I'm so so sorry. Losing a baby is pain like no one should have to experience. I'm lifting you up in prayer. Please take the time and help you need to go through this awful process and give yourself grace and time to heal.
For what it's worth, I agree with PPs about giving your husband the chance to see and say goodbye to his son, even if you don't want him in the room during the induction and birth itself.
I wow. I am so devastated to hear this. I would, however, reconsider not telling your husband. That make create an unrepairable rift in your marriage. After all, this is his baby too.
I'm so sorry for the loss. Lean on your family and friends to heal and support you.
I respectfully disagree with pp about telling your husband. It could very well be the marriage is abusive or so volatile that @corts is not including the father for her safety. There could be much more to their situation than we know. I'm sure she has not made this decision lightly and has done so with support of trusting family/friends. Whatever the situation may be, take care of yourself and get the counseling and support you need to heal. Sending so many hugs and good thoughts to you during this difficult time.
I am so sorry. We lost our daughter last June suddenly at 19 weeks. Please, be kind to yourself for the next however long you need! I spent at least a month in a fog, I looked fine, but cried all the time. There is no way to explain how you are probably feeling right now. Please look online for a good support page, there are a ton out there. If you have any questions or need help finding one, I would be happy to help in any way I can.
I do think you still need to do counseling with your husband. Please, don't make any rash decisions about your marriage until you have had some time. My husband was supportive and there were still days I threatened to lock him out.
I will be praying for you and your family.
This.
I'm so sorry for your loss and everything you are going through. However I think your husband deserves to know what is happening since this is his son as much as its your son.
Wow so incredibly sorry @Corts. I can tell you have a huge and brave heart to be a NILMDTS photographer. I hate that you have to be on the receiving end of those photos. Praying for you right this moment for strength and eventual peace- also for reconciliation with your husband and healing there in both of your hearts.
I am so sorry for your loss! I can only imagine how hard this must be. I think you should tell your husband, you'll probably regret it if you don't. It's not fair for him not to get to say goodbye to his son and regardless of the future of your marriage, it will be good for you to share this with him. Again, I'm so sorry!
So very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your family during this difficult time. May you find the strength and support you need to make it through this.
@Corts I'm so devastated for you and your loss. I'll be thinking of you and sending you love and strength. We're here if you want to talk, although I know words aren't much comfort right now.
@Corts I'm so sorry to hear the update. You're in our prayers. I also wanted to tell you how brave you are not only for sharing this incredibly personal experience with us, but for being so strong through it. Not that it helps to hear that, but you're obviously a great mother and it's inspiring to see your strength. I'm so so sorry you have to go through this.
I am so so sorry to hear this update. Many thoughts and prayers are going out to you. Please always feel welcome to stay here for support as you go through this difficult time.
Re: Husband flipped his sh*t...20 weeks pregnant and alone at hospital.
For what it's worth, I agree with PPs about giving your husband the chance to see and say goodbye to his son, even if you don't want him in the room during the induction and birth itself.
I respectfully disagree with pp about telling your husband. It could very well be the marriage is abusive or so volatile that @corts is not including the father for her safety. There could be much more to their situation than we know. I'm sure she has not made this decision lightly and has done so with support of trusting family/friends. Whatever the situation may be, take care of yourself and get the counseling and support you need to heal. Sending so many hugs and good thoughts to you during this difficult time.
I'm so sorry for your loss and everything you are going through. However I think your husband deserves to know what is happening since this is his son as much as its your son.
DD born June 2016
Second due August 2020 (team green!)
Again, I'm so sorry!
We're here for you.
Married: 12/16/12
TTC #1: 06/15 BFP #1:07/13/15
D&C: 08/28/15
BFP #2: 09/26/15
M: 06/03/16
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L : 7/26/18 (SIUGR, micropreemie)