I thought this would be fun Add your own note to your little one based on whatever you're thinking right now that you wish you could tell him/her. Can be silly, lighthearted, or deep...whatever! Add yours
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Dear child inside of me,
I do not stretch that way. Really. That's as far as my body goes. I promise. You don't need to keep testing.
Sincerely, The mommy making all the weird faces at random as a baby attempts to pop me
I was so glad to hear you were head down today at our appointment and I hope you stay that way. If you could however ease up on bouncing on my bladder it would be great bc the bathroom breaks every 5 mins are kinda overkill (Thank you for earlier today though I guess bc the midwife wanted a second urine sample and you made that possible ).
Will you please come out looking a little like me? Both your sisters are carbon copies of Daddy and I would like one of you girls look a little like me.
Love, Mommy
Both of my little girls are blonde and blue eyed like their daddy even though I have dark brown hair and dark brown eyes. I think they lied to us in high school biology about genetics.
Thank you you for not trying to kick your way through my back today. The past few days of that have been a little rough. Also, I think it's adorable when you try to cuddle with DS at bedtime by moving to my right where he is sitting. Just when we found out that I was pregnant with you, DS got a fortune from a fortune cookie that said, "You will soon get a lifelong friend." I really hope you two boys are wonderful friends to each other, and so far it seems promising that you will be. I'm looking forward to meeting you when you're ready
Love, Mama
Ps. It's not quite as cute when you get stuck in my right hip after cuddling up to DS though, and I'm sure it can't be too comfortable for you either!
Dear little girl, Thank you for already knowing the good music to dance and kick to. Please keep this good taste as you get older so that way we won't get stuck listening to your daddy's bad taste in music. Love, your mommy
Dear little girl, Thank you for already knowing the good music to dance and kick to. Please keep this good taste as you get older so that way we won't get stuck listening to your daddy's bad taste in music. Love, your mommy
This thread reminded me of something someone suggested I try to do . . . I've been considering it but it seems cheesy. Someone said they saw something that said to make an Email address for baby and to write letter and send photos and things like that and to give him/her the password and info at age 18 or 20. I thought "well I could just as easily make a box full of letters for her" but paper can deteriorate and I wouldn't have to print out photos with an Email. :P Is it stupid?
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Dear baby,
I think it's cute and all that you love warm vanilla honey milk as much as I do but it really stinks that you choose this time to show me that you will be a world class kickboxer! I drink that stuff to go to sleep and your kicks really really hurt!
Love mommy
ps . . . when you start to talk please don't call me mummy
I love that you are moving and kicking so much lately. Your definitely an entertainment for everyone, but will you please stop kicking my ribs? They don't expand that way I promise. I'm sorry you don't have much room right now but you will have plenty once your here. Also, my bladder is not a toy.
Love mommy
Beautiful Baby Girl Amelia Marie Born May 25, 2016 Angel Baby January 20th, 2017 Baby #2 Due December 6th 2017
We are so excited to meet you in just 8 weeks (but please not any longer than that). In the meantime, if you could veer away from my stomach and lungs so I could keep food down at night and breathe that would be super. We love you so much already!
This thread reminded me of something someone suggested I try to do . . . I've been considering it but it seems cheesy. Someone said they saw something that said to make an Email address for baby and to write letter and send photos and things like that and to give him/her the password and info at age 18 or 20. I thought "well I could just as easily make a box full of letters for her" but paper can deteriorate and I wouldn't have to print out photos with an Email. :P Is it stupid?
I would do the paper letters - more personal to get handwritten things! And logistically, a lot of times email addresses get shut down if someone doesn't login to them every so often, so you'd have to be checking into it all the time... and think of all the spam that would be in that email after 18 years! But otherwise I really like the idea of writing to them over their life time like that.
Could you maybe quit kicking my ribs? Feel free to kick in that nesting instinct anytime you want, though. Like right now. There's so much to do. Oh God.
It's hard to believe you'll be here in (probably) less than two months! I can't wait for that first time we stare into each other's eyes- both likely a bit bleary from exhaustion- and the adventure begins.
I never knew how much I could love someone I barely even know. Your daddy is so enamored by you already. I can't wait to hold you for the first time but more than that, I can't wait to see your daddy hold you for the first time. We prayed for you for so long and we are overjoyed to call you ours.
I know I'm not the best at being pregnant, but would you please stay put for 7 more weeks? I would love to be able to bring you right home to your sisters rather than visit the nicu.
I already love you so much, even though I don't know your name or if you are a boy or a girl!
Love, Mama
Mama to Three Girls: Twins born March 2014 at 26 weeks due to preterm labor and our 37weeker born May 9th, 2016!
We are counting the days (63) until we get to meet you. Please keep on getting cuter and bigger in there and please keep on moving around, even if you do so wildly. I love the reassurance, my little sidekick.
i know you're going to be an athlete like your mama and daddy were but could you tone down the flips, kicks and punches in the middle of the night so your mama can get some rest ?
You've already given your mommy and daddy multiple panic attacks. Can you please slow down on them until you're at least 14?! We love you so very much and can't wait to meet you. I hope you have my sarcasm and your dads sweetness.
You are loved by your Mommy, Daddy, and big sister so much already. We can't wait to meet you. Until then, please stop trying to bust out of my belly. I love your movements but sometimes they're just painful. We can't wait to see if you look like Daddy and take after your sister.
I hope you are comfortable in there. Take as much time to grow in there as you need. Your daddy and I can't wait to hold you, my boy. We daydream about holding you. Your nursery is my favorite room, and I sit in the rocker just thinking about all the time we'll spend together. My only wish is you come out beautiful, healthy, crying, kicking, and screaming.
Dear Child, Your daddy really wants to feel you kick. If you could let him feel you kick or let him see you kick, it would be awesome. Please stop stopping kicking everytime your daddy tries to feel it.
Dear Kirra, I'm really hoping that you take after your dad and avoid my impatience and picky habits. However, if you could take my organization and rational thinking that would probably be pretty beneficial to your life. You have no idea the impact you've made on your dad's and my world. You're so wonderful and you're not even conscious of it yet. Your dad and I are so in love with you it seems unreal. I'm not quite ready for you to flip my life around but I am so excited to make the changes I need to for you so I can be the most wonderful mom you deserve. With the most love, Your mommy
Thank you for bringing so much excitement and love into my life and you haven't even made your big arrival yet. Please have my sweet and caring personality and your daddys tan skin and good looks! (just make sure you still manage to look like mine!) I love all your kicks (even when they're painful or make me run to the bathroom) I love you very much and we are counting the days until we can hold you!
We are so excited to meet you, I can barely stand it! Know that you will be surrounded by people that love you. Your grandmothers have already started arguing over whose camper you will be sleeping in this summer.
P.S. I love feeling your kicks and flips and punches, but can you try to refrain from doing so when I'm seeing clients? It's getting harder and harder to keep a straight face.
I can't tell you how excited I am every time you kick or punch or head-butt or roll. Just feeling you move really makes my day! Also, kudos to you for making me crave that weird green smoothie yesterday. It actually was delicious and had so much potassium and magnesium I didn't have to get up 5 times in the middle of the night to stretch out a horrible leg cramp. You have already taught me so much about my body and about how strong I can be when I really have something to work for. I hope that when you are older, you never forget the value of taking care of your body and finding strength even when you think you have none. But, of course by then, you will have me to remind you, even if you won't want to listen. I pledge to be a good role model for you and show you how to love your body and take care of it. You have already started me off on a great path and I will always be grateful to you. Maybe you can help me convince your brother and Dada that we don't need McDonald's every week and that Chinese take-out isn't health food just because it has some veggies in it!
Love, Your Mama
PS- Maybe do a few extra kicks for Dada tonight. He has been feeling a little down in the dumps and since you already have him wrapped around your tiny finger, maybe you can help cheer him up.
Someone in Heaven knows far better than me that I was supposed to end up with a boy not the girl that I always wanted. No, not just God, but your Grandpa (my Dad). I truly believe he had a hand in picking you and sending you down to me. I waited so long to become pregnant with you, time seems to have flow by, but now it's dragging. I'm so ready to see you, hold you, and feel normal again. You're going to turn our world upside down, which scares the crap out of me, but the rewards far outweigh those feelings. Until it's time for you to made your grand entrance please stop using my uterus as a stage for your dance parties and please take it easy on the rib kicks/punches. I know you're growing really quickly now and rapidly running out of room; I'm sorry there isn't more space for you, but please remember that all your movements are starting to hurt and make it look more like an alien is trapped inside of me trying to escape. It's getting harder and harder not to make faces or the need to moan, which I can't very well do at work. See you in about 7 weeks my lil boy!
I cannot believe how much I love you already. Mommy and Daddy can hardly wait until the day we get to meet you in 11 weeks... if you'd like to grace us with your presence a week earlier though that'd be great too! We will have a lot to learn from each other. I can already tell though you will be one of my favorite lessons. I don't even know how to put in to words all of the many things I would want to say to you. Just know that I will always be here for you. Keep those sweet little kicks coming so that mama is reassured that your doing okay in there. And when you come into this world I pray that you are healthy and happy.
Can't wait to see you. No seriously, wish it was May already. But you take the time you need and come out healthy and strong. While in there though can you stop using my bladder for a toy, or pillow? I've seen some nasty bathrooms recently and I'm afraid. Also, we've talked about this but 6 or 7lbs is big enough. Let's not rip mom to pieces, thank you. You can grow like a weed after birth I promise.
I can't believe I'll be meeting you in 7 weeks! I'm looking forward to holding you in my arms and see your sweet face.
In the meantime, I understand the comfort of putting your feet up, but using my ribs as your footrest is not nearly as comfortable for me as it is for you.
When you are here you can put your feet up on me all you want!
Firstly loving seeing everyone's chosen names. This is my favourite thread to date. It's so lovely to read all of these letters.
Dear Miss Adeline,
We cannot wait to meet you in 7 weeks, I'm cool with 5 weeks though just so you know. Please kick for your Daddy when he comes to say hi...he's starting to take it personally that you fall back to sleep.
You are the greatest gift we could have asked for and the light at the end of a tough few years. You will be loved and adored. In the meantime I neither love nor adore your feet in my ribs, please keep those tiny feet tucked away!
Oh and could I politely request you not be 12lbs at birth like your uncle? That's just plain cruel. Let's aim for 7!
I still find it hard to believe you really exist. We've waited so long for you. Daddy, brother, and I enjoy feeling you kick and move around. We are all looking forward to meeting you in May. If you could try not to make your appearance on big brother's birthday he'd much appreciate it.
As much as i love you I really don't appreciate you practicing your ninja skills on my hip and my back. It's really awkward when mommy is mid conversation and then stops to make some ridiculous face.
I love feeling all your kicks and other movements. It feels like you're dancing or doing karate. But I would really appreciate it if the dance parties and karate practice could happen when I'm awake and not at 2 in the morning.
Dear Logan or Alexis, As your mother I am asking that you stay put until mid May, anytime after May 14th works for me. I know that's specific, but you know me, after all we've been together 24/7 for the past 30 weeks. You should get used to the fact that I'm a planner, just ask your father and your big sister. If you could just keep growing and developing until then, I'd really appreciate it. I pray every day that you are healthy and will be born healthy. Also, you're sharing a room with your sister until your father gets around to building a second story on our house. I'll warn you now, it could be awhile. Hope you like bunk beds! See you in May!
Dear LO, My highest hopes for you that first year are that you stay happy & healthy. And please, please, be one of those magical mythical babies who is just " a good sleeper". I have pregnancy insomnia and have for months. Does this correlate in any way for what is to come? Love you no matter what always and forever, mom
Re: Dear Child Inside of Me.... (contribute yours!)
So excited to meet you in 60 days!!
xoxo
mommy
I was so glad to hear you were head down today at our appointment and I hope you stay that way. If you could however ease up on bouncing on my bladder it would be great bc the bathroom breaks every 5 mins are kinda overkill (Thank you for earlier today though I guess bc the midwife wanted a second urine sample and you made that possible ).
Love,
Mommy
Will you please come out looking a little like me? Both your sisters are carbon copies of Daddy and I would like one of you girls look a little like me.
Love,
Mommy
Both of my little girls are blonde and blue eyed like their daddy even though I have dark brown hair and dark brown eyes. I think they lied to us in high school biology about genetics.
could you you help me start craving healthy food? Please?
--love your ever growing mom
Thank you you for not trying to kick your way through my back today. The past few days of that have been a little rough. Also, I think it's adorable when you try to cuddle with DS at bedtime by moving to my right where he is sitting. Just when we found out that I was pregnant with you, DS got a fortune from a fortune cookie that said, "You will soon get a lifelong friend." I really hope you two boys are wonderful friends to each other, and so far it seems promising that you will be. I'm looking forward to meeting you when you're ready
Love,
Mama
Ps. It's not quite as cute when you get stuck in my right hip after cuddling up to DS though, and I'm sure it can't be too comfortable for you either!
Thank you for already knowing the good music to dance and kick to. Please keep this good taste as you get older so that way we won't get stuck listening to your daddy's bad taste in music.
Love,
your mommy
Have you seen my lungs anywhere? I have no idea
where they could be.
Love,
Your Mommy
ps I cant wait to meet you soon!
I am so ready to see your sweet face.
If you could come a little earlier than your sister that would be great, maybe around 39 weeks?
Love you so much already.
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Dear baby,
I think it's cute and all that you love warm vanilla honey milk as much as I do but it really stinks that you choose this time to show me that you will be a world class kickboxer! I drink that stuff to go to sleep and your kicks really really hurt!
Love mommy
ps . . . when you start to talk please don't call me mummy
I love that you are moving and kicking so much lately. Your definitely an entertainment for everyone, but will you please stop kicking my ribs? They don't expand that way I promise. I'm sorry you don't have much room right now but you will have plenty once your here. Also, my bladder is not a toy.
Love mommy
Born May 25, 2016
Angel Baby January 20th, 2017
Baby #2 Due December 6th 2017
We are so excited to meet you in just 8 weeks (but please not any longer than that). In the meantime, if you could veer away from my stomach and lungs so I could keep food down at night and breathe that would be super. We love you so much already!
Love,
Mommy
Could you maybe quit kicking my ribs? Feel free to kick in that nesting instinct anytime you want, though. Like right now. There's so much to do. Oh God.
Love,
Mama
It's hard to believe you'll be here in (probably) less than two months! I can't wait for that first time we stare into each other's eyes- both likely a bit bleary from exhaustion- and the adventure begins.
Love,
Mom
I never knew how much I could love someone I barely even know. Your daddy is so enamored by you already. I can't wait to hold you for the first time but more than that, I can't wait to see your daddy hold you for the first time. We prayed for you for so long and we are overjoyed to call you ours.
Love,
Mommy
PS: I hope you are chunky
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
I know I'm not the best at being pregnant, but would you please stay put for 7 more weeks? I would love to be able to bring you right home to your sisters rather than visit the nicu.
I already love you so much, even though I don't know your name or if you are a boy or a girl!
Love, Mama
Mama to Three Girls:
Twins born March 2014 at 26 weeks due to preterm labor
and our 37weeker born May 9th, 2016!
We are counting the days (63) until we get to meet you. Please keep on getting cuter and bigger in there and please keep on moving around, even if you do so wildly. I love the reassurance, my little sidekick.
Can't wait for you to come and disrupt our lives!
All my love, Mommy
i know you're going to be an athlete like your mama and daddy were but could you tone down the flips, kicks and punches in the middle of the night so your mama can get some rest ?
Love you more,
mama
You've already given your mommy and daddy multiple panic attacks. Can you please slow down on them until you're at least 14?! We love you so very much and can't wait to meet you. I hope you have my sarcasm and your dads sweetness.
Love,
Mama
You are loved by your Mommy, Daddy, and big sister so much already. We can't wait to meet you. Until then, please stop trying to bust out of my belly. I love your movements but sometimes they're just painful. We can't wait to see if you look like Daddy and take after your sister.
Love,
Mom
I hope you are comfortable in there. Take as much time to grow in there as you need. Your daddy and I can't wait to hold you, my boy. We daydream about holding you. Your nursery is my favorite room, and I sit in the rocker just thinking about all the time we'll spend together. My only wish is you come out beautiful, healthy, crying, kicking, and screaming.
I love you so much,
Mommy
Your daddy really wants to feel you kick. If you could let him feel you kick or let him see you kick, it would be awesome. Please stop stopping kicking everytime your daddy tries to feel it.
First Pregnancy
Second Pregnancy
- BFP: 09/11/2015
- EDD: 05/25/2016
Baby Born04/15/2016
PGAL
It has been confirmed that you've dropped into my pelvis head-down. How are you still punching my cervix?
Love,
Mummy
Not everyone can breastfeed - Mammary Hypoplasia/Insufficient Glandular Tissue Awareness
I'm really hoping that you take after your dad and avoid my impatience and picky habits. However, if you could take my organization and rational thinking that would probably be pretty beneficial to your life. You have no idea the impact you've made on your dad's and my world. You're so wonderful and you're not even conscious of it yet. Your dad and I are so in love with you it seems unreal. I'm not quite ready for you to flip my life around but I am so excited to make the changes I need to for you so I can be the most wonderful mom you deserve.
With the most love,
Your mommy
Dear Mila,
Thank you for bringing so much excitement and love into my life and you haven't even made your big arrival yet. Please have my sweet and caring personality and your daddys tan skin and good looks! (just make sure you still manage to look like mine!) I love all your kicks (even when they're painful or make me run to the bathroom) I love you very much and we are counting the days until we can hold you!
Love,
momma.
Dear little one,
We are so excited to meet you, I can barely stand it! Know that you will be surrounded by people that love you. Your grandmothers have already started arguing over whose camper you will be sleeping in this summer.
P.S. I love feeling your kicks and flips and punches, but can you try to refrain from doing so when I'm seeing clients? It's getting harder and harder to keep a straight face.
Love, Mommy
BFP #1: 9/12/2015
DD: 6/1/2016
BFP #2: 1/16/2018 MC 2/2/2018
Dear Luna,
I can't tell you how excited I am every time you kick or punch or head-butt or roll. Just feeling you move really makes my day! Also, kudos to you for making me crave that weird green smoothie yesterday. It actually was delicious and had so much potassium and magnesium I didn't have to get up 5 times in the middle of the night to stretch out a horrible leg cramp. You have already taught me so much about my body and about how strong I can be when I really have something to work for. I hope that when you are older, you never forget the value of taking care of your body and finding strength even when you think you have none. But, of course by then, you will have me to remind you, even if you won't want to listen. I pledge to be a good role model for you and show you how to love your body and take care of it. You have already started me off on a great path and I will always be grateful to you. Maybe you can help me convince your brother and Dada that we don't need McDonald's every week and that Chinese take-out isn't health food just because it has some veggies in it!
Love, Your Mama
PS- Maybe do a few extra kicks for Dada tonight. He has been feeling a little down in the dumps and since you already have him wrapped around your tiny finger, maybe you can help cheer him up.
Dear Billy,
Someone in Heaven knows far better than me that I was supposed to end up with a boy not the girl that I always wanted. No, not just God, but your Grandpa (my Dad). I truly believe he had a hand in picking you and sending you down to me. I waited so long to become pregnant with you, time seems to have flow by, but now it's dragging. I'm so ready to see you, hold you, and feel normal again. You're going to turn our world upside down, which scares the crap out of me, but the rewards far outweigh those feelings. Until it's time for you to made your grand entrance please stop using my uterus as a stage for your dance parties and please take it easy on the rib kicks/punches. I know you're growing really quickly now and rapidly running out of room; I'm sorry there isn't more space for you, but please remember that all your movements are starting to hurt and make it look more like an alien is trapped inside of me trying to escape. It's getting harder and harder not to make faces or the need to moan, which I can't very well do at work. See you in about 7 weeks my lil boy!
Love,
Mumma
I cannot believe how much I love you already. Mommy and Daddy can hardly wait until the day we get to meet you in 11 weeks... if you'd like to grace us with your presence a week earlier though that'd be great too! We will have a lot to learn from each other. I can already tell though you will be one of my favorite lessons. I don't even know how to put in to words all of the many things I would want to say to you. Just know that I will always be here for you. Keep those sweet little kicks coming so that mama is reassured that your doing okay in there. And when you come into this world I pray that you are healthy and happy.
Love,
Mommy
Can't wait to see you. No seriously, wish it was May already. But you take the time you need and come out healthy and strong. While in there though can you stop using my bladder for a toy, or pillow? I've seen some nasty bathrooms recently and I'm afraid. Also, we've talked about this but 6 or 7lbs is big enough. Let's not rip mom to pieces, thank you. You can grow like a weed after birth I promise.
Sincerely,
Mommy, mum, mother.
I can't believe I'll be meeting you in 7 weeks! I'm looking forward to holding you in my arms and see your sweet face.
In the meantime, I understand the comfort of putting your feet up, but using my ribs as your footrest is not nearly as comfortable for me as it is for you.
When you are here you can put your feet up on me all you want!
Love,
Mommy
Thank you for letting me rest last night. Please let mommy rest some more tonight.
Love,
Mom
Dear Miss Adeline,
We cannot wait to meet you in 7 weeks, I'm cool with 5 weeks though just so you know. Please kick for your Daddy when he comes to say hi...he's starting to take it personally that you fall back to sleep.
You are the greatest gift we could have asked for and the light at the end of a tough few years. You will be loved and adored. In the meantime I neither love nor adore your feet in my ribs, please keep those tiny feet tucked away!
Oh and could I politely request you not be 12lbs at birth like your uncle? That's just plain cruel. Let's aim for 7!
Love Mummy xx
I still find it hard to believe you really exist. We've waited so long for you. Daddy, brother, and I enjoy feeling you
kick and move around. We are all looking forward to meeting you in May. If you could try not to make your appearance on big brother's birthday he'd much appreciate it.
Love,
Mama
As much as i love you I really don't appreciate you practicing your ninja skills on my hip and my back. It's really awkward when mommy is mid conversation and then stops to make some ridiculous face.
Love mommy!
I love feeling all your kicks and other movements. It feels like you're dancing or doing karate. But I would really appreciate it if the dance parties and karate practice could happen when I'm awake and not at 2 in the morning.
Love always
Mom
As your mother I am asking that you stay put until mid May, anytime after May 14th works for me. I know that's specific, but you know me, after all we've been together 24/7 for the past 30 weeks. You should get used to the fact that I'm a planner, just ask your father and your big sister. If you could just keep growing and developing until then, I'd really appreciate it. I pray every day that you are healthy and will be born healthy.
Also, you're sharing a room with your sister until your father gets around to building a second story on our house. I'll warn you now, it could be awhile. Hope you like bunk beds!
See you in May!
My highest hopes for you that first year are that you stay happy & healthy.
And please, please, be one of those magical mythical babies who is just " a good sleeper".
I have pregnancy insomnia and have for months. Does this correlate in any way for what is to come?
Love you no matter what always and forever,
mom