TTC After a Loss

TWW Crazies

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Re: TWW Crazies

  • My TWW started a couple days early, so I am currently 6dpo. Yesterday I was at my nieces basketball tournament and got a sharp pain that ended as quickly as it started on the left side of my uterus. I have been trying to tell myself that it is way to early for me to be feeling implantation cramps, but the other part of me is getting a little too hopeful. Up until  yesterday I was doing really good about keeping myself distracted so that I wouldn't start symptom spotting but I guess the cat is out of the bag now. This is going to be a long week...
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    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • I'm trying to find things to keep my mind occupied for the next few days.  I just started temping like 4 days ago and I'm sitting here staring at my chart and other charts similar trying to see if I can see if I'm pregnant. Righhhhht because 4 days of temping can tell me that! Lmao.
    So, I just bought a new book, and also purchased a Fitbit. So now instead of stalking my symptoms and chart I'm now stalking my shipping progress. Here's hoping the distraction works lol! 
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • I think I'm CD1 today - with a 8 day LP which is having me feel like crap beyond the fact that today is CD1, if it was at least a 10-11LP... Spotting is heavier, borderline light flow and my temp dropped below my coverline today. 
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • @catiecatp So sorry, it's so stressful to have your body feel so out of control. 
  • Sorry @catiecatp... Creepy internet hugs!

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    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • Thanks @penelope4612, @bornready and @stephann85 - I appreciate the love and hugs. Today has been harder than I've had in awhile.
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • Sorry about the LP stress @catiecatp. Feeling so out of control is a hard one to deal with. 
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • I'm sorry @catiecatp :/ 

    I am back to WTO. Just a couple more days or so to go, so I will be back here going crazy soon enough, I am sure. My dad is visiting this week...terrible timing. Ugh. 
  • Aw jeez, @catiecatp  I'm sorry to hear that. It's all so frustrating. Many hugs.

    See ya soon, @silentP
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • Oh no @catiecatp ...I'm sorry you feel like crap. That is really frustrating for sure. Hang in there.
    H and I both 30
    TTC #1 started Aug 2014
    BFP Apr 3 2015
    natural M/C April 20 2015 @ 6w6d
    BFP Nov 18 2015
    natural M/C Nov 23 2015 @ 5w4d.

  • So sorry @catiecatp , thinking of you!
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    BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
    BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; 
    BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016 

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  • Who else is still in the TWW?  When are you testing?

    I am 10 dpo today.  I think I'm going to test Friday (12dpo).  I'm still SS, but one of the advantages of FF taking away my crosshairs is that I can't play that "what percentage likelihood are you to be pregnant?" game that always turns me into a SS addict.
  • I'm still hanging out. A little crampy yesterday though, so I think I am moving towards being out of the game. I am not a tester generally, so no plan to do that until it is pretty obvious I'm pregnant...

    Good luck! I used to love the percentage part of the VIP FF! 
  • TWW here, but only 4 DPO. I'm always crampy after ovulation and this is my first cycle after loss, so I have absolutely no idea what's what and I kind of like it that way. Got some cool burning nipples like I did in pregnancy, so that's a fun way to kick off the SS. I'll start testing at 10 DPO because the obsessive part of myself literally cannot help it. I didn't used to get upset at BFNs but we'll have to see what it feels like now, I guess. 

    Whatever it is, where ever I am, I am still totally and completely bsc about all of this.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • Congrats, @klauerinaking !!

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • Yay! Congratulations @klauerinaking! Wishing you 8 easy months and a beautiful take home baby at the end!

    TWW for me as well. 7DPO and although I feel like our timing was perfect this month, my temps and CM played along nicely as they should, I don't have that "this is the month!" feeling. It's still early but no symptom spotting for me yet. Definitely will be waiting until 10-12 dpo to test, though if I'm not feeling any symptoms by then I may just wait to see if AF comes right after.

  • stephann85stephann85 member
    edited March 2016
    Congratulations @klauerinaking !!! Wishing you a H&H pregnancy!!

    I am also still in the TWW, 9 DPO. I am planning to test on Friday. I have been SS but I don't feel like I am having any overwhelming "pregnancy" symptoms, they could really be symptoms of AF. I had some cramping on Saturday and I feel like I have had some breast changes earlier than when I usually get them with AF but I guess we will have to wait and see. FX for everyone!!

    Edited because I forgot to say how many DPO.
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    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • That's great news @klauerinaking ! Sending lots of optimistic vibes your way.

    I am early in the TWW, 3dpo.
    We had great timing and feeling optimistic that my BFP is around the corner in the next few cycles. Just trying to let go and let be.
    H and I both 30
    TTC #1 started Aug 2014
    BFP Apr 3 2015
    natural M/C April 20 2015 @ 6w6d
    BFP Nov 18 2015
    natural M/C Nov 23 2015 @ 5w4d.

  • Soooo glad for you @klauerinaking Happy and healthy 9 months! Hope to see you on the other side soon.
  • Thank you ladies @silentP @penelope4612 @cooaladoll @fivetimesnoluck @megsbrock @stephann85
    Like silentP said, see you ladies on the other side :)
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    BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
    BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; 
    BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016 

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  • Congrats @klauerinaking!!! That's so so awesome! yay!!! 

    As for me, I was planning on testing tomorrow (12 DPO) however, my temp went down yesterday and down even more so today and also now I'm spotting. So now I'm expecting AF to show tomorrow instead of a BFP. I know I'm not out until she shows but I'm feeling like its significantly more likely that I'll get AF. 

    FX for more BFPs from you guys though! :smile: 
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • @roper2617 - bummer, but my fingers are still crossed for you!  I am cramping too, although I usually don't get AF until 14dpo.  I have a bunch of symptoms, but they are all AF symptoms.  
  • ---TW BFP---

    Congrats @klauerinaking!  My symptoms also didn't stear me wrong this month. So I'll see you over there.  Good luck to the rest of you.  Hope to see you soon!



    Our Journey:
    DS born 05/14
    Losses 06/15, 09/15, 02/16
    DS born 12/16
    HPT+ 1/12/20



  • Congrats, @Af2013nl !! So happy for you and @klauerinaking !

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • @klauerinaking & @Af2013nl congratulations! I wish you both a happy and healthy 9 months with sweet little take home babes! 
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  • Woohoo! Congrats @afn2013nl!!
  • I'm super early in the TWW today- 1DPO. I felt 100% sure I was going to see a BFP last month b/c I was having all the symptoms I usually have in early pg, but it was a BFN.  So now I feel like I can't trust my instincts at all. It is going to be a loooooonnnngggg 2ww.

    DD1 born 5/24/10.

    Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.

    DD2 born 5/14/13.

    Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.

    Expecting someone new 4/17/17.
  • Congrats @klaurerinaking and @af2013nl

     

    @roper2617 – I’m sorry you’ve had a temp drop – I agree, you’re not out until you’re out – but sometimes it feels like you’re out before.

    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • @Af2013nl - congrats!  H&H 9 months!
    @Mwoodside - I feel you on the SS!  Hang in there!
  • @Af2013nl Congratulations! So happy for you. See you on the other side soon enough :smile: 
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • Congratulations, @klauerinaking and @Af2013nl !
  • Congratulations @Af2013nl! Wishing you a happy healthy 8 more months!
  • Yay @Af2013nl great news :) and I hope it's contagious :)
    H and I both 30
    TTC #1 started Aug 2014
    BFP Apr 3 2015
    natural M/C April 20 2015 @ 6w6d
    BFP Nov 18 2015
    natural M/C Nov 23 2015 @ 5w4d.

  • 4 dpo. I have the symptoms of an 8 week pregnant woman. I hate the 2ww. 
    ~First time mama, strikingly handsome husband, comedic pooch, krumpin' baby girl on her way~

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  • Not feeling crazy; am feeling sad and desperate. 10 DPO BFN (that's when I got my BFP so I felt pressure to test). No temperature drop but FF puts AF on next Sunday. It has no previous cycles to go on except my endless miscarriage bleeding but it was exactly on point with O, so it's as good as any guess. 
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @reneeannemm sorry about your BFN but don't give up hope! It's still early and maybe implantation is just taking longer. I hope your temp stays up or rises! 

    @DaniGrace89 ugh...I feel that way every month. I swear my boobs are sore for a full 2 weeks every month. It makes it so hard to distinguish between AF and a BFP. 
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  • I'm just entering my first TWW post loss and I'm trying to keep cool. I know it's going to be especially hard to have my first BFN after my loss and I'm trying to mentally prepare for that while still remains calm and optimistic for this month. It took us a while to get pregnant the first time so I'm expecting it to take some time this go round. 
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