We had our egg retrieval yesterday and are pretty crushed. Apparently even though the U/S showed 6 16mm or above follicles, plus a few more smaller ones, after my egg retrieval they said we only had 3 eggs of which 2 were mature. I should be hearing today if either of them successfully fertilized, but our nurse was not optimistic and started talking about doing another round of IVF as I was still coming out of anesthesia. Needless to say, we are crushed. Has anyone had this happen? Is there even a way to fix this?
What's killing us is that we're both young (just turned 30) and healthy, and our families have no histories of issues. Every time we've seen a doctor about having a baby, they are all quick to say, "this will be the thing that works." I honestly thought if we could suck it up and do IVF, we'd get pregnant. I never even expected that this was a possible outcome. I figured worst case scenario would be that the embryo wouldn't take during the first transfer and maybe we'd have to do another.
We've grown so skeptical of the whole thing, that I don't think either of us can stomach doing another round of IVF and have any confidence that the time and money will actually get us a baby. At this rate, I think we're both going to need therapy...
Re: "Empty" follicles after egg retrieval
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
@AandDM2014: my clinic doesn't want their patients to have that many follicles. They shoot for 8-12 as they have found that a larger quantity can lead to poorer quality eggs.
Started TTC April 2011
Me: 32, DH: 32
Diagnosis: Endometriosis
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