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  • My FFFC is that I'm tempted to fail about half my students right now because they aren't even trying. Ugh.
    FFFC...

    We have semester long classes, and I turned in grades today.

    I did fail 45% of my students.
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  • My FFFC is that I'm tempted to fail about half my students right now because they aren't even trying. Ugh.
    FFFC...

    We have semester long classes, and I turned in grades today.

    I did fail 45% of my students.
    I'm going to fail quite a few of my students, too. Progress reports are due on Monday, and most of my students are giving up already. Usually they wait until April to do that. :(
  • BerkeBaby said:
    My FFFC is that I'm tempted to fail about half my students right now because they aren't even trying. Ugh.
    FFFC...

    We have semester long classes, and I turned in grades today.

    I did fail 45% of my students.
    I'm going to fail quite a few of my students, too. Progress reports are due on Monday, and most of my students are giving up already. Usually they wait until April to do that. :(
    My school (alternative) has adult students, Who something's just so coming, but we don't expel them until they reach 15 consecutive absences. I have students who seriously show up every two weeks to not get withdrawn. My grades are ridiculous. Students either pass or get, like, a 14%.
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  • izza2 said:
    MamaMunn said:
    izza2 said:
    My FFFC is that I do not find newborn babies to be cute/adorable/beautiful. Maybe that'd change if it were my own kid, but when they're all cone-headed with vagina juices and stuff on them.. I just don't see it.
    They're way cuter once the vagina juices have been washed off.
    Lmao, after a few days they tend to start getting cute.. But any baby I've seen that first day, when they're still fresh to the world, I just have not found adorable.
    My cousin had her baby last month, and I saw the pictures of when she was first born, and then I saw her in person on day two, and it was like two different babies.
    I felt this way until I had my LO.  He was stinking adorable even after birth.  Maybe because he was barely 4 pounds and a c section?  I have pics for proof
  • @britters314 @longliveregina @BerkeBaby we turn in grades for the semester next week, and mine are already done.  Half my kids are failing.  Like.  How do you fail 9th grade English?  A trained monkey could pass 9th grade English.

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  • I'm embarrassed to confess....I've never had an orgasm. Any advice/ tips would be appreciated. 

    DH tries so hard but after so long it hurts more than is pleasurable.  
     i can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation (in the form of a vibrating bullet mostly!) I definitely recommend using toys during - it will help!  
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  • @dogmomwantinghuman This is something that is worth it to practice until you get there!
    I am not a vibrator fan.  I use my fingers and go slow, giving myself time to enjoy it and not making it about the orgasm (pressuring myself to get off is the surest way to make sure I won't EVER get there).  I like Literotica too, but if you're uncomfortable with that option skip it.  Close your eyes and think about something you find sexy: maybe your DH, maybe someone famous.  If you're not sure where to start, pick up a cheesy bodice ripper and base a fantasy on that.
    If you are embarrassed or uncomfortable about what you're doing, that could have some impact as well.
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  • I'm embarrassed to confess....I've never had an orgasm. Any advice/ tips would be appreciated. 

    DH tries so hard but after so long it hurts more than is pleasurable.  
    I have never o'd. Not on my own or with sex.  I have tried vibrators. I haven't really tried porn yet (not sure why not). I get the closest  when he goes down on me,  but he hates doing that so I'm lucky if I get it once a year. 
    sarah0985 said:
    I would try some porn or literotica material. I am a mental orgasmer (not sure if that's a word) but I need to be mentally in it. If my mind is not into, physically I will never orgasm. I prefer literotica (.com) for some erotic reading but will also check out some porn sometimes if I'm feeling lazy. @dogwantinghuman


    @lindeyrva
     said that is if you do want to. As she said, it's okay if you just aren't a sexual person as well. 
    I can't O without clitoral stimulation, so I've never Od from sex alone. It's frustrating actually. I have a rabbit and it's a godsend - penetration + clit stimulation.  My bullet is good too, but I feel like I don't use it that often and the batteries are always dead. 

    I also am a "mental orgasmer", so I enjoy some good literotica. Can we start a sub-thread of this thread for good websites?  I frequent literotica(.com) and sexstoriespost(.com)

    My confession is that anal sex gets me closer to O than anything else...add in double penetration (vibrator, not another guy) and I'm pretty much there. 
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  • This is going to sound weird, but whenever I O have to get myself into a mental "place". It's not intentional, but it's what happens. Like, one time it was a purplish dark woods and I was like, riding a horse. I think what it accomplishes is that it takes me out of my distracting surroundings and I'm concentrating on achieving it--if the bed's creaking or something, I'm done. Not going to happen.

    Anyway, for me being on top helps out a lot. Just a suggestion!
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  • @britters314 @longliveregina @BerkeBaby we turn in grades for the semester next week, and mine are already done.  Half my kids are failing.  Like.  How do you fail 9th grade English?  A trained monkey could pass 9th grade English.
    Our district adopted Standard-Based Grading. It is the bane of my existence. I HATE it. The kids work the system and somehow a D is now passing. UGH! I teach a 9th grade and a 10th grade level English classes and somehow they still manage to fail. It's irritating.
  • MrsDho11MrsDho11 member
    edited February 2016
    @MamaMunn - my confession is that I stared at your GIF of the lighter for waaaaaaayyyyyy too long.  I think I have a little bit of pyromania in me because I found it fascinating.  
    Edit to add: I swear I am neither drunk nor under the influence of any sort of drug right now.
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  • @longliveregina   @BerkeBaby   @LINDSEYRVA   I feel a lot better knowing I'm not the only one and I'm not just a really awful teacher lol
  • Lulucooks said:
    This is me waiting for a repeat of July's BSC.  The Bump never forgets.

    Haha! I definitely had the same thought! Only time will tell...
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  • I guess here is my FFFC... I have never been able to make myself orgasm. I don't really care for "alone time". I think I am to emotional about sex, to much in my head. I need DH. It just seems weird and fake and forced when I am by myself. I do know what feels the best for me and help DH out getting it right. But, by myself I just can't. I could get somewhat close, but not all the way. DH is pretty good at it though. I orgasm over 50% of the time we have sex for sure. It is probably closer to around 75%. The only time I didn't was when I was pregnant and had zero sex drive, so no orgasms. He is pretty good at stimulating me at the same time as penetration. Most of the time he gets me to finish first with his fingers and then we have sex and there is a good chance if I finished the first time I will finish again with intercourse. If I couldn't finish with his fingers or vibrator I usually won't finish no matter what. Sometimes it just isn't in the cards. Ok, so that was probably way to much information about my sex life. oh well. 

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  • FSUNole31 said:
    I check back way too often sometimes after commenting to see if I received any love tits.  
    @FSUNole31 - I gave you some love tits for admitting it.  B)
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  • @BerkeBaby "That sounds like a personal problem" and "I didn't fail you, YOU failed you" are my mantras in the classroom.  Also, "you can't control other people; you can only control you."  But that one applies mostly to fighting. #innercityproblems

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  • I think this porn discussion has been so great, but I'll jump in and say that I have never felt desensitized.  I'm gonna go ahead and admit that my tastes are pretty out there, but I still get turned on by some romantic-ass lovemaking.  Everyone is different. 

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  • I think this porn discussion has been so great, but I'll jump in and say that I have never felt desensitized.  
    Yeah, that's a great point. I should have finished my second sentence with something like, "if you think that [desensitization] might become an issue for you."  
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  • @Whiska no disrespect meant to anyone who has experienced a sense of desensitization - it's definitely a legitimate thing that happens.  I posted my reply quickly and should have added that, as well.  I think there are as many legitimate responses to sexual stimulus as there are humans.  We're all speshul snowflakes in that way.

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  • @lcsrva it's definitely a thing and so is porn addiction. I don't think you were offbase or disrespectful in saying it as a caution.  
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  • @skiingstark Yes. Yes, it does. A girlfriend of mine was listening to it while driving on audible and had to pull over into an empty parking lot after the wedding night. lol

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  • edited February 2016
    MamaMunn said:
    I'm embarrassed to confess....I've never had an orgasm. Any advice/ tips would be appreciated. 

    DH tries so hard but after so long it hurts more than is pleasurable.  
    All I can say is invest in a good vibrator and your life will change :) 
    Try a WeVibe!!! Eta @dogmomwantinghuman

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    Total Thyroidectomy October 2015 
    Ovarian Cystectomy Nov 2015
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  • DCHokiemom I am exactly the same way. I think I'm just so frustrated with my doctor's news that I'm taking it all out on DH. Same thing with laundry, one morning he ignored the puppy at 3am who needed to go out, and he's not an emotional guy so I get on his case when I'm upset and he's not. I then promptly apologize when I come to my senses. We're very lucky to have such understanding husbands.
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