks, so we can figure out what else we need. We saved big stuff from DD, but need some boy things still.

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing?

    I am a social studies major with a minor in history, and ended up in tech doing PM for a software company. Never where I thought I'd end up, but I love the flexibility and love keeping current on all things tech! My boss offered for me to go remote after I come back from leave!!!

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    DD 3/2012
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  • How far along are you? 30w 2d

    Rants/raves/symptoms: Can someone please explain why we have to pay thousands of dollars for someone to tell us that we are fit to be parents after everything we've done to try to have a family?  They need to get all up and personal in our entire life and write a proposal.  Then we have to pay thousands more to have another person take that proposal to a court.  Then the judge needs to approve that we "qualify" to be parents!  If we don't live up to their standards, we can't be parents.  What is wrong with this country?!?!?!

    What are you doing to prepare for baby?  Two things....had a shower yesterday with friends and coworkers...16 out of 43 showed up.  It was absolutely wonderful though!  I will have to post some pics when I get them.  Love my people!  Also, COMPLETELY freaking out that we have to have a home study and an attorney write up all the documents and reports in less than 10 weeks!

    Questions?  Can someone talk me down?!

    GTKY: Is your current occupation what you went to school for or what you imagined yourself doing?  Yes but I always imagined myself as an orthopedic surgeon.  That is until I heard the drill on a bone!  ICK!

    TTC #1 Since May 2011 ~ Everyone Welcome
    Me (34): DOR d/t chemo/radiation, Immature Endometrial Lining, Hypothyroidism
    DH (35): MFI d/t testicular torsion and removal, Low T, Oligospermia, Anti-Sperm Antibodies, Currently on T supplements
    Sept '11-April '13 ~  Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying
    January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN
    February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!! 
    March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN
    July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test
    Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells
    New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT
    January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options
    April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy
    DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16
    July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?!
    7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291
    7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac
    7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!
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  • @Love4Labs326 I'm sorry you have to deal with so much crap! The simple fact that anyone can give birth to a child and no one looks into their life at all but yet someone who wants to adopt a child who needs a home has to go through all of that just blows my mind. I'll be praying for you guys!!
  • Thank you!!! It just makes me so angry and bitter and I hate those feelings.
    TTC #1 Since May 2011 ~ Everyone Welcome
    Me (34): DOR d/t chemo/radiation, Immature Endometrial Lining, Hypothyroidism
    DH (35): MFI d/t testicular torsion and removal, Low T, Oligospermia, Anti-Sperm Antibodies, Currently on T supplements
    Sept '11-April '13 ~  Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying
    January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN
    February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!! 
    March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN
    July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test
    Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells
    New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT
    January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options
    April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy
    DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16
    July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?!
    7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291
    7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac
    7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!
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  • 32 weeks!

    GTKY: My current occupation is SAHM, and it is not what I went to college for, but it was apart of the plan and I have used my English degree to help my hubs with his MA. I've also used my Theater degree, but that was last year when I was directing a community theater. I'm not doing that anymore because 1. We moved away from the community, and 2. I'm focusing on being a SAHM.
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