Does anyone know or have experience in dealing with a doctor putting you out of work before you planned? I go tomorrow to see if I can return at all but I don't want this to cut into my FMLA/maternity I plan to take with LO. I am 36 weeks so I still could have a few weeks left to go and really hate to waste it but I want to do what the doctor thinks is best. I have emailed and called a lady in HR and still heard nothing back and starting to get very irritated. Any info or experience would help. Thank you!
Re: Medical Leave VS. FMLA/maternity leave
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Maternity leave just means that your doctor is writing you out for 6 weeks (vaginal) or 8 weeks (c-section) and that tells your short term disability how long they need to pay you for (which is a different entity from your company) once all your sick time or vacation time runs out.
Maternity leave (or short term disability) and FMLA goes together because FMLA is just a federal law that guarantees you'll have a job after 12 weeks of leave (with or without pay according to your company policies).
That means if you go on bed rest then you would in turn have less time with your LO. I could be on bed rest for my broken foot right now but I'm toughing it out to make sure I get to take my full 10 weeks (I'm just taking 10 out of 12) when my baby arrives.
Now, if you want to talk short term disability and what's covered and what's not according to bed rest vs birth of child. That's a whole another ball game.
I hope some of that makes sense! I think if you really need to be on bed rest, you should do it. I know it sucks to have less time with your LO but it's probably better to keep her in there longer for the sake of her health down the road. But that's just my opinion. I'm sorry you're having to go through this
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Just wanted to clarify the bolded. This may be true of your employer, but not every employer makes you take your vacation and sick time first. Mine doesn't. I use my STD first and then take my vacation time, so I will have more vacation after I return from maternity leave. STD at my company also pays 100% which not all plans do.
Also, 12 weeks is the maximum amount of time that employers have to keep your job, but if you have a good employer, most are not going to fire you if you take a couple extra weeks. This is something you could negotiate. A few women at my office have taken 14 weeks when their child was born. Again, this is company specific, after you are past the federal mandated time, so talk with your HR department.
12 Weeks FMLA
- 2 Weeks Sick Leave 100%
- 4 Weeks STD 100%
- 2 Weeks STD 70%
- 4 Weeks unpaid
So, if I want to use my annual leave to get paid and then push out my STD, I could, but it's not a requirement. We're fortunate where I can go 4 weeks unpaid, and we'll be fine financially. This means that I keep accruing annual leave while I'm out, I retain the annual leave I have banked when I go out on leave, and I don't have a sick leave bank I depleted.
Obviously it depends on your employer on how they mandate STD (mine is 50% of pay) and full paid time off works while on FMLA. Mine just works that way, unfortunately.
I was going to suggest if she has a good employer to use a schedule "vacation time" a week before due date or something and it wouldn't count towards her FMLA. But didn't want to confuse her because you can't just assume you'll be ok after your 12 weeks is gone because you have a potentially good employer. The law only protects you for 12 weeks.
But I think we all answered her original question as to how FMLA actually works. Once you go on leave for pregnancy, it counts and doesn't matter if you've given birth or not. Technically, the prenatal appointments we all go to could be counted towards frequent time off also but, fortunately, we all don't work for sh*t employers.
When in doubt, talk to HR.