June 2016 Moms

Friday Check-In

How far along are you? 

Rant/Rave/Symptoms:

What are you doing to prepare for baby? 

Questions? 

GTKY: Who or what was your favorite singer or band as a kid?
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  • Sorry to everyone dealing with heartburn :( I honestly don't even know if I know what heartburn feels like...I don't think I've ever had it before. I'm assuming if I did, it would be obvious.

    @MrsB8214 Uggh, the names. We still haven't decided on a possible girls name yet.

    @DeePaddy24 I seem to have days/weeks where I feel super productive, and then some days where it's the complete opposite. So when I feel productive I just go at it full force and get shit done lol Good luck on getting the crib set up!!

    @BakerBird525 What is this goody back you speak of from Target?? 
  • How far along 21+2

    Rants Still the same. Today is Effing Day 19. I never thought I would have to wait this long in limbo.


    Raves Snowstorm this weekend. Which means weather will turn warmer for a day or two.

    GTKY Backstreet boys
  • @DeePaddy24 - Good luck with crib building!  H and I haven't tackled ours yet...its going to be a disaster when we do...lol

    @mrsschmity - Yeah for changing table?  Pictures please?

    @MrsB8214 - Ugh, go get that woman a coffee so she shuts up already.  I'm in the same boat with you, H hates the names I like so I'm making him come to the table with a list of 20, I'll come with a list of 20 and we can sort through our mutual lists together. 

    @BakerBird525 - Hmmm, no pain near the ribs for me but it probably is a combination of lack of space for baby and heartburn.  Did you do anything to pull something lately? 

    @tjenkins528 - I'm sorry you caught the cold.  :(  Being pregnant and sick = zero fun.  
  • @cmillar36: Damn. That's awful you are still waiting. I hope you hear good results soon.
  • @mkemommy & @SMLmom We usually have a pretty good system for building furniture (I read the directions & organize everything...he just assembles)...but I feel like doing something for the baby puts so much more pressure on us. I'll let you know how it goes! And I would never dream of sharing a canoe with H...hahahaha...one of us would end up in the water so fast. We stick to kayaking..in separate kayaks!  ;)
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  • @mrsschmity - I LOVE that changing table.  Seriously, it is adorable.  
  • @cmillar36- That's awful!  I hope they get back to you soon and I hope it's good news!

    @arteduc8 - I used the "checklist" tool on Target and just ignored the things I thought were a waste.  And then I asked my sister and SIL for their advice on some stuff, like infant car seats/stroller combos.
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  • @MrsAlliKat I remember pregnancy heartburn well from my last time through it.  It hasn't hit me too badly yet but I remember trying to max out on dinner dates with my hubs before the baby came and always being too heart-burny to enjoy my fave foods.  You have my sympathies!
  • Kballew10Kballew10 member
    edited February 2016
    @catherinekate - Sounds like you need to call in and go back to bed.

    @MeganF08 - That's a weird tradition and I would also NOT be on board.  Me or H is holding our baby first and I wouldn't expect you to prioritize moms just to please one of them.  Time for that tradition to end.
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  • @MeganF08 totally not unreasonable, you give the baby to whoever you want to first and if that's your mom, not his mom, so be it.  They'll be plenty of baby hugs to go around in the coming years, insisting on "I held them first" bragging rights is just juvenile to me. 
  • @Sgoldberg247 - Yeah healthy baby girl!!!!  So excited for you!
  • How far along are you?  23 weeks tomorrow!

    Rant/Rave/Symptoms: Rant: My dogs could not sync their bladders last night! I got up three times to let them use the restroom on top of getting up when I needed to go! Rave: I'm so excited it's Friday because we are going to start cleaning out LO's potential bedroom this weekend! Symptoms: I think I have heartburn at night sometimes when I'm laying flat, I've never had it before, but that's what I'm guessing this is. Also, tons of pressure super low, LO is smooshed down low right on top of my cervix.

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? Out of no where this week one of DH's cousins offered us all of their baby furniture because they are done having children, and one of my cousins said she has 7 bags of little girl clothes that she wants to bring me to sort through, so I'm super excited about picking all of that up.



    GTKY: Who or what was your favorite singer or band as a kid? I was an N'Sync girl, I also loved Alanis Morisette, Avril Lavigne , &  NIckelback.
  • Damn. You guys are on it this morning! 

    How far along are you? 22+4 

    Rants/Raves/Symptoms: It's been a terrible week. H got some shit news about HIS job now and he had a full on meltdown yesterday and I had to get real with him about some shit. It ended up being a good talk, though. Hopefully it'll spark some motivation for him to get the ball rolling on something he likes to do or at least somewhere he can grow a career. He gets complacent too easily.
    Also my coworker called me last night and said she's submitting her letter of resignation today so I'm very nervous about going into work this morning. I'm grateful she gave me a heads up though and truthfully, I am happy for her. I'm trying not to stress but H could possibly be losing pay if he doesn't find a new job and my boss literally might be forced to shut his doors now (he's 70 and seriously needs to anyway but God this is a bad time). TGIF. 

    GTKY: Who or what was your favorite singer or band as a kid? N'Sync. "This I Promise You" may have been my first dance song. 

    It was a cover though. I couldn't get H to agree to the original. Grr.....

    I'll be back later to respond to you all when I'm hiding in my office.  


  • @Sgoldberg247 - Yes, it is ridiculous! His mom actually brought up the subject to me at dinner last weekend and said that her mother used to brag all the time that she held my husband before his own mother. MIL, FIL, and DH all think that it's hilarious that she was so proud of it. I was the only one at the table not laughing and I muttered something about punching someone in the face if they tried to hold my baby before me. I have been trying to push for no one to even come see us until after we have had our hour of skin to skin in the hospital but they aren't going for that either...
  • @Sgoldberg247 - Congrats on the baby girl!

    @gray51015 - Hooray for free stuff!

    @ahernandez16 - Best of luck with all of the job issues... that sounds rough.
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  • @ahernandez16 so sorry to hear about all the job-related drama!  Hopefully, as you say, your hubs can move in a positive direction and one day you'll look back at how it was all meant to be, but that doesn't make the present any easier.  
  • @ahernandez16 - All the internet (non-creepy) hugs to you.  I'm sorry about your job, your H's job and the stress you are both under.  
  • MeganF08 said:
    I have been trying to push for no one to even come see us until after we have had our hour of skin to skin in the hospital but they aren't going for that either...
    I hope that people will listen to your wishes and wait until you are ready for them!  I decided I don't want anyone at the hospital when I'm in labor and we will invite them when I'm ready.  It went over really well with my family and they are supportive.  H is supposed to tell his dad, and I dont think he's going to be happy, but the moment should be about our new family of 3, not making sure FIL gets what he wants.  Good luck!
  • @Sgoldberg247 Congrats on Team Pink!! That's so exciting!

    @ahernandez16 That is the most stressful thing I've read all day! Hugs to you, I wish you could have a glass of wine after work, it sounds like you deserve it!

  • @Kballew10 - I have a snoogle and also have my husband, two pittie mixes, a chihuahua, and at least a cat or two in bed every night. It feels bulky at first but I have to fight the dogs for it before bed and they find a way to each get at least a part of their bodies on it every night so they make it work. I usually wake up sharing the part under my head with at least one pittie face :)

    @ahernandez16- Job stress is very difficult during pregnancy, especially if you are both being hit with it at the same time. I hope everything works out for both of you!
  • @mrsschmity : If you go to Guest Service at Target and tell them you just set up a baby registry and ask for a good bag, they should automatically know to give you one. It's not advertised anywhere from what I know, I just heard about it on TB. Sure enough, the lady knew what we were talking about but they were all out of them. I've heard they're really good though! Also, cute changing table! Um..and I really want to check out Zulily now. I need some maxi dresses for Miami...

    @Sgoldberg247 : Congrats on the baby GIRL!!

    @MeganF08 : I've never heard of that tradition and I don't think you are being unreasonable at all!

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  • crdocrdo member
    edited February 2016
    @ahernandez16: Sorry to hear about all the job stress. Good that you and H had a productive talk about it, and I hope a good situation shakes out for you both soon.

    @MeganF08
    1. That's a facking weird tradition. Hell no. 
    2. If you don't want any visitors until a certain time, then that's the law. The end. I can't believe people are pushing back so hard with you! It's not their choice, and it's just too damn bad if they don't like it. I'd just make the boundary perfectly clear with family, and ask the medical staff to absolutely not let any visitors in under any circumstances until you're ready. I'm sure they've dealt with pushy family more than once, so it won't be unfamiliar territory to them.

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    Congrats on team pink @Sgoldberg247!!
  • Kballew10Kballew10 member
    edited February 2016
    MeganF08 said:
    I have been trying to push for no one to even come see us until after we have had our hour of skin to skin in the hospital but they aren't going for that either...
    I hope that people will listen to your wishes and wait until you are ready for them!  I decided I don't want anyone at the hospital when I'm in labor and we will invite them when I'm ready.  It went over really well with my family and they are supportive.  H is supposed to tell his dad, and I dont think he's going to be happy, but the moment should be about our new family of 3, not making sure FIL gets what he wants.  Good luck!
    I agree that it would be awesome if they would just ASK you and listen to your wishes... Does your hospital have a policy for visitors?  Maybe you can get them to keep all visitors out until then.  Blame it on the policy if you don't want confrontation!

    Edit: My brain is fried... it's time for the weekend.
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