First off, I'm on here because I have absolutely no idea where else to find
the information I'm trying to get, and first hand experience from others might
be the best. I am in no way comparing my experience to the loss many of you have experienced (and I mean mine as an experience, not a loss, as I'm not even sure what was/is going on.) I'm just looking for any feedback for someone who's experienced something similar and was able to confirm if my suspicions are totally off base or potentially spot on.
A little backstory - my husband and I are not TTC and I've been on birth
control taken regularly and effectively for 4 years now. My cycles are like
clockwork on the pill. 2-3 days after beginning my inactive pills, I get my
cycle and it stops 2 days after I resume my active pills. Every other cycle is
heavier. If I have breakthrough bleeding, it's rare and only occurs during my
second and third weeks before I "step-up" to the new pill (I'm on a
triphasic).
I've been functioning that way since going on this particular pill 3 years
ago, until this last cycle, and I'm having a hard time telling if there is a
possibility I 1) had the strangest cycle I've ever experienced, or 2) could have
been pregnant and miscarried. During my last set of pills, I was on a round of
antibiotics for a bronchial infection early on in the pill pack. We used back
up birth control a couple of times, but admittedly not the entire time
(otherwise I'd have no doubt this is just a strange occurrence).
I'm going to stop there and preface with the fact I'd already had an
appointment with my OB/GYN for my annual in two weeks, so I'm just going to
stick to seeing her then.
So, what happened:
When I got to my inactive pills, my period didn't start. I eventually had
an incredibly light flow about 5 days later that warranted no use of products
(unusual for me - I'm typically a moderate flow). When I started up on my
active pills, the flow slowed and almost entirely went away. Around the same
time I was experiencing incredibly sore breasts (also highly unusual for me).
I continued to have the occasional light spotting, sore breasts, and a raised
body temp (not measured, just noticed by how much I was throwing the covers
off), even after beginning my second week of active pills. That changed on
Wednesday of my second week, when the bleeding stepped up a bit and I needed to
use feminine products. I was a bit crampy, and my breasts were feeling less
sore. By Thursday, all breast tenderness has gone away, and on Thursday
afternoon I suddenly passed several large clots and had heavier bleeding that
was bright red for the first time.
The bleeding since yesterday when I passed the clots has slowed
significantly and the cramps diminished. My body temp has lowered (I have gone
back to using all my blankets).
I'm going to let my physician know when I see her, but I really do wonder
if there is the remote, but possible, chance I had gotten pregnant while on the
antibiotics. If that is the case and this was a miscarriage, it would have been
incredibly early. I also realize it could just be very strange breakthrough
bleeding.
Any insights from experiences people here have had? I want to assume the
more possible chance of breakthrough bleeding is the likely explanation, but my
cycles and cycle related symptoms are so predictable and have been for years
that I am at a bit of a loss. Still a couple years out from actively TTC, I
haven't done any research on pregnancy particularly, so any input from those
who've been there would be helpful.
Re: Breakthrough bleeding or miscarriage?
I had implantation bleeding when I got pregnant. It lasted for several days, but it was much lighter than a period. At the time, I just thought it was a weird light period. It sounds like there's a chance those first few days of bleeding that you talked about could have been implantation bleeding.
If it was a miscarriage, depending how long ago this was, there is possibly still HCG in your system. If that's the case, you could take a pregnancy test. If it's positive then you would know for sure. If it's negative, it may just be that you didn't have that much in your bloodstream to begin with, and it's already gone.
Sorry I can't be of more help!
BFP #1 Nov 2015 ended in MC Dec 26 2015
BFP #2 Feb 2016, EDD Nov 8 2016
I took a pregnancy test to check. It was negative, which I assumed would be the case.
Hopefully the doctor will have some more insights. I'm almost 30 and have never experienced these types of symptoms, so it's the deviation from years of consistency that threw me off.
Op if you did have a loss I'm truly sorry... But to post in a place like this when you most likely just had an odd period is pretty upsetting to others here. I understand your question and your concern but like Wishilivedinflorida said everyone here has confirmed losses. There was a baby. With a heartbeat. And a name. I have an urn with my babies cremated remains sitting to my left.... And my experience was far less difficult than others. There are women here who delivered full term sleeping babies.
Like.... Don't. Try to be a little more sensitive.
Lucy 07-13-11
Violet 03-13-14
Conceived #3 since September 2015
11-25-15 twelve week loss
07-21-16 ten week loss
10-03-16 5 week loss
TTC again soon!