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My Va Jay Jay hates me!

Jengle77Jengle77 member
in August 2016 Moms
I remember towards the end of my first two pregnancies, I got this dull ache all through my vagina.  Every time I moved it ached.  Sitting hurt.  Standing hurt.  Walking hurt.  It was awful.  I felt like i had ridden a bike for 100 miles on a really hard seat.  And its starting now!  I don't think it started until at least 30 weeks before and its here at 16.  I may lose my mind this pregnancy!  Anyone else?
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  • Sunnyn75Sunnyn75 member
    Oh my gosh, YES! I'm 16 weeks too and it kicked in yesterday.  Mine really only bothers me when I'm walking though.  I did do a sort of strenuous exercise yesterday, so I attribute it to that, and I'm really hoping it passes!  But I'm the same way...I feel like I'm 30 weeks pregnant!  It's made me dread the end of this pregnancy a lot.
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  • bananersbananers member
    I just got this a few days ago after sex. My sex drive finally returned after being MIA in the first tri, but I don't want to do it again if that's the new normal. 
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

    Just keep swimming.
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  • JournoGrl23JournoGrl23 member
    Yes! Mine started hurting and sometimes stinging too a couple weeks ago and it won't go away! I'm a FTM mom though so I'm mostly panicking about it.
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  • searchingforameaningsearchingforameaning member
    my crotch is really painful. It has been for a few weeks. At first I thought it was a uti, but after some good google time, I think its Pelvic Girdle pain.. or pubic symphysis disorder. I mostly have a dull ache. But if I stand on one foot to get dressed, get in and out of car, sex, walk to much (well, it makes me waddle), etc... the pain gets worse. I have my next appointment Friday so will see if dr. agrees with my/google diagnosis and see what they recommend, but it does not seem like there is much to do to make it better. sucks because i did not have it with my first two. they say the last child is the problem child, right?
    Married - 4/7/07
    Son #1- 2/15/08
    Son #2- 8/18/10
    Baby 3 due 8/8/16
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  • smilormariesmilormarie member
    No, other than a few pinching shooting pains those first couple weeks, no pain in the whoo-ha. I instead get crazy tailbone spasm pain that radiates to my butt cheeks, hips, and back. Laying down doesn't help. Sitting doesn't help. And standing makes it worse. 
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    12 weeks 3 days


    TTC since Oct 2011
    Me: 33, hypothyroidism since 14, cleared all HSG, US, Pre-pregnancy panel tests.
    Hubby: 36, testicular Ca, chemo April-May 2012.
    Natural cycle IUI #1 with trigger and Progesterone Suppositories (Jun 2012) Neg
    Natural Cycle IUI #2 with trigger and Progesterone Suppositories (Jul 2012) NEG
    Aug 2012 - break due to needing a girls' weekend in Cape Cod
    Natural Cycle IUI #3 with trigger and prednisone (Sep 2012) NEGATIVE
    Switched fertility clinics - forced break Oct 2012
    Natural Cycle IUI #4 (Nov 2012) no trigger, no progesterone, no prednisone (Nov 2012) - Neg
    1st round Clomid Cycle IUI #5 (Dec 2012) - POS
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  • tinkerbell11210tinkerbell11210 member
    @smilormarie I also have the tailbone pain. It started later with my last pregnancy. However this one started way early lice around 11-12 weeks. I bought a coccyx seat cushion from Amazon for work and it has made a huge difference.  
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  • Kjack85Kjack85 member
    I'm so glad I'm not alone. I've  been experiencing this for 2 weeks and my husband thinks I'm exaggerating or that I don't know where the pain is coming from. I told my doctor and he stated that it's normal and I'll just have to deal with it.
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  • Kjack85Kjack85 member
    bananers said:
    I just got this a few days ago after sex. My sex drive finally returned after being MIA in the first tri, but I don't want to do it again if that's the new normal. 
    My exact thoughts after sex last night. I'm not sure I can take the pain. 
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  • karaszoo1karaszoo1 member
    Ah yes the wonderful lightening crotch....curse some of these pregnancy side effects. ...
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  • jacmkelleyjacmkelley member
    Lol I looked over at my mom and sister yesterday and yelled, "MY VAGINA HURTS! UGHHHH!". My husband didnt appreciate that lol. But it does... And I'm crampy. I forgot how things start changing quickly at this point. I'll be 20 weeks Monday and I feel like I'm growing by the minute. 

    @bananers my sex drive just came back too, I had it in the very beginning and then it kind of Went back to normal until the last week. And afterwards sometimes the next day even, I have that throbbing heavy feeling too. I think it's just from all the blood flow and whatnot.
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  • kiwico14kiwico14 member
    This happens to me too! When I was pregnant with DS, it got so bad that I insisted DH look to see if everything was okay. He actually yelped and told me everything was all swollen and discolored. The doctor said it was just another normal joy of pregnancy. 

    I still chuckle to myself over DH's expression when he got down there to see. He stayed by my head when I delivered. 
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  • JournoGrl23JournoGrl23 member
    Haha, @skelly70 I had my DH check me too when the sensation first started. I'm glad I'm not the only one who's done that.
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  • Mfuller76Mfuller76 member
    I'm sorry everyone else is going through this - but it's reassuring to know I'm not the only one!
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