Y'all I seriously almost forgot about periods. Like, it's been so long I almost forgot that was a thing. Yeah, I'll miss no periods. It's been so awesome not having them, apparently I got used to it >.<
Sometimes I'll find myself in the women's hygiene aisle in the supermarket and I'll be all, "Oh yeah, that's right, I used to get periods..." like I haven't had any in 10 years or something. Feels like a very distant memory and I'm definitely not looking forward to getting them back.
I think what I'll miss the most is my silhouette. I'm overweight and I love looking obviously pregnant (I feel like I was stuck in the 'not sure if pregnant or just fat' phase for far too long). Whenever I'm outside, I'll just look in every window to see my reflexion bumpin' it up. I think it'll be really weird to suddenly look much flatter again.
The no period and semi -knowing baby is safe, I say semi because of the things that can go bad and you have no clue, are cool but don't trump the misery that has come with it. So, I'm going with nothing. Supposed to do this again so my baby isn't alone but geez! If that hormone that makes you forget the horror of pregnancy doesn't kick in then it ain't happening.
As far as breastfeeding (mostly pumping in my case), I didn't get my period until 12months postpartum. I didn't fully wean until 16+months, and I must have gotten pregnant about 6 weeks later. I had 3 periods in those 5months.... (still trying to figure this one out).
Prior to the twins' pregnancy, I didn't get any periods due to PCOS, so the periods were a surprise and pregnancy #2 was a shock and a blessing (esp after going through infertility treatments for pregnancy#1).
Mama to Three Girls: Twins born March 2014 at 26 weeks due to preterm labor and our 37weeker born May 9th, 2016!
I will miss all of it. The good and bad, the ups and the downs because it is all bittersweet from this point forward as it is most likely our last baby. My last baby EVER in my lifetime, it feels so huge and sad, but also I am so thankful for the opportunity go through all of this pregnancy stuff another time and welcome this baby into our life and family.
To those who didn't know about the periods stuff and breastfeeding...breastfeeding is not a sure method of contraception and many women get pregnant again while breastfeeding because they think it is. It is really hard to maintain amenorrhea while breastfeeding so do not rely on it as a way to not become pregnant again. Please discuss birth control methods with your physicians post partum! You may start ovulating again earlier than you realise!!
I'll miss the increased sleep I've had since weaning DS in the second trimester. I'll also miss no period-- though I assume with bf it'll go away again for 10 months or so...or until I eat way more calories than bf takes like last time (yeah, I blame you, Christmas cookies!). I'll miss the 24-7 togetherness too from an anxiety standpoint. I also actually like my baby bump sometimes. Eta-- and nesting ideas/energy!
Am I reading this right, you don't have a period when you breastfeed??
My step sister said she went the entire time she breast fed for both of my nieces without a period. She breast fed my youngest niece for a little over 12 months. I'm definitely hoping this is the case for me.
Oh WOW!! I really hope i am able to BF and not have a period either! lol it's a win win !!
I nursed and didn't get my cycle back for 18 months.
I finally figured out what I'll miss. Sitting with my legs open! Like a guy.
Today at church I found myself leaned back in my seat with my legs shoulder width apart. I was so comfortable and knew that it would not be "acceptable" for me to sit like that if I weren't pregnant. Right now I can take up all the space and people clear out and give it to me. I don't miss crossing my legs at all.
Mine would have to be being doted on by my husband. He's a sweet guy normally but now that I'm big he will literally get up and get anything for me, cooks me dinner, etc. and it's been GREAT. I can't imagine that will continue much after labor recovery.
Mine would have to be being doted on by my husband. He's a sweet guy normally but now that I'm big he will literally get up and get anything for me, cooks me dinner, etc. and it's been GREAT. I can't imagine that will continue much after labor recovery.
Mine pretty much told me that he expects me back to my usual duties as soon as baby is born. He's very loving and doting so I'm not totally convinced he still won't be as doting but he's made it pretty clear I won't be able to get away with doing as little as I have been the past 8 months
I'm going to miss being this close to having a baby:)
I am not a patient person, and I want lots of kids, so the thought of starting at 0 weeks all over again is kind of depressing to me. Thankfully, I am sure baby will be a good distraction;)
@nerdymama15: camaraderie!!! It's an awful word to try to look up, because it seems wrong from the second letter on.
Mine would have to be being doted on by my husband. He's a sweet guy normally but now that I'm big he will literally get up and get anything for me, cooks me dinner, etc. and it's been GREAT. I can't imagine that will continue much after labor recovery.
Mine pretty much told me that he expects me back to my usual duties as soon as baby is born. He's very loving and doting so I'm not totally convinced he still won't be as doting but he's made it pretty clear I won't be able to get away with doing as little as I have been the past 8 months
At least in my experience, the doting is much more important in the few weeks right after baby is born than before baby is born. DH was very attentive last pregnancy, then was completely caught off guard that I couldn't jump back into my regular routines after birth because of my recovery ands some pretty severe sleep deprivation. We're more prepared this time and I've been pushing myself harder during pregnancy, but know that DH is ready to step in to take over some of my responsibilities temporarily as I recover and as I get closer to my due date.
The men I work with in the OR moving all my heavy X-ray equipment back and forth because they don't want me to hurt myself... Lol. I feel spoiled. They seriously get mad if they see me doing it myself. They say, yell and we'll come! Also my hubby has been helping more with the housework than usual. He's always been good at helping, but he's been even better there last few months and it something doesn't get done he doesn't complain about it, just lets it go like it's no big deal.
Re: What are you going to miss about pregnancy??
It's really the only rational response, even a newborn ought to be able to figure that one out.
Been married since 2009.
Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
Several MCs
DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)
I think what I'll miss the most is my silhouette. I'm overweight and I love looking obviously pregnant (I feel like I was stuck in the 'not sure if pregnant or just fat' phase for far too long). Whenever I'm outside, I'll just look in every window to see my reflexion bumpin' it up. I think it'll be really weird to suddenly look much flatter again.
Not everyone can breastfeed - Mammary Hypoplasia/Insufficient Glandular Tissue Awareness
The no period and semi -knowing baby is safe, I say semi because of the things that can go bad and you have no clue, are cool but don't trump the misery that has come with it. So, I'm going with nothing. Supposed to do this again so my baby isn't alone but geez! If that hormone that makes you forget the horror of pregnancy doesn't kick in then it ain't happening.
As far as breastfeeding (mostly pumping in my case), I didn't get my period until 12months postpartum. I didn't fully wean until 16+months, and I must have gotten pregnant about 6 weeks later. I had 3 periods in those 5months.... (still trying to figure this one out).
Prior to the twins' pregnancy, I didn't get any periods due to PCOS, so the periods were a surprise and pregnancy #2 was a shock and a blessing (esp after going through infertility treatments for pregnancy#1).
Mama to Three Girls:
Twins born March 2014 at 26 weeks due to preterm labor
and our 37weeker born May 9th, 2016!
Today at church I found myself leaned back in my seat with my legs shoulder width apart. I was so comfortable and knew that it would not be "acceptable" for me to sit like that if I weren't pregnant. Right now I can take up all the space and people clear out and give it to me. I don't miss crossing my legs at all.
DD: 05/14/16
I am not a patient person, and I want lots of kids, so the thought of starting at 0 weeks all over again is kind of depressing to me. Thankfully, I am sure baby will be a good distraction;)
@nerdymama15: camaraderie!!! It's an awful word to try to look up, because it seems wrong from the second letter on.
I will miss not having to clean the cat litter boxes
And I will miss him moving around for sure.
That is all lol.