One of my employees is driving me nuts!!! They are intentionally starting late, taking extended breaks and lunches, and doesn't seem to care. I work from home in another state, so my team lead in the office is telling me all of this. And can I write them up? Nope, my boss is like we'll just take away privileges. Yeah, they don't care they are no longer a team lead so that's not working. I am seriously over their BS. I had no patience for it before I was pregnant, so I certainly have even less patience for it now that I am. Ugh. Okay, end rant.
Married 4/12/13 TTC since 6/13 Diagnosed w/ PCOS 4/9/15 - R/E recommended lifestyle change BFP 4/10/16 - DS born 12/16/2016 SURPRISE! BFP 3/8/18
Ugh. I just wanted to sleep today. I seriously thought about taking the day off. But I have to save as much of my PTO as possible to shorten the unpaid time of my maternity leave.
One of my employees is driving me nuts!!! They are intentionally starting late, taking extended breaks and lunches, and doesn't seem to care. I work from home in another state, so my team lead in the office is telling me all of this. And can I write them up? Nope, my boss is like we'll just take away privileges. Yeah, they don't care they are no longer a team lead so that's not working. I am seriously over their BS. I had no patience for it before I was pregnant, so I certainly have even less patience for it now that I am. Ugh. Okay, end rant.
So this process sucks, but just make sure their performance reviews reflect this. It can only go on so long before management decides they don't want to waste their money on someone who isn't performing well.
MH got me sick this weekend with a sore throat/ stuffy nose which normally stinks but is doable, but throwing up with a sore throat is seriously horrible. And I've totally complained about this before on this board, but I'm still bitter about it.
I went to bed last night and there were no ants in my kitchen. I wake up this morning and suddenly there's an invasion. I even swept the floors after dinner! Ready to go on the war path...
Guess I'll bitch about my allergies too! Makes sleeping, eating, breathing, pretty much everything harder. Sudafed had been my best friend past allergy seasons, but now it's a no-no. What is everyone taking to help with their symptoms? I'm open to all suggestions!
The weather changed here and it is so dry. I feel like I am so freaking dehydrated. I have a hangover headache and a dry mouth no matter how much water I drink. I feel like I got drunk in the desert.
My husband has been off for the last 2 weeks which has been great. But if he has been able to take naps during the day and I'm so freaking exhausted and jealous.
H is the best man for his brothers wedding which is in October. BIL called last night to discuss the bachelor party. H has been asking him for a list of people for a couple of months and ideas of what he wants to do, but BIL hasn't provided one. Anyway, BIL says you're hosting it at your house (meaning my house too) and we're going to party there all day and then people will be spending the night. H was like ahh I don't think so. What do you expect me to do, kick my wife out of the house? BIL, yeah can't she go stay at her parents?
Now, I'm not a snob or a prude or party pooper, but I'm annoyed with BIL. His friends are drop down drunks that always throw up and can't handle their liquor. I know I'll get stuck cleaning up my house, at 7 months pregnant, and then of course worrying about which moron is going to drive home drunk. H is adamant that BILs friends cannot spend the night. This morning BIL emails H and says he is so pist and that H is ruining his entire bachelor party and blah blah blah. Meanwhile I'm over here thinking to myself, you're a 35 year old grown ass man and you're crying over your bachelor party? You should be happy this amazing girl agreed to marry you because you're a pain the ass whiney little biotch.
Are H and I overreacting? Should we not care if BILs friends spend the night and destroy the house? Looking for opinions here ladies. I feel like there are a million things they could do for a bachelor party that don't involve kicking a pregnant lady out of her own house. Get a cabin, go to the casino, stay at a hotel, for the love of god stay at your house BIL!
H is the best man for his brothers wedding which is in October. BIL called last night to discuss the bachelor party. H has been asking him for a list of people for a couple of months and ideas of what he wants to do, but BIL hasn't provided one. Anyway, BIL says you're hosting it at your house (meaning my house too) and we're going to party there all day and then people will be spending the night. H was like ahh I don't think so. What do you expect me to do, kick my wife out of the house? BIL, yeah can't she go stay at her parents?
Now, I'm not a snob or a prude or party pooper, but I'm annoyed with BIL. His friends are drop down drunks that always throw up and can't handle their liquor. I know I'll get stuck cleaning up my house, at 7 months pregnant, and then of course worrying about which moron is going to drive home drunk. H is adamant that BILs friends cannot spend the night. This morning BIL emails H and says he is so pist and that H is ruining his entire bachelor party and blah blah blah. Meanwhile I'm over here thinking to myself, you're a 35 year old grown ass man and you're crying over your bachelor party? You should be happy this amazing girl agreed to marry you because you're a pain the ass whiney little biotch.
Are H and I overreacting? Should we not care if BILs friends spend the night and destroy the house? Looking for opinions here ladies. I feel like there are a million things they could do for a bachelor party that don't involve kicking a pregnant lady out of her own house. Get a cabin, go to the casino, stay at a hotel, for the love of god stay at your house BIL!
/rant Thanks for any opinions
Correct me if I'm wrong, but does the bachelor even get to decide on details like this? Anyways.
If he can't look into the future and see exactly what your husband is referring to, then he's a jackass. You absolutely would be dealing with what you think you would which is barf everywhere, possible property damage, drunk idiots running rampant. Book a local hotel with a shuttle service or even set up an Uber for the night, that might be a compromise. Good on your husband for sticking up for you, that's so rude to presume.
@nordymn89 Oh hell no. There would be no drunk idiots cavorting around my house no matter who asked. That is insanely presumptuous of your BIL. I agree. What a jackass!
K.
Son, K, 9 | Daughter, C, 5 | Daughter, M, expected November 7, 2016
MIL is at it again. She's the one who is insanely pushy about finding out the sex of the baby. Like it's never ending, no matter how many times I tell her or DH tells her we won't know for a couple more months - she brings it up every phone call, every visit. She has 7 other grandkids, she knows how this works.
So we posted our announcement video on FB yesterday, it was a big hit. DS's werewolf in the video had a little t-shirt on that I ironed on, "Littlest Last name" on it in red. She called 3 times about the damn video, okay yayyy you have known awhile, thanks, yes, it was cool, yes we are happy too.....
THEN I get another call from her while the boys are out and I'm trying to nap, so I don't answer. I ask DH about it later and he won't meet my eye. Apparently she called and said, "I might be mistaken, but she could swear (har har har) that the lettering on the stuffed werewolf's shirt is PIIIINK!"
YES MIL. I AM PUTTING SUBLIMINAL MESSAGES IN OUR ANNOUNCEMENT VIDEO. WE ARE TOTES HAVING A GIRL, SQUEE. YOU'RE SO CLEVER TO CATCH ON. BRAVA.
@NordyMN89HELL NO! That ish would not fly. Your BIL is being so selfish. Besides, doesn't the BM plan the party? I know my husband was kidnapped by his groomsmen and deposited back at our house drunk, but unharmed.
Married 4/12/13 TTC since 6/13 Diagnosed w/ PCOS 4/9/15 - R/E recommended lifestyle change BFP 4/10/16 - DS born 12/16/2016 SURPRISE! BFP 3/8/18
@HomeyDontPlayThat Oh my gods that would drive me up the freaking wall. I'd probably not tell her out of spite once we knew, but I'm evil like that. How have you guys not blown up at her to shut up?
K.
Son, K, 9 | Daughter, C, 5 | Daughter, M, expected November 7, 2016
@nordymn89 you are not overreacting at all. I would be furious!!!!
@homeydontplaythat oh for the love of Pete. That would get on my nerves so fast! Was she like this with her other grandkids as well?
I believe so, her daughter is the antithesis of girly and pretty much ignores her whims. It's taken me years to realize why she does that, I never understood her aloofness towards her Mother, now I employ the same methods to get through family events. She is incredibly overbearing and is used to be indulged by her husband and son (my husband)
I can't even with it. I am too alpha to comply. I legitimately cannot stand when women play dumb and coquettish to appear endearing or silly. She does it all the time, I don't get it. She's in her 70s, I assume it's just part of her repertoire at this point. We moved over an hour away from her last summer and it's helped immensely, otherwise she's be guilting DH into dinner at their house twice a week.
@HomeyDontPlayThat Oh my gods that would drive me up the freaking wall. I'd probably not tell her out of spite once we knew, but I'm evil like that. How have you guys not blown up at her to shut up?
I give her intense looks followed by silence. She knows better by now to direct these things at DH, bypassing me completely. I am starting to suspect she is doing it on purpose to get a rise out of me. So I make fun of her. Last time I told her there was no way an U/S tech could spot a penis or vagina on something resembling a gummy bear and that we'll tell her in a few months. She's old school, believes those words are jarring. So I say them to get a rise out of her.
DS2 got hand foot and mouth disease because a kid from preschool brought it from his daycare. Because of DS2's eczema, it made the rashing worse. Nobody has got any sleep since he's screamed most of the night. The Dr said he is one of the worst cases she's seen, but we just have to ride it out.
@NordyMN89, I wouldn't let a bunch of drunken guys near my house any day, much less while pregnant. *MAYBE* when I was 22 and lived in an apartment with a bunch of hand-me-downs and mismatched stuff, I would've considered it. But now we have a house that we like. With nice things that we also like. Team you.
@homeydontplaythat, I think I would just give in and tell her she's right. Definitely a girl, lol. That you might be naming her Samantha or Ryan, depending on which type of "girl" she ends up being when she's born. Otherwise, I would tell her you're not finding out the sex until birth. Or...you're not telling her the sex until birth.
@nordymn89 Oh hell no. There would be no drunk idiots cavorting around my house no matter who asked. That is insanely presumptuous of your BIL. I agree. What a jackass!
Exaaaactly this. If YH needs to pull the pregnancy card, he can. However, my answer to such an absurd idea would be HELL NO, regardless of the state of my uterus. How is this guy 35 yo?
DX PCOS Jan 2012 IUI #1 Feb 2012= DS1 born 11/2012 Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle)=DS2 born 9/2014 Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle again)= EDD 11/2016
@NordyMN89, I wouldn't let a bunch of drunken guys near my house any day, much less while pregnant. *MAYBE* when I was 22 and lived in an apartment with a bunch of hand-me-downs and mismatched stuff, I would've considered it. But now we have a house that we like. With nice things that we also like. Team you.
@homeydontplaythat, I think I would just give in and tell her she's right. Definitely a girl, lol. That you might be naming her Samantha or Ryan, depending on which type of "girl" she ends up being when she's born. Otherwise, I would tell her you're not finding out the sex until birth. Or...you're not telling her the sex until birth.
That's what bothers me about this. She is taking the fun out of it. Like just the news isn't good enough, she has to have more. It's putting stress in the middle of an otherwise happy time. Because she's effing bored, you know? It makes me want to not even tell her. She has to know she's alienating me, therefore making me pause before sharing anything else with her. Cutting off her nose to spite her face kind of thing.
@HomeyDontPlayThat, I'm sorry, that sounds frustrating. It sounds like she's coming from a good place, but, not doing herself any favors in annoying you with her crazy. I hope it dies down soon and she can just be excited for you.
@HomeyDontPlayThat, I'm sorry, that sounds frustrating. It sounds like she's coming from a good place, but, not doing herself any favors in annoying you with her crazy. I hope it dies down soon and she can just be excited for you.
Thank you @shevaCC that's very nice of you. I didn't mean to get all hardcore depressing up in here. I will never endeavor to be that kind of MIL, I just can't see what benefit there is from it. I'm so glad we live further out now. ♥
DS3 now has a fever. It's going to be a long week. At least DH is working from home since we decided it would best to quarantine the whole family for a few days.
Our jackass neighbors upstairs are always so obnoxiously loud, but today, I don't have a clue what they're doing. It's like they are f***ing tap dancing with cleets or something. For hours. I was trying to take a nap while DS slept but obviously that's not happening.
When I seen this post I actually said out loud 'my people' haha. I have a god damn eye infection or allergy to just one eye. Its swelled right up. So I can't go to work which is fine with me except I have to go sit in a crowded walk in clinic and wait 3-6 hours for a DR to just write me a drs note. If I don't get the note, I get fired. So that's a good feeling. Today was supposed to be the day BF was to do his part of our major spring cleaning that he has put off since it was labelled clean up before Christmas. My co worker is also making me feel guilty about being sick today. I think that's all I've got. Plus side of today, my friend from out of town is here today, and we weren't going to be able to see each other but now we can. And its a beautiful day so I can have our windows open.
@pinnerk - I love that you posted something positive in your BF It's good to look for the positives, but some days it's hard to do!
@homeydontplaythat - Sorry about the overbearing MIL. She needs to cool her jets for sure. And don't apologize! If we can't bitch to one another it'll build up inside of us and we'll explode one day...probably on our innocent H's or W's
Thanks to all the ladies for the bachelor party advice! I'm glad I'm not alone in thinking my BIL is way out of line. Maybe I'll have an update by the WTF post on Wednesday...here's to hoping H's discussion with him goes well!
@NordyMN89 I would strongly urge them to rent a house/cabin/hotel for the weekend. VRBO or Air BnB usually have great options and wouldn't they want to get away anyway? I can't believe your BIL would even suggest that knowing you're pregnant. You can't kick someone out of their own home just because you've planned a party for yourself at their house.
My Dog decided at 3:00am he wanted to play (he's never done this before) and was super loud. He proceeded to be overly obnoxious until DH's alarm went off at 5:00am. He has since been sleeping all day. What is wrong with you dog?
I am my own BF today. Since being pregnant, I've barely made dinner in the evenings, which is something I did every evening and enjoyed. We either grab something out, H makes something easy like Bertoli or a pizza, or 'fend for ourselves' aka a bowl of cereal or chips and salsa. I miss cooking so when we went grocery shopping last night I bought all kinds of stuff to make for dinner this week. I texted H during my lunch break and he was talking about how he was having a 'hungry' day but didn't want to snack because he wanted to leave room for dinner tonight and he was excited about a home-cooked meal. I feel so bad for my poor H. He completely understands that I'm tired and feel like shit most of the time and doesn't ever nag me about what I don't do anymore, but I feel so bad. I've decided to make a really big effort to cook more now that I'm starting to feel a little better.
Me: 31 | H: 32
Married September 2014
TTC #1 December 2014 RE appt 12/2015 CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent Dx: Unexplained Infertility February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6 BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16 It's a girl! Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S -------- TFAS March 2018 RE consultation 8/2/18 Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19 It's a girl! Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
All 3 boys are sick now. Thinking positively, at least they're sick at the same time and hopefully be through it at the same time. Everyone gets popcicles for the next couple days. The boys are pretty happy about that.
All 3 boys are sick now. Thinking positively, at least they're sick at the same time and hopefully be through it at the same time. Everyone gets popcicles for the next couple days. The boys are pretty happy about that.
You are getting all my sympathy right now.
DX PCOS Jan 2012 IUI #1 Feb 2012= DS1 born 11/2012 Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle)=DS2 born 9/2014 Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle again)= EDD 11/2016
My house is a mess with dirty laundry everywhere (DD was sick yesterday and a lot of stuff got puked on) but I am nauseous and I don't want to clean, wash, or fold until tomorrow. DH can't be in a dirty house without cleaning it, so he's running around doing things even though I told him please to leave it. Unfortunately he hasn't done laundry regularly since he was a junior in college (since I moved in with him) and he has no idea which of my things are delicate. I predict I will lose at least two lovely sweaters today.
Also, @NordyMN89your BIL is being a bonkers little diva. Sorry you have to deal with that. In no world would I ever allow a bachelor party to be thrown in my home while I stay at my mothers house (unless it was like a beer and board games thing).
H is the best man for his brothers wedding which is in October. BIL called last night to discuss the bachelor party. H has been asking him for a list of people for a couple of months and ideas of what he wants to do, but BIL hasn't provided one. Anyway, BIL says you're hosting it at your house (meaning my house too) and we're going to party there all day and then people will be spending the night. H was like ahh I don't think so. What do you expect me to do, kick my wife out of the house? BIL, yeah can't she go stay at her parents?
Now, I'm not a snob or a prude or party pooper, but I'm annoyed with BIL. His friends are drop down drunks that always throw up and can't handle their liquor. I know I'll get stuck cleaning up my house, at 7 months pregnant, and then of course worrying about which moron is going to drive home drunk. H is adamant that BILs friends cannot spend the night. This morning BIL emails H and says he is so pist and that H is ruining his entire bachelor party and blah blah blah. Meanwhile I'm over here thinking to myself, you're a 35 year old grown ass man and you're crying over your bachelor party? You should be happy this amazing girl agreed to marry you because you're a pain the ass whiney little biotch.
Are H and I overreacting? Should we not care if BILs friends spend the night and destroy the house? Looking for opinions here ladies. I feel like there are a million things they could do for a bachelor party that don't involve kicking a pregnant lady out of her own house. Get a cabin, go to the casino, stay at a hotel, for the love of god stay at your house BIL!
/rant Thanks for any opinions
No. Nope. Not a chance. I'd tell my BIL to kiss my entire pregnant @$$. Seriously, what kind of groomsmen are these that want to hang at a family home for a bachelor party?! I'm assuming there's 4-5 of them? For $25 a pop, they could get a room at the Hampton Inn and party to their hearts desires. For $100 each, they could practically get a high rise suite (in any city except NY or LA).
Tell them no. If you don't, I'm angry and hormonal enough to do it for you.
Me: 31; DH: 31 NTNP: May 2015 TTC #1: late August 2015 PCOS Dx: January 2016, starting Femara Feb 2016 BFP: 2/29/16 - Happy Leap Day!
@NordyMN89 I would strongly urge them to rent a house/cabin/hotel for the weekend. VRBO or Air BnB usually have great options and wouldn't they want to get away anyway? I can't believe your BIL would even suggest that knowing you're pregnant. You can't kick someone out of their own home just because you've planned a party for yourself at their house.
My Dog decided at 3:00am he wanted to play (he's never done this before) and was super loud. He proceeded to be overly obnoxious until DH's alarm went off at 5:00am. He has since been sleeping all day. What is wrong with you dog?
@NordyMN89 your husband should say these exact words to your BIL!
Awesome Kid #1: Born September 2013! Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!
Ugghhh @HomeyDontPlayThat we had a similar issue with my in laws when I was pregnant with my daughter. We were team green, but my in laws are obsessed with everyone in their family having boys because well, it's mostly boys in their fam. They just kept telling me to buy blue stuff already, yada yada yada. I showed them a 9 wk ultrasound and my FIL swore he could see a penis. Funny how even my doctor couldn't see a penis, and now that child is 2.5 and still... No penis!!
Awesome Kid #1: Born September 2013! Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!
Re: Monday Bitchfest 4-18
TTC since 6/13
Diagnosed w/ PCOS 4/9/15 - R/E recommended lifestyle change
BFP 4/10/16 - DS born 12/16/2016
SURPRISE! BFP 3/8/18
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019I have another one (how could I forget?!)...
H is the best man for his brothers wedding which is in October. BIL called last night to discuss the bachelor party. H has been asking him for a list of people for a couple of months and ideas of what he wants to do, but BIL hasn't provided one. Anyway, BIL says you're hosting it at your house (meaning my house too) and we're going to party there all day and then people will be spending the night. H was like ahh I don't think so. What do you expect me to do, kick my wife out of the house? BIL, yeah can't she go stay at her parents?
Now, I'm not a snob or a prude or party pooper, but I'm annoyed with BIL. His friends are drop down drunks that always throw up and can't handle their liquor. I know I'll get stuck cleaning up my house, at 7 months pregnant, and then of course worrying about which moron is going to drive home drunk. H is adamant that BILs friends cannot spend the night. This morning BIL emails H and says he is so pist and that H is ruining his entire bachelor party and blah blah blah. Meanwhile I'm over here thinking to myself, you're a 35 year old grown ass man and you're crying over your bachelor party? You should be happy this amazing girl agreed to marry you because you're a pain the ass whiney little biotch.
Are H and I overreacting? Should we not care if BILs friends spend the night and destroy the house? Looking for opinions here ladies. I feel like there are a million things they could do for a bachelor party that don't involve kicking a pregnant lady out of her own house. Get a cabin, go to the casino, stay at a hotel, for the love of god stay at your house BIL!
/rant Thanks for any opinions
If he can't look into the future and see exactly what your husband is referring to, then he's a jackass. You absolutely would be dealing with what you think you would which is barf everywhere, possible property damage, drunk idiots running rampant. Book a local hotel with a shuttle service or even set up an Uber for the night, that might be a compromise. Good on your husband for sticking up for you, that's so rude to presume.
Son, K, 9 | Daughter, C, 5 | Daughter, M, expected November 7, 2016
So we posted our announcement video on FB yesterday, it was a big hit. DS's werewolf in the video had a little t-shirt on that I ironed on, "Littlest Last name" on it in red. She called 3 times about the damn video, okay yayyy you have known awhile, thanks, yes, it was cool, yes we are happy too.....
THEN I get another call from her while the boys are out and I'm trying to nap, so I don't answer. I ask DH about it later and he won't meet my eye. Apparently she called and said, "I might be mistaken, but she could swear (har har har) that the lettering on the stuffed werewolf's shirt is PIIIINK!"
YES MIL. I AM PUTTING SUBLIMINAL MESSAGES IN OUR ANNOUNCEMENT VIDEO. WE ARE TOTES HAVING A GIRL, SQUEE. YOU'RE SO CLEVER TO CATCH ON. BRAVA.
@homeydontplaythat oh for the love of Pete. That would get on my nerves so fast! Was she like this with her other grandkids as well?
TTC since 6/13
Diagnosed w/ PCOS 4/9/15 - R/E recommended lifestyle change
BFP 4/10/16 - DS born 12/16/2016
SURPRISE! BFP 3/8/18
Son, K, 9 | Daughter, C, 5 | Daughter, M, expected November 7, 2016
I can't even with it. I am too alpha to comply. I legitimately cannot stand when women play dumb and coquettish to appear endearing or silly. She does it all the time, I don't get it. She's in her 70s, I assume it's just part of her repertoire at this point. We moved over an hour away from her last summer and it's helped immensely, otherwise she's be guilting DH into dinner at their house twice a week.
You can see our rivalry, hahahahaha.
@homeydontplaythat, I think I would just give in and tell her she's right. Definitely a girl, lol. That you might be naming her Samantha or Ryan, depending on which type of "girl" she ends up being when she's born. Otherwise, I would tell her you're not finding out the sex until birth. Or...you're not telling her the sex until birth.
IUI #1 Feb 2012= DS1 born 11/2012
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle)=DS2 born 9/2014
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle again)= EDD 11/2016
We own a second home in DC that we rent out. Our current renters suck. It's still worth it to keep the house, but being a landlord is not fun.
IUI #1 Feb 2012= DS1 born 11/2012
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle)=DS2 born 9/2014
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle again)= EDD 11/2016
I have a god damn eye infection or allergy to just one eye. Its swelled right up.
So I can't go to work which is fine with me except I have to go sit in a crowded walk in clinic and wait 3-6 hours for a DR to just write me a drs note. If I don't get the note, I get fired. So that's a good feeling.
Today was supposed to be the day BF was to do his part of our major spring cleaning that he has put off since it was labelled clean up before Christmas.
My co worker is also making me feel guilty about being sick today.
I think that's all I've got.
Plus side of today, my friend from out of town is here today, and we weren't going to be able to see each other but now we can. And its a beautiful day so I can have our windows open.
@pinnerk - I love that you posted something positive in your BF It's good to look for the positives, but some days it's hard to do!
@homeydontplaythat - Sorry about the overbearing MIL. She needs to cool her jets for sure. And don't apologize! If we can't bitch to one another it'll build up inside of us and we'll explode one day...probably on our innocent H's or W's
Thanks to all the ladies for the bachelor party advice! I'm glad I'm not alone in thinking my BIL is way out of line. Maybe I'll have an update by the WTF post on Wednesday...here's to hoping H's discussion with him goes well!
My Dog decided at 3:00am he wanted to play (he's never done this before) and was super loud. He proceeded to be overly obnoxious until DH's alarm went off at 5:00am. He has since been sleeping all day. What is wrong with you dog?
I texted H during my lunch break and he was talking about how he was having a 'hungry' day but didn't want to snack because he wanted to leave room for dinner tonight and he was excited about a home-cooked meal. I feel so bad for my poor H. He completely understands that I'm tired and feel like shit most of the time and doesn't ever nag me about what I don't do anymore, but I feel so bad. I've decided to make a really big effort to cook more now that I'm starting to feel a little better.
RE appt 12/2015
CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent
Dx: Unexplained Infertility
February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6
BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16
It's a girl!
Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S
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TFAS March 2018
RE consultation 8/2/18
Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19
It's a girl!
Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
IUI #1 Feb 2012= DS1 born 11/2012
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle)=DS2 born 9/2014
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle again)= EDD 11/2016
Also, @NordyMN89your BIL is being a bonkers little diva. Sorry you have to deal with that. In no world would I ever allow a bachelor party to be thrown in my home while I stay at my mothers house (unless it was like a beer and board games thing).
Tell them no. If you don't, I'm angry and hormonal enough to do it for you.
NTNP: May 2015
TTC #1: late August 2015
PCOS Dx: January 2016, starting Femara Feb 2016
BFP: 2/29/16 - Happy Leap Day!
Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!
Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!