September 2016 Moms

Blump Conversations?

Anyone else getting comments already about your blumps? It was funny at first but now makes my eye twitch some...

o:) At annual review with my boss, "omg I can't believe you're showing already! what are you 12 weeks now?" "no 8. it's just gas and poop* cue awkward silence. No hiding my body is up to something!

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  • No one really knows yet so they just think I am gaining weight. I keep seeing people eye me up and down. Not the best feeling in the world.
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  • yeah. I haven't had any conversations because we just started telling people, but the blump is definitely making itself known. I have very few things I can wear without feeling super self-conscious. 
  • @Sporty1216 Me too! Pants are my worst enemy right now. I bought a Bella band yesterday so hopefully that'll help. Until then, maxi skirts!
  • None yet, which is really good because I'm only 6 weeks and we're not telling people until 12 weeks. I will TP anyone who mentions it before end of 1st tri.
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    BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
    BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
    BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
    BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
    BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018


  • This is my first so I have never had a real bump and I am currently loving the blump, plus what a great excuse to wear leggings as pants! 
  • Ugh... I am sure people aren't noticing, but I certainly feel as if they can. I feel like this second time around I'm ahead by three weeks: didn't have the blump with my daughter until 10 weeks!
  • All I can say is thank God for lularoe because this blump is out of control somedays!
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  • 618mom22boys618mom22boys member
    edited February 2016
    I took my 1st pic tonight and had tons of "Are you sure it's not twins?" comments. 

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  • I took my 1st pic tonight and had tons of "Are you sure it's not twins?" comments. 

    Lol I got that a lot last time and sure it will happen again this time!
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  • This is technically the 4th time I've been pregnant so there's no hiding it. I'm 6 wks now and clothes are tight.  Hopefully I can hide behind sweaters and can make it to the 12 week mark without it being TOO obvious.
  • My pants won't button anymore. I'm 8w3d and I definitely wasn't having this problem last week. The blump is growing! 
  • We went to the Keys last week, and I wore a bikini with my big bloated belly. Stay classy!!! We haven't told anyone yet (almost 10 weeks) and I'm sure everyone just thinks I am gaining weight.

  • I have only gained 3lbs so far, but I am so bloated! I hate it! I am actually canceling dinner plans tonight with an old friend becuase i feel gross and bloated. I am almost 10 weeks and only have 3 weeks left before I can at least explain the situation!
    Me: 32 DH: 31
    TTC #2 since January 2018
    Baby #1 DD  Born 8/25/2016
    BFP: 8/11/18 Due: 4/26/18

     

  • My boss works in a different office than I do. I haven't seen her since November and I won't see her again until April due to her insane schedule so I told her last week (@ 9 weeks) and she replied, "I was wondering if you were or if you just ate too much over the holidays." Gee thanks.
  • Winter clothing hides it all, thank goodness. Plus, no one knows yet!
  • I won't go away and it makes me nervous to be "showing" this early. No sucking it in either. I'm all for baby bumps and I am more than excited for it but please hold off a little bit. Let's say until like 15 weeks. This is #3 for us and I was in maternity clothes by 20 weeks with #2 so I'm sure this one with happen even sooner. Just not at 7 weeks. 
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  • @FireInWonderland WOW. How does a person get to that point in their life where they feel like it's okay to say things like that out loud?? What a See You Next Tuesday.
  • I got married in September and I was at a healthy weight. I started gaining weight through the holiday season though so my pants were already getting tight. Unfortunately I threw away all my fat pants last year after losing over 30 pounds. Well now most of that is back plus I have bloat. I just look really fat though and my clothes are getting really uncomfortable. I don't want to jump the gun and move to maternity clothes though until the 2nd trimester. I am counting on a few of my larger/more comfortable pants and lots of baggy sweaters. One of my friends called yesterday and asked me to be her accountability partner to lose weight. I don't know how to explain that I won't be working on losing weight this year.
  • Sporty1216Sporty1216 member
    edited February 2016
    That is genius, @ElcaB (both the snack idea and the tunic/leggings idea). 
  • @ElcaB Where are you going to look for tunics? I feel like I saw them everywhere before I got pregnant and now I can't find any. I looked at Kohl's and Target so far.
  • I seriously look 5 months pregnant...This did not happen with my first so I'm shocked...people are totally eyeing me and I hate it...
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  • @FireInWonderland I can't believe that! That made me so mad!
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  • Since it's been a balmy winter, I've been wearing lighter clothes. If I wear a bulky sweater, I feel hot and nauseous and can't breathe. Today I wore a pencil skirt and it was the worst idea of my life. I felt like every student was looking at my frieking blump and I was so insecure all day. It's a catch 22 though because I feel if I wear leggings everyday they'll catch on. Arghhhh. They're so observant of things I don't want them to catch on to, yet I can post something on the board and they don't see it for weeks.
  • Well I had lots of bloating at first but now being close to 7 weeks I am back down to normal size most of the time. This is a GREAT thing because I don't plan on telling my employer until the second trimester. If I feel a little thicker around the middle I just throw on a something to slim my midsection down. Don't need any nosey coworkers making comments.
  • @FireInWonderland Please keep us all updated on your sweet revenge announcement. geez louise the nerve of some people!! I'm so sorry that happened to you.
    Me:35, DH 37  ~ Married July 2014
    ttc July 2015 ~ bfp Nov 2015 (cp)
    bfp Dec 2015 ~ (tfmr 17wk, March 2016, genetic disease)
    ttcal May 2016
  • @KarenBeth714 if I actually remember later I definitely will.
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  • @izzetoot @noelani42 @camichael84 @lovelylauren86 @JennM205 @Katie8687 @ElcaB @RedMar When that girl finds out in a couple weeks that I'm pregnant I'm going to make sure I tell that story with her standing next to me - "So DH and I were out a few weeks ago, and I overheard this snotty, judgmental girl telling her friends that the weight on my stomach was unflattering and she didn't know how my husband could stand it. We got a big laugh out of it later, because we kept our secret. DH and I are excited to finally announce that this "unflattering" stomach of mine is growing a baby!!!! We are due September 13th!" Or something along those lines. I can't wait to see the look of embarrassment on her face when she realizes I heard her. 
    I hope it goes something like this...



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  • Katie8687 said:
    @ElcaB Where are you going to look for tunics? I feel like I saw them everywhere before I got pregnant and now I can't find any. I looked at Kohl's and Target so far.
    @Katie8687, I have an amazing second-hand store in my area that carries great gently used merch. I've found a few good ones at Old Navy & New York and Company --- check there! (I can't WAIT until maxi dress season.)
  • @ElcaB Thank you! Today was my first day of feeling a tiny bit more "bumpy" v. "blumpy" so I'll check those stores out this weekend!
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