Ok probably a silly question but where the heck do you all put baby while doing this?! He's attached to me at all times and sleeps in our room so there's no alone time!
She's usually asleep in the corner of our room in her rocker if it's bed time... If it's not her bedtime, she's usually asleep in her swing in the next room.
Ok probably a silly question but where the heck do you all put baby while doing this?! He's attached to me at all times and sleeps in our room so there's no alone time!
So glad I am not alone in that situation! My son hates to be put down. He doesn't like his swing or bouncer and we bedshare- which I always said I would never do. I wish he would sleep in his bassinet but I gave up on that.
Fortunately, my aunt lives next door and enjoys helping so she had ds during the 2 times dh and I have had sex.
I had a c section so it didn't really hurt. Just a little uncomfortable going in at first because it had been months. (We didn't have sex the last couple weeks I was pregnant because I was just too huge)
I know not everyone has a relative who lives so close but maybe there's one you could get to baby sit one night a week and have sex then? Lol I know it's weird/sucks having to schedule it but better than not getting any at all that's for sure.
@ammnam14 - better?!! How??! Or if that's too personal, feel free to ignore but damn, lucky you I guess!
It wasn't horrible for me, I mean we both got ours, which I was super relieved about, but the boobs being what they are now is kind of an obstacle.
What do y'all do with LO while you and your partner have sex? Me and my hubby have had sex once since my 6 week check up it was really painful so we have decided to wait a few more weeks until we try again (I had a 3rd degree tear and lots of stitches and was told I might need 8 weeks to fully heal) but when we had sex the first time LO was asleep in the pack in play on our room and she woke up crying just as we were finishing the deed and it killed the moment.... Since the Hubby and I don't get much time alone I want the little time we do to be uninterrupted if possible. So any suggestions would be helpful.
He's in the RNP beside the bed. Have to do what we have to do. He won't remember it anyway.
Re: Postpartum sex?
The beginning of this trailer... This will happen to all of us!!!