Not feeling myself

Re: Not feeling myself

• strickland8052 member

  January 2016

  Are you asking if you are pregnant? If so, that is against the TOU. Also, you do realize this is a group of women who have been through some sad stuff and really want a child of our own. We don't appreciate you waving your pregnancy symptoms around in our face.
  
  Take a test. Strangers on the internet don't know if you are pregnant or not.

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• PeggyOlsonFTW member

  January 2016

  Maybe you're getting sick. If you're concerned about your health, go to the doctor.

  
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• PeggyOlsonFTW member

  January 2016 edited January 2016

  NatalBaby07 said:

  OK so far the past few days I haven't been feeling rite I've been feeling so tired all the time my sex drive is low it's like I haven't been in the mood for the past 3 days I don't want to b bothered or touched sometimes I don't want to eat n when I brush my teeth or mouth wash I always feel like throwing up. Can any one tell me what is happening to me + my period isnt due in tell the 11th 12ish so I can't test yet. Going crazy here.

  I see you post here about once a month asking about pregnancy symptoms, if you might be pregnant and that you feel depressed or upset about something TTC related. Many women have given you great advice, but you don't seem to take it. So, to reiterate what you've been told on past posts, I realize TTCAL is very, very hard but do yourself a favor and stop symptom spotting. You'll only set yourself up for disappointment.
  
  Like other boards, this a board where you need to actively give support to get it. You like to just come on here, ask a question and leave. As a regular, I find that incredibly frustrating. I'm willing to bet that if you give advice/support others with their questions, you might get more responses to your posts. Lastly, as you've been told multiple times, try to participate and post your concerns in the weekly TTCAL check-in and please please please stop asking us if you might be pregnant. One would think you'd learn after having your last post closed for asking us the same thing and violating the TOU.

  
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• RiverSong15 member

  January 2016 edited January 2016

  Three things:
  
  1) If you're not already, start charting your basal body temperature to confirm ovulation. Then you'll avoid the symptom spotting and frustration of not knowing what's going on.
  
  2) If these symptoms are pregnancy related, you'd be able to get a positive test. Pee on a stick. If it's negative, the these ARE NOT pregnancy symptoms.
  
  3) Follow the advice from @PeggyOlsonFTW. I'm new to the TTCAL board, but if you really do come n here every month to get the same advice and then leave without supporting others, that's very rude. This is community is not Google.

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• NatalBaby07 member

  January 2016

  You know what you guys don't know me and what I've gone through and some of you guys are gonna come at me like that. Thats pretty fucked up I came on here to learn about all this stuff and see if any one on here is going through what I'm going through but all I get is nasty I'm done coming on here if I keep getting nasty people yelling at me every time I try to ask quitions I get nasty ass people I have showed my love to those who need it on here so you can't say Shit this place is supposed to be a place I can come to for support and caring people but all I get are assholes what ever thanks for nothing.

  Trisha Natal wife n soon to be mommy.

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• AmMcc12 member

  January 2016

  Well that escalated quickly. This is a public forum, you cannot dictate how people respond to your post. Also, as previously stated it is against the terms of use to ask, directly or indirectly, whether you are pregnant.
  
  

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• MissPrint1219 member

  January 2016 edited January 2016

  @NatalBaby07 - I don't believe anyone is yelling at you. What they ARE doing is trying (repeatedly) to explain the guidelines of this community. I'm sorry, but @RiverSong15 is right - you keep asking the same questions with no regard for the answers. I get where you're coming from - I can symptom-spot with the best of them - but it will drive you crazy. Incidentally, it will also drive the people around you crazy, especially if those who are also ttc and trying really hard not to symptom-spot themselves.

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• BumpAdmin admin

  January 2016

  This thread has been closed. Please do not ask the Community if you are pregnant. 

  Instead, please visit our 1st Trimester board to discuss early possible pregnancy symptoms and the thread pinned to the top of this board called, “What does a positive pregnancy test really look like?” where members are permitted to display their pregnancy tests.

  Please note that we remove posts that do not follow our guidelines and will issue warnings to users who violate the Terms of Use.

  To review our Community guidelines, please visit The Bump Guidelines pinned at the top of this board. Thank you.

  
  

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