I don't know how to link it, but there's another thread called what are THE essentials for a new mom that you can search for. It has lots of great suggestions.
ETA: It apparently takes you to my comment specifically bc I searched through my comments to find the thread. Scroll to the top bc there are a lot of comments before mine.
Thanks @camichael84! I've been looking for something like that too. It's really hard to know what I'll need and it helps to hear what others thought about it. I've been reading Lucieslist and it's helpful too. I know personally I'm hoping to get some things used at second hand baby boutiques or craigslist to save some $.
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ETA: It apparently takes you to my comment specifically bc I searched through my comments to find the thread. Scroll to the top bc there are a lot of comments before mine.