I really hate when people post stuff on facebook that say things like "my true friends will copy and paste this" or "can I make a request, post this for an hour" etc etc. I just keep on scrolling :
@lisswastaken ditto.. I know I shouldn't, but I always feel so conflicted.. like, I really do feel that I'm true friends with this person... but I can't post that junk..
Me: 33 DH: 36 Together since 2007 Happily Ever After 4.30.2015 ~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017 Trying for #2!!
so true. and honestly, they aren't keeping track. Sometimes I feel like a lot of people (on my FB) just mindlessly hit the share button without even reading what they're posting. I guess that's another UO for today lol.
This is a home interior UO and rant, so I apologize in advance.....
I hate the trend that is gold fixtures and marble in homes these days... I should say that, while I love seeing it, and I have a faux marble case on my iphone and on my mac, and I'm all about some gold, IT'S JUST SO SUPER TRENDY...I DON'T THINK IT BELONGS ON PERMANENT FIXTURES IN A HOME...Do people not remember the 90's? The brass fixtures everywhere? cultured marble? and how everyone tried to "update" that a few years ago? I just, I don't understand..
Me: 33 DH: 36 Together since 2007 Happily Ever After 4.30.2015 ~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017 Trying for #2!!
I really hate when people post stuff on facebook that say things like "my true friends will copy and paste this" or "can I make a request, post this for an hour" etc etc. I just keep on scrolling :
I'm not exactly sure how I feel about religion or where my views fall but those are usually about prayers and I always just want to post this...
so true. and honestly, they aren't keeping track. Sometimes I feel like a lot of people (on my FB) just mindlessly hit the share button without even reading what they're posting. I guess that's another UO for today lol.
For sure a lot of people just share. The amount of incorrectly attributed quotes and mindless bull-shit across my timeline is ridiculous. It's amazing what people believe because of Facebook memes
TTC1: May 2015
Primary IF May 2016; Failed HSG; Scheduled Lap Sept. 2016
This is a home interior UO and rant, so I apologize in advance.....
I hate the trend that is gold fixtures and marble in homes these days... I should say that, while I love seeing it, and I have a faux marble case on my iphone and on my mac, and I'm all about some gold, IT'S JUST SO SUPER TRENDY...I DON'T THINK IT BELONGS ON PERMANENT FIXTURES IN A HOME...Do people not remember the 90's? The brass fixtures everywhere? cultured marble? and how everyone tried to "update" that a few years ago? I just, I don't understand..
I had the same emotion when I first started seeing marble and now I love it!! But I wouldn't get it because I know it will lose its trend soon. On another subject - I saw the faux marble macbook covers online and considered getting one - do you love yours? Do they look good in person?
I do not like corn. Frozen, fresh, cobbed, or canned (Ew!!). It just tastes blah. Plus, I really have trust issues with something that I chew and digest, yet manages to come out whole.
so true. and honestly, they aren't keeping track. Sometimes I feel like a lot of people (on my FB) just mindlessly hit the share button without even reading what they're posting. I guess that's another UO for today lol.
For sure a lot of people just share. The amount of incorrectly attributed quotes and mindless bull-shit across my timeline is ridiculous. It's amazing what people believe because of Facebook memes
@sarah0985 The Onion and ClickHole are my favorite for this sort of unintentional hilarity.
I do not like corn. Frozen, fresh, cobbed, or canned (Ew!!). It just tastes blah. Plus, I really have trust issues with something that I chew and digest, yet manages to come out whole.
@Steelerfan3878 - as an Illinoisan, growing up surrounded by corn fields, this is sacrilege. Corn for life! But yeah coming out whole in your poop does defy logic.
Me: 33 DH: 31 DS: 5 years old TTC #2 since August 2015 July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts November 2016: FET#1 = chemical January 2017: FET#2 = chemical March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
April 24, 2017: FET#3 - BFN May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
This is more of a FFFC but I occasionally unfriend distant FB acquaintances when I see those emotional manipulation posts, but it's usually on their birthdays.
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*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016 BFP . jan 2017 DD . oct 2017
ntnp #2 . summer 2018 mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019 RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019 surprise BFP . aug 2019 DS . may 2020
dx Hashimoto's 2023 ttc #3 . feb 2023 mmc . apr 2023 mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024 dx elevated nk cells tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025 BFP . mar 2025
Yes, yes, I know it's "unpopular". I can honestly say I have only met one other person who didn't like corn my entire life. Maybe I should have saved this for FFFC. Haha!
@steelerfan3878 but...but... how would you feel about fried corn? It's not like what it sounds like, it's off the cob corn sautéed with cream and bacon grease It's extremely unhealthy, but delicious.
Me: 33 DH: 36 Together since 2007 Happily Ever After 4.30.2015 ~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017 Trying for #2!!
@Steelerfan3878 I have to second you on corn. I'll eat it but I really just don't like it. It's something about the consistency. It's hard to eat on the cob and it's like eating tiny warm bursting eyeballs when it's off cob. lol. Be careful with the corn and doggies tho. I was a vet tech and if they eat the cob it can block them up
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@Steelerfan3878 I have to second you on corn. I'll eat it but I really just don't like it. It's something about the consistency. It's hard to eat on the cob and it's like eating tiny warm bursting eyeballs when it's off cob. lol. Be careful with the corn and doggies tho. I was a vet tech and if they eat the cob it can block them up
Not sure if this is an unpopular opinion or not but I need to rant.
I'm super pissed that if I get KU anytime soon, everyone's going to think I only did it because all of my cousins and friends are announcing that they're KU or just had a baby. No one knows, but we've been thinking about kids for a while now and we were NTNP before TTC, so it's not like this is a new attitude for us. We've always said we'd like a year of marriage to ourselves, at least, and then we'd think about kids. My family will just end up thinking I did this on a whim though because everyone else is having kids.
It just seems like all the super irresponsible 18/19 year olds I know are all getting KU spontaneously from their on-again off-again SO's or one night stands, and people like my cousin and I are trying month after month without results (she's been trying for 10 months so she's really bummed out).
I just can't with life's unfairness right now.
/End rant.
Previously PaukMeKiande
Surprise BFP/MC February 2011 BFP May 16th 2016
EDD January 25 2017 DD born January 30 2017 Surprise BFP/MC April 2017
@Steelerfan3878 I have to second you on corn. I'll eat it but I really just don't like it. It's something about the consistency. It's hard to eat on the cob and it's like eating tiny warm bursting eyeballs when it's off cob. lol.
@MelissaM090 Agreed! He is a super good actor but he's just too weird for my taste...
ETA: @PaukMeKiande I'm sorry you feel that way! I have 5 friends that have had babies in the last month and 3 more friends that have announced their pregnancy recently as well...it's frustrating to feel like everyone will think you're TTC or PG just because "everyone else is doing it". Hugs!
so true. and honestly, they aren't keeping track. Sometimes I feel like a lot of people (on my FB) just mindlessly hit the share button without even reading what they're posting. I guess that's another UO for today lol.
For sure a lot of people just share. The amount of incorrectly attributed quotes and mindless bull-shit across my timeline is ridiculous. It's amazing what people believe because of Facebook memes
@sarah0985 The Onion and ClickHole are my favorite for this sort of unintentional hilarity.
I love reading The Onion comments, people really believe it and it makes my day.
My UO is that when I have a baby shower (yes, when, I'm an optimist), I don't want to open presents in front of everyone. I had to open presents at my bridal shower and it's so weird. I don't think anyone likes it. It's awkward for the gift opener and everyone watching. Especially if you gave someone a smaller gift than the person before you. Do you think it's rude if I wait until everyone's gone to open anything?
Me: 32 | DH: 36
Married June 2005
1/2016 - TTC#1
4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)
7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst
9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018
@ratparade I don't think it's rude. I wish more people would do that lol. I hardly ever pay attention when people open presents.. horrible to say but totally honest
I had to open presents at my bridal shower and it's so weird. I don't think anyone likes it. It's awkward for the gift opener and everyone watching. Especially if you gave someone a smaller gift than the person before you. Do you think it's rude if I wait until everyone's gone to open anything?
YES. I hated opening gifts at my bridal shower. I found I felt pressured to keep up a running commentary with lots of exclamation points the whole time and there's only so much you can say about both towels, you know. I have 0% problem being the center of attention and I hated it so I can only imagine how people with any sort of social anxiety feel.
Not sure if this is an unpopular opinion or not but I need to rant.
I'm super pissed that if I get KU anytime soon, everyone's going to think I only did it because all of my cousins and friends are announcing that they're KU or just had a baby. No one knows, but we've been thinking about kids for a while now and we were NTNP before TTC, so it's not like this is a new attitude for us. We've always said we'd like a year of marriage to ourselves, at least, and then we'd think about kids. My family will just end up thinking I did this on a whim though because everyone else is having kids.
It just seems like all the super irresponsible 18/19 year olds I know are all getting KU spontaneously from their on-again off-again SO's or one night stands, and people like my cousin and I are trying month after month without results (she's been trying for 10 months so she's really bummed out).
I just can't with life's unfairness right now.
/End rant.
If it makes you feel any better, my BFF is pregnant right now and about three to four months after she announced her pregnancy, I told her that DH and I were going to start trying. She responded with a, "Are you sure you really want this, or is it just because I'm having a baby before you?" Ugh...DH and I had been planning on it for a while. I'm not 12. I don't make major life decisions based on what other people expect.
I'm sorry that you're going through that. Big hugs to you!
@melissam090 and @ratparade I also hated opening gifts in front of people. I'm an introvert as it is, so doing that was draining to say the least. It's funny how leading up to your engagement you can't wait for all the stuff like showers/bach parties etc.. and then when they get here, they just aren't that fun. It almost seems like work!
Me: 33 DH: 36 Together since 2007 Happily Ever After 4.30.2015 ~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017 Trying for #2!!
@RatParade - I second you! I hated opening the gifts at my bridal shower but my mom forced me. (Ha! that sounds funny coming from a 31 year old woman) She, and everyone I know, said it's just part of the party and it's what you have to do. But you know what? F-that! If and when I have a baby shower, I'm not going to open the presents in front of everyone!
Given some of the previous comments, I guess this is an unpopular opinion, but I like the gift opening portion of showers and, I have to admit, I would be a little irritated if gifts weren't opened at a shower I attended. I mean, the whole purpose of a shower is to "shower" the guest of honor with gifts so I do think it's an expectation. I agree that it was awkward to open presents at my bridal shower, but I also feel that if people are spending the time/money to give me a gift and attend the party, the least I can do is open it.
Opening gifts at my bridal shower was the most awkward thing ever. But, I also think it depends on your audience. A lot of people like looking at all the cute baby stuff, and want to see what you got. My family, for example, would be upset about not getting to see all the gifts. I think seeing baby shower gifts (cute little outfits, toys, etc.) is more exciting than the toasters and bedding sets that you typically open at Bridal Showers.
That being said, I think that you should be allowed to do whatever makes you feel comfortable.
Me: 28 | DH: 31 Together since 2006 | Married May 2015 TTC #1 since November 2015 BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17
My UO is that I can't do tea. I don't like it at all... but I am going to try the green tea thing to see if it helps me along. I think tea tastes like gross juice you put too much water in.
My UO is that I can't do tea. I don't like it at all... but I am going to try the green tea thing to see if it helps me along. I think tea tastes like gross juice you put too much water in.
Agreed. I love the way it smells (the flavoured ones at least) but then it never tastes like it smells. I referred to it as 'hot garbage water' on a post last week. But now I think I want to try green tea for CM and I'm trying to figure out how to do it so that maybe I actually enjoy it.
Me: 32 DH: 33 Married: October 2015 TTC #1: October 2015 EDD #1: June/July 2017
Re: UO Thursday!
Me: 37
DH: 36
Married: 08-25-07
DS: 11-20-09
Name change alert: Formerly Lisswastaken
DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
Me: 37
DH: 36
Married: 08-25-07
DS: 11-20-09
Name change alert: Formerly Lisswastaken
I hate the trend that is gold fixtures and marble in homes these days... I should say that, while I love seeing it, and I have a faux marble case on my iphone and on my mac, and I'm all about some gold, IT'S JUST SO SUPER TRENDY...I DON'T THINK IT BELONGS ON PERMANENT FIXTURES IN A HOME...Do people not remember the 90's? The brass fixtures everywhere? cultured marble? and how everyone tried to "update" that a few years ago? I just, I don't understand..
DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
For sure a lot of people just share. The amount of incorrectly attributed quotes and mindless bull-shit across my timeline is ridiculous. It's amazing what people believe because of Facebook memes
Me: 37
DH: 36
Married: 08-25-07
DS: 11-20-09
Name change alert: Formerly Lisswastaken
TEAM: PINK!!
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I get compliments on it when I have to take it to meetings and such. I love it.
DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
TEAM: PINK!!
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
DS: 5 years old
TTC #2 since August 2015
July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN
August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts
November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
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Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
*siggy warning*
mmc . mar 2016
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
surprise BFP . aug 2019
DS . may 2020
dx Hashimoto's 2023
ttc #3 . feb 2023
mmc . apr 2023
mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
dx elevated nk cells
tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
BFP . mar 2025
@Sparty18 - I agree, too cute!!
BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
Be careful with the corn and doggies tho. I was a vet tech and if they eat the cob it can block them up
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BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
I'm super pissed that if I get KU anytime soon, everyone's going to think I only did it because all of my cousins and friends are announcing that they're KU or just had a baby. No one knows, but we've been thinking about kids for a while now and we were NTNP before TTC, so it's not like this is a new attitude for us. We've always said we'd like a year of marriage to ourselves, at least, and then we'd think about kids. My family will just end up thinking I did this on a whim though because everyone else is having kids.
It just seems like all the super irresponsible 18/19 year olds I know are all getting KU spontaneously from their on-again off-again SO's or one night stands, and people like my cousin and I are trying month after month without results (she's been trying for 10 months so she's really bummed out).
I just can't with life's unfairness right now.
/End rant.
BFP May 16th 2016
DD born January 30 2017
Surprise BFP/MC April 2017
I'm sorry. I'm especially sorry to @Steelerfan3878 because you put him in your WTO GTKY today. But I can't. I just can't.
DH: 33
Married: October 2015
TTC #1: October 2015
EDD #1: June/July 2017
@MelissaM090 Agreed! He is a super good actor but he's just too weird for my taste...
ETA: @PaukMeKiande I'm sorry you feel that way! I have 5 friends that have had babies in the last month and 3 more friends that have announced their pregnancy recently as well...it's frustrating to feel like everyone will think you're TTC or PG just because "everyone else is doing it". Hugs!
Me: 26 Hubs: 28
Married: 6/6/15
Baby Girl: 3/22/2017
My UO is that when I have a baby shower (yes, when, I'm an optimist), I don't want to open presents in front of everyone. I had to open presents at my bridal shower and it's so weird. I don't think anyone likes it. It's awkward for the gift opener and everyone watching. Especially if you gave someone a smaller gift than the person before you. Do you think it's rude if I wait until everyone's gone to open anything?
Me: 32 | DH: 36
Married June 2005
1/2016 - TTC#1
4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)
7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst
9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018
Me: 37
DH: 36
Married: 08-25-07
DS: 11-20-09
Name change alert: Formerly Lisswastaken
BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
YES. I hated opening gifts at my bridal shower. I found I felt pressured to keep up a running commentary with lots of exclamation points the whole time and there's only so much you can say about both towels, you know. I have 0% problem being the center of attention and I hated it so I can only imagine how people with any sort of social anxiety feel.
DH: 33
Married: October 2015
TTC #1: October 2015
EDD #1: June/July 2017
I'm sorry that you're going through that. Big hugs to you!
DH: 33
Married: October 2015
TTC #1: October 2015
EDD #1: June/July 2017
DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
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That being said, I think that you should be allowed to do whatever makes you feel comfortable.
Me: 28 | DH: 31
Together since 2006 | Married May 2015
TTC #1 since November 2015
BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
DH: 33
Married: October 2015
TTC #1: October 2015
EDD #1: June/July 2017