Win: What's something you're really good at?
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down

Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately?
Me: 28 DH: 29
Married: August 2014
TTC #1 Since March 2015
Diagnosed with PCOS March 2016
SA results normal April 2016
3 rounds clomid + trigger + TI = BFN
3 rounds clomid + trigger + IUI = BFN
Uterine polyp removed July 2017
Round 1 IVF January 2018
Re: Win/Wine/Whine Wednesday
Wine: My favorite wine is from a local winery here. Its Oliver Wine Soft Red. I love all of their wines, though, but I think Soft Red is my favorite.
Whine: Mostly myself. My emotions are all over the place. TTC is hard. One day I'm so optimistic and the next day I'm trying not to get my hopes up. I don't know how to feel.
RE appt 12/2015
CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent
Dx: Unexplained Infertility
February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6
BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16
It's a girl!
Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S
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TFAS March 2018
RE consultation 8/2/18
Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19
It's a girl!
Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
Wine: Not much of a wine drinker, although I am starting to drink more. I generally pick it based off how creative the label is
Whine: this little cutie because she wants to go outside in the single digits every 10 minutes!
edited because no one wants to see my dog that huge on their screen!
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? Flaky friends. My bosses for making me doubt the survival of this company and consider looking for a new job.
WINE: I'm not picky! Anything white.
WHINE: Myself/DH. This week was really tough for TTC. DH works a lot of overtime, and works graveyard shifts. I work two jobs. This was my FW and we tried to HIO but our schedules just don't let that happen. Yesterday was O day, and I even planned on going in late to work so that we could BD. Unfortunately the only opportunity to do that was when DH got home from work at 5 in the morning. After a 12 hour day, he was exhausted and wasn't in the mood. I got upset and started crying because I was missing O day, after missing -1 as well. It was a mess. I'm hoping next month our schedules and FW align better.
@severmilli12 I wish I was good at makeup. I want to learn how to do more. My makeup has been the same daily basics since I was a teenager.
Me: 28 | DH: 31
Together since 2006 | Married May 2015
TTC #1 since November 2015
BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? I'm with @severmilli12 on this one. I'm getting on my own nerves. TTCAL is so damn hard. I just want to feel normal again and not feel uncomfortable around pregnant friends. I feel like an ass because I'm so excited for them, but I can't show it.
LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs
BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016
Baking and cooking. Especially into desserts that require technique. Just don't ask me to decorate it.
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down.
I'm not a big wine drinker. Like at all!
I'll usually order a white and used to love Riesling but can't do the sweet anymore. Over the summer I discovered malbecs and really liked that.
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately?
Everyone! Patience is pretty short lately. I don't snap (as in Temper) but I just don't want to be around many people.
@anj27 love that your good at sleeping! Haha. I used to be good at sleeping. Seems the older I get I just can't sleep in as late or sleep as long in general as I used to....
Pssshhh...as if I could pick just one thing. I'm great at everything!
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
I'm not a big wine drinker. Beer is my go to, but a group of us ladies in the neighborhood do Wine Wednesday each week. They have turned me onto Moscatos and sweet reds. Which is odd because I have never been one to enjoy anything sweet. Be it food or drink.
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately?
Does it have to be a person? How about a situation? DH has to go on a business trip and that interferes with TTC. Thankfully, his boss is being flexible with him because he and his wife are also TTC. He gets it. However, I also have jury duty soon. So trying to plan his trip around O and him being able to work from home to watch DS after school while I am stuck in a courthouse for a week is a pain the rear!
Edited to add, @severmilli12 I can relate to your whine 100%! I'm going BSC over here! I told DH the bonus of jury duty coming up is that it will keep my mind occupied during TWW. Not to mention, I'm sure they would frown upon me peeing on 500 sticks in the courthouse bathroom!
Wine: Concannon Petite Syrah and Cupcake Red Velvet are my two favs.
Whine: A professional group I am in that isn't Doug a very good job of respecting everyone involved.
DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
* formally bornmommy
Math and programming. I have a new assignment at work, and have been kicking ass, so it has renewed my confidence.
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
A good Chianti Classico. My favourite is still Australian Shiraz, but I have to be in the mood for it. When I don't know what I want, a Chianti is always a good choice.
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately?
I've actually been mostly okay this week. Nobody is driving me off the walls.
DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
* formally bornmommy
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down. Our go to bottle is usually Arcturos Cabernet Franc. We are biased towards wines from Traverse City, so we support the Michigan wines.
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? A coworker that always has to one-up everyone's stories.
@sarah0985 - I also can't sleep in. My kids usually keep that from happening, but even on those rare occasions when I'm alone I can't seem to sleep past 6:30 or 7:00 (then I feel guilty for doing it).
Win: What's something you're really good at? Not really anything. I'd like to consider myself really good at listening to other people a
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? One of my girlfriends. I love her dearly and she's such a great person, but sometimes she can be a little too intense. She's constantly calling me trying to offer her teenage daughters as babysitters (which I totally appreciate, but we don't go out much, so when it happens you'll be the first to know) and lately has been calling me to bitch about her new gym and the staff and a little bit of everything and nothing. Just. Stop. Talking.
Wine: What's your go to wine? I'm a weirdo who doesn't like wine.
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? Anyone else on the road during rush hour.
Married: July 2015
BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
Wine: A nice dry rose
Whine: My marketing director, who comes in maybe 2 weeks a month total and recently told our boss that "the commute is just really long and she can't promise normal office hours" when he told her she needs to be in M-F 9-5. Girl you were hired three months ago with the same living situation, schedule, and commute and offered a six figure salary. FIGURE IT OUT!
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? I'm echoing a few people's response. I'm getting on my own nerves. My health issues are not going away. I have a feeling this is causing my body to go into "crisis mode," which means that my cycle is all over the place. Just get your sh*t together, body!
Wine: 7 Deadly Zins, such a yummy wine at a moderate price.
Whine: If I have to do spend one more day doing a test, I am going to scream.... Ohh wait I have 5 more days of this. I have to do Content test for SS, then a reading/writing in history test (because we only teach history now to help English out) and then the District SS test. All of theses test take 3 days.... When teachers complain that the students are being tested a crazy amount, we are not lying.....
Married to my Soul Mate since 09/06/09
DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
* formally bornmommy
DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
* formally bornmommy
I'm good at life I guess. I am a property manager and I am amazed every day of all the people who live at my properties that can't figure out their life. It makes me wonder how they got this far without my help. Examples..... what is a money order? Why can't I move in with no income? my shower rod fell down, can you come put it up?, my radio has a high pitched sound... can you provide a device to block the high frequency signals? Can you scan these 500 documents into your email and then email them to me? Can I have a service animal for my service animal because my dog has anxiety? *sigh*
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
I go for red wines. Wine in a box, wine in a bottle, whatever. Malbec and mixed reds are good. nothing really sweet though.
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately?
not too much lately (although it sounds like I'm annoyed at my job I really love my job). I am annoyed that I somehow knock my bbt off my nightstand every morning. Then I can't find it in my sleepy state and dark room. This morning after looking on the floor and under the bed I finally had to turn on the light and get out of bed to find it.
Me: 31 DH: 36
Married since 11/25/2013
#1 (bio) born 01/18/2006
#2 (bio) born 09/08/2008
#3 (step) born 02/17/2009
#4 (our 1st together) EDD 09/09/2017
@Sparty18 A spreadsheet! Like of all the guys she's dated or does each guy have their own spreadsheet?
Wine: Pink Moscato
Whine: Honestly no one. It's weird since my MC I have been hyper aware of everything, people, what they say, how they say things, and more. This oddly has mad me more relaxed and sensitive to others personalities so I don't get frustrated as easily.
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019Me: 31 DH: 36
Married since 11/25/2013
#1 (bio) born 01/18/2006
#2 (bio) born 09/08/2008
#3 (step) born 02/17/2009
#4 (our 1st together) EDD 09/09/2017
Wine: Cupcake moscato is my favorite
Whine: The inlaws are always on my nerves! Sometimes I feel bad that they annoy me so much, because I think they mean well but ugh. I'm actually kind of nervous for the day we have a baby because I think they are going to be smothering.
Me: 28 DH: 29
Married: August 2014
TTC #1 Since March 2015
Diagnosed with PCOS March 2016
SA results normal April 2016
3 rounds clomid + trigger + TI = BFN
3 rounds clomid + trigger + IUI = BFN
Uterine polyp removed July 2017
Round 1 IVF January 2018
@anj27 Haha, yes each spreadsheet will be for a batch of guys (typically 10-15) that she is currently talking to or that she has found in a search and wants to message. I then rate each guy on different criteria (e.g. looks, overall profile, etc...) and then list pros and cons. Then for each batch, I'll rank them based on my findings (including things I find from searching them, but I don't disclose these specifics). She then updates the spreadsheet from time to time with the current status of their conversations and will track any dates they go on, etc... Apparently she is getting ready to send me a new batch of 30+ guys, eek, that will take some time lol. The most time consuming part is figuring out their names based on the limited info typically included in their profiles, but it's like solving several small mysteries!
Wine: Pinot Noir or Riesling depending on if I want red or white.
Whine: No one specific, but I've been pretty crabby about people in general... lots of pet peeve triggering!
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? People who use the "report" button as a dislike button. Before you tattle, ask yourself...can you not handle this on your own? Do you have to tell the teacher?
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? People who drive like jerks. Does it really make that much more difference in time if you cut me off rather than wait for all the space after me?
then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
I had a sweet rosé in France that I actually liked, and I like champagne. The bubbles help. There's not much alcohol that I like to drink but I love to cook with wine!!
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? The vending machines on this campus. They're trying to be healthy so they replaced all the Three Musketeers and Pop-Tarts with like, Chex Mix and Nutrigrain bars - every single vending machine. These are only *marginally* more healthy than what was in there before, which I find to be an insult on everyone's intelligence. Just offer a mix! I want some Raisinets sooooo bad right now!
April 2016 - AMH, FSH, Progesterone normal
June 2016 - HSG clear
*TW* BFP - Aug16, demise confirmed Sep16, incomplete m/c, D&C Nov16
BFP 3/27/17, edd 12/7/17
DS - 12/9/17
TTC #2 December 2018
BFP 2/22/19, edd 11/4/19
DD - 11/1/19
My Chart
LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs
BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016
Wine: What's your go to wine? Dark Horse's red blend. Always the best!
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? whoever is responsible for getting @PocketFullofShells banned. She is amazing and it makes me so sad that someone who has been such an amazing part of this community is gone over something stupid.
BFP on 7/2/2013
Wine: King Estate Pinot Noir
Whine: My coworker who plays dumb to get out of doing work. And she is two-faced yet everyone loves her. So annoying.
LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs
BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016
Wine: Sauvignon blanc, specifically Barefoot brand. I'm not fancy.
Whine: For starters, this cold! And also my adorable fur baby because all she wants to do is play and all I want to do is relax. Can't blame her though.
Me: 30/ DH: 33
Met: 2003/ Married 10/11/15
TTC #1 since January 2016
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/61bec1
Wine: I'm not a huge wine girl, but a friend introduced me to the 14 Hands Cab and I've been a believer ever since.
Whine: Nobody in particular, probably me for not paying closer attention, but I know who like 10 people are on here these days. Did everyone have a SN swap party and I just missed the memo?
*siggy warning*
mmc . mar 2016
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
surprise BFP . aug 2019
DS . may 2020
dx Hashimoto's 2023
ttc #3 . feb 2023
mmc . apr 2023
mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
dx elevated nk cells
tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
BFP . mar 2025
BFP on 7/2/2013
---qbf of course---
Agreed. Just because you don't agree with something someone has said, doesn't mean you should report them. Reporting is for serious TOU violations only.
Moment of silence for @PocketFullofShells
Wine: What's your go to wine? The kind that always satisfies and never lets you down
Whine: Who's getting on your nerves lately? My dog. She has some foot allergy or something and she has been keeping me up at night because she is chewing on it. I bought some wipes from Amazon and really hope they help her.
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
February 2021 - FET #5 - BFP!!! Due 11/6/2021