DS1 will be almost 3.5 when DS2 arrives in August. He is a very active and independent kid, and we almost never use a stroller with him. 99% of the time, he insists on walking. He won't even ride in the cart at the grocery store anymore. That said, there have been a handful of times, like attending a parade or the zoo, where a stroller has been a must, because he gets tired and it's too much to carry him.
Would you still get a double stroller or would that be a waste of money? I can only imagine his independent nature will just get stronger as he gets older. If anything, I'm thinking maybe one of those strollers where the big kid can stand on the back might work. We also have a single BOB and I've seen kids doubling up on those where one kid perches on that front part that sticks out while the younger one is strapped in. Not totally kosher, but would work in a pinch.
What at are you all doing, and how old is your older kid?
BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11
BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13
BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15
BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d
Just keep swimming.
Re: STMs: double strollers?
The consensus was that a sit n stand stroller might be the way to go, so I'm
planning to buy a used one.
BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13
BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15
BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d
Just keep swimming.
it basically has a little bench seat and a foot stand for your older kid in the back. Dd1 mostly walks but it's amazing for longer outings like the zoo or times when i NEED both of them contained i.e. the airport. I got ours on Amazon for about $100.
it is also less bulky and lighter then the double stroller which is a huge plus.
Baby #2 due 8/11/2016
We're planning to get a Joovy sit and stand stroller. DD will be 3.25 when this one arrives and is similarly quite independent. I think she'll like sitting facing me, because she's a mommy's girl, and will like that she can get on and off on her own.
BFP #1: 08/17/2012 DD1 born 05/01/2013
BFP #2: 07/31/2015 M/C 09/23/2015 (11.5 weeks)
Baby #2: Emmeline Grey - August 2016
Baby #3: BFP 9/7/18 | EDD 05/24/19
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