June 2016 Moms

My turn to update

CourtJackCourtJack member
edited January 2016 in June 2016 Moms

Well, I'll start of by saying that I absolutely hate how many of us are dealing with such scary health issues right now. It seems that every day one of us is sharing a troubling update. I am so glad that we have this community to share with. It makes such a difference trying to cope with all the stuff <3

So, onto my crappy update. I just had my consult with the genetics counselor and a pair of doctors (Chief of Genetics and a high risk OB). They reviewed the current issues that we're facing: baby's long bones are all measuring behind - they're currently measuring in the 3rd percentile. In addition to the this, the cardiologist thinks there is a peri-membranous ventricular septal defect in the baby's heart - basically a hole in the heart.

These two conditions together (in addition to the high NT measurement from my 1st u/s) raise some big concerns from the Genetics doc - she said if it were just one or the other, it wouldn't raise a red flag for her - but since the two conditions exist together, she told us that she believes there is a good chance that there is some sort of underlying condition that we will need to deal with.

She said of the conditions we could be at risk for, there are a few that are lethal. Thankfully she doesn't think we need to worry about those as the measurements that would indicate a lethal condition are coming back normal. She said we're not out of the woods completely and we'll know more with the follow up u/s that I'll have next week.

We reviewed a wide spectrum of options moving forward, including amnio, a micro array (?) and some further genetic testing. Right now I'm going to go ahead with the amnio and micro-array. Amnio results will be back within a week or so but the micro array takes 3 or so weeks to be completed.

I am trying super hard to stay positive - but this meeting made it just a bit tougher. It all seems so surreal.

Anyways, I will continue to hope for the best. Thanks ladies.

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  • Many hugs to you.  I have been thinking of you and sending prayers!!  When will you have the amnio and micro array completed?
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this  :/ keeping you in my thoughts. FX they can follow up quickly with results and answers. 
  • Hugs lady <3 I don't have much advice but I'll be thinking of you. Try and stay positive! Thoughts and prayers.
  • @NicknShan - I actually have to call and book my amnio right now! It'll be next week at some point. Given how far along I am - they want to be prepared for the worst, without too much time going by.
  • Hugs to you! Keeping you all in my thoughts.
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  • @CourtJack I was really hoping for great news. I'm sorry for the continued struggle and testing. We are 100% here for you in any way we can help. Hugs.
  • Big hugs! Im sorry you're dealing with this. I'm waiting for our test results and it will only take 1-2 weeks, I can't imagine waiting 3! Come on here when it's driving you crazy and we'll try to be a good distraction 
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  • Hugs and thoughts to you! I hope you get some positive answers soon!

    I agree that I really had no idea issues were so prevalent but my goodness I'm so thankful for a place where we can speak freely and find support and love!
  • *hugs* and many prayers being sent your way... I want to hear some amazing news from you really soon just like I got today. ❤️
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  • @CourtJack Thank God for this community. I'm sorry you have to go through this. Positive though, it sounds like the genetics specialist feels positively about this. It still sucks to have to go through with the amnio and other tests but I'm praying all of this come back clear for you. As hard as it is, try and keep your head up and believe as strong as you can that your LO is going to ok. 
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  • I hope everything comes back with good news!  Hugs to you!
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  • I'm so very sorry that you're still in limbo. You've had so much stress this pregnancy and I wish I could make it better for you! Fingers crossed for news (hopefully good!) soon. Thanks for the update, we're all thinking of you and pulling for you and your little one.
  • Prayers for you and little one. Praying for good results! Hugs!

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  • I'm sorry that you didn't get more positive news today.   Praying for quick, good news results from your remaining tests. Big hugs to you, mama!
  • I'm sorry to read this @CourtJack ! You'll be in my thoughts & prayers. Many hugs to you!! 
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  • Big hugs to you. Hoping the amnio/micro array and additional ultrasound bring good news for your little one. Hang in there lady. We're here for you!
  • I'm sorry to hear this! I'll be praying for you and your little one and hope for good news when you get your results. 

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  • I'm so sorry your news wasn't more positive. Prayers for relatively stress free procedures going forward and quick results in the days to come. Internet hugs to you!

  • @courtjack - I was really, really hoping for good news when I opened this thread.  I'm so sorry this is happening to you guys.  You are in my thoughts and prayers right now.  HUGE hugs.  
  • Gah. I'm really sorry that you're stuck again with so many unanswered questions. I will be thinking of you and your family. Hopefully you'll have quick and positive answers. 
  • Big creepy internet hugs.  I hope you get good results back quickly!


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  • Lots of thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Hoping and praying that additional testing shows something positive. Im so sorry you are having to go through this. So many hugs to you!
  • I'm so sorry.  Prayers as you head into your upcoming appointments. 
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  • ((hugs)) I am hoping that the additional testing brings you reassuring answers. Thinking of you!


     
  • Hoping you get good test results...and praying for you! Let us know when your amnio and other tests are scheduled. You'll be in our thoughts! 

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  • That sucks, but luckily they don't seem to think its lethal. I hope your results are quick and bring good news.
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  • @CourtJack I'm sorry you got this news, but glad they can do testing to find out more. I'll be hoping for a good outcome for you. I think we live in the same area and I'm at home "indefinitely" so if you ever want to meet up for a coffee and vent, let me know!
  • So sorry you have to keep waiting. Praying the time between appts flies by for you and you receive good news!
  • Prayers for you, LO, and family.  I will be thinking about you and looking for a positive update.
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  • fingers crossed for good news from the genetic testing, and here's hoping they come back quicker than 3 weeks so you aren't in limbo for much longer! 
  • We are here now, during the wait and when you find out. Thank you for updating us. Much love, thoughts and prayers. 
  • Thank you all so much. :-) 
  • Hugs to you!! Keeping my fingers crossed that your test results all come back okay. Keep your chin up!
  • I started shaking as soon as I saw your name next to this post. My heart is breaking for you and the emotions I know you're feeling. Sending so many prayers that your amnio and other results come back quickly!! Let me know if you want to talk and I'll pm you my email address. 
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  • So sorry. We have two soft markers, waiting to see genetics and high risk doctor along with another scan Feb 10th. I'm thinking of all my Bump mama's who are dealing with uncertainty and waiting for news. We're all here to be any sort of support we can be. I know it's scary.
  • Sending positive thoughts your way!
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  • Hugs for you momma. I'll continue to send love and light your way♡ 


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  • Sending up prayers for you 
  • Big hugs to you!  <3  I will continue to think & pray for you & your family, & hope for positive updates from here. 
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. Ugh, that is so frustrating that you had a good cell free dna test and now you're still going through this.

    Do you know what cellular component they are using for the microarray? Are they taking some of the amniotic fluid for that as well? It's more sensitive than the traditional amnio test and I believe can detect a wide range of genetic abnormalities. Hopefully, it will give you some answers.



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